RHP

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Talk dirty to me!

July 28 2015

Guys...If dirty talk is your thing, what is it you want to hear? I got tongue tied recently and sat there with no idea what to say and felt like an idiot! Girls, what do you say to guys? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I just want to hear how you feel what you are thinking and what you feel like doing. Honesty is always best and I want to know how I make you feel. Hearing you vocalize your reactions is always the hottest thing. It is like the question what are you wearing. For me it doesn't need to be fancy all the time, I just want to picture you and mentally undress you. That stuff will always work for me - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    9 years ago

    My dirty talk (which I need to do more of apparently) revolves around what I know my lover is into. I may whisper 'I NEED your cock in my mouth ' or 'fuck me with that rock hard cock' . I may say ' I want to slide my tongue down your cock, taste you, suck your balls, devour you till you cum in my mouth' ....you know, the usual stuff 😜 Mary xx

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    9 years ago

    According to hubby ' be honest and vocal about what you want to do with your partner, the dirtier the better,' Quoting Mr AG xx

  • langton11

    langton11

    9 years ago

    Some additional starters may be... 'I want you to use me as....''fill me up with....''make me your....''please cum all over....' I suppose it is very partner specific, esp re if the guy is dom or sub. As Mary says, generally as far as guys (or at least I) are concerned, the dirtier the better. Watch some porn, plenty of cues there lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    .... dirty talk has to be dirty ..... total filth ... explicit and personal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    all of the above 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    Not a criticism of the Author..... just an observation of the general nature of the topic. Rather than read other peoples verbalisations of their own intimate moments...... I say..... ...be present. If you like the soft feel of their skin... tell them thatIf you like the way they kiss you... tell them thatIf you like the way they're using their hand on you.... tell them thatIf you like the reactions of your partner to how you are touching them... tell them thatIF you like the way your lover pounds hard into you... tell them that too! Dirty talk shouldn't be a script that other people have suggested....... dirty talk is just talk.... sharing words of a sexual context to fit the sexual moment. BE present... share your observations and feelings...... AS words. DG

  • PatchworkGirl

    PatchworkGirl

    9 years ago

    For me, dirty talk isn't just a list of things to say that make a sexual encounter hot. What works in one situation with one person might be completely inappropriate and ineffective in another setting, or with another partner. It's all about responding to what is happening, to what makes you feel good, and vocalising what you want/need/enjoy. Anything else would just feel like saying something for the sake of it. As Ulysses said above - explicit and personal. :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Great suggestions everyone, thank you. DG - I love the way you worded your reply. I understand what you mean. I think I've been trying to use scripted phrases when really it needs to be what Im thinking, feeling etc.. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Fuck me like the dirty slut I am,is hot...to another it may be the biggest turn off..it's all very subjective...role play can make it easier,put it into a fun context.But if you arent in the mood or you are trying too hard,it just aint gonna work xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    an older lady and her partner having sex, when he says "shout dirty to me!!" "I shit the bed!!!" Was her reply 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You're dead right Freya. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Stirry' an older lady and her partner having sex, when he says "shout dirty to me!!" "I shit the bed!!!" Was her reply 😝 Who says a good old fashioned shart joke isn't funny.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It was a lustful little get together with a lady, trany and me. The private room was occupied so it was in the enclave with a swing and just a curtain for privacy. I have an active imagination and I had the dirty story in full steam, so I handed it to my lady friend to add her bit of a twist. OMG stop! you cant say that. Trany and me look in shocked disbelief as she went on. I put my hand to her mouth to put a stop to what can only be described as wrong... wrong... serious taboo. God i hope nobody heard any of that, it's not that we were that put off, but it was wrong. Dirty talk is not that hard to do, it is where you take it that is the issue. People say "dont worry" but there are norms and expectations that at times can be hard to judge. It is especially hard when with someone new, or in a place where others can hear. Hence I don't do dirty talk, well the standard stuff that is, as it is so lame to express what sounds like dialog to cheap porn. It just seems wrong to say "big hard cock just wants to cum..." so lame. I express fantasy when I feel I know the limits of the person/people I am with. It has narrative structure, timing, and plot. Its not cheap dirty talk, that is for vanilla people. Its story telling and I pride my self on telling it well. I want to lose you in the adventure and hang on every word, I want it to fire the imagination and drive the lust, it should surprise, enthrall and above all entertain. That is what dirty talk is to me.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    9 years ago

    Can't really quote what Tara tells me, too hard to spell and spellcheck can't get a grip on it, lot's of mmmmmm's and hhmmmmm's and lovely rounded terms. Maybe try 'red leather, yellow leather, red leather, yellow leather, red leather, yellow leather'.. quickly to help with the tongue twisting. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Fuck me ... NOW

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I must go to some spiritual journey when I have sex. I seem to say"oh god" quite a lot. Not big on the dirty talk actually. Primal noises,moans and groans are a bigger turn on for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I agree, lose yourself in the person or in the moment, imagine what you're doing and how it tastes or feels, be into that yourself and they'll be into what you're doing or saying. But do say what you're feeling, be verbal, they want to hear it, we want to hear it. I talk about how sloppy and wet i like to make them and how i orgasm while i'm doing it, turns me on so much, how i like them to tease me, hold it away a little bit, make me thirst for it, drooling now mmm and that's only the start, love dirty talk - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I never talk to god but when Im fucking he can hear me loud and clear! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Damn straight 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's something you want to do. If you know your lover (hopefully), think what he wants and tell him what you are going to do to him and how you are. Just like he may do to you. Whisper it in his ear, lips real close, breath hot, make him feel that your mouth is in his ear and then tell him, "I'm going to...". Have fun, Spicy ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Porn Star Jenna Haze pretty well nails it for me. Love watching her giving head and talking dirty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    agreed, we start the dirty talk before the bedroom it's easier sometimes and really sets the tone of what can be an amazing fuck session - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sometimes naughty can be sexier than dirty when you whisper it at just the right time "Baby I have a need to be bad bad girl, make me, take me, use me,fuck me, fill me & then baby.... I want you to taste how bad Ive been & kiss me so I can taste it to"