Swinging while pregnant

October 30 2009

sex

We have just foundout we are going to parents again!!  Very excited as we have been tring for a while.  Anyway, wanted to get everyone's thoughts on swinging while pregnant.  We stopped playing when I was pregnant with my first and have had limited opportunities to do so since.   I was extremely horny right throughout my last pregnancy and despite thinking about it, we were put off by some comments otehrs made about it "not being right".  I can understand their point of view - would I feel funny seeing Hubby having sex with another pregnant woman?  I don't know.   All I know is that if the opportunity comes up we would consider it - so interested to know whether a pregnant woman is "damaged goods" so to speak.  I appreciate this topic may result in some pretty strong views.  I'm hoping we wont be judged but we really would be interetsed in knowing what people think or whether we should just clos eour membership now.   Nikki

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Firstly....congratulations!!!Personally....I think it's totally up to you and the people you are gonna play with.If everyone is fine with it...then fuck what anyone else thinks!!I mean really....if you don't tell anyone...who's gonna know til you're showing anyway??This whole lifestyle is about having fun....so you do what you want!Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I can't imagine anyone judging you in these fine forum pages   Seriously though each to their own....I am sure there are many people out there that get off on the idea of being with a pregnant person and others than find it a big turn off.  If it is right for you and your partner then I say go for it.   Half your luck I was so sick during my pregnancy the idea of sex never crossed my mind.   K.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It is up to you what you do. Personally I wouldn't want anyone else near me, but that is just me. X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Have no problem with a horny pregnant woman, still in the swing, agree with Kilee, you cant please every one or expect to, so please you and your man. We played with one gorgeous couple, she was just pregnant and her breast were already huge, she looked hot and felt hot, we had a fantastic time with them. yep if you all up front, so to speak....hmmmm you lay back and get pampered, its wonderful Enjoy X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Honestly - pregnant women just glow - and are beautiful.You'll probably never be as in tune and in touch with your body as when you're pregnant.If you're lucky enough to have the libido on "the upswing" - then use it I say - and that's whether you swing or not :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Everyone is going to have their views on the subject of swinging whilst being pregnant and you may want feedback on what is right or what is wrong, but really....who sets the standards? Who knows whats right or wrong?    I'm not sure if you will get anyone who is going to tell you it's wrong, i do hope not, because i'm sure we've all done things in our lives that others may not quite be comfortable with.  As long as what you are doing sits comfortable with you then it's your choice.    Oh & enjoy your healthy sex life because once your little bundle of joy is born that 'special cuddles' times' become few & far between.    Congradulations xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i was lucky enough to play whie i was pregnant. i was 35 weeks and the couple made me feel so safe and special. after they thanked us for letting them play while i was preg and that it maked them feel special. they are now a big part of our lifes. i think as long as everyone involved is comfie and there are no complications with the pregnancy then go for it. i have found so many people who love the pregnant form. the amount of compliments and requests to play from people just made me feel so sexy it was great.   hope all goes well for you xoxox Mrs B

  • HotOzCouple_cc

    HotOzCouple_cc

    15 years ago

    It's up to you who you play with. Just put it out there in the first place, then if people choose to not make contact, then so be it!What's right and wrong is an individual thing when it affects yourself, so don't let others put you off something based on their opinions of whats right and wrong for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Pregnant women are extraordinarily attractive and intercourse during pregnancy is usually a safe activity, helps ease back pain and improves circulation... My lover and I had sex during all three of our children's gestation period. However, I'd be very reticent to shag a pregnant woman who was carrying some other guy's baby. Even though it is not likely to be the real cause of trouble, I'd hate to be blamed by the prospective mum or dad should anything go wrong with the pregnancy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Once again, Gaz has hit the nail on the head.I ABSOLUTELY love pregnant women. For me there is not much sexier and feminine than a beautiful pregnant woman.I also partook in regularsessions with my wife while she was pregnant (ACE AS).However i would be reticent to be involved with another couple who were expecting for the same reasons as Gaz has mentioned. However unlikely it may be!Also, if the child was born with "ANY' sort of issue, you will always wonder if swinging could have had an effect, even if the reality is totally nonsense, you will always wonder!but to each their own!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ...what anyone else thinks?...if ya loves it...goes for it...and you both are so, so lucky...enjoy, enjoy, and enjoy...oh, did i say enjoy?...oh, and a woman is a woman, however she comes...no woman is ever "damaged goods"...sheesh...shame on u for even thinking such a thing!!!now go to miss_honey and get both your botty's smacked....gigglescheersJose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I find pregnant women have a special sensuality. I can't wait till Mrs Pup is up the duff. I'm pretty sure we wouldn't play then but really if it's all safe and fun who's to stop you! As for playing with another pregnant woman, I'd love it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I say go for it if thats what you want.  And its completely safe.  If you can have sex with your husband and the babies safe then its going to be the same with whoeva it is your having sex with. I loved being pregnant and couldn't get enough sex!!  As long as everyone involved is comfortable with it there'll be no problems.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    aaaaaaawwwwesome!let me know when you're 8 months, I am totally turned on by pregnant women!you dont get more feminine than thatall the best with it, cheers,kev parko

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Very interesting,i the female dont play with others guys at all,have no desire to touch or be touched by other guys..So the idea of even playing while i was pregnant????????NO WAY,So wrong.But thats me,as i can see alot of others are ok with it.What was that saying????????????Each to their own?.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey go for it, although my wife and I didnt play! It was some of the best sex we have ever had, she was just insatiable!! And enjoy the experience, pregnancy is a special time, no need to waste it? Enjoy the sex!! Cheers Cpl44cpl

  • 1974NewCouple101

    1974NewCouple101

    15 years ago

    I was very much relieved to see that I was not excommunicated form the RHP forums for my suggestion.  Unfortunately we received some really nasty messgaes last time when in search for someone while I was pregnant.  We were honest and up front the whole time but the reaction seemed to be one of "How Disgusting!".   Let's just say that your comments have us at least being opened to the opportunity if it so presents.   Luv   Nikki

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well Nikki, we'll want regular reports on the baby in the forum now. lol.. The very first RHP baby, how exciting.. hehe! Of course as maybeonetime only has said, having sex while pregnant is not risky and there's nothing disgusting about sex between consenting adults. Awwwhhh Nikki's having a new widdle baby... hehe. Gawd... how's the baby talk when we are doting parents... hehe.. makes me crinch thinking back.   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A pregnant woman really glows.  I find it such a turn on and would enjoy the opportunity to play with a pregnant woman.  If you can find someone to play with I say go for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mrs here,    i was sooooo horny when i was pregnant all 3 times and Mr hated having sex with me,  images of the movie "alein" and the overwieght thing was way to strong for him. ( i had to torture him at least a few times lol) so the thought for him of playing with a total pregnant "stranger" is quite of the map for him.   But I personally would have loved to play myself and would play with another pregnant woman if the spark was there, as i think that if you are confident to play thats sexy enough.   Back to Mr - beyond the whole image thing, he also had fears of safety to baby etc a(medically unfounded) but I respected his wishes & fears and abstained :). As a result would know that he would not be comfortable in a foursome situation where anybody was pregnant and again thats ok.   My "tool" kit has never had so much use.  Good luck Nikki and enjoy in whatever way possible.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Wow Nikki we can't believe you were razzed on RHP !!! For an "out there" opinion. Its not, yes we are being sarcastic. Wow we have others talking skat and golden showers yet sex while preggo's is off limits. Crazy talk! (for the record also happy for those that want to chat about skat etc to go for it as well, just comparing. All peace love and mung beans here my little Vegemites)   We say go for it! We have had the pleasure of playing with a lovely pregnant gal who was devine. As referenced above, regarding no peneration, on this occasion it was Mrs looking who played and Mr looking just watched with a warm glow in his cheeks! Yet another who whilst not pregnant was at the end of breast feeding.   Different strokes different folks................   I agree with Gaz, Mrs looking was devine whilst pregnant with our little squirts. Couldnt keep our hands off each other.    As you already know, its a wonderful time enjoy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Pregnant women are sooo SEXY!   And as  a guy I find it a hudge turn on   Best of luck keep having fun for as long as you like