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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Another round....... Lets play blast the fatty. l There are way more reasons for someone being overweight than sheer glutony and laziness. I dont like to differentiate due to weight at all and some of the nicest men I know are more a keg than a six pack. Yes it is much more visually appealing when the guy has seen his penis in somewhere other than a mirror in the past decade and I supose in a way you are right. The women on here have way too much choice and many of them now expect to punch above thier weight...(pun definately intended) However, if I take a wander around the shopping centres (which I do with great regularity) I often notice very very large women with well built attractive men. THis shows me that this is not an on line phenomena but now part of life.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Yes, keeping yourself nice and not letting yourself go is appealing to the opposite gender, everyone feels this way Yes, this is a meat market and most people are firstly attracted by the outward shell Yes, women have their pick of the litter around here. There are many "unfair" and "double standards" in life and some effect men and some effect woman negatively..............such is life. Yes, when it's just a fuck.....women are just as shallow as men. Of course you're not going to get anywhere if you're a twunt, got to be a decent human being no matter how "pretty" you are but at the end of the day this is a shallow world in RHP land at times and once again.............such is life. When i wanted a partner, a mate for life i chose based on character, humor, kindness, graciousness and what kind of father and husband he would be. When i chose a pillow pal i chose nice people who also happened to be hot stuff. Everyone is entitled to their preferences and we're all entitled to prefer one look over another. The defence rests

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I am not overwieght and my biggest gripe is no reply at all. Reading your post. makes me wonder why some girls would prefer to make an effort to be negative but could not be bothered to be polite and courteous. You don‘t look fat at all. Even if you did its uncalled for. Some people are just sad. Take care.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Gentlemen, you are taking things too personally. It is not always a matter of appearance that women don't reply or won't meet. Being men, we don't recieve messages, we only send them and we have no idea how many messages some women receive a day, especially the glamouous ones. Women don't reply beause of the sheer weigtht of numbers, they just don't have the time to reply to all messages. Also, men behave very badly on dating sites, especially when women don't want to meet, as they send abusive messages which also makes women even more reluctant to reply. As per my topic, don't get angry, just get yourself along to some private house parties that cater for single men. They provide a friendly and relaxed atmosphere for people to meet and play. I decided to do this because I had the same problem in that I couldn't meet anyone privately. Best thing I ever did. I have played with women at there parties that I would never get to meet privately in a million years. Just remember to behave like a gentlemen, treat the ladies with respect and consideration and you won't have a problem. Good luck. Chris

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I love your attitude toward the whole RHP experience and I am so happy for you that you have gone out there and found what works for you! You are a great example to everyone on here!xx SalinaPS...I do get what you are all saying, and I guess it comes down to what you are looking for. If you are looking love then I can see how this can all get you down, but if you really are just after a bit of fun there is no point taking it too seriously.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Thanks for the comments. I thought I had saved a follow up comment just saying- I've been an on off member of RHP for a while, certainly recognise a few names in the forums. I'm well aware what the purpose of RHP is, and have taken advantage of every oportunity the site has provided. Met some wonderful women had some fantastic meetings and made some long term friends. It is not about poor me, learnt that one very early on the site, no rejection, just move to the next. After some great advise in the forums, I improved my communcation and messages which helped a lot. Certainly not about picking between someone for sex or a long term relationship. That is why we are here. The point to my question is simply why. Why make the comment. Why not just not reply to a message. Why make a negative comment about appearence. Not taken personal, I've had a few complements as well. Just when thinking about when men make such statements, it is condemed, yet this is almost seen as okay for women. Is it power, is it revenge for comments from men over the years. Think about it, if I put thread up saying men don't want to see big women on this site, the reaction would be quick and sharp. So just curious if this sort of environment - internet anonymous etc - has brought out a level of dominance (not that there's anything wrong with that) in women, which in some cases has perhaps tipped over to just rude. Power, revenge. Just a question why.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I agree with most of what has been written so far. RHP is a sex site for singles and cpls and anyone who doesn't fit either of those two. We receive our fair share of invites etc not because we are "beautiful ppl" but because we are sexual and enjoy all that it encompasses, we have been knocked back by ppl saying we are not what they are looking for and we usually ask why, if no response we move on.   We like our playmates to be facial hair free, and and least in there pics appear to have some grooming and hygiene standards and above all must have teeth. we don't care id they have real or dentures but must have teeth. It would be rude of us to say to someone that we are not interested because of their dental standards so we just politely say thankyou but no thankyou. Are we bad people for this?   What ever you reasons are just be as honest as possible and do not resort to rudeness unless there are persistant and won't f...ck off.   Mrs 2 has her own profile and sometimes receives over twenty flirts and messages a day, flirts she may ignore if no interest is there but messages usually get a response and sometimes not nice and followed by a Blocking.   On my single profile I get 1 flirt a month and 1 message every 2 months and I desparately answer both, teeth or no teeth, lol   Just use your manners, too many bitter and twisted divorced ppl out there

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I used to be much larger than I am now and was amazed that there were men out there that actually found me attractive despite the acreage of belly and butt. My partner has a slab rather than a six pack and he has trouble accepting that I find him incredibly sexy. It has nothing to do with size and everything to do with what's in the heart and head. When you are fat and forty you find yourself amazed that some younger hunk with a six pack and a large cock finds you attractive enough to take to bed. And even more amazing is the fact that there is more than one out there. With competition like that it's hard for the older, larger guys to compete. It's no myth - the ladies can pick and choose and they do!!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I think you are a real cutey so keep on putting yourself out there Hun

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'MistressT'I used to be much larger than I am now and was amazed that there were men out there that actually found me attractive despite the acreage of belly and butt. My partner has a slab rather than a six pack and he has trouble accepting that I find him incredibly sexy. It has nothing to do with size and everything to do with what's in the heart and head. When you are fat and forty you find yourself amazed that some younger hunk with a six pack and a large cock finds you attractive enough to take to bed. And even more amazing is the fact that there is more than one out there. With competition like that it's hard for the older, larger guys to compete. It's no myth - the ladies can pick and choose and they do!! I just could not believe that the men I have meet here found me sexy, but I think it is very good for a womans point of view. I would not be rude to anyone. I am having a lovely time, now when a guy says something to me when I photograph him I dont feel like I have to look behind me to see if some hot chick has walked inthe room. Yep its all about MOI! Ohhh its good to be a woman.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We get bombarded With the most amazing amount of messages, winks etc. The pool is full of fish so why not have the best fish the pool has to offer? Supply and demand. I get guys begging after you say no.. And it gets really annoying.. Perhaps by coincidence it is the larger guys.. But it is truly annoying, the only way they stop messaging you is if you are rude. I would date a chubby guy but only if I met him at work or through friends and only if i loved his personality. A site like this is for sex, a healthier speciman of man is a much better fuck because he is fit. The fit man thrusts beautifully and for greater lengths of time. The fit man wants more sex and a man who is good fuck will always Be welcome back. I know it is shallow but hey, this is not a dating site it is a sex site. If I have sex with someone who repels me I would feel molested. I only have sex with best this pool has to offer. I will probably fall in love with Mr Average.

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