M49 F49
Swinging scene
July 07 2012
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usnow
12 years ago
We understand its hard work but you really need to meet another privately . This is the problem with the lack of privacy when you go to a party. Swingnew.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have been to alot of clubs in our time, as we said it really depends on the club and the night.See alot of clubs have couples only nights,and then there are some night when they let serlect single males in.But there is a club in surry hills called the couples club which is the only club we go to now.friday and saturdays are couples and single females only and on sundays they let serlect males in,and when you are there on the couples nights the males of couples are'nt allowed to go go into the play rooms by themselves which is great because you dont get allthe sleeze bags harrassing your women.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have had our fair share of bad experiences once we even flew to America for Swingfest only to get an Email the day before the event to say he hadn't booked the hotel ?????? and that the event was off but we keep looking and and trying are off to heddo 2 for 2 weeks in october where there are quite a few strange single men floating around waiting for women to drop to their knee's and service them (they saw it in a porn movie) but most women just seem to roll their eyes and smile at the poor souls and go and hang out with the fun couples...............Good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
What you are saying has been discussed before apprently the modern defination of swingers include single males and single ladies its no longer a solely couples activity with married partners. Just about every group we have been involved with end up with singles being there. What you have observed is routine, we have also experianced 4-5 girls lock a bedroom door behind them and leave their husbands to hit on the girls that did not want the bi girl locked play room. We have looked at the group scene and for us, we like meeting couple to couple and organising play with a couple we have met previously.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'kinkisthenewpink'even when we were playing as a couple I would not attend a party where there weren't any hot young single guys....the pickins can be might slim if there is couples only and no singles. I have met some gorgeous, educated, fun single guys at swingers clubs and parties and the only time I have ever had problems with creeps..they have been the older single or married guys :-( I'm sure things would have been different if there were hot young single guys there to play but unfortunately this just wasn't the case. Not sure we're up to hosting our own party yet but maybe somewhere down the track Swingnew - Definitely a big plus in playing with another couple in private is just that - the extra security of privacy with no unwanted attention by those that you don't want to include in your play We're going to give the couples club a go next time as per cns has suggested, someone we've been planning to meet has kindly offered to come along with us to make sure we have a good time. :) Thanks everyone for the replies
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can sort of see where you are coming from. I too have only been to one swinger party and being of the older persuasion myself I felt a bit odd with my FWB. I was surprised at how friendly people were though and felt quite at ease naked. We did not play with others and I am sure it wouldn't have been a problem if we had. The range of people was fairly broad and I don't remember any single guys but there were a few single older ladies. However it was fun and a chance to experience something different and exciting. Sad to see you weren't happy. Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you just hit a bad party, I have been to loads of parties and have never heard of there being so many single males. Just like everything in life there are the good and the bad, don't let this stop you from trying other parties. next time look for a private party being put on by a couple that have lots of their friends (on here) going and lots of positive reviews.
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RHP User
12 years ago
OP - True couples parties do still exist (at least down here in Melbourne), but you do need to read the fine print carefully. Many parties are "For couples" and then add "and limited singles", where "limited" invariable means "tons of". Others are "Couples only" and then state "once per month - other nights single guys welcome".You have to understand that many parties are commercial ventures, and it's the single guys that bring in the money. Women are the bait, and it's a balancing act between letting in the money tickets (single men) and scaring away the bait (which in turn dries up the money tickets).I've been to proper "couples only" parties and found the numbers nicely balanced. The play rooms are big group spaces, but that doesn't mean you'll get gangbanged. Most couples seem to do their thing in their own little area of the play room, with other couples fucking nearby. When it gets crowded you may brush against other couples, but people are nearly always polite enough to ask before they take any further liberties.If sex in a group room is not your thing then most parties definitely won't work for you. In Melbourne there are some venues (like Wet On Wellington - a gay club that once per month has a straight couples night) that have a whole floor devoted to lots of little private play rooms (plus some big group ones). Venues like this allow you to meet couples downstairs and take them upstairs for private fun.The moral of this is to not be disheartened but instead figure out what works for you.Meeting couples privately is great, but may have a very low success rate.Parties make it easier to meet people, but it's harder to get that privacy.A compromise is to attend parties to chat and flirt, and then make arrangements to meet up again privately.
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playful4u
12 years ago
It is a matter of finding the right party with the right crowd. We are very selective with the parties we attend and have found them to be great fun. Don't let one sleazy party experience put you off. See if you can get some recomendations.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I recently attended a 'party' with some of my friends who wanted to introduce me to the scene. I was warmly welcomed by the hosts and other guests. Had engaging conversation, offered food and drinks. I don't really know what I expected but most of the guests were a lot older than I imagined they'd be. I was actually surprised when people started walking around undressed. Naive? I guess so.Inexperienced? Definitely.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your right ! If we read "select single men" we run for the hills. Our experiences have been they are generally not as select as we'd like annnnnnd there are more than a few! Sarah and I have always spoken about the idea of a swing club getting private rooms you can rent like at a night club as you can hire private booths ......that would be nice - no invite no enter - go away I paid for this spot ! grrrrrrrrr.Couple club is much safer and I have never noted single guys there roaming around at all - However on the odd massive party night I think they fall through the cracks - but this is rare( VERY). .Again agree couple club is a good spot to meet couples that you think you may like - because if you dont like them and it does happen ....... you can smile have a drink and guess what ....there are now a stack more people for them and you to try ! . Don't be put off it get's better. .Brae
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RHP User
12 years ago
The OP is exactly why we decided to give it all a break......So over making the time to get to a party or occasion which has been described as couples and single girls ONLY to find half the party goers are single (and older and unattractive) males.....yuk...I (Mich) have a hot husband and sooo not interested into doing a man that could be my fathers friend....OR unattractive, overweight couples who I find hard to believe could even be attracted to each other...We have had more interesting nights meeting random girls and such so avoid these set up slong-fests!
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RHP User
12 years ago
THIS is why we have never attended a swingers club. Having heard this more than once, it distracts from the very reason we would like to be there..At the risk of sounding snobby , we're both considered attractive and would like to think we could meet other couples the same.. not fat old men or desperate singles..Even though we've never been.. the break up of price fee's for attendee's at these swingers clubs give a indication what you could be walking into.. Single girls free .... Couples $100 - and selected single guys $150.. Selected single guys ???? FFS.. Can you see the organisers knocking back $150 or even $100 or $50 if the guys really want to get in..' Selective ?? ? and selective by who's motives ? The people holding the purse.. not my idea of selective...If we could find a attractive group of couples who genuinely allow equally attractive single girls and guys we would be interested.. but we doubt we can find this... can only live in hope.. the JJ s
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RHP User
12 years ago
At swingers clubs .....well couples club (and Lotus when it was open) I have been asked "where is your partner" by the staff, as the rule at these clubs is NO SINGLE MEN roaming around without partners ......that is even if you have a partner you can't be in the play area if she isnt with you .........!!!!!.Interestingly my response is usually see that girl over there rolling around with that other girl ....... yes those two making a stack of noise ........well the brunette is my wife and the other .........I let you know in about two hours ! .Again parties is more random ! People who arrange them choose and as it happens it seems often let guys in they feel are "safe" - This doesnt happen at swingers clubs in Sydney..Brae
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rc_80
12 years ago
When we host parties, it's for couples and select single GIRLS only. If we don't have an exact 50/50 split between m/f, it's swaying towards 60/40 girls in favour.Single guys dont add anything. No one wants to play with them. They just get in the way. On the other hand, sometimes the girls will just want to play together for a bit. Having a bias towards more girls, means there is still a 50/50 split even if a handful head off for some fun.On the very rare occasion (once) we hosted a party and invited a (one) single guy, he was under strict rules to basically be the party's bar tender. Being an international porn star, and trained masseuse helped get him across the line :PAttending parties really has to be researched. There are heaps of fat, ugly, old people who are quite happy attending anything scheduled, and even more happy to jump on the first 'newb' to walk through the doors. Hell, happened to us, and it's the common story most people tell when we meet them. It's hard finding the quality parties. Networking helps, but you gotta find the right people to network with...
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RHP User
12 years ago
. Clubs are always hit n miss...and as they all charge extra for single guys...thats the wages. private partys are great, but you have to find the right ones... not just single guys who line up couples ...unless you want extra cock...nothing wrong there :) Our partys are couples only...no loud rap music...no single guys or girls. doesnt mean we havent had a good time at clubs or mixed partys. Like anything "open your mind" and find what you seek ...that night ...and have fun. :>
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RHP User
12 years ago
who is more interested in their wallet than their clients interest , what else could you expect ?The thought of paying $100 only to find a bunch of fat and ugly ppl wanting to maul your wife. isnt my idea of a good night out. I could also imagine trying to get your $100 back if you want to walk out would also be a drama..Whoever finds the right ingredient and presents a clean place with nice surrounds and acceptable people will make a fortune..I bet there are many many couples out there who would agree....
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DonnaBrett
12 years ago
If attending a club, go on a night that is couples & girls only. If going to a party check with the hosts that will be no single guys there. Of course there is a 'market' for single guys but if it's not what you want you will have to suss it out in advance. Good Luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'The thought of paying $100 only to find a bunch of fat and ugly ppl wanting to maul your wife. isnt my idea of a good night out. Fat ugly people don't exactly ring my bell either, but I would rather they attend than skinny old farts with ugly attitudes.There are some parties that screen attendees to provide minimum physical standards for the party. Others screen based on age to keep old people out. But old people and fat ugly people all have the right to go to a party somewhere. It's up to the attendees to do their own party research if they're not comfortable around others of certain types.As for mauling people... the people at the parties I've been to have all been extremely polite and well mannered. Nobody gets randomly "mauled". People chat each other up, and if interested they go off to play. Some places that host gangbangs or male-heavy "players" nights might have more brash behavioural standards, but a moment's research will give you some idea what to expect.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr JJ... Not sure you are qualified to say that since you have never even been?? Couples Club isn't bad... You should go just once to have a looksee. There is a variety of people there and different age groups. The few times I have been there were no single men at all as far as I could tell. So a little boring for me at times. What would seriously make money is a party with a whole bunch super sexy men!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never suggested I was qualified.. But I do know a couple and 1 single guy who attended different venues and they all said the same.. This same subject has also raised it's head quite a few times since we joined RHP about 3 years ago. So its not as if I'm guessing and I can read... If there are well run venues out there ' we dont get to hear about that..TOYWITHME....Do you go with your wife ?? or as a single male ? There is a difference you know ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh No!What to do if exclusion rules creep in to only allow 'beautiful, young people' into swingers clubs.A bit worried to think that next time I attend the Couples Club I'll be told to go home and finish my knitting: 'cos they might think that I'm single, old and unbeautiful ...Rox
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'TOYWITHME....Do you go with your wife ?? or as a single male ? There is a difference you know ? JJ - always with my girlfriend. We only play together. We have played in open areas when private areas are available, and that can be seen as an invite for guys to approach and test if they can get hands on, but a polite word to say we're for display only keeps them at bay. Parties really aren't the gross experience that many people claim - as long as you do your research and choose one that fits your tastes. You get to see heaps of people in sexy lingerie, you can chat face to face with lots of interesting people, enjoy the game of flirtacious touching, and watch other couples having sex or bi women making out. And all that is before you even get down to playing yourselves.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can imagine there are clubs or home parties that are not the gross experience you mention. You say research is needed to find the venue of your choice ? . That makes sense but Im sure there are many interested couple like us that dont know where to start and still not have doubts.. I dont think hearsay or a promise of the right crowd would be too encouraging.? Being a believer in 'seeing is believing' I dont understand why it is so hard to have a meet and greet situation whereby everyone can suss everyone else out in a neutral place without the fear of venturing into something they are not sure of.. ?JJ..
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RHP User
12 years ago
JJ - the parties I've been to do have a neutral area where you socialise without anything much going on. You have a few drinks, there are usually light snacks available, you talk, laugh, flirt, even dance with people if you like. Except everyone is in lingerie. But that's fun in itself. :)It's only when you have chatted with others and agreed to go play that you wander off to a play room. Or if you don't find anyone else you want to play with, you can always stick your head into a play room for a bit of a perve, or maybe take your own partner in there for some exhibitionist fun. There's no compulsion to play at all and many couples don't. Some come just to meet others and maybe go home with them later or get their number.At parties that don't screen their clientele there will be some "fat ugly" people and they may come up and say hi. No need to run screaming - they're just people and anyone with a basic modicum of social skills and politeness can have a brief chat before moving on to other people.Many parties have a website or advertise here, and it's worth checking out everything they say. The typical age ranges (some have no guidelines, others advise 20s to 40s or 30s to 50s), whether you need to dress down to lingerie on arrival (most do, but not all), if there are any screening processes, and of course - are single guys allowed (in which case, run for the hills!! Unless you like being the center of attention).Of course, there are some people who simply don't want to be there if there might be a fat ugly person strutting around in lingerie. For those who can't tolerate even the presence of others who don't meet their own ideals of beauty, then swingers parties perhaps aren't the way to go. No drama. Stick to surfing RHP profiles.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We managed to expereince our first swingers club experience in Sydney recently (voyeurs not participaters) just to see what the scene was all about and its easy to explore away from home where you hope you dont bump into anyone you might know (especially for us novices LOL). While we had anticipated what the scene might be like, it did totally blow our minds literally (no pun intended LOL). It was not as arkward as we thought it might be and really there were some nice people to chat too - a bit of converstaion, some pool, quiet drinks etc just like any other pub and club. We were surprised how many young people (20s/30s) were there with bodies that were oh so nice and thought there would be exhibitionists, we just did not realise it was a full on orgy in parts - not that we were complaining but wow - we must have been naive to think swingers clubs would be just private 4sums going on etc. There were many instances which turned us both on but not enough for us to consider participating (as we talked before hand about what we would like or not like to do) with bodies squirming and swapping everywhere. It gave us food for thought about how best to approach our next steps to exploring the scene or specifically a MMF option. One chap though thought it was his duty to try every couple/woman there was until he was able to get an opening LOL....so that did not really do much for us in terms of stimulation etc. Overall though the sight the smell the sounds were a fantastic introduction to the scene and one were both keen to explore again with a view to seeing where it may take us.
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
This is a little off topic but single men get charged more to attend clubs. If it is about making money then of course there will be a lot of single guys. Single guys feel ripped off when they attend clubs pay twice as much money and nobody to bonk.Its a tough world for single men. Parties are different these are usually not for profit type of event great place to meet other couples and exchange phone numbers and play privately.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The lowest form of life on the planet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah Polys. Good on you!! That is great that you had a good time.. And yes it is very easy and comfortable to be a voyeur. Especially when you just want to see what it is all about. Where did you go? Not couples club as there isn't a pool table there I don't think. But they also have a large room which basically becomes a big orgy or so it seems. And yes there are all sorts of people that go. ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Single white bi-boys are my favourites!! *swoon*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '50zcool'The lowest form of life on the planet. We really dont get it, why complain? We see swinging primary as couples entertainment with other couples.......of course some couples may elect to include singles.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Yeah Polys. Good on you!! That is great that you had a good time.. And yes it is very easy and comfortable to be a voyeur. Especially when you just want to see what it is all about. Where did you go? Not couples club as there isn't a pool table there I don't think. But they also have a large room which basically becomes a big orgy or so it seems. And yes there are all sorts of people that go. ;) AGREE !!Brae
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have been to Couples Club a number of times,each time was was just as good as the 1st time.No pressure at all to do anything,love the meet and greet area where every just mingles and has a good chat with a bit of flirting going on.That is where we 1st met Meeka,must say she was a lot of fun.Others we have met with at the Club we have become just good friends.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Yeah Polys. Good on you!! That is great that you had a good time.. And yes it is very easy and comfortable to be a voyeur. Especially when you just want to see what it is all about. Where did you go? Not couples club as there isn't a pool table there I don't think. But they also have a large room which basically becomes a big orgy or so it seems. And yes there are all sorts of people that go. ;) The Couples Club in Surry hills is where we went on First Timers evening last Friday - theres a pool table upstairs just before you go through the sliding doors and yes there was a large room downstairs where it was all on for young and old LOL....wed go back again when back in Sydney as it was a great evening to be a fly on the wall LOL...so to speak ....sex later that evening for us after the club was soooooo intense after watching LOL...
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RHP User
12 years ago
i love couples club in surry hills.. single guys are not allowed in on Friday and Saturday nights.. and men not allowed to "roam" without their female partner..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes been to a couple of parties , one I remember one where I was the smallest girl there the other men and women were obese I mean huge , I'm no size 10 either I might add , but I was surrounded by all these huge men , no way, I left with my partner at the time , Dont get me wrong about overweight people if its is you thing then good because its not mine . Other parties are very clicky and you stand around like dew drop surrounded by very unfriendly people ( despite trying to make conversation) who just look you up and down until the action starts and you are expected to jump into the bed and be gangbanged by a pile of overweight men who cant obtain erections and want to bang away with a flacid penis Its not me and I have to say a lot of parties are best left alone - OH and yes you arrive and you are hit up for a $100.00 at the door - rip off - (when you are told no charge ) Love to all M
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'misspocketrocket' i love couples club in surry hills.. single guys are not allowed in on Friday and Saturday nights.. and men not allowed to "roam" without their female partner..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Okay, not only have I never seen the pool table... I have never seen the sliding doors either. Jesus. I gotta walk around more. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
After Aaarows the night before. Have a little bet on as to how to put off a person playing pool
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RHP User
12 years ago
Interesting to read other people's experience with the Couples Club. We went recently and it was only our second foray into playing as a couple. We went with really low expectations but ended up having an amazing time. Definitely no single males around which was great. But what really surprised us was that as there weren't too many people around in our age bracket (mostly very cute young things which also surprised us) we decided to just play together in the large shared lounge assuming no one would be interested in us.Within half an hour of playing together we were surrounded by these cute young things wanting to play with us. We just looked at each other surprised and delighted and had a ball. We are going back very soon :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I am a single male,I can see and understand why people don't like single males, well some single males.I have come out of a 12 year marriage of the complete opposite of swinging. No sex! I have always had an interest in swinging, but have never found a partner with enough intelligence to have a broad mind about sex.So now I'm free to go swinging and have fun................No, I cant do that, because apparently I'm a home wrecker and a sleaze, and all I want to do is dry fuck your missus wipe my cock on the curtains drink your grog and then leave!!Come on people!!! We are not all like that. My ego is not what i run on, I dont think my penis is a thigh slapper. I don't hang around like flies on shit waiting for my oppurtunity, nor am I pushy. I dont say to myself " hmmm naked woman, she obviously wants my dick in her mouth"Please stop the stereo typical stereotyping. We are not all the same.Heres a gauge for you. If his profile picture is either him naked or looking like a gym bunny or a cock picture or naked gym bunny with hard on and sunglasses. He's a fuckin tool!!!!Thanks..............rant over, have a wonderful day.Mick
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RHP User
12 years ago
just wondering we are both new to the swinging scene and it has been suggested we go to a club. ie. Couples International was curious to know if anyone has been and what was there experience like?
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RHP User
12 years ago
One: you'll always have older couples there; once your addicted to the scene--I don't think you'd give it up just because someone told you are older, I know I wouldn't want anyone telling me I'm too old for sex.Two: you'll always have min. 1-4 Guys at a party. Some couples bring their third with them (it might so happen to be M), and some of these (M) are the hosts go-to studs they've selected to be cool in this situation, you have to remember NO means No--if there in the scene they know the rules. Sorry that they put the Kai-bash on your night out. But don't give up, if that is truly what you wantThree: Private Parties/Hotel hosting could be your best solution, since select is what your truly looking for and is usually guard by an email invite-only. Good Luck, and Happy hunting (Don't know why the host put all the single unwanted males in the spa anyways).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi all, we have been to a lot of clubs both in Australia and abroad. One thing remains consistent, a significant portion of those attending are single males. We tend to avoid clubs that allow singles in large numbers. You will find the answer to the question why are they single as soon as they approach your woman. very few of them are socially aware and understand boundaries. This is demonstrated when they make totally inappropriate moves on attached women. This is not to say all single guys in the clubs are like this, but a significant number are. Their total lack of social boundaries is a trade mark. They fail to read the obvious signals when a woman does not want their attention and will continue to push them selves at them. It is a major turn off and a reason why a lot of couples simply wont return to such events.One club only allows singles if they are invited by a couple. This seems to work well.My partner and I have signals. if a single guy somehow makes his way to her while we are having play with another couple, she will tap my leg. i know there is something wrong and that I may need to put my self between her and the single guy.Single guys , not all, but again a significant number also play out on stereotypes. for example, if they see an Asian girl they will immediately assume she is a bar top dancer from Pataya!!! And show no respect. , if they are in the spa stay out. Our advice, avoid singles in the spa. Some clubs have a max number of people in the spa. eg@4 people so all you do is wait for the singles to get out then get in with your other couple. You just need to be more strategic on how you will manage the evening and any unwanted attention. Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Really interesting thread.We're literally brand new to this... haven't played with a couple or been to a club yet.For some reason, a club seems an easier way to start than meeting a couple... do you guys agree or disagree with that? (For the most part.)Or, how did you get started?And if you were to recommend a club in Sydney for first timers, where would you recommend? The Couples Club on Commonwealth Street?Thanks in advance.:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have attended the local swingers club not far from us in the northern suburbs that was promoting itself as "The #1 Couples Venue"In the early days when it really WAS a swingers club it had some great nights organised and we really had a good time.The mix of men to women was always close to 50%. with ages varying from 20s to 50s Then the owner decided to start allowing "selected singles' into the club on a limited basis. After the word got around you wouldnt believe the number of desperates joining up the club website with a view to an easy shag.As less and less couples attended the club because of the flood of singles the owner decided it was open slather for singles on Sat nites. There were some seriously dodgy individuals standing around gawking at the women like it was a free for all.Even though people were commenting on the club website about how uncomfortable they were with all the single guys......the lure of all that easy money coming in was too much to resist. That was the death of the club and its now closed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey. I've only been to one event in Melbourne but have been to 4 in Sydney and 2 in brassy. They have all been dominated by guys, but i think you need to get a feel for the event? I like the guy-Dom thing but totes understand it may not b cool for a couple.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Okay, not only have I never seen the pool table... I have never seen the sliding doors either. Jesus. I gotta walk around more. :p LOL...Meeka100 we are talking the Couple Club in Surry Hills arent we? Maybe Meeka you went straight to the large room below instead of walking around ....we can see why people would skip entree and head for the mains or desert LOL... We too would be keen to hear any feedback on clubs in Brisbane or Gold Coast, as we may just pay them a visit too now that we are no longer "swinger club" virgins LOL...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a traumatic experience when i was 4yrs old by my grandfather in a toilet while my family partied on outside ! When i think about swingers and gang bangs with old dirty men makes me SICK in the gut physically SICK !!! My husbane and i went to a so called BBQ once that turned out the same as your experience ! We ran across croc invested waters just to get the fuck out of there !! lol The feelings i got were wrong on so many levels I could only imagine these type of people waiting outside of school grounds with lollies in their hands!! And the girls involved have insecurity issues!! I agree that on a private manner you will get better results , there are lovely couples out there wanting the play on the same swing Tarlisa xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
NOW... Please to you swinger clubs and hot headed swingers!! dont hale abuse to me and feel you have to stand tall and stick your chest out , pull your heads in !! It makes you even more less attractive, i have a right to have an opinion as others do! To GLORYHOLE if your still on here ? your visual pics of you and all them ugly soft cocks and your face covered with cum on your face??? just made me think .. thank fuck i do have a life !!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't let this bad once of put u off, being involved in the swingin scene DOES take some TIME and HOMEWORK ...... If u put the time and effort in u will find what/who u r looking for! We have been to swingin party's in a few states and u just have to thin out the ones that suit u! Just like on here it does take time! As far as age goes look for the party's that have the age u r lookin for! As far as fat and ugly well we carnt do much about that other than simply sayin "NO THANKS" as no matter what at ALL party's etc NO means NO! This also goes for single men...... if they r not what u r interested in........ simply say NO THANKS! It really is just a matter of finding what works for u guys........ clubs, party's, private meets, or just another couple! Good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Coffee_And_Cream'Really interesting thread. We're literally brand new to this... haven't played with a couple or been to a club yet. For some reason, a club seems an easier way to start than meeting a couple... do you guys agree or disagree with that? (For the most part.) Or, how did you get started? And if you were to recommend a club in Sydney for first timers, where would you recommend? The Couples Club on Commonwealth Street? Thanks in advance. :)Hey guys as our first introduction to the scene (and we did not play) the club you mention above was a great eye opener - the staff are really friendly and the couples were more than willing to engage in conversation - you just have to say hi LOL....and when you get downstairs the fun begins and its all on (in the best possible way of course LOL). Enjoy
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RHP User
12 years ago
.........hell yes Meeka, I'd go to that with you!! :) Too many bisexual women at most parties for me :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Clubs down south are so differnent to clubs in Brisbane . And single guys get a bad wrap they are awesome if selected properly. It is a shame that a lot of people are scared of single guys...we have never had trouble with single guys, we throw out couples and single ladies very very rare to have trouble with our single guys, I think that says a lot. Oh and yes we select them....through a process of years of knowing what our Payton's want, not to make money...or I would let 20 in and not just 6. On a Friday. And our guys pay the same as couples. Members and non members . FYI. Leesa xxx
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