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Swinging and Anal Sex
January 15 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
by the complexities of individual scenarios/prefference. There are many views about anal and each has their reasons. It's a touchy subject to discuss for some and this may lead to unclear understanding of cpl's ideas abot it? The final ambiguous question about Gay! Everone has an arsehole, gay or otherwise. For your age, the question is ...silly at best. Gay pick-up line "Can I push your stool in for you"? Hope it all clears up for you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is something that has come up, and no, would never do it with someone that wasn't R. It is for us only. Mich
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's something special to me - so only with Woody. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Have done this with couples under strict hygine and all knows what they are doing. Don't see a problem with it as long as everybody sticks to the rules of safe sex It's not a gay thing iust another place to explore and during double penitration the look of satisfaction on the womans face is very sexual.
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RHP User
14 years ago
How do you married couples see anal sex? Watching Belladonna on the flatscreen. Is it something just for you and your wife? No Is it a big Deal in your love life? No or Tried that Next? No When you meet another couple is Anal big on the agenda? No Or is it a no go? No. Do you attach a higher risk to anal sex with others rather than your partner? Yes. How do you feel about this statement "Our wives have a perfectly good pussy and some guys want to go where"? That's not a question.. it's a statement . Is anal Gay? No, it's fun.HugsStalkyHugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Tonyerotic' Gay pick-up line "Can I push your stool in for you"? Hope it all clears up for you. LOL that was funny. Are you alright Tonyerotic ? Judging from your posts today you maybe having one of those days ? xxxxxxx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
A bit of history before I start. My better half and I have been swinging for about 15 years. We have met a lot of couples and singles in that time. From that experience we have found everyone is different. We know couples that are open to all access, some that are selective, others that reserve it for their own partner. And some that don’t let anyone near it. But one thing, we do know one couple that is open for everyone but him. ( due to his size L)
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RHP User
14 years ago
You Fishing on my bridge again but now you are on top. Feels Great. What do u think? Listened to this on you tube ? spread the word The Chipmunk Troll Song (adult content) Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Tonyerotic' Gay pick-up line "Can I push your stool in for you"? Hope it all clears up for you. LOL that was funny. Are you alright Tonyerotic ? Judging from your posts today you maybe having one of those days ? xxxxxxx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Looking at this thread Decided to quantify what was the norm is in the swinging community from the responces. Four couples profiles answerd and all confirmed when swinging anal sex has never been suggested, one said if suggested they would.3/4 Couples said anal was reserved for their partners only. Of the Five single profiles 2 just made jokes 3 said they thought its fine for couples to have anal with people other than there partners. But they dont have a couples profile? My Conclusion: Married couples that swing with other married couples are not looking for anal sex when swinging, plus anal sex is just between husband and wife no one else, which has the obvious benefits when swinging. This matches our real life experiance in the hetrosexual swinging lifestyle.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Looking at this thread Decided to quantify what was the norm is in the swinging community from the responces. Four couples profiles answerd and all confirmed when swinging anal sex has never been suggested, one said if suggested they would.3/4 Couples said anal was reserved for their partners only. Of the Five single profiles 2 just made jokes 3 said they thought its fine for couples to have anal with people other than there partners. But they dont have a couples profile? My Conclusion: Married couples that swing with other married couples are not looking for anal sex when swinging, plus anal sex is just between husband and wife no one else, which has the obvious benefits when swinging. This matches our real life experiance in the hetrosexual swinging lifestyle. So let's get this .. errrr... straight... you asked a question you already had decided in your mind what the answer was... and then you discounted the majority of the respondents on the basis that they were either single or not heterosexual.... so that your "conclusion" on the evidence was derived from three responses out of eight. And you don't think that there are any swinging heterosexual couples where the wife enjoys double penetration for instance, in an MMF situation?Err...fair enough that you think that since you'd already decided that before you asked the question. What I really want to know is why you bother to post your "conclusion"? Is it for some sense of self gratification or self justification? I mean are you feeling insecure poor didums? HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
We counted our own views in on what was posted. I did not discount anyone because they werent hetrosexual, There was no predudise on our part towards Gay, Bi, people etc. I discounted on the basis of a couples profile or a singles profile. If you had answered with a couples profile including your wife I would have put you in the couples section. But you chose to answer with a single profile. Of course MFM might involve double penetration, and could well be on the agenda not a problem with that. A MFM does not meet the defination of swinging. The questions were not about a MFM. When we go out for a MFM its playing and when we go out for a mfmf its swinging. This post was swinging , where a married couple meets with another married couple typically over dinner then some playing and swapping partners, we have never been asked once to do anal if anything anal comes up in conversation no go is the norm. Yes it is nice to get confirmation that the way we play is pretty much the norm. Plus as I suspected anal is between Husband and Wife not outsiders. Was wondering who is going to be first to dispute this ummmmm why when it does not effect your lifestyle choices otherwise we would see a couples profile if you had an interest in swinging with your wife? It just does not effect you Why the interest?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh nothing really. I just thought it might be a little bit amusing to assert that you posted this question under a different profile name and then sit back and see if you expose yourself for it.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Stalky The two profile names are very similiar, and really mean the same thing, both songs from lady Gaga. ages the same prefernces the same Location much the same We gave you quite a few clues dont u think? Have you been to youtube lately Something about successfull biting?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Stalky The two profile names are very similiar, and really mean the same thing, both songs from lady Gaga. ages the same prefernces the same Location much the same We gave you quite a few clues dont u think? Have you been to youtube lately Something about successfull biting?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Youtube is really only good for watch old spice guy respond to his fan mail.HUgsStalky Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Stalky Have you been to youtube lately Something about successfull biting?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Youtube is really only good for watch old spice guy respond to his fan mail.HUgsStalky We will go swinging with our white latex on, love and revenge, we want everything , everything together, including leather covered kisses. We want it Bad Bad Bad. Horror and Desire. You do whatever 49 yr olds do with single profiles. Caught in a bad Romance?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Oh nothing really. I just thought it might be a little bit amusing to assert that you posted this question under a different profile name and then sit back and see if you expose yourself for it.HugsStalky So why all the profiles BadRomancerfor4?? Do you do that when you have been blocked too many times? What's the game plan here?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'stalky' Oh nothing really. I just thought it might be a little bit amusing to assert that you posted this question under a different profile name and then sit back and see if you expose yourself for it.HugsStalky So why all the profiles BadRomancerfor4?? Do you do that when you have been blocked too many times? What's the game plan here? Meeka , Why would a couple like us who are looking to swing with other couples, and are not interested in single girls or single guys, be too interested weather you have us blocked or not. We block when someone makes a shocking comment about us or we reliase we never ever will play with that person. The other reason we block is when we think you are going to our profile and stalking the posts we make, by blocking when someone is stalking our posts you cannot use our profile to see what posts we have made. There is no game, but some are really very predicable as you can see above, which I find amusing, the best plan is if you really dont like someone is to block them and dont respond to their posts. There is nothing dishonest in profile Badlovegames, asking for the same from the same. I wonder some who are very active on the forums , Where do they get the time to play?? Couples that are within our age requests havnt found one that has blocked us.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cos they or it could be a he I suppose has nothing better to do with their/his time. Now i wonder if i will get something in my inbox from them cos in the past when I've said something slightly negative i get something in the in box and then they block me!!! If you are going to start in the forums, surely the convo should carry on there!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
lolz BD4. If you were half as smart as you think you are you'd be nearly half as interesting. :)As far as songs go... I like Fiona Apple's "Criminal". I never figured you for a cross dresser though. Each to their own.HUgsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'desserts'Cos they or it could be a he I suppose has nothing better to do with their/his time. Now i wonder if i will get something in my inbox from them cos in the past when I've said something slightly negative i get something in the in box and then they block me!!! If you are going to start in the forums, surely the convo should carry on there!! When we look at your profile you have not blocked us and do not have you blocked yet! Go to more actions then message history both sent and recieved are zero, I dont think there is anyway to wipe that history, so what are you talking about? There is a flaw in the way things work which got us about a month ago, we have had someone blocked forgotton we have and sent a message which you can do to someone you have blocked. Then they cant respond because you have blocked and they get annoyed because they think you sent the message then blocked which is not the case. Dissagree if there is a misunderstanding take it off the forums and try to reconcile differences in private. My opinion is why the widespread use of 2-3 profiles , a couple profile then both have a single profile, thats far more dishonest and been the subject of many threads , people think they are responding to single then get told they are really couple. Why do these people delibertly try to mislead? Single one minute married the next, luckily single ladies are not on our wish list, but we do get messages from single ladies which we dont respond to. I am to be convinced that the honest approach is have on your profile you are married and both will also play alone, why try to hide what you really are. If you make the aqusation we are not what we say on our profile, could phone or go on cam?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Anal takes alot of trust so it is something I reserve for hubby. And only when Im in the mood, he might be on top but I call the shots with this one... If we had a freind who we had seen many times & felt comfy with then I cant see it being a problem sharing...I do enjoy it but only the right way & at certain times. So therefore it makes more sense for me to do it with the person I trust most. . Yes it is higher risk, but really swinging is a high risk game so there you go, everyone sums up their own risks & makes their own decisions. Dont let anyone try to talk you into something you dont feel comfy with. Stick to your guns. . Is it gay? Ummm no Its pretty well documented these days that lots of women enjoy anal sex openly. So whether it is man/man or man/lady or even lady/lady with strap ons its just anal. Gay means you are a man who only likes other men. Bi means both ( and is mostly what comes to mind when I think anal since we generally play with couples ), and straight means you only like the opposite sex. So its not the act itself that defines the name tag but the feelings behind the act. Tolerance is the name of our game! :-) Long live anal! lol Mrs H xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'desserts'Cos they or it could be a he I suppose has nothing better to do with their/his time. Now i wonder if i will get something in my inbox from them cos in the past when I've said something slightly negative i get something in the in box and then they block me!!! If you are going to start in the forums, surely the convo should carry on there!! We are happy to make the phone call or web cam to you as a couple on condition you are willing to apolygise on the forums you insiuated we are not a couple.
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RHP User
14 years ago
just between ourselves. we do get asked, but its a 100% no. dont see that as a problem.
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tank__girl
14 years ago
..who plays with couples. I'll 'just' say, I know there's never any issues with the 'Mrs' gladly passing on the 'chore' to greedy lil ol tank. Heheee.... Sharing is caring. Luckily I 'am' fortunate to enjoy the act immensley, and have ammmazzzing orgasms throughout. I have one life...and it seems these 'best years' are quickly flying by. :( So, I'm starting to live it...a friend gave me an inspirational bookmark recently, that is full of things like... "Use your 'good' silver cutlery, everyday" etc. Yeeeeaaahhh!! I'm tired of saving things for special occasions!? It's party time every day in my world...Oh yes.. 'The Present' it is! A big thank you and smoochy kiss to my dearest, caring friends...who spoil me with your presence, smoochy kisses and mind blowing, knee-numbing, 'bed wetting?!' anal..Mmmmmemories. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Six couples now/ Five of them say anal sex is only between Husband and wife and one couple said they do have anal sex with causual partners. But they say when swinging couple to couple play the request was never made by other couples.
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