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Teach me
September 24 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Listens. Learns. Does. Welcomes feedback. When I asked a 22 year-old how he knew what he did, he said "I listen." That is all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
taught a 60 year old man to talk dirty ...does that count
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RHP User
11 years ago
Passionately does not equal tonsillectomy !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Only if he cleaned up his mess :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
the most disgusting and off putting kissing experience EVER
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lots of touching, touch my arms, kiss my neck.... Slowly move your hands down my back as we kiss. Spend more time kissing and touching and concentrate on getting me hotter before you even think about touching a boob or a bum.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me if you tell me how excited you are... How much you want me. That's a big turn on. Don't over do it ... I just like when a man is a more expressive with what he is feeling. HAWT!! 😍
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RHP User
11 years ago
No porn sex unless I have asked for it ... Sensual, slow and okay maybe a little rough is the what I want. Porn sex is not always appropriate and is only when a woman is totally hot for you and the mood is right. If you are not sure.... ASK!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zkool' Passionately does not equal tonsillectomy ! I second that notion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Listen and Learn. Yep... that works for me
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lots of foreplay, a wise person once said "sex for a man is like an emergency, anywhere, anytime, sex for a woman is like a fire, it slowly builds up..." No truer words were spoken. Lots of touching kissing etc gets a woman to the stage where she wants to jump your bones... Desperately. Makes sex so much more pleasurable when you are hot, wet and ready to go
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi! Lady Tuscan:) Thanks for your informative Topic fun Topic he! he! Like you I have tutored younger Males in being a skilled attentive Lovers some really have no idea. For Instance 1 kissed me like he was using a suction cap all up my neck 123 then the other side 123 I heard him counting ha! ha! I asked in a nice way if he'd been with a Woman before He told me her had a G/F for 18mths.. I replied in amazement he was that bad "Was she a Virgin and knew no better" we both giggled broke the ice and after we has shared the Lessons He became a Good Lover and had 3 Playmates to keep happy .. The other Young Male asked me where's the hole it doesn't look like the drawing in the sex manual the side layered one that is used in Sex Ed at school ha! ha! He learned where the Hole was and how to pleasure that area. He did find a G/F .. However once they have been taught I release them to find their Own Playmates.. Back to the topic.. Aside from requiring a Connection with a Lover on all Levels Mind, Body, Emotions and Soul Plus chemistry between us.. I adore An Intelligent, Sexy Younger Guy with a warped S.O.H. Who's My FWB in every sense of the term,so we enjoy a well rounded Relationship .Even if it's a casual one.. Sending,sharing some titillating sexy text Msgs or phone chats before enjoying a meal and continue to Pleasure me as I tease Him too mmm YUM!! "Fire My Imagination you Ignite My Passion" as I've mentioned before.. Lots of Kissing soft sensual, Like Lady T I make love with My kisses..gentle caressing between us, Looking Connecting with his eyes always makes the feeling Intensify mmmm sensual Tactile all those things work for me. Then lots of slow sensual Intimate Massage and Foreplay shared until we want more so ready to complete our Sexual Dance ..mmmmm YUM!! Always remain wrapped in each others arms so I can disconnect from My Lover from within and just enjoy the being in the Moment of complete gratification Nothing like it !! I'm getting turned on just thinking about it ha! ha! Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
will hold me with strong arms. He will command my attention and make my legs weak.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Lol you know "How was your day dearrrrrr." While you're holding her in your arms, nibbling her neck and running your hands over her body. Do the cuddles and hugs and stuff that make her think you can't keep your hands off her. Be playful, tease, share in the laughter. Hold hands, go for random walks/drives. I love a man who'll sing with me, even if he is tone deaf, I don't care.....just rnjoy the music and the moment. Sex is more than just sex. Every moment can be an opportunity to tease, arouse, seduce, tantalise, enthrall and bond. Yes folks bond. Then of course the sex becomes something so much more enjoyable than just "sex". I love spooning in bed usually with your hand cupping my breast or even just touching feet or having a hand rested lightly on his/my hip just so long as there is contact. If she looks good tell her. If she makes you feel good tell her. If you like what she's doing to you, making you feel or arousing you tell her!!! Clairvoyance is not a female-given talent. Or a male on for that matter. And yes, like Mes says, don't go straight for the crotch or breast, real men know about seduction. Of course if they're super good at it, ravishing me in the doorway and managing to fuck me from the doorway to the kitchen, around the bench to the lounge and around the lounge to the middle of the room back to the doorway without once getting up off the floor or breaking that kiss with my steelcaps still on, my jeans around my ankles and my shirt open and breasts over the top of my bra with your hands EVERYWHERE works for me too. (husky sigh) just sayin'.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What one man does that rocks my world could fall really flat in the hands of another. Connection first, then intensity and passion, then technique. Without the former the latter is just tedious.
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Men for the most part want hard fast fun , instant gratification A woman is more like a steam engine .... It takes a lot of preparation to stoke the coals and fill the boiler. Slowly and steadily the heat builds until eventually she builds up a head of steam ....and then there is no stopping her until the fire subsides. Toot toot ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013' Men for the most part want hard fast fun , instant gratification A woman is more like a steam engine .... It takes a lot of preparation to stoke the coals and fill the boiler. Slowly and steadily the heat builds until eventually she builds up a head of steam ....and then there is no stopping her until the fire subsides. Toot toot ... - Posted from rhpmobile Just be careful of old boilers. They're dangerous in inexperienced hands.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
She goes like a train ay mate and she's a'comin on down the line!! You can blast my klaxon anytime 😎
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Your a diesel / electric kind of gal- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Where's Little Red Engine to answer this????? FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
It's not all about the physical acts or physical presence. Guys get so caught up in technique, instead of the purpose DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
nothing turns me on more then talk first.I have to get the vibrational spiel with a male in my mind, then my mouth, my skin and all is an easy play from there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The almost kiss, close just leaning in and then that soft sexy smile. That teaseThe no sex, like taking a woman to the shower or bath, washing her hair. The problem with RHP meets is that most of them are the express train that often goes no where.If your after random fucks, then I guess this post is not for that kind of guy.As good sex takes time, and its not Porn sex. As much as I like to watch porn sex, it can become addictive and it fires up the wrong parts of the brain till normal sex is boring, and more and more stimulation is needed.I see so many young men, ruined by porn sex and its hard to get back to reality sex.Try not getting off yourself.Hows this for a challenge, the next woman you meet.Kiss her on the lips for at least half an hour, you know the old fashioned petting on the couch. Without touching her boobs or bum or r the Y.Try slowly undressing a woman kissing her , then finding the small of her back, the curve of her neck even kissing the back of her neck, lift up her hair. Her ear lob, no not trusting your tongue in.Then trace a finger around her jawline, look down at her, see her look into her eyes. Tease her clothes off her, no rush, but keep your pants on, only take off your shirtthere is thing sexier than dry humping a guy with just his jeans on.keep a womans panties on, tease along the crutch line.Try giving some tease oral sex with a womans knickers still on.Then talk to her, as you touch her, do not go digging into a woman unless you know she likes it that way. I would like a dollar for every guy I had to say, take it easy down there, its sensitive.Do all the things you need to do,by asking and watching and listening and feeling with your fingertips, a how a woman respondsthen go, I mean really do not pleasure yourself.Maybe this can be the reverse Ninja , its slow its sensual and you learn how to please another person and not yourself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't know if I'm qualified to teach anything about the art of sex... Here goes anyway... I like to know unequivocally that you are very interested- make the first move, tell me that you think I'm beautiful (if you do) or that I have lovely eyes (if you think they are) or whatever. As long as you are sincere I won't think you're a fool. Be interested in me, ask questions, engage but also open up- tell me a bit about yourself when I ask. It's not sexy to be cagey and guarded. Kiss me like you mean it, let go and let desire take you over. Abandon yourself and I will too. Meeka is right, touch me everywhere, run your hands through my hair, stroke my shoulders, arms and back before you go for gold. Tease a little, don't just push your hands down my pants, I need to be ready for that. A little bit of lingering elsewhere means I'll be begging you to touch me there. Take your time. Some men seem to be in an awful hurry. Enjoy the journey. Be gentle at first, save the rough for when I've warmed up a little. Give feedback, it doesn't have to be excessive, tell me what feels good, tell me what you like. Tell me what you like about me, talk, share. Listen, I'll tell you what I'm enjoying, if I tell you not to stop, to keep doing 'that', then bloody well keep doing it- don't change a thing. Don't be afraid to be firm, take charge a bit, 'I want to taste you' is much sexier than 'do you want me to go down on you?' Nipples can generally take a bit of firm handling- start gently and increase pressure- ask her to tell you when it's too much. Genitals less so, be gentle with my pussy, I'm a delicate flower. If you go too hard too soon it can sort of ruin everything. Just take your time and think of it like the head of your cock, you don't want that rubbed or poked too hard and you certainly don't want sandpaper scraped over it. Unless you can orgasm several times hold back. My orgasm is not your signal to orgasm and finish. I want more, and more. I want to be held and stroked and nuzzled before, during and after sex. Don't jump up straight away, it leaves me feeling yuck. Can I just say that there are as many older men who could do with advice as younger. There are younger men out there who show me a thing or two. I'm very happy to be shown 😚 I consider myself a lifelong learner! One last thing... Just have fun with it... Sex is amazing and fun, you don't have to take it all so seriously, relax, enjoy, revel in the joy of the joining of two (or more) bodies and minds.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Where did my paragraphs go?
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RHP User
11 years ago
That was great! Though I will add that my nipples are so sensitive they definitely can't be squeezed. Be aware of my physical reactions, they are quite obvious.
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wingman2014
11 years ago
PMSL Plenty of fine tunes played on an old fiddle 🎶- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wouldn't it be great if everyone learned the art of communication before attempting the art of sex. The real-life reality of sex needs to be communicated between potential partners and the fantasy of porn put in the back of our minds until the correct stimulation levels are achieved.We as a couple we communicate our desires and intentions through our words, actions and touches. Being so familiar with each other it is easy to read what stimuli are working and the mood that is set, so maybe it is easier for couples to teach each other than for ladies who are meeting a new man. In any case slow and steady will always win through when the art of seduction is learnt by men and women.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013' PMSL Plenty of fine tunes played on an old fiddle 🎶- Posted from rhpmobile That's because they resonate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When a woman tells you she is close to coming or about to come.... This is not code for go faster, or god forbid change positions. Keep doing exactly what you are doing with absolutely no deviations what so ever!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
The Book of Love from American Pie
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'When a woman tells you she is close to coming or about to come.... This is not code for go faster, or god forbid change positions. Keep doing exactly what you are doing with absolutely no deviations what so ever!!!
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Yes Wings, Diesel or Electric or Hybrid. Fck the Passenger Trains, coal and minerals don't complain if they get a rough ride.....lol think loooooong, heavy haul. And AWESOME that was wonderful.
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Coops27M
11 years ago
I thought as much but now you ladies have made it easy for me thank you ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
....it's not rocket science but my word I'm sure you'll enjoy the exploration and subsequent blast off so much more....you see by taking your time this will also make us want to tale our time in pleasing and giving pleasure to you also. Two way street, it's always a two way street. Even in a 3-some with a couple. I still think I was blessed with Teen n Hermy, although at times it felt surreal like I was watching us, their constant communication with each other and then asking after my comfort also meant that they cared how I felt as much as what they were. I can't thank them enough for that.
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him_and_me
11 years ago
... I have LOVED reading this thread. Good topic to start! I'm turned on just reading all this! Phew!
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RHP User
11 years ago
There's nothing that works for everyone. The most effective and reliable advice is very simple: Observation. Train yourself to observe the reactions in your partner and play with the intensity and frequency of what you give. Sounds like physics but It's that simple.. hehe. Develop rapport and feel what they feel... So you'll also know when it's good for them :)I had many experiences where I was completely mislead by what people said they like or what they liked. People don't know what they don't know. If you're observant and sensitive to minor feedback you can give someone an awesome experience, at least.I love teaching and I'm a natural teacher, however it can become overwhelming after a few experiences. There's a moment when you just want to play with a person at the same level as you and receive as much you give back. Much like playing chess with a beginner instead of that person that pushes you to your limit and get reeeally close to defeating you. The person that creates the moment where you lose your ground and lose yourself in your own delighted pleasurable confusion....That is the fucking hot bit ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Kiss my lips with passiondescend to my neck whereit consorts with my shoulder.I will shudder with desireand the scent of you willintoxicate my senses.Take my hand and let melead you to my room wherewe will lie naked together.Negotiating pleasure with just our eyes and tonguesending lesson one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
BRAVO!!! *Stands up on her chair in a flurry of applause*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'HottieRocket' There's nothing that works for everyone. The most effective and reliable advice is very simple: Observation. Train yourself to observe the reactions in your partner and play with the intensity and frequency of what you give. Sounds like physics but It's that simple.. hehe. Develop rapport and feel what they feel... So you'll also know when it's good for them :)I had many experiences where I was completely mislead by what people said they like or what they liked. People don't know what they don't know. If you're observant and sensitive to minor feedback you can give someone an awesome experience, at least.I love teaching and I'm a natural teacher, however it can become overwhelming after a few experiences. There's a moment when you just want to play with a person at the same level as you and receive as much you give back. Much like playing chess with a beginner instead of that person that pushes you to your limit and get reeeally close to defeating you. The person that creates the moment where you lose your ground and lose yourself in your own delighted pleasurable confusion....That is the fucking hot bit ;) i really like what you said there...there's nothing more irritating, than having a man fumbling around...start pinching my nipples hard...i mean real hard...or start fingering my pussy really fast and rough...because that is what his last lover liked...or what he's seen in porn movies...(that's not to say, that there's anything wrong with porn...i love it...) ,but one can only turn a woman into a horny, dirty sex-toy...if he knows how to please her first...for me, the bigger the enthusiasm , to pleasure me...the more i want to reciprocate the caring attention...and i am very observant, too!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'When a woman tells you she is close to coming or about to come.... This is not code for go faster, or god forbid change positions. Keep doing exactly what you are doing with absolutely no deviations what so ever!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' When a woman tells you she is close to coming or about to come.... This is not code for go faster, or god forbid change positions. Keep doing exactly what you are doing with absolutely no deviations what so ever!!! *Nods head in agreement*
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Chelle63
11 years ago
One of the most important things I try to teach is that the clitoris is a delicate area. It is definitely not a case of the harder you rub the quicker I cum. I get the feeling sometimes that they are trying to grind it away completely.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When a woman was close to cumming, it was time to stop. Pause. Then start again slowly and build her back up......, Or should that read, it's time to get dressed and leave?? :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'HottieRocket' There's nothing that works for everyone. The most effective and reliable advice is very simple: Observation. Train yourself to observe the reactions in your partner and play with the intensity and frequency of what you give. Sounds like physics but It's that simple.. hehe. Develop rapport and feel what they feel... So you'll also know when it's good for them :)I had many experiences where I was completely mislead by what people said they like or what they liked. People don't know what they don't know. If you're observant and sensitive to minor feedback you can give someone an awesome experience, at least.I love teaching and I'm a natural teacher, however it can become overwhelming after a few experiences. There's a moment when you just want to play with a person at the same level as you and receive as much you give back. Much like playing chess with a beginner instead of that person that pushes you to your limit and get reeeally close to defeating you. The person that creates the moment where you lose your ground and lose yourself in your own delighted pleasurable confusion....That is the fucking hot bit ;) That's a fucking hot answer in general! Me
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Listen and learn does work but over the yearsI found women need more.Push there boundaries and teach them about themselvesand what they are capable of.Example a woman I met back in Nov 2012 aged 44who had 9 or so lovers before marriage and 30 or so after divorce.Then I come along and her whole idea of orgasmchanged that included squirting and multy.So it would be better to teach them that all womenare not the same and sex dont take 20 minutes LOL
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