M55

Tarred with the same brush

September 20 2013

Hi all I have a simply question here :) Do all us man here without partners get tarred with the same brush?? In my profile I don't say how good I am in bed (I believe that is a personal experience to be had) I don't say how great a body I have not do I say about my looks... I have filled my profile out about me the person I am... Should I put in there that I was an ex stripper with a national touring group for 12 years (didn't think it worth stating ?) should I put in there how I'm a slow sensual lover (again I feel that is also a personal experience ?) should I put in there I still train martial arts 4 days a week ? (2 me that's a choice of life style) should I have sold my self as a long time swinger in Perth and Newcastle ?? (Something's I thought best left to the meeting convo) I did update as when I start chatting to people and say how I can't meet at times they all came back and said ur friggen married ?? But the problem I have is not marriage it's not really a problem for me either (I wld never leave the kids for self needs) I'm the same as many single mothers in this great wide world and that's devoted to the kids :))) I have full care (reasons I don't feel need to be disclosed here??) Anyway seems we the smorgasbord of males here may very well be tarred with that same nasty brush... Cheers

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RHP User

11 years ago

is that you are a guest and can't be proactive in your search.Hugging a Harley in your profile pic will probably split the vote too.As for being an ex stripper,some girls will,some girls wont ,they may be a bit intimidated by that,I personally like what you have written in your profile.....as for brushes and tarring.....the proof is usually in the pudding or tiramisu Caesar

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Smilingwithfun

11 years ago

Nice Post. Me echo's some of the sentiments. No I have never been a member of a National Touring Group.

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RHP User

11 years ago

LOL You just let out all your secrets, watchya going to talk about on first meet if you just posted heaps in your Topic???Remove the bit about your kids on your profileAs a parent it turns me off when I read about kids on profiles.Some things are left private.Women want to read intriguing profiles, not a life story or how good a man is in bed, how big their dicks are or what they can do with their tongues. We read them all the time...BORING BORING!Change your profile pic to a smiling more.Other than that, your profile is good.FOXY

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Why worry. Long answer..... why worrrrryyyyy :-) DG

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RHP User

11 years ago

You do not need to talk about your kidsyou just say, I have parenting commitments and they come first, so I cannot drop everything for a meeting.there are a lot of men in the same spot as you but they get around it.put up a decent face pictureif you want them just to notice you the person then you do not need any pictures of your jocks or sox, but thats up to you.any man that says he is good in bed, is NOT good on bed. Its up to a woman too say that on each occasion, as you could be shit for one woman and good for another so its subjective.anyone that knows me , knows I loath male strippers I find it a complete turn OFF.But I am a tad different than most women in that regard.Its a numbers game, sorry to say is just the way it is.

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BrightBubbly

11 years ago

I have to disagree and say leave the comments about the kids in there.I am a Single Working Mum and to me, that sort of stuff is important. Not only is it important to me but it is important that any guy I see understands the demands I have on me so I would rather be upfront about it and then if contact is made all my cards are on the table.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Why is everyone so busy trying to 'game it'? Just say who you are, what you value, what you offer and what you seek. If people like what they read they'll make contact. If you read other profiles and like them, then make contact. Simple!

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RHP User

11 years ago

If we are all tarred with the same brush, though I do understand why women can be cautious about meeting guys from this site. Personally, I ignore the 'most men' comments as they don't relate to me. I'm unique ;).

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RHP User

11 years ago

... & Feathered ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

You've got it in one!- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

I'll take that as the compliment I'm sure you meant it as. :p

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RHP User

11 years ago

That's an outstanding set of attributes shelved out of reach of your profile. Why? Fear of being over qualified for a romp? 007 masquerading as Joe Lunchbox..Copy and paste that spiel into your profile for a gamble at success. Kung Fu Quai Chang Cain~superdad~erotic dynamo.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Hi! Saecar69:) I understand why you may feel that way Hun . I checked out your Profile and frankly nothing in there jumped out saying who you are that's relevant to the Women you wish to attract. I'll explain.. 1 You're well travels like to hold good Conversations. That's fine.. Mentioned about being good with your Hands, but instead of saying you enjoy sharing slow Massages and pleasuring a Sexy Playmate. Which is very important to get across to them It allows Women to imagine being in that situation with you appealing. You went off about how you do woodwork what you assemble What The!!! That's fine if you're advertising, to find work. But not to attract Potential Lovers.. Very Little said about your Personality or your Interests.. What you tell us is the only way we get to know you being Online it's very Important because until we meet in Person ,you're a Virtual Stranger amongst many trying to be noticed.. That's all well and good keeping things to share with a Special Woman but you do need to advertise your Positive traits to draw attention in the 1st Place.. Lady Tuscan was correct There's No need to dwell on your 4 Kids as awesome as they are the Nitty gritty isn't important. Just state you have Parenting Commitments.. We know what that is and respect it. Your Pic is fine if you're trying to attract a Biker Mate to go riding with. Not as your Main Profile Pic to attract Potential Playmates for Sexual Encounters.. A good Pic of your Head shoulders you smiling. Or a Scenic one with you in the foreground full body Pic is a nice 1 too.. Not a poorly taken Pic with your Bike.. You mentioned about being a stripper group for 12yrs and being a Swinger now. The Cat's out of the Bag so to speak so use it. Some will be impressed by it others,it won't make any difference:) Cheers Lu :)

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