M35
Swinging and gangbang no condom
October 07 2019
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RHP User
5 years ago
I totally agree with you. When I was part of a swinging couple, “some” guys were often trying to fuck her without the condom. It became a full time job checking. Well hardly full time, but a real issue. What is it with some guys that they have no respect for their own or other’s health. G
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
I sat here reading this thinking no way anyone plays like that... then I read earthling24's response and remembered a couple of single guys that tried it on with us, especially early on! Friends that have mentioned that they reach back to guide a guy in, just to check that he's not stealthing... so, it's not surprising, but large groups! Damn that's some risky behaviour. At least OP you were aware enough to know your limits, good on you. We've seen some doggy stuff advertised in the old Craigslist days, but never anything on here. We're by no means regular players, but it's not something we've seen in clubs either. Hopefully this sort of thing is the exception and not the rule. It does however make you aware that you don't know where your playmates have been and in the end your own health is your responsibility. Play it safe sexy people!
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RHP User
5 years ago
Maybe I explain not very good , what I got surprise In many gangbang I been here the woman’s are happy to play without condom not just man , that’s what made me surprised. In my life I see that very rarely when not regularly have fun with another not regularly and is some kind of trust , but usually everyone have scare playing without. But in many gangbang here where basically everyone are regularly to this kind of fun , I been really surprise woman’s happy to have sex without condom and almost every man happy to play without . I been shocked because I can’t understand the reason... when a group play with 10-20 different people every week ... is no way will keep going good forever ... that’s why I’m worry maybe who play like that, maybe don’t care because already got something?? I don’t know but for me looks crazy
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RHP User
5 years ago
Yes, we've had this as well.. Tbh..I think is simply a case of "it won't happen to me" thinking on the guys part.. And as far as them giving the woman germs ...they really don't give shit! We have on our profile that condoms are a must.. not negotiate. And yet, once we start chatting, quite s few guys bring uo the subject or bare back. The other thing they "mention" is "Oh I get checked regularly.. So effing what ! They could have been tested a week ago, and yesterday fucked someone bare back and picked up ANY sort of STI.. including HIV.
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RHP User
5 years ago
This is why we haven't been to a gang bang before. Too scared that guys won't use condoms and I'll get something
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luvsilver
5 years ago
It does go the other way too (once).It wasn't in a group setting though, just a regular foursome and had the wife from the other couple whispering in my ear to slip the condom off and come inside her - didn't happen. Mr Luvsilver
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LittleGiant
5 years ago
Very concerning! Especially the number of profiles that you read that say I get checked every few months so can play bare (umm no, no you can't) or the 'i've had a vasectomy so no need for condoms' - again no. Ultimately it's up to everyone to decide their own level of risk in play (we don't use condoms for oral which some people would not be comfortable with) but that just sounds like downright stupidity to me. And yes you're not wrong, women are guilty of it too - I was forever lecturing girlfriends for not using condoms, not so much now but it does still happen.
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fun_times108
5 years ago
Yep. Weve noticed the same. Multiple blokes on one or two females. No protection at all. We didnt join in at all. Weve had discussions about this with others. The arguement is . Its an easy fix if you do catch something. Apparently antibiotics fixes everything lol
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needadude
5 years ago
yes. Some people simply don’t care about the state of their own health so why would they then care about yours? I think most women are familiar with that pressure from men. I know it happens but I was surprised to read about instances of men trying to slip condoms off and bareback by stealth. Anyone had better be damn careful doing that. As attitudes and expectations change so too do laws. If somebody has the expectation of condoms being used and would not consent to sex without one then your 20 seconds of pleasure could end up costing you a few years of pain. And so it should.
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Deep_Love
5 years ago
That is why we play with friends and not with strangers. There has to be some care and consideration for your sexual partners health. I've never seen it like you describe OP, but then again I don't go to dingy places where dodgy things like that happen. ~ Mrs Deep_Love
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DynamicCouple36
5 years ago
Porn Movies We have seen it in the movies . One girl . Several guys. They fill all her gaping holes with jism. They go from one hole to the next, not worried about cross contamination and giving her a UTI or a serious case of Vaginitis. They spank, slap, choke, pull her hair and generally (in our opinion) treat her like a cumbucket, to be used and abused. And she seems to enjoy it ( as one does in the movies) Sadly they then try to emulate what they saw (in the movies) in their real life gang bang. It’s not possible to control several horny aroused males in a GB situation and to ensure that they don’t remove condoms on the sly. There is also no guarantee that they will treat the receiving woman in a respectful manner. Some women enjoy to be used. Not all women though. For this reason we would never engage in a Gang Bang. Our opinion, our preference, our right of choice.
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JohnAnn2227
5 years ago
We have experienced both men and women not using condoms. I (Ann) always guide the guy in to make sure he isn't stealthing me as it has been tried in the past. That was a night ender for him.We don't use condoms with a select group of our friends but we are all regularly tested (monthly) and never play outside the group without condoms. Also all of the guys in the group have had vasectomies which helps with the pregnancy part! We have gang bangs for the girls' birthdays and they are bareback parties. Any other parties we go to, condoms are a must!Oral we don't use protection which we know can be a risk but with so many people shaved/ lasered/ waxed it is easier to make a quick inspection before popping it in my mouth.
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
Hmm, let's add another slight tangent to the question... how many people look at profile pics, notice no condoms in group scenes, or multiple partners with no condoms and use it as a vetting process? We might be jumping at shadows, but you've got to be careful about how you portray yourself. We've seen a well known gangbang group advertising for bareback players on another sight, but they sure as hell don't mention it on here. Part of me says they aren't hurting us, it's none of our business, another part tells me it's a bloody small scene. End of the day, suit up yourselves and except your own risks
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
*site 🙄
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rightontime37
5 years ago
Very true island life 😂
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RHP User
5 years ago
Anyway for me still unbelievable to believe if I didn’t see with my eyes!!! I see gangbang with even 3 womans they happyly get fucked without condom from a bunch of people keep swap from one to other . I don’t know how many people here have some sick , but I’m decent poker player and I see everything with statistic view , if you try your luck so many times with so many people , cannot be always going good ... if people doing especially often means will come that bad day. If woman is happy to get fucked from anyone without condom for me means is not risk at all for her , for me means she already got everything and have nothing to lose ..lnotjjng to scare about ...or is not reason can be so quitely and comfortable with that . I never saw this things in Europe ... only here ... basically from when I saw that , I’m not comfortable to give anymore oral sex to any woman what swinging , and in the gangbang I will limitate to just fuck with condom and that’s it . I like gangbang , I really like see a woman get so much pleasure , but I’m too scare to get oral sex at this condition
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ROBJEN
5 years ago
Besides the obvious health risks which are cringe-worthy in their own right. Our first thought was the same as Needadude’s. I don’t know if these guys realise (or care) that consensual sex is always conditional to one degree or another. If wearing a condom is that condition, why do we tone it down by applying names like stealthing ..... let’s just call it what it is, sexual assault.
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ozmelbcpl4cpl2
5 years ago
There's a BBC group showing off pics of gb with girls bare and even on their web sites they show off girls they've had ..i saw a girl we knew on display told her she was not happy
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QLDtwo4fun
5 years ago
We go to parties once or twice a month, condoms are part of the play rules, and a fresh condom for each partner. Personally I like to wash between partners as well. People wanting to play without them has never been an issue in the scene we move in. Maybe because the hosts supply lube, condoms and recepticals for rubbish.
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Jackson1811
5 years ago
It’s one of the reasons we changed our preferences and stopped talking to single guys. The amount of men that would turn the convo to going bareback within the first handful of messages was astounding. Only had one couple say they weren’t keen on them though. There’s one couple we’re regulars with we are considering having the discussion with but all others are not negotiable. We don’t use them for oral though.
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
We're still better off talking about it to raise awareness, especially for those that are new to this. We had one a couple of weeks ago announce that he was vasectomy friendly... in a first message 🤦♂️ Replied with a polite no thanks, which was followed up with a "well you can't get pregnant and I'm clean!" The guys friends list started off with a female member of the site that claims in her profile that she never uses condoms and loves being left full of cum! Ffs people just don't get it😐
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