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Swingers parties as a single girl
July 11 2017
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freshers
7 years ago
Single girls are usually always welcome at swingers parties. There are many couples with bi ladies who are looking for that elusive unicorn to fulfil their bi fantasies. Their dance card is always full from what we have seen. Why do you ask the question? Do you have some concerns about how you will be treated or how the scene works for single ladies? - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
For a message fest from the Sydney couples........
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Katkat
7 years ago
You'll be invited soon to many parties have fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
But I've never been approached by couples when attending on my own so I tend to favour parties that allow single males. Attending on your own is quite a brave thing to do in my opinion but I'm quite social and talk to people and be assertive when I need to be. It's really up to you because you know you best and what you can handle. In terms of playing with couples -I am open to playing with couples if it feels right and prefer to play at parties because it's less pressure and I can reserve my time for finding single males to connect with. But alas- unicorn hunters never approach in the real world, XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We've taken a couple of girls to parties and clubs, we've always found it a lot more fun than just going by our selves :)Its always pretty great to all grab some food and drinks then dress up like fools and go dance/play at a venue particularly with someone youve got to know rather than just meeting randoms.You could always try inviting coupes out yourself, haha I seriously doubt anyone would say no!xx
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megz85g
7 years ago
To go on my own, have been approached by a couple only once and even then it ended up being a play with another 2 single guys involved too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
We would be happy to take a single girl if she didnt want to arrive on her own.
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MANGOPUSSY
7 years ago
we have been searching for a single girl to join us for a swingers party
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I found your post interesting reading . Surprised me a attractive lady such as yourself did not get approached by any couples. ? I would have thought you would be in high demand . This is of course coming from a single male who has never stepped inside any swingers club. Not that I don't want to , just that I won't go alone. When I find someone ,then I'll go for sure. This isn't a request btw , just saying it the way it is.. Jay..
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Totally agree with you. Unicorn hunters are a myth in real life. But I'm waiting for the comments from the usual "l get a 100 messages a day"'people that will disagree. I've been on my own as well as I'm quite social and love a chat if not anything else.
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TheGentleTouch69
7 years ago
I took the plunge and went to a swingers club in Perth in December last year on my own, needless to say after a few drinks things certainly became a little easier. What I can say is that if you put yourself out there a little people are genuinely really happy to chat and I found that people included me, maybe it was the fear in my eyes. What I can say is take yourself out of you comfort zone and enjoy it.
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Buys a ticket number dispenser... "Form an orderly line here and take a number folks" 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'freshers' Unicorn on the loose shucks
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
We met a couple for drinks prior to going to the club and it was much easier walking in with someone you know. When I get back from Europe would love to meet a couple or girl to have drinks with before heading to a club!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes, I've been to Couples Club and a Killing Kittens party as a single gal. I was the only single gal at CCs, but most couples were looking for other couples to swing with, rather than a single gal. Which was fine for me at the time, it was my first time at a swingers club and I wanted to experience it from the sidelines. KK there were about 5 single gals in amongst 15 or so couples. A few did come along with other couples.
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RHP User
7 years ago
to be brave enough to go alone. If any other single women in Perth want a "wingman" let me know☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It was nerve-racking. Had no idea what to expect. I went to a swingers club first, a night which allowed me access to 2 clubs in Brisbane/Gold Coast (was lucky), very few single men. I make a point to meet the host or staff to ensure that I can ask anything I need to. I even told her I was so nervous. But soon enough couples started chatting to me just as they would in the vanilla world. Then I met people who knew of house parties... not usually fond of house parties as in my awkward early 20s when I was extremely shy, didn't want to do the talking thing, so I went clubbing a lot in my 20s, but completely past that now. I got approached by a couple, not too much older than me at the Gold Coast that night and I was tipsy and had my first MFF experience. Was fun at the time. If you do go to house parties with someone though, probably best to get the communication down pat with what you're ready for and what you're not ready for. My recommendation is to introduce yourself to the host if you don't know anyone there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'd love to be your "wingman"
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have been to the public clubs in Perth and some private house parties. Clubs do not run or make money without the Ladies. You do normally find single ladies do go with a friend or with a couple.. So yes quite brave to go by yourself, but i say this as when you are with someone you have a safety net. Most of the guys are polite so usally not a problem...but just in case the message of no doesn't get through. I have found i have not been for a while as i would prefer to find a lady to go through. I have found that approching couples or single ladies to be a bit daunting but as long as you are polite and respectful. But i have seen some guys start off polite and learing the rules to get very horny and just can't help themselfs.. 1, guy was in public playroom and sat on bed and groped without permission or even asking first. 2, couples fucking on bed and guy standing right next to them wanking... 1st, ask permission, or just say,....don't mind me as i would like to join in but if not will just watch. Then keep a 3 meter rule distance... ( my personal rule ). And give the couple / couples space..
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MsSexyDeviants
7 years ago
'But alas- unicorn hunters never approach in the real world, ' I would definitely hunt you down
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Openly_Curious
7 years ago
I've gone on my own twice. The first time was when we were brand new to being open and I had the impression that as a single female people would be really friendly. So I went in a bit like an observer - curious to figure out how this whole scene worked. It took ages before a couple approached me to chat. Thankfully they were really lovely and took me under their wing for the evening, which proved to be handy a number of times. It seemed that once the ice was broken there was more interest, and definitely more so in the play rooms. Mind you, I've been told I can be (unintentionally) intimidating, so perhaps it helped simply to be seen being sociable, thereby appearing more approachable. The second time I decided to be more proactive and approach the people who interested me instead of just waiting to see what would unfold. That worked a lot better overall. I prefer to at least have had a conversation to discover if I get along with someone before I play with them, so if went to another party on my own I would aim to talk to enough people during the social time that I would be able to identify a few people I'd be comfortable playing with later. Tess
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RHP User
7 years ago
I haven't really attended parties or clubs on my own as I find chatting strangers up a bit difficult. I am not a natural extrovert I don't think, and as others have said, sometimes couples are shy in approaching singles. I have gone to clubs to meet up with couples for the first time though. So a bit like a first date, I didn't know them but I had some knowledge of them via online communication and exchanging photos.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Had a great Friday night hope you enjoyed it as well!
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