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Terrible profiles - Female & couples.
August 23 2014
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
No pics of the guy whatsoever (ok not really anything a guy would care about). And couples who feel the need to shout NO SINGLE GUYS repeatedly. Just read one profile where it was repeated 4 times. Really? As half of a couple, reading that makes me want to run the other way, because it screams of insecurity and really more than a little rudeness. But I do acknowledge that when some couples start out they feel really threatened by single guys, and that is a thread within itself....
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Missb4u
10 years ago
In what this forum brings. As single women we rarely get any feedback on our profiles. I like feedback and constructive criticism. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
One thing I notice much more on women's and couples' profiles are those long negative lists of "Don't wants". You know, like small cocks, dirty smokers, disgusting cheaters, cheapskate guests, etc.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Generic profiles. They make me think generic person - and who'd want one of those? And yes, laundry lists of don't-likes. A guy would be pillaried for being that negative. Anything else that lacks imagination - yes, even pictures. Now, having taken the negative bait... Even if I find a profile that's a bit uninspiring or, better yet, an inspiring one, it's even better when that person has commented in the forums. What people tend to write here is so much less canned than yet another About Me / I am Looking For. Oh... And having a restricted profile picture when I know that person has really good ones in their collection. :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
wrong with women's profiles is a complete lack of effort. The whole thing put together with profile builder template lines. I get it, you don't need to make an effort, the men'll flock to you anyway, but if you're going to do something, have some fun with it. And it gives me nothing to work with even if I can still be bothered sending a message.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes good topic Meeka The lack of detail on a ladies profile doesn't bother me too much as I respect that many want to be a little more discrete. However some are over the top in regards to listing (as pointed out earlier) things that are not their thing. Some of the language used is negative, bossy and a big turn off. For example - "Don't bother flirting as I will not respond" is negative and turns me off. Just don't reply to flirts it's not necessary in your profile. I read one and it began 'I will not respond to the following' after which there was a list a mile long- and I stopped reading half way through. Just don't reply to the message or search for the type of person that you need. Comes across as needy, bossy and negative. Anyway just my thoughts. EG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was told my profile was too negative. I am not a fan of couples profiles that have many pics of the females but one of the male half a body shot with the face blacked out.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The ones that make me go WTF are: The ones that give the long list of 'do nots' including the infamous 'do not contact me unless you have a visible face photo in your profile' and yet their profile not only doesn't have any public photos but no galleris either. The ones that give a long list of prerequisites the lucky man/couple must have just to be deemed no blockable and might be honoured by the lady for reading their message The ones that sound as though they are doing you (and the rest of mankind) the biggest favour in the world by allowing you to view their profile and maybe, if you meet their criteria, being privileged enough to send them a message (no guarantee of a response of course) lol Mooka
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RHP User
10 years ago
Photos are I am sorry I say it disgusting...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Close-ups of shaving rash are not attractive.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'GonzosDilemma' Oh... And having a restricted profile picture when I know that person has really good ones in their collection. :p Even I can't see my own picture! LOL.
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
I love the RHP generic only profiles, And photos back dropped with dreadfully untidy rooms, profiles with poor gramma, pics of two ladies categorized "female" and beating all others, those with their extensive list of DO NOTs. Oh yes these profiles are a great self confessing filter for me entitled - AVOID AT ALL COSTS. I choose tasteful semi revealing pics, respectful articulate well thought out profiles and polite posters. .........SD
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HereToPlease77
10 years ago
"Do couples or women talk about their cock sucking skills or how they will blow your socks off in the bedroom?" Some women go on like this in the forums too. I for one, aren't impressed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'HereToPlease77' I for one, aren't impressed. ... Says the guy with the template profile? This is the stuff: Touch my body with tactile hands, touch my mind with conversation, if we are going to be in bed for a while, there are times when we need to connect Great profile Litonya!
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RHP User
10 years ago
The profile that simply says "I dunno what to write so if you want to no something just ask" It's really obvious to me that profiles all round need help - even mine needed refining and I thank the lady that helped with that; but without any effort it screams fake; it screams lazy and it turns me off completely. I like a profile that is written that doesn't talk about how good they are; or how good their sense of humour is - by all means describe your humour but back it up with HOW it's constructed - but in fact they show it. Which unfortunately is a rare find. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
* lots of cock/pussy shots* couple profiles with no pics of the male* couple profiles where the woman brags about how awesome her partner is in bed & how he will rock my world* crap photos - can be blurry, tooooo dark but the worst is the portrait ones that are viewed landscape - how hard is it to rotate a pic????* long list of negativesOn that note, I will stop my long list of negatives :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
really what gets my hair standing up...no photos. I dont mind no photos on the main profile but the no photos at all. I think this here is my private life and I can do what ever I like.....on here......so I show ME.....how otherwise will men be sending me messages? I don't think I would get any without a picture. Why does the other half think it will work with no photo. hmmm
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RHP User
10 years ago
The ones that yank my chain are the guys pretending to be a couple. You can spot them a mile off. "I this", "I that". Not a "we" in sight :(
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madotara69
10 years ago
We just bullshitted our way into the joint. Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
The couples profiles were the women has written the profile and has said that the single girl will be "a gift for her husband", like you are a sex worker she has purchased.... Except she obviously expects you to come for free and to be gagging for it. :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well there's not much left to say about them its been pretty much covered but why do couples and women seem to think a picture of the woman is sufficient it's not only this site its all dating site's But on a positive note there are a few women in here thst profiles I do enjoy reafing and o tead them over and over some time s thau are all clasd and the type of woman I am interested in just a shame I don't interest them - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Allegedly some people don't like epic reads on a profile. Surprisingly alot do. Atleast it weeds out the people who can't read, have good grammer and can't compose a sentence. Like Mado I just bullshitted my way in here. 😇
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
The ones that say if you don't fit their criteria & still send a message you will be BLOCKED. I love the way they highlight the BLOCKED.
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twinshadow
10 years ago
i really like reading a profile, full of nothing but DONTs and nothing about them or their interest for being here. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can the photos ever be too revealing?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do wonder though... Do women often brag about their skills in the bedroom on their profile? I have been told that some do. I wonder if men automatically assume there is a good chance they are in fact, duds in the sack.... The same way that a women does when she sees a guy bragging about his amazing 10" tongue that never stops. :p
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
That's my impression. If you have to talk it up... who are you trying to convince? Me or you? ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
After all this ranting why don't we come up with a good help What should we write in a profile its time to make a list. So let your fingers do the walking and tell. *Yes a tidy room around you " men" when you take a photo....look at your surroundings because we "LOOK" *A smile *A "penis" hard or flaccid hiding in your pants.....sexy raunchy and tasty. *Words....think about words it doesnt have to be a novel get help form female friends when unsure. *NO.....more NSA put away this stupid word NSA , delete it. I have no strings and I want no string that's my little thought on it, maybe I have some more later. Just be playful. Happy thoughts L
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Seachange
10 years ago
Most of the feedback I received from men who have contacted me are positive. Men are appreciate of the fact that I have stated positively what I want. The only proviso I have is for them to have a facial pic to send to me when they contact me. I do not see that as negative. Whether it is in the public gallery or in their private gallery (guaranteeing their privacy) is their choice, so I can see if I am physically attracted to them. Otherwise, what is the point of moving forward. I will not brag about my prowess in the sack. That would be narcissistic. Lol. I love reading profiles and I don't mind long ones if it catches my attention in the first 2-3 paragraphs. These are more rare than the template profiles (zzzzz) and reflect their personality. They deserve my full attention. And if they are written with a bit tongue in cheek and with humour, definitely a big plus.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' One thing I notice much more on women's and couples' profiles are those long negative lists of "Don't wants". You know, like small cocks, dirty smokers, disgusting cheaters, cheapskate guests, etc. ..But presumably that's because the women here are in the desired minority and can affordto be choosy. And rude…it seems. Such is the stereotypical result of power corrupting. : )And that's a big part of why I don't bother with the messaging and trying to meet someone anymore…it's too much hard work. This is supposed to be fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just lots of selfish 'Me, me, me.. it's all about me' statements.Good news is it informs immediately that you are not for me, me, me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
23 x selfy shots from an angle above.OK, so at least I know you are self infatuated and probably not very imaginative.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Koolblue' Quoting 'Meander' One thing I notice much more on women's and couples' profiles are those long negative lists of "Don't wants". You know, like small cocks, dirty smokers, disgusting cheaters, cheapskate guests, etc. ..But presumably that's because the women here are in the desired minority and can affordto be choosy. And rude…it seems. Such is the stereotypical result of power corrupting. : )And that's a big part of why I don't bother with the messaging and trying to meet someone anymore…it's too much hard work. This is supposed to be fun. Sorry to hear about your experiences but I thnk that you have made an effort to read their profile, you have been diligent to craft a non-template profile, have a facial pic available, then sent them a nice decent intro message, you deserve a decent response regardless of whether they are interested in you or not. When you read the women's profile, you would have a feel whether there is a sense of decency in that person. For those who have written their profile in a positive slant and specified what they want would most likely give you a better positive response (regardless of whether they are interested in you or not, but they have not rudely responded). but you just have to keep searching and keep going. It is a numbers game. For every NO you receive, you are closer to a YES. Yay!You know what they say, you gotta be in it to win it. Stay positive and keep trackin.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Just a note as this applies to both men and women when they write their profile. i find it really hard to connect with profiles where the pictures are very dark (like going through inkblot psychological testing. yikes!) or confusing in composition/camera angles. Examples of the latter would pics taken at weird angles thereby inducing as close to what I would term a reiki-inspired cerebral dislocation - as it requires my head to twist >45degree angle just to so I can see his face. Some are very complex in compositon that it makes deciphering Hieroglyphics in Tutankhamun's tomb look like fun. Keep it simple folks because I am.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Like the pics you can look at for ten minutes and still have no idea what you are actually looking at! :s
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'JerseyGirl' Like the pics you can look at for ten minutes and still have no idea what you are actually looking at! :s Yep...Lol. Too hard for my little simple mind....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Koolblue' Quoting 'Meander' One thing I notice much more on women's and couples' profiles are those long negative lists of "Don't wants". You know, like small cocks, dirty smokers, disgusting cheaters, cheapskate guests, etc. ..But presumably that's because the women here are in the desired minority and can affordto be choosy. And rude…it seems. Such is the stereotypical result of power corrupting. : )And that's a big part of why I don't bother with the messaging and trying to meet someone anymore…it's too much hard work. This is supposed to be fun. Sorry to hear about your experiences but I thnk that you have made an effort to read their profile, you have been diligent to craft a non-template profile, have a facial pic available, then sent them a nice decent intro message, you deserve a decent response regardless of whether they are interested in you or not. When you read the women's profile, you would have a feel whether there is a sense of decency in that person. For those who have written their profile in a positive slant and specified what they want would most likely give you a better positive response (regardless of whether they are interested in you or not, but they have not rudely responded). but you just have to keep searching and keep going. It is a numbers game. For every NO you receive, you are closer to a YES. Yay!You know what they say, you gotta be in it to win it. Stay positive and keep trackin. Er.. I hate to say it but you have no idea how many obnoxious women there are, that are well aware of the numbers game, and - despite efforts to send a msg as you describe - respond with a one line selfish, rude or obnoxious reply. What is to gain from that when a simple "No thanks but good luck on your quest" would suffice? : P "Bullet dodged" I say to myself but it's far too common (and I'm not prolific with msgs at all)...Oh, in answer to Meeks question about graphic pics.. I'm not big on close up beaver shots (although occasionally they can actually shot well, classy and be aesthetically pleasing) or super graphic close shots in general..I am a total sucker for softly lit bewbs, thighs and don't get me started on girls with glasses, long hair and a slip of the blouse..Add some red hair, fair skin and freckles.. and I'm yours!!
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Just a note as this applies to both men and women when they write their profile. i find it really hard to connect with profiles where the pictures are very dark (like going through inkblot psychological testing. yikes!) or confusing in composition/camera angles. Examples of the latter would pics taken at weird angles thereby inducing as close to what I would term a reiki-inspired cerebral dislocation - as it requires my head to twist >45degree angle just to so I can see his face. Some are very complex in compositon that it makes deciphering Hieroglyphics in Tutankhamun's tomb look like fun. Keep it simple folks because I am. this has been wound into another men this, men that thread. In disguise
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'funfukbuddy' 23 x selfy shots from an angle above.OK, so at least I know you are self infatuated and probably not very imaginative. Yeah butt............ they show you in the best angle! Not as many wrinkles and it hides a lot.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Can the photos ever be too revealing? Especially when it comes to close-up pics of the couple having sex. See my previous post about shaving rash.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like.. We need a like button RHP! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Feedback and constructive criticism, hmmmmmm I would like sum suggestions of yes, no, may be so, or ideas good or crap. As well please........thank u x
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WhispersAndMoans
10 years ago
Quoting 'allsorts72' just a shame I don't interest them That you live so far away - your profile interests me, and you're cute too
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RHP User
10 years ago
Negative attitudes where they say things that are pre-empting ( is that the word ?) auto correct tried to correct it .. Anyhoo ... One I read I thought was quite interesting then it went on to say something like " all you women don't think you are anything special more then the other women on here and that it's a privilege to be with you .. And let's face it all men are hunters where some guys put on their profile they are nicer then the others don't be fooled - you women are all hopeful something more to come of it" .. ... Etc etc .. Why thanks for the sex site lesson honey bun but that attitude just turned me off straight away eek - scary stuff where you'd be waiting for a lecture on the "how tos " on the first meet .. Umm can we just communicate nicely and sure be clear ....but lose the insinuation that all women are up themselves and/ or needy ...Good grief dude 😳 Sorry that was off subject I just realised - was a single guys profile but hey someone might enjoy the read ? 😜 Oh yes and with any profiles - old photos - ugh - which I am sure has been said but hey that's my gripe 🙈
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MissSarahCurious
10 years ago
there's one that offers "20-30 minutes your pussy will never forget" xx Sarah I could go for that, actually. A little satisfaction then home in time to curl up with a good book and not be tired at work the next day.
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MissSarahCurious
10 years ago
there is a like button. Just click on the little thumbs up pic at the top of the post you like.
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rudenude
10 years ago
we are all different , saying someone has insecurity is rubbish because they do not want single guys.we have played for over 25 years . the number one thing we have found people hate is single guys always bombard you whether it be at work a swingers club or the beach.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Totally agree with many comments on this topic,Fakes are annoying, Tasteless photos, blurry close ups etc.Firstly,we put NO SINGLE GUYS on ours for one reason and one reason only, we are simply not interested in playing or meeting SINGLE GUYS,We came on this site TOGETHER! We play TOGETHER!Secondly,We are enjoying the site it does have its good and bad........that's life!But for us as a couple seeking women/couples the most annoying thing of all is EXCESSIVE VIEWS!!!! 5...10...times a Day!!!!With no message or comment or flirt,REALLY? Are you that shy, timid, if so clearly you are on the wrong site....You know who you are????Thirdly and foremost,A profile no matter how you write it, describe it, request it, spell it, you will always have a critic or two on here.As for dodgy, dark, messy room, tasteless, close ups of body parts etc Let me just say I am no professional photographer and by the looks of others on here aren't either?But I do use my phones SELF TIMER, rather than hold it in the mirror? I also prop my phone on a chair so I have the right angle.... the right light and a nice backdrop to click away at my best assets, After all I think my best critic is me......if I don't like what I see how can I possibly think you will.The number one thing hubby and I have said right from the start is TAKE OUR TIME...with everything meet n greets chatting reading profiles etc.So with this topic may I say just take your time check your pics before you post them,and keep it REAL!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
New to this so please excuse my stupidness. What kindling pics should I put up here? Don't fancy facials as this is our private lives. & also how to you get good male pics without showing to much as he has a few tatts ? Any suggest would be supper. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' The ones that make me go WTF are: The ones that give the long list of 'do nots' including the infamous 'do not contact me unless you have a visible face photo in your profile' and yet their profile not only doesn't have any public photos but no galleris either. The ones that give a long list of prerequisites the lucky man/couple must have just to be deemed no blockable and might be honoured by the lady for reading their message The ones that sound as though they are doing you (and the rest of mankind) the biggest favour in the world by allowing you to view their profile and maybe, if you meet their criteria, being privileged enough to send them a message (no guarantee of a response of course) lol Mooka You really hit the nail on the head with this one mooka. These are the sort of women that get the big finger from me. My first thought when reading these profiles is "no man could tolerate you prior to joining RHP, that's why you're here, digging to find some poor sap to be your slave". I don't care how good looking a women is, if they are that full of themselves, I wouldn't give them the time of day. Confidence is always good, but there's that and then there's just being an outright bitch. They get no respect from me whatsoever. As a rule I don't consider any women to be beneath me, but I do make an exception for these particular types. I find them repulsive.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Seeking people for fun and friendship" default left in their tag line. When I ask them would they like a new friend, they tell me to go off and have fun with myself... THAT annoys me :) Shine on you crazy diamonds. Silva xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
99% of the women on here put rubbish in there profile as they have only one thing they want on here. That's a pretty boy with a toned body that loves himself. Even the fat ugly women don't want anything else but that. If you say I'm full of shit and don't know what I'm talking about then your dreaming. Women should put on there profile exactly to the word what they want. It might stop the normal dte guys from wasting there messages on you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Most females profiles as stated by most people here are generic or just a list of turn offs and do nots. Yes with the ratio of guys to girls you arw naturally going to be a little picky but there is a difference between picky and bitchy. Couples just seem to have nothing but pics of the female, you are a couple potential play partners want to see both of you. It is funny how there is only pics of the female but you only ever seem to get to talk to the male. We are up for constructive criticism so if anyone reads our profile and has any points let us know. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women's profiles where it is actually a couple and how they talk about how THEY want to do this and THEY want to do that. No you are not single if you are both participating, so create a couples profile. It makes it look like you have something to hide. Profiles with columns full of ASK ME. Your profile is where you try to promote yourself and people aren't going to take you seriously. Couples profiles who say they are seeking other couples but all they mention is about how they want a female and nothing of a couple. In a sense a profile is like a resume and if it is not right or you don't put the effort in than you're not going to get the job!!! Mr Randy
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Quoting 'LittleVillianess' Feedback and constructive criticism, hmmmmmm I would like sum suggestions of yes, no, may be so, or ideas good or crap. As well please........thank u x Hey LV, so ur asking for constructive criticism....my opinion...others will differ and that's fine really do not care.......again my opinion is so some people may have an issue with you being married & without consent. However Its to your merit that you mention this upfront which will be your favor. There will be plenty of other people on here who are in the same boat - they are your target market - so to speak. You need to be aware of this & expect some quick uninformed negative judgments. Profile specific though you need more pics, yes its totally fine for them to be anonymously revealing, revealing is what quality people want , your main pic is....you just need more..... I have been in the shoes of individuals who are not happy at home......good luck princess. On topic though, LV your profile is pretty good, just needs a little attention, ooooops dearie me that word slipped out again... SDx
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RHP User
10 years ago
..I wasn't having a rant back there. I should have pointed out that certainly not all the ladies of RHP and their profiles are like that. But it has become too much hard work for me to remain interested, generally. I get paid to work hard. My free time is precious and I prefer it to be more relaxing. Like the forums.. : )
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do then and get paid. I do the pictures and I write them. The reason they are often bad is varied. Most do not know how to sell or market themselves. I have done work for drop dead hot ties, nice , guys who had the most dreadful profile, many get it wrong about the market, they think it's just a set site full of rabbit sex maniacs. Couples, often the male writes it and forgets it's not just about the pink bits. Women often write lists of what they do not want, to narrow the field. You leave it to open and the numbers become impossible. My first day back on here I has 75 messages in a couple of hours. So I am very specific and that's my choice. If people don't like it, fine I don't mind at all. I just do not have time to wade through stuff when I just want to bonk a local lad with his own place.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well Not terrible but I find this strange. Looking For; "Man Woman. Couple"but followed up with "No single men" What part of "Man" do we not understand people !! C'mon it's not rocket science. Also whilst I'm up here on my soapbox "No Married or Attached Men" for "Play meets only" really if you truly are just playing the only criteria should be "with a strong pulse". ok I'm done go back to whatever/whoever you were doing
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes you are right, because those hot fuckers have on red hot pie, fuck goggles. Fat old saggy women say, there is a god......yuppie it's like the fuck fountain of youth for women.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Aaron106' Quoting 'mooka' The ones that make me go WTF are: The ones that give the long list of 'do nots' including the infamous 'do not contact me unless you have a visible face photo in your profile' and yet their profile not only doesn't have any public photos but no galleris either. The ones that give a long list of prerequisites the lucky man/couple must have just to be deemed no blockable and might be honoured by the lady for reading their message The ones that sound as though they are doing you (and the rest of mankind) the biggest favour in the world by allowing you to view their profile and maybe, if you meet their criteria, being privileged enough to send them a message (no guarantee of a response of course) lol Mooka You really hit the nail on the head with this one mooka. These are the sort of women that get the big finger from me. My first thought when reading these profiles is "no man could tolerate you prior to joining RHP, that's why you're here, digging to find some poor sap to be your slave". I don't care how good looking a women is, if they are that full of themselves, I wouldn't give them the time of day. Confidence is always good, but there's that and then there's just being an outright bitch. They get no respect from me whatsoever. As a rule I don't consider any women to be beneath me, but I do make an exception for these particular types. I find them repulsive. Wow. Do you really think that the women here in RHP are here because we can not make connections in real life, are sociopaths , bitter, manipulative and losers? Wow, a massive conclusion to make. Maybe you mean something else but am not seeing it. Have you met any of the ladies in any meet and greets? I am really dumbfounded by your thoughts. You really must have had it bad with a lot of women here. I do not dispute that there are lots of people here with lots of issues, both men and women, for you to develop some level of cynicism. But to jump into such a ridiculous conclusion, is in my view, purely conjectural in nature and my street linggo, it is plain bullshit. Tell me you really dont believe that. I have met and spoken with a lot of great guys here (meet and greets, meets, etc)n and some in the forum and they will attest that myself and a whole lot of women here have a lot more to offer than scrape the bottom of the barrel of destitution and desperation for a meet or a fuck. We are like any woman in real life. Those normal women you meet on the streets, in your office, in your circle of family and friends. We are proud, we are smart and we own our sexuality. We are not here to use and be used. Undisputedly, these women exist. Like in real life. We do not come in here gift wrapped in pretty bows as you men are not because we come to you and you to us in our own skin, for each to discover the attraction in our own time and fashion. So please dont lump us in the same mould as the women who has disappointed you because that is more a reflection of who and where you are, rather than the real female population of RHP.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'silvangold' "Seeking people for fun and friendship" default left in their tag line. When I ask them would they like a new friend, they tell me to go off and have fun with myself... THAT annoys me :) Shine on you crazy diamonds. Silva xxx I like your tag line Mr Silvangold.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Aaron, I can understand how you came to that conclusion. I am sure that the rush of power may have gone to some women's head. Ridiculing emails and a guys honest try to connect. If nothing else I always tried to be polite and decent to guys no matter what they wrote to me. Yes sometimes I got angry at the vulgar emails, but I figure at the end of the day they figure they are on a sex site and I am here flashing my bazookas so you can't blame them really.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lovely friendly weapons.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Aaron106' Quoting 'mooka' The ones that make me go WTF are: The ones that give the long list of 'do nots' including the infamous 'do not contact me unless you have a visible face photo in your profile' and yet their profile not only doesn't have any public photos but no galleris either. The ones that give a long list of prerequisites the lucky man/couple must have just to be deemed no blockable and might be honoured by the lady for reading their message The ones that sound as though they are doing you (and the rest of mankind) the biggest favour in the world by allowing you to view their profile and maybe, if you meet their criteria, being privileged enough to send them a message (no guarantee of a response of course) lol Mooka You really hit the nail on the head with this one mooka. These are the sort of women that get the big finger from me. My first thought when reading these profiles is "no man could tolerate you prior to joining RHP, that's why you're here, digging to find some poor sap to be your slave". I don't care how good looking a women is, if they are that full of themselves, I wouldn't give them the time of day. Confidence is always good, but there's that and then there's just being an outright bitch. They get no respect from me whatsoever. As a rule I don't consider any women to be beneath me, but I do make an exception for these particular types. I find them repulsive. Wow. Do you really think that the women here in RHP are here because we can not make connections in real life, are sociopaths , bitter, manipulative and losers? Wow, a massive conclusion to make. Maybe you mean something else but am not seeing it. Have you met any of the ladies in any meet and greets? I am really dumbfounded by your thoughts. You really must have had it bad with a lot of women here. I do not dispute that there are lots of people here with lots of issues, both men and women, for you to develop some level of cynicism. But to jump into such a ridiculous conclusion, is in my view, purely conjectural in nature and my street linggo, it is plain bullshit. Tell me you really dont believe that. I have met and spoken with a lot of great guys here (meet and greets, meets, etc)n and some in the forum and they will attest that myself and a whole lot of women here have a lot more to offer than scrape the bottom of the barrel of destitution and desperation for a meet or a fuck. We are like any woman in real life. Those normal women you meet on the streets, in your office, in your circle of family and friends. We are proud, we are smart and we own our sexuality. We are not here to use and be used. Undisputedly, these women exist. Like in real life. We do not come in here gift wrapped in pretty bows as you men are not because we come to you and you to us in our own skin, for each to discover the attraction in our own time and fashion. So please dont lump us in the same mould as the women who has disappointed you because that is more a reflection of who and where you are, rather than the real female population of RHP. ouch !!DANGER !! Raw nerves ahead ! hp xobecause you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Litonya...you indeed have a very descriptive beautifully intoned profile...also agree with Meander...generic profiles...well ladies you get what you do or as the case maybe don't ask for ...and in detail...give the poor guy some clue at least in what your needs are...
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RHP User
10 years ago
some have the usual lines you get when you first join, if they don't write something of the bat. I don't read them again. make them fun be a little crazy with it. write what you want thats fine but make it interesting.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The pro's pretending to be normal users (search brings up their escort page LOL)The guys pretending to be hot womenThe guys pretending to be a coupleThe foreign scammers pretending to be hot local women or couplesThe guest level couples who flirt regularly but then never reply to messages that they want you to send WTF? But I guess that's not really the content of the profile really is it. As far as the profiles go I'd probably expect more from a sort of low brow everyday style description than an all out wank profile with the huge list of do's an don'ts that's basically telling you how very special they are and yet probably aren't. These days I rarely send any messages at all because its just not even worth it, they will find me if they want and I don't have to lift a finger except to write the odd ranting forum post every now and then. Really though that's just my cleverly disguised meat marketing technique
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been contacted by so many men with profiles that have almost no detail, in it at all, but their messages are almost begging me to chat or even meet them. I don't even buy my cereal without reading the ingredients on the box. Why any man thinks a woman will meet an empty profile, or worse, a penis, without a good message at the very least makes me wonder if that is the reason they are in here to begin with.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"we work hard and we play harder"............gimmy a break.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Aaron106' Quoting 'mooka' The ones that make me go WTF are: The ones that give the long list of 'do nots' including the infamous 'do not contact me unless you have a visible face photo in your profile' and yet their profile not only doesn't have any public photos but no galleris either. The ones that give a long list of prerequisites the lucky man/couple must have just to be deemed no blockable and might be honoured by the lady for reading their message The ones that sound as though they are doing you (and the rest of mankind) the biggest favour in the world by allowing you to view their profile and maybe, if you meet their criteria, being privileged enough to send them a message (no guarantee of a response of course) lol Mooka You really hit the nail on the head with this one mooka. These are the sort of women that get the big finger from me. My first thought when reading these profiles is "no man could tolerate you prior to joining RHP, that's why you're here, digging to find some poor sap to be your slave". I don't care how good looking a women is, if they are that full of themselves, I wouldn't give them the time of day. Confidence is always good, but there's that and then there's just being an outright bitch. They get no respect from me whatsoever. As a rule I don't consider any women to be beneath me, but I do make an exception for these particular types. I find them repulsive. Wow. Do you really think that the women here in RHP are here because we can not make connections in real life, are sociopaths , bitter, manipulative and losers? Wow, a massive conclusion to make. Maybe you mean something else but am not seeing it. Have you met any of the ladies in any meet and greets? I am really dumbfounded by your thoughts. You really must have had it bad with a lot of women here. I do not dispute that there are lots of people here with lots of issues, both men and women, for you to develop some level of cynicism. But to jump into such a ridiculous conclusion, is in my view, purely conjectural in nature and my street linggo, it is plain bullshit. Tell me you really dont believe that. I have met and spoken with a lot of great guys here (meet and greets, meets, etc)n and some in the forum and they will attest that myself and a whole lot of women here have a lot more to offer than scrape the bottom of the barrel of destitution and desperation for a meet or a fuck. We are like any woman in real life. Those normal women you meet on the streets, in your office, in your circle of family and friends. We are proud, we are smart and we own our sexuality. We are not here to use and be used. Undisputedly, these women exist. Like in real life. We do not come in here gift wrapped in pretty bows as you men are not because we come to you and you to us in our own skin, for each to discover the attraction in our own time and fashion. So please dont lump us in the same mould as the women who has disappointed you because that is more a reflection of who and where you are, rather than the real female population of RHP. ouch !!DANGER !! Raw nerves ahead ! hp xobecause you're worth it... another one of your clever retorts? get over it! lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'funfukbuddy' 23 x selfy shots from an angle above.OK, so at least I know you are self infatuated and probably not very imaginative. Yeah butt............ they show you in the best angle! Not as many wrinkles and it hides a lot. Ha ha - I wasn't thinking of you Meeka. I'll always forgive the (occasional) selfy from high angle when there is an almighty motorboat opportunity being displayed.Seriously tho, I've seen profiles where there are shot after almost identical shot of high selfies.
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madotara69
10 years ago
You have not been in these forums as long as a lot of us and you have missed some of the hectic times in the sandpit, there has been women come too this site, find the forums and just sit and troll at men any chance they could. They had bitter profiles and no intentions of meeting men, just hate. It has been a lot quieter over the last year and a lot of regular posters left because of the flame wars. Yes there is many wonderful ladies here, but there has been some shockers too. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'Aaron106' Quoting 'mooka' The ones that make me go WTF are: The ones that give the long list of 'do nots' including the infamous 'do not contact me unless you have a visible face photo in your profile' and yet their profile not only doesn't have any public photos but no galleris either. The ones that give a long list of prerequisites the lucky man/couple must have just to be deemed no blockable and might be honoured by the lady for reading their message The ones that sound as though they are doing you (and the rest of mankind) the biggest favour in the world by allowing you to view their profile and maybe, if you meet their criteria, being privileged enough to send them a message (no guarantee of a response of course) lol Mooka You really hit the nail on the head with this one mooka. These are the sort of women that get the big finger from me. My first thought when reading these profiles is "no man could tolerate you prior to joining RHP, that's why you're here, digging to find some poor sap to be your slave". I don't care how good looking a women is, if they are that full of themselves, I wouldn't give them the time of day. Confidence is always good, but there's that and then there's just being an outright bitch. They get no respect from me whatsoever. As a rule I don't consider any women to be beneath me, but I do make an exception for these particular types. I find them repulsive. Wow. Do you really think that the women here in RHP are here because we can not make connections in real life, are sociopaths , bitter, manipulative and losers? Wow, a massive conclusion to make. Maybe you mean something else but am not seeing it. Have you met any of the ladies in any meet and greets? I am really dumbfounded by your thoughts. You really must have had it bad with a lot of women here. I do not dispute that there are lots of people here with lots of issues, both men and women, for you to develop some level of cynicism. But to jump into such a ridiculous conclusion, is in my view, purely conjectural in nature and my street linggo, it is plain bullshit. Tell me you really dont believe that. I have met and spoken with a lot of great guys here (meet and greets, meets, etc)n and some in the forum and they will attest that myself and a whole lot of women here have a lot more to offer than scrape the bottom of the barrel of destitution and desperation for a meet or a fuck. We are like any woman in real life. Those normal women you meet on the streets, in your office, in your circle of family and friends. We are proud, we are smart and we own our sexuality. We are not here to use and be used. Undisputedly, these women exist. Like in real life. We do not come in here gift wrapped in pretty bows as you men are not because we come to you and you to us in our own skin, for each to discover the attraction in our own time and fashion. So please dont lump us in the same mould as the women who has disappointed you because that is more a reflection of who and where you are, rather than the real female population of RHP. Yes I do mean something else entirely, It seems you've cherry picked one sentence of my post and run with it. I was not having a go at the RHP community in general at all, only a minority of women on here. Put simply, over inflated ego's are a big turn off, that applies in the outside world as well. I hope that clears things up a bit.
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yankmychain56
10 years ago
Seeing and up close gynecological exam of a woman's fallopian tubes is a bit much.... @ pete, where do you get the idea I was 'faking' a couple? doesn't say couple in my profile anywhere. Just because my gf is in there doesn't mean we are pushing the issue as a couple. don't read in to things.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Your profile is pretty bare and you have no photos at all. That men even contact you at all is a surprise to me. If you were male with a profile like that, you wouldn't even get a second glance. It's nothing personal against you, obviously, but it says a lot about the men on here, in my opinion.
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rudenude
10 years ago
he is slim fit tradie type .........give me a break
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RHP User
10 years ago
Aaron106. Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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thedevilsfantasy
10 years ago
What anyone thinks of my profile or the types of pics I choose to put up.. after all it is MY profile.. at least it's has pics and not generic.. as far as a list of what I like and don't like, at least I'm honest.. It certainly doesn't make any difference at all as to who contacts me, it seems fairly obvious that a lot of guys don't bother to read the 'do not likes' as they still message me anyway.. And most importantly it obviously works because I'm getting laid by the 'young, hot, toned guys' of my choosing.. People spend fair too much time being critical.. Don't like my profile? move onto someone else.. It's that simple and it's none of anyone else's business.. I thought your profile only had to be approved by RHP not the forum trolls.. gee hope I didn't offend anyone?? This is a still sex site isn't it?? lol 😈
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RHP User
10 years ago
(My free time is precious and I prefer it to be more relaxing. Like the forums.) Believe me that's for me the same. Sex should be enjoyed with a person and not a performance in how good I am. This is one of the things I am getting annoyed by, maybe because I am older, but hey I want sex just normal enjoyable sex with a kindred spirit to feel warm and fuzzy part with a good feeling. Believe me its hard to find. L
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well ,where do I start lol.Generic profiles. For God`s sake show a bit of imaginationPhoto`s. I agree with OP`s when they mention that lack of guy`s pics in couples profiles, after all if I`m going to meet a couple I`d like to see what they both look like.Lists. If you`re going to list everything you don't want , then don't bother joining .And last but not least!!! Is this obsession with big cocks, hell every one knows that not all of us guys are hung like a horse ,but it doesn't mean that we don't know how to use what we`ve got.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We prefer detailed profiles. How else can you tell if it is worth the time to contact people if there are no details? We don't mind lists of do/don't as this makes it quick and easy to see if we are a match. If people are looking for something specific then it is better to state it upfront.Pictures need to be available, not necessarily in public gallery.It would be nice if people would pay more attention to the "seeking" settings. If you are only interested in women then only have women in the "seeking" section etc.The repetition of "no single guys", use of caps etc is a sign of frustration that the message is not getting across as many single men don't look at the written part of the profile, just the pictures and then message/flirt. See comment on seeking section also.Interestingly, we reworked our profile to be closer to the generic template builder after complaints that it was too long! The age of instant gratification has much to answer for...
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RHP User
10 years ago
ask meask meask meask meask meask me
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wantI wantI wantI wantI wantI want,
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think that's a bit harsh. Obviously we are all looking for different things here and if you respect the "do not contact me ifs" on profiles then sometimes there would be no one left to contact. I don't mind sending a message to a blank or generic profile to try to find out what they are looking for. It is often more productive than sending a message to a profile that that does seem compatible and not receiving any response at all, which I find very common. I also have no problem with the profiles with the long lists of don't wants. At least it is easy to decide whether you would be just wasting your time by messaging them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can tell I'm new here lol. I intended to quote this
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm currently guilty of this My profile is super ambiguous
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JODA14
10 years ago
We hate it when you message someone, they read your message and they don't ever reply. It is not to say thanks or sorry you aren't what we are looking for. Then they send you a friend request as if you are long lost buddies.
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RHP User
10 years ago
..Yeah, I agree with you. When all the formalities of this internet communication and courting required morework and thick skin than what I'm achieving here…then a reassessment of why I'm here was needed! ; )It sounds funny to me to express it like that, but isn't that sound RHP economics for men?Probably not for all, I imagine.The returns weren't balancing the effort being put in within the initial timeframe( 3-4months ) so a "pull back" was needed to satisfy my( ego maybe? ) sense of worth.Nobody likes working for free for too long. I do enough of that at work.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' One thing I notice much more on women's and couples' profiles are those long negative lists of "Don't wants". You know, like small cocks, dirty smokers, disgusting cheaters, cheapskate guests, etc. I've never once seen anyone write that they like small cocks Meander. I think you made that one up. ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
On a slight tangent, I understand it's obviously a marketing/ numbers thing for RHP to leave dead accounts on here, but they shit me! Also, I know we can Report Profiles, but has anyone here ever done that? And if so for what reason? Maybe we should have a little working bee in here one day and weed out all the dodgy profiles. No flaming please! I actually know of a couple either from people who I've had to weed out (man as couple) and there's a couple on here set up by someone who used to stalk me. I don't know if I should even say that in case they see this but fuck them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Each to their own I say. Its a shag site! hahahaha Just a thought and someone may have already mentioned it but people put what the want in their profile so they can attracted the type of person they are after. Some maybe long winded and negative but if someone who doesnt fit that description wastes that persons time contacting them then they obviously not reading the profile. Which may explain why people choose to put the same request 3 times in capitals..... with exclamation marks..... Really bad pselling everhow stnads out sa a shace the head thing. I mean it has spell check automatically lol. Pebbsnbam :D
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Your profile is an opportunity to attract your target audience, I don't mind the listing of wants and needs but DONT SHOUT AT ME WHEN YOU LIST THEM. I find profiles that say ' we take care of ourselves, are fit etc....' quite the turn off. I also find in some profiles where if you are 'lucky to get a flirt/message from a fit couple who look after themselves, you are expected to show manners and courtesy to reply to that flirt/message'. Unfortunately they're too busy taking care of themselves to practice basic manners and return your message. Just sayin Mary xxoo
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RHP User
10 years ago
But thanks to this forum I just looked at Meander's profile. Wow! To me this encapsulates an awesomely descriptive profile accompanied by sexy tasteful shots of a gorgeous woman..... G - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Been a while... Haven't been on for a few days and just saw this... Couples profiles generally only have a pic of the woman (not that it concerns me. No what I'm looking for), but I imagine other couples or singles may want to know or see a little more of the male. As for single ladies... I notice a tendency for some of them to have a dozen or more pics that are just clothed pics (with the occasional breast or 1/2 a bum) that are all much the same. Why a dozen pics that show no features of any interest (we males are 'visual' in many ways)... I understand there are people who can't or don't want to show their faces and I completely respect that. Just, if the 10 or 12 (or more) photos are of must the same thing, just a different angle or aspect... Why bother? Just a personal observation... I personally would much prefer 3 pics that show the body in full length or 3 or 4 which 'put together' show the whole body (not nude... That's not necessary), but an idea of the shape, size and configuration would be helpful.As regards 'shots of genitalia'. I don't need to see that sort of thing and, for me, it's nicer to be surprised...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PlaywithAbby' Quoting 'Meander' One thing I notice much more on women's and couples' profiles are those long negative lists of "Don't wants". You know, like small cocks, dirty smokers, disgusting cheaters, cheapskate guests, etc. I've never once seen anyone write that they like small cocks Meander. I think you made that one up. ;) Let me rephrase: You know, for example: small cocks, dirty smokers, etc.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' Your profile is an opportunity to attract your target audience, I don't mind the listing of wants and needs but DONT SHOUT AT ME WHEN YOU LIST THEM. NO SINGLE MEN! YOU WILL BE BLOCKED! Any couple with that in their profile is an instant no. I don't need that kind of negativity in my life.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I fricken hate it when I go to the cupboard to fetch my poor dog a bone.....and it's Fucken bare I tell ya!!!! Which means..... No fricken popcorn FFS!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've noticed that people 'resort' to SHOUTING... when they have something like 'Please don't whatever' and people just continually ignore it and keep messaging, even though they are a 'whatever'... It's still a bit annoying to see all the SHOUTING, but I also understand the frustration of having people message when they have clearly ignored a specific request in the profile...
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