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The Art of Conversation...
July 15 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's the LEAST I would expect........ Each to their own, however I like to laugh, relax and enjoy mind and body.
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me, I can't get into it without the fun first. The lingering looks, flirtatious touches, slowly moving closer and closer before sliding my hand along her cheek and onto her neck as I dip my head for that first electric meeting of lips. Mmmmmmm, who wants to catch up tonight?
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RapidFyr
10 years ago
Exactly! I don't know.... I like my brain stimulated a little first, the thrill of the interest and chase... Thought I was being fussy but BigMamma1 and Funlover thanks for the confirmation ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I heard a word for it once ... sexual tension .. well two wordsa state to raise the stakes
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh how you tease me with your words
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RHP User
10 years ago
for sure!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Couldn't agree more, need a bit of back and forth before anything can happen unless it's a crazy moment of passion where conversation is not required 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought this was a given. I rely heavily on conversation to convince women that I am worth a punt. It is pretty much the only shot in the locker since I can't fall back on youthfulness or good looks...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' For me, I can't get into it without the fun first. The lingering looks, flirtatious touches, slowly moving closer and closer before sliding my hand along her cheek and onto her neck as I dip my head for that first electric meeting of lips. Mmmmmmm, who wants to catch up tonight? I cant reach to put the toaster away
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FunTimeLords
10 years ago
The ability to express desires and provoke imagination of what could be is very important to us mostly. Sometimes there is pure attraction and wanton desire that stokes the sexual engine....;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Definitely for us its all part of the process regardless of whether any play happens or not - so minimum - flirty emails, suggestive phone calls LOL and at least a meet and greet so everyone is on board with expectations and to know there is a spark to continue on....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' Quoting 'Funlover71' For me, I can't get into it without the fun first. The lingering looks, flirtatious touches, slowly moving closer and closer before sliding my hand along her cheek and onto her neck as I dip my head for that first electric meeting of lips. Mmmmmmm, who wants to catch up tonight? I cant reach to put the toaster away You just want me for my body, typical. Not even some romancing first.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow.... Just wow.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey if I'm asking you to put the toaster away chances are I've made you breakfast.... I don't think you'd be complaining ;pp - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love the teasing, the flirting, the innuendo, the whole build up. For me there has to be a mental and physical connection.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If there is no evidence of substance within a personality, I am quick to move on. If someone can't hold a conversation, people get bored quick. Same goes online, If I send out a well-written paragraph and get a dead-end, two word response back, as many (especially younger) RHP women do, than there's hardly any point continuing. And it's surprisng how reluctant girls are online to engage in a phonecall with a guy they've been messaging, as if it's some kind of risk
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RHP User
10 years ago
Conversation is critical. Who wants to be rolling around in the hay with someone that is not an intellectual match (and I dont mean brainiac here, just being able to talk on a similar level, whatever level that may be!!) Physical attraction is so important, but so are all the other things like personality, smell, sound (voice), intellect, and being able to talk with someone. These all add to sex appeal in my most humble! If everything clicks from convo, flirting becomes a breeze!
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RapidFyr
10 years ago
Thanks everyone. Not sure what you mean sir stir? That you are surprised some people don't want to put in the hard yards of the chase? ;-) For me it's like classy wicked says- a whole package is wonderful but if there is a reluctance to talk it certainly makes things difficult. Tigeroo you are right on the money, 2 word answers bore me to tears lol!! SimpleNeeds2 don't underestimate yourself. A man rocking a lovely suit and smelling good can go a long way ..... ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meeting new people and talking with them to find out what they are like is half the fun. I enjoy getting an insight into the person's history to understand who they are and how they have reached this point in their life. That is why I enjoy the meet & greets. I have had fascinating conversations with many RHP people without progressing to sex (yet) and it has been a much better quality experience than my first time round which was all about the hookups. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'youmeequalsfun' Couldn't agree more, need a bit of back and forth before anything can happen unless it's a crazy moment of passion where conversation is not required 😉 Well said we agree totally.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is indeed an art,a lost one perhaps xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Verbal foreplay is a lost art,many wordsmiths out there male and female,sexting is today's Entree of choice it seems! Not for me nothing better ,nice dinner ,smouldering conversation,and lots of sweets xxx That's what I'm talking about lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am the make half talking here and yes that's an absolute necessity! Sex is much more enjoyable if you have a connection with those you are playing with, a but of flirt, a bit of a tease. Must happen!
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RapidFyr
10 years ago
Am I being lazy, picky or closed? I don't want to pull teeth via messages getting People to chat and try to make a connection... Yappers, flatterers and extroverts apply within ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'RapidFyr' Am I being lazy, picky or closed? I don't want to pull teeth via messages getting People to chat and try to make a connection... Yappers, flatterers and extroverts apply within ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile Not picky just gotta understand and relate to introverts. We are a different breed...be patient grasshopper. We will open up when WE feel safe and comfortable. Then there's no stopping us. Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah, we both find peoples attitudes and personalities are far more attractive than looks. Therefore we do need to connect on a social level which inturn make the sexual connect much much more exciting!
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