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Temporary sexual boundaries

February 08 2008

I was chatting to a friend who confessed to me that she hated giving oral sex to her partners, would do it only if the she was in a relationship that was "serious" and was completely head over heels in love, and grudgingly at that. So my question to everyone is, is there any sexual activity(ies) that you reserve solely for a serious girlfriend/boyfriend that you wouldn't do with a more casual partner (ie. friend with benefits, fuck buddies, one night stands etc). Personally for me, although I've never been in a relationship as such, I don't think I'd do anything differently for either casual lover or with someone I have an emotional investment in. Taking into account that persons personal preference of course. Having said that, I must admit I'm generally not comfortable having sex during my period with someone I'd just met or don't know very well, likewise with receiving anal. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely adore both activities, but I do need a certain level of trust and connection with someone before I can relax to enjoy.

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RHP User

17 years ago

The only difference with me would be "protection vs no protection". Everything else would be the same. It's sad about your friend though, I wouldn't want anybody doing anything to me unless they LOVED it.

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17 years ago

That's one of the advantages of a site like this versus a regular dating site or the more conventional ways of hooking up. You feel more comfortable with negotiating your sexual likes and dislikes and interests before you have sex - as opposed to going through the traditional means and finding out you've ended up with a cold fish in the sack or someone with completely different ideas to you.

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