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That one person who won't take no!
November 13 2013
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Lifes_great
11 years ago
SBut seriously she just needs to work it out herself that you're 'just not that into her'. Perhaps give the relationship some distance and allow her to move past you. I'm not sure how practical it is but maybe mingle in different circles for a while. Good luck
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RHP User
11 years ago
That is bullshit the whole "no" thing..Grates at my nerves and I'm sure it will with some women on here too.Why are you not taking responsibility for you??Man up and STOP playing the boyfriend role and be the FRIEND!When I say friend, sit down and be direct to her, what you expect and put firm boundaries in place.When I say sit down, I mean face to face and be respectful.If you really do care, give her some space as well.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
If she went out and got a haircut and went and brought new clothes.She can..who are you and your friends to say she can't...Women shop to feel better especially after what you said...errrr wrong choice of words.And Why are you discussing her with mutual friends...how rude and disrespectful towards her?Where is her privacy in this matter?Think I have said my peace now... :)FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Obi has said he is just friends with her.... I got the impression that they are not sleeping together. He sees her as a sister... Just a friend. It is her that is over stepping the boundaries. If she is altering her appearance than telling people she is doing it to be OBi's type. Sorry but she is the one with the problem. Obi, all you can do is tell her again, and never be alone with her and avoid seeing her as much as possible. Harsh but ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
How is OBI acting towards this woman for her to act this way??You know women Meeka, women just don't act like that unless some sort of signals are given by the man. Yes it's true, but we don't know if they have or have not has sex yet..OP has not mentioned prior history there?Still tho....she's getting mixed signals.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have you actually said NO..those words to her??NO MEANS NO.She should know that...FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come on, you have to agree that sometimes women see and hear what they want to see and hear. What a man says and his actions for lots of women are not the same which is where the confusion lies but without further info from Obi, we can't say. I always take what a guys says over his actions. Always. If he says no he means no or if he says this is only casual for him you will never be the girlfriend .. Even if he wants to fuck you every day, wants you exclusively and wants to meet your family. What can I say... Men are plain weird. Lol.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
So..... I guess you're not such a bad boy after all. lol ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry Foxxy I have to agree with Meeka here....we shouldn't go jumping on the guy and assuming he's been giving her mixed signals or playing a boyfriend role when we don't know the full story. And I certainly can't agree that women only become interested if there have been some signals... I've seen plenty of situations where that hasn't been the case, from both sexes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY' Have you actually said NO..those words to her??NO MEANS NO.She should know that...FOXY That's a big NO i would have thoughtMr S
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh come on ... it is doomed for sure if you maintain course (based on how you've portrayed it) Man Up and give her what she wants (you're only stated reason for not wanting to is to maintain the status quo not a lack of attraction) ... it may lead to something better or it may not. Either way you can't reverse her feelings and just say things have to stay as they are ... they have moved on and are not going back any time soon.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The OP said she's a "very close friend"...Humm *sits and waits for OP to post* FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
tricky situation Obb...I get that you want to remain friends ,as you are part of a group but as has been said ,perhaps you need to find another group...if you HAVE made it clear to her that she will never be anywhere but in the friend zone and she still refuses to take no for an answer,then absent yourself from her presence....sometimes unless you are very clear with no room for doubt the other person will continue to delude themselves that there is hope...''Oh not your type,right I will have a makeover...now I am your type...see''''But we get on so well,we are perfectfor each other...Jane,Sarah and Emma all say so''..yadda,yadda etcAnd to answer your question,...has this happened to me?...only once and he did not take rejection well.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
FYI.... online pick-up preachers often use this line as a "false barrier" to use on women they're seeking to gain. It utilizes a simple psychological altruism that states the things you can't have, you want more. Not saying its necessarily applicable here.... But clearly unless this woman has seriously low self esteem, id suggest the op has left the opportunity door ajar in his behaviour towards her DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
dealt with it by ignoring me completely - literally - for three years, until I let it go. It doesn't make me a bad person, I loved him with every fibre of my soul and when he cut me off without explanation I fell to bits. I would have given just about anything to have another chance with him and it took me a long time to pick my pieces up. It doesn't make him a bad person, he either gave me what he believed I deserved or he did what he needed to do for him, or both. Sometimes people are just in different heart-spaces on the same subject. I say be honest, be direct, be clear, and then stop engaging. The silence from my ex was devastating but in the end it worked. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Originalbadboy
11 years ago
Hey guys,Great to hear some feed back, not quite the answers to the questions I posed but I am grateful for the comments.I have categorically stated to her she will never move past "sister" status. All of my friends have reinforced my position as it beginning to impact the other friends in the group. I am very clear about my actions, words and signals which those on here who now me will vehemently agree with me. I do not want to have this poor girl to break down if I drop and walk away. As I have said she is like my sister and I care for her as such but no further. I have been likened to sledge hammer with regards to the truth and have laid it out clearly and succinctly to her.Despite my name I am not a person who would purposely injure or harm a person without justification, and this is not that.I have thought of walking away but believe that it is better for all if it can be worked out.Also I do understand the "neg" or false off limits statement to gain/take advantage on/over a person but again I digress I am not nor have I ever given false hope, false feelings or indistinct indications/signals.But hey enough about me what about you guys and girls out there?Obbi
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have not mentioned if you slept with her or not...FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's what I was thinking! Come on Obi you can't tell half the story.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a funny feeling in my gut.The saga continues.FOXY
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Originalbadboy
11 years ago
Further clarification. I have not had any physical, mental, emotional, verbal, electronic, visual or any other form of sex with her. Ever. EVER. Her dad died when she turned 15, and I have known her since she was 12. She is currently 25. I have not been with her mother either! She has only an older sister who was 18 as was I when I dated her for a few months, the older sister currently lives in new york. Days of my life...Obbi
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RHP User
11 years ago
I believe, that we can pick this all apart like crows on a corpse. But at the end of the day I feel you already know what you need to do. Sometimes being cruel, is to be kind, and while that may not make you feel any better about it, only you know the answers to this one. Moving on to your question though, yes I have been there, and I ended up needing to be quite the insensitive prick to her. She even had her house mate call me to deliver the much needed abuse. But, over time, things just sorted itself out and we catch up now and then, but she knows where she stands. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
After knowing each other for so long...a friendship would be ruined.Fingers crossed it does not.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
If this woman is special to you and the relationship has significant meaning to you, you need to man up and speak with her.Take the lead and make time to understand what she is going through, find out why and fix it.Give her the support she needs and be a friend.Hope it works out for the best.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
does he have to fix anything Foxxy?...I read what he said and he has stated his case to her...as Sir Lurk said,like a seagull on a chip you can peck at this all day.Also he was actually not asking for ADVICE,he was asking if anyone else had experienced a similar situation.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I personally find this constant telling men to ''man up'' to be insulting....and not too disimilar to the issues that women articulated on the womens secret thread...just another example of double standards here
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RHP User
11 years ago
In the end it's a choice. We don't always get to have things both ways, right? Maybe you can't resolve this problem AND retain the friendship. Maybe you have to choose. If you don't want to make that definitive decision, then you could perhaps try putting the the problem to her and ask her to tell you what to do. For example, "This situation is affecting our friendship and making things uncomfortable for our other friends. I don't know what to do. It seems like my only options are to put up with it or end our friendship. What would you do if you were in my shoes?". Freya, I think wanting opinions and ideas was at the very least implied in the OPs post. If he's struggling with a situation and interested in the experiences other people have, then it seems to me he wants to get ideas from others. I think it's OK if people offer advice (JMO) - the OP will find his own way regardless of what others say. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hear what the OP was stating.After reading his last post..I was looking more at the long -term friendship there is between the OP and the woman.It would be a shame if after so long that a friendship would be ruined?Why all of a sudden has her feelings changed towards the OP?That is where I am coming from.Something has happened (what we don't know about) and changed the dynamics of the relationship.There is history we don't know about.Yes this has happened to me - I had to talk and communicate with this person through it.No way did I not want anything to do with that person or ignore them because their feelings changed towards me.That person was special to me, the relationship had meaning.Just because their feelings changed did not mean our relationship should change.It just meant working through it.Sometimes long-term friendships can turn crappy. FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Rough situation. I have never been in a situation like that before, but I know myself ... I would eventually start getting angry with the person. I would avoid seeing them as much as possible, and I would never be alone with them. Until they "get it" there isn't much you can really do except reiterate that their feelings are not returned. :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
I really feel for you and have experienced the same, makes it awkward for the whole group. I had to walk away and move in different circles for a while, just popping my head in occasionally. It took about 12 months for him to get over it. He actually came back sniffing as soon as he heard my ex & I broke up 15 years after this happened originally and I've had to distance myself from him again. It's tough as we've been really good mates for over 25 years. Unrequited love hey, just as hard on us as it is on them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY'If this woman is special to you and the relationship has significant meaning to you, you need to man up and speak with her.Take the lead and make time to understand what she is going through, find out why and fix it.Give her the support she needs and be a friend. But have to disagree on all counts. Obbi, this has happened to me, though on a smaller scale. A work colleague whom I was good friends with developed feelings for me. He had a very tough time speaking to women due to a rotten childhood, and I helped him with his problems. He started projecting his feelings onto me, as I was really the first person who'd cared about him in an intimate way. I made the time to understand what he was going through, as I'm sure you have done, seeing you've known this woman for this many years. It took me a while to learn this man was not my responsibility and I should not be used as his crutch. Giving support and being a friend to him gave the opposite result, as he believed I must have feelings for him too. It nearly ended our friendship, but things cooled down a bit when I got into a relationship. However, then the question "why wasn't it me?" popped up. It took several years for our friendship to recover. And at times I'm still wary. He has a girlfriend now, and so desperately wants me to like her it's uncomfortable. Meanwhile she's told me she's terrified of me as he's built me up so much. Sometimes I wish I had broken off contact completely for a while, instead of letting this stuff go on. It's been quite exhausting. Obbi, I feel that this young woman will see any attention you give her as a sign her feelings are being reciprocated, whether the attention is good or bad. So my advise would be to be cruel to be kind and to be true to yourself. She'll live.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Get it together, RHP.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I always thought my maths was pretty good or not to bad..FOXY
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Originalbadboy
11 years ago
Wow, soooooo angry. Last night at a birthday party for a friend, meet up with a woman who just got back from moscow I have liked for a while. We have had sparks for a while and we were both in the mood for adult entertaining, so we retired to the dungeon {yes my friend has a dungeon ;-} completely set up too}. Well about an hour in of her dominating, we both hear someone come in and as i'm blindfolded, restrained and due to a "punishment" my ears are ringing, i can't see or hear correctly . {You should be able to see where this is headed} Well lets just say my now ex friend said and I quote "OMG what have you done to him, how could you? You are an evil person!" Well my Dom decided that she wasn't going to listen and told her to leave, which turned into a fight, in which the dom won. But due to being in the position i was in i could not see, help or say anything. Up stairs the door had been left open and a few people heard the commotion and came down to see the ruckus. Well what a sight, a guy restrained, blindfolded, gagged on a sunrise cross, 2 women fighting, one in boots and corset the other in a mini skirt and ripped top. Needless to say this has fixed the problem for our group, as she has been told that she is no longer welcome by the group. The group are aware of what my tastes are and openly enjoy some stories, exploits or theme nights that my tastes gives them. I was so angry that once I was released I walked up to her in all of the nothing I was wearing and stated that what she had done has destroyed our friendship and that I will not be friends now or in the future due to this event. My friends then removed her from the party and asked the dom if she could punish me for them as they want to use this story for my next partner or any other time that want to have a laugh at my expense. Well she obliged them, once a few of my friends helped her restrain me again as I fought all the way...Woke this morning to sore muscles, a few light burns, whip marks, scratches, bruises, sore ears, jaw, balls and knees.Also 57 txts from ex friend.Karmas going to be a bitch from this one....
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Originalbadboy
11 years ago
Just went to breaky with the group, I am going to be the subject of disscussions for at least the next month! They have promised to tell every girl who looks sideways at me from now on about last night. Karma has started...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Very well said Mes. Sound advice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I would eventually start getting angry with the person. I would avoid seeing them as much as possible, and I would never be alone with them. That's what happened. I really got annoyed with his behaviour. He also tried turning into my type. Me ex was in great shape, so the other guy started going to the gym. Luckily this ended up improving his self-esteem, which in turn made him more comfortable talking to other women. His girlfriend is smart and lovely, and I suspect she is aware of our history. I hope he knows she is the best thing she's ever happened to him. I certainly told him so two nights ago when out with a group of friends.
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madotara69
11 years ago
But I think it is a well written add, best of luck.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
You mean Obbi, me or both? No one here will ever find out who my friend is, so my conscience is clear. Obbi, I feel for you!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm so sorry it had to come to that. I really am, for both her, you and your friends. And not wanting to be flippant considering the sad circumstances, but, it sounds like the rest of your night was pretty awesome though!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do wish that profile pic was you. But that's just me.
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madotara69
11 years ago
By such a close friend and all, chances are if that friend is so close, knowing the other friend is on a site like this may be known. This is writing on the wall.On that note, I would never write to the forums about a friend, unless I knew they would be fine with it.Though I sense a bit of creative writing here and I am fine with that.I had not even read your post Mesmerised, they are jumping all over the place.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69'I had not even read your post Mesmerised, they are jumping all over the place.I know.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My maths did add up!Thank you.OBBI - did you just wake up from a dream????FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's weird how she was part of your friends group and then acted like she did when she saw you in that position, perhaps you could've mentioned prior to that moment why she wasn't your type, because clearly she wasn't comfortable seeing you like that...
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RHP User
11 years ago
fake pic and an excerpt from Fifty Shades of Light Grey
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is there any thing yo wish to say???*somehow I don't think people are going to believe you??*FOXYPS-I still support the woman Op mentioned, she's probably been mislead the poor dear!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I must say the shoot-out at the dungeon was a little out there. Convenient too. Would love to hear your response.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's like watching CSI.... Has anyone swabbed his semen stains for DNA yet? 😈
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RHP User
11 years ago
Marple when ya need her
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RHP User
11 years ago
A HEAP OF SHIT
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have Foxxy, Mesmerised and Miss Freya, they are faster than a multi orgasmic squirter, more powerful than a turbo charged rabbit vibrator, they are able to leap tall cocks in a single bound, see through profile pictures, sniff out all the lies and misdirections. Da da-ta ta!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Good morning Charlie. :P
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Originalbadboy
11 years ago
For those who doubt my profile or doubt what happened that is your prerogative, that is your choice as you do not know me aside from the forums. As for my friend reading this, it might give her a perspective other than her own. I will accept karma on this how ever it may go. I am a very open person and say what I think and feel,always with disregard to the repercussions. As for misleading my friend/s, that is not something I do.Obbi
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you're gonna give me access to your private gallery, at least make sure those pics are of you, not some Los Angeles volleyball player. PMSL.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Really like the website that rock climbing pic is from, thanks!
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you are going to send out generic emails explaining yourself I am not interested.Oh the Pic of you as a Pilot in the Plane/helicopter...It appears there is a similar pic on here and they live in QLD just up the road from me.Silly Silly BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD MAN!!*I"m a going to blindfolded, gagg and restrain you on a sunrise cross and drip-feed you for a couple of days* FOXYFoxyCharlie one to MesCharlie two - Job well done!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
To write a forum up hoping your "friend" will read this and get the hint.That's effin low....it is not KARMA!!It's a very disrespectful thing to do, morally and very unethical.Cowards do that!!To the woman reading this...This man is not your friend - FRIENDS do not do this!And then to justify yourself cause you got caught out - Poor form!I am glad my maths does add up.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just don't like being fucked with. Even in your message you weren't honest. I gave you some very honest and personal answers on here, and now I just believe anything about your story. I feel taken for a ride, and not in a fun kinda way. Good luck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think people reading this Forum can judge for themselves.No Justification needed nor do you have to explain yourself any further.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
now I just don't * believe I'm done.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dude....you've even got guys who are obviously of two different ethnicities in your public pics. Surprised nobody caught you out on it before this.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well this was an entertaining read!! You ladies are on the ball today! Well done! Least he's not using his "brothers" pic ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Please Mods leave it open so others can read it.I believe people should read this that way they know - FAKES are around!If one person gets education from this, I would be happy!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
who generated great some great advice...some interesting fiction,and self righteous outrage....what is not to love
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RHP User
11 years ago
Perhaps he has done what some others have done, and used "inspirational" photos or ones that are such a likeness to the real him, they may as well be his pics.....Just a tip though OP, consistency is key!
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RHP User
11 years ago
One observation from mostly staying in the shadows is unless you are honest in all aspects here, either with posts or profiles you will get nailed! Interesting to have followed this thread at first I thought "yeah typical foxxy hammering the guy" now realise that wasn't the case although could well have been. I'm glad I refrained from now as I was going to share my experience in a similar situation but as I have no where near the outrageous ending I feel it may be a little normal, perhaps vanilla?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love you too.mwahhhFOXY xxLucky that was not the case hey...Pass me the left handed hammer please ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Would love to hear your experience.:)FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love a good "hammering" and have been held down and put in my place quite a few times.... FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Foxxy, Mes, Freya and Meeka isn't that more like fabulous four? Anyway feel free to look at my pics and critique. Sorry OBB didn't mean to hijack your thread although I think it may have run its course.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who sprayed coffee all over my lappy and monitor? Can't have been me, I was laughing too hard.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Team these two up, that would be entertaining haha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some of you are such hypocrites. Have we not forgotten the potato experiment?? Have we not seen Miss Freya's Zebra and Gerbera?? Yet so many have just wanted to tear this profile owner a new one over his pics?? I don't care if someone has fake pics, that's their shit, and I don't make it mine, but I would suggest that the only reason you all wanted to jump on this guy so badly is because now you're disappointed that the good looking guy now potentially isn't that good looking, diminishing the chances of you all bedding yet another trophy piece. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh no! I just sent him a flirt saying I loved his profile ........
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
And to think...... I went 'easy' on the fella.I can feel the death of one profile and the phoenix like arising of a new one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh I love bonking trophies... Although they are usually a bit stiff and don't have much to say which is boring. But they look good on my shelf. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
With your story... The woman came in and said "you evil woman how could you?" And now you all shun her and have ostracised her? That's a bit ridiculously harsh isn't it? by the way I am intrigued. What sort of punishment makes your ears ring? Did she put a rubbish bin on your head and bang it? Do tell!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am confused.., did Freya say she was a zebra? Did she say she was a gerbra looking for a rose to prick? To me it isn't the same thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The vitriolic responses to the apparent "fake pics". Which I'm sure you see the underlying issue in that there are some here that have flamed the guy for his pics not being HIM. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'Some of you are such hypocrites. Have we not forgotten the potato experiment?? Have we not seen Miss Freya's Zebra and Gerbera?? Yet so many have just wanted to tear this profile owner a new one over his pics?? I don't care if someone has fake pics, that's their shit, and I don't make it mine, but I would suggest that the only reason you all wanted to jump on this guy so badly is because now you're disappointed that the good looking guy now potentially isn't that good looking, diminishing the chances of you all bedding yet another trophy piece. - Posted from rhpmobile Are you for real? This is about a man pretending to be a bunch of other men, then lying about it, saying he just likes to changes his looks a lot when confronted. Just like that woman a few days ago who said the naked model was really her and got caught in a lie. If you're gonna use pics of other people don't pretend you're them. Really, your whole post is just ignorant and insulting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Things would be a lot more pleasant around here if you just let some things slide sometimes. The pack mentality and the pattern of belittling others for sport is distasteful. Now you can hold me out as an example if you wish - you can call me a fake or whatever other label floats your boat and justifies your self-righteousness - but that doesn't make your behaviour OK. Watching forum threads like this is like watching bullies in a schoolyard. For whatever reason the OP has chosen to play the game the way he has, in the end he's doing zero harm to anyone. Literally zero harm. From all accounts he's offended your moral sensibilities. Outraged them even. So you launch an attack as though there's only one set of morals to rule the world - yours (news flash, there's not). As if attacking him in return like some gleeful sport is somehow better than his original transgression (news flash, it's not). Lately it's seemed like a bunch of you are sitting around waiting for the next poor fool you can jump on and tear down. That's your behaviour, that's on you. Regardless of what someone else does, when you don't like it and get all Kermit-arms about it and jump on it like pack animals - that's all about you. Nothing anyone else does justifies it. There are other, more human, more decent pathways. Don't respond to the thread - silence and non-engagement will take the wind out of someone's sails pretty quickly. Report the thread. Report the profile. Move on and choose not to behave like a bunch of screaming banshees. For the record, other forum readers are smart enough to work out when someone's bull shitting. They can follow the thread just like you do. They actually don't need you to paint it in bright, excited colours for them. And the OP won't get a clearer message from public shaming than he would from just being ignored. So why the drama? Why the feeding frenzy? Why the apparent lust for attention? These are rhetorical questions, of course. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
People use pics that are not them all the time for whatever the reason. Other details get abused as well like ages, location and we find that acceptable as they're "hiding from a stalker" or the like. So really, who cares it's not him in the pics?? That's his shit, and he or she or whoever the OP truly is, will be faced with the inevitability of such actions. Ignorant my post maybe, but ignorance is believing that the pics on people's profiles are in fact them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
So..... How's this weather we are having? Can't believe I am in ugg boots and trackies in the middle of November!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sun_Kissed'Now you can hold me out as an example if you wish - you can call me a fake or whatever other label floats your boat and justifies your self-righteousness - but that doesn't make your behaviour OK. Watching forum threads like this is like watching bullies in a schoolyard. I told you I was disappointed when I discovered some pics in your gallery weren't you. However, you never claimed they were. And there lies the difference. I don't like being lied to or manipulated like the two people I mentioned in my previous post tried to do. I will out liars and cheats so others don't get fucked with. I doubt that makes me a bully or attention-seeker. I make no apologies for anything I've said on this (or any other) thread.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sun_Kissed' you don't like it and get all Kermit-arms about it That's just gold.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not cool to pass off someone else's pics on your profile that can be percieved as your own no matter how "similar" the person THINKS they are to themselves . Even worse is to state that they are! A "Liar liar pants on fire" is warranted as a lot of people viewing said profile may be unawares and start interactions with the person on a perception that it is really them! ( False advertising and all that).It's already hard enough for most people out there having to look at profile pics and gauge how recent they are let alone if it's really even them!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not about his fake (or not, or who cares) pics. It's about the tipping point that so often occurs on threads like these when a group of people start thriving on the ridicule of another. Happens all the time and it's ugly. If you're content to call out ugly behaviour by others then don't be surprised when it happens in return. It amuses me, in that 'wry smile in the corner of my mouth' kind of way, how you and others act above reproach. Someone does something that doesn't meet your standards and suddenly everyone gets their petty bitch on, with glee. But that's OK, because he deserved it, right?! I've been watching this for goodness knows how long and it's as distasteful now as it ever has been. It's one thing to call something out, but another thing all together to treat it like sport or to get hat seems like such a kick out of it. Of course I'm referring now to posts here but also on other threads. I guess, like you say you're going to call out cheats and liars, I'm going to call out egotists and bitchy pettiness when the mood strikes me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
well,it's not easy being green
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BradSydney
11 years ago
and that's the phrase kermit arms which I will now use until the day I die
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe not, but disguising yourself as Miss Piggy and swearing you're pink is still not acceptable.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'sirlurkalot'Some of you are such hypocrites. Have we not forgotten the potato experiment?? Have we not seen Miss Freya's Zebra and Gerbera?? Yet so many have just wanted to tear this profile owner a new one over his pics?? I don't care if someone has fake pics, that's their shit, and I don't make it mine, but I would suggest that the only reason you all wanted to jump on this guy so badly is because now you're disappointed that the good looking guy now potentially isn't that good looking, diminishing the chances of you all bedding yet another trophy piece. - Posted from rhpmobile Are you for real? This is about a man pretending to be a bunch of other men, then lying about it, saying he just likes to changes his looks a lot when confronted. Just like that woman a few days ago who said the naked model was really her and got caught in a lie. If you're gonna use pics of other people don't pretend you're them. Really, your whole post is just ignorant and insulting. Agree. I certainly had no interest in bedding the OP for a 'trophy'...WTF does that even mean? That chip on your shoulder is just getting bigger and bigger SL, I'm actually not even sure why you're on RHP because it's clear that your personal experiences have resulted in some extremely negative and problematic attitudes towards all women (and we get accused of man-bashing, ha). If I were you I would take the advice from another thread and seriously consider some professional counselling to try and start sorting out your shit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that using someone else's photograph a breach of copyright? As a photographer , I'd be more than pissed if someone used my images without my permission. I don't give a fuck how closely you resemble the person, that's irrelevant. And frankly, it's illegal.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It kind of defeats the whole "Sydney University and other institutions" warning, doesn't it? I wonder if that American volleyball player would be impressed knowing he's on here looking for women.
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ruby_blossum
11 years ago
I do beg to differ with your comments there Sun_kissed.Its not just about the silly posts the fakies keep coming up with....its to do with the people they are harming in the process.The women and men they chat with, real people with genuine feelings and expectations to meet the person theyhave put themself out there to be.The emotions they are playing with ...and please dont forget the time wasted because of these self indulgent wankers!
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's it, you are SirStiralot to me from now on. I only just realised I was told I behave like a screaming banshee. I'm really more of a growler, I only got told that this morning.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does the OP state explicitly that the pics are of him?? Nowhere that I've seen. Miss Luck, at the start of this thread there was nothing but support for the guy..... UNTIL Someone made the claim of fake pics. Hell breaks loose with vitriolic crap burning this guy at the stake.... What other motivation is there - given we have a chatter with a Picasso painting as a profile pic, miss Freya had her zebra etc - to dish out the torches and pitch forks type mentality other than a level of attraction??? Otherwise why does it matter?? I quite frankly couldn't care less if a profile has fake pics unless I was interested in them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Pillows and lingerie girls, pillows and lingerie! Hammer this fight out in the bedroom, not a forum. Just as long as you let us watch.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Such crazy weather... Mind you, perfect for staying in bed all day... Albeit, alone. I had the laziest day and just got out of bed at 6:30pm for a shower... Best shower of my life though! :-)
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
In my primary pic...... I am the one on the left.
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