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The Art of Seduction

March 28 2015

Okay, here are some more seduction questions if you dare to answer them. MEN: How do you like to seduce a woman? Do you have much success? Does the "what" and "how" change depending on the woman? Do you seduce an RHP woman differently to a muggle woman you have met out and about? Do you have a plan or do you like to wing it? WOMEN: How do you like to be seduced? What has worked on you in the past? What would be your ultimate "date" with Mr RightNow that would get you all hot and bothered and ready to jump in the sack with him? SEDUCTION: The word seduction stems from Latin and means literally "to lead astray". So to seduce someone is to lure them, attract them, entice them. Surprisingly, the definition of seduction, from what I can see, often has negative connotations. You are seducing someone against their better judgement so to speak. Hmmm. Seduction, is it an art or a science, good or bad?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    is to not try to seduce anyone....but to just be yourself and let it come as it were intended.... Lol gawd I sound like I'm making an ad for a laxative lol 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    been waiting awhile? :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    when two ebs meet, collide, a vulnerable moment in time.to be in the right place at the right time and the ability to read the signs.fuck me hard , take me now

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Always thought of art as expression of emotions The art of seduction no less the same, is to highlight the passions of the person by emotions expressed by what it is seen in them, or Her for example I see in Tara and seducing her for the flames of lust returned with passion the story book of a lifetime, I see everything that I find is beautiful as the friend she is intelligent, she matters for opinions and decisions, what I ask of her I would not ask if not for doing it myself, she is a wonderful mother proud of her children, her body is her person she always looks pretty, sexually she is one Dynamite Girl and willing to enjoy sharing that, she is her own person as soul and spirit, I don't own her but I love telling her all the wonderful things why I own my emotions to seduce her, I express on a whim of any moment the light shows something special to observe, I show her by expression of emotions, I love her too. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm suddenly having flashbacks to that tv show that showed a guy that was "just waiting for a mate!!" Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    I learned not to seduce one person..... but to flirt and seduce the entire world.... with attitude, action and a sense of life. If you're an interesting and emotionally attractive people...... others are drawn to want to share in it. And visa versa.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love to seduce, but I never know who until it's happening...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Such an erotic word. Hard to explain how I can be seduced. It starts with the dance of words. I have to want to be seduced by that person for it to go into play.He says a word, it manifests in my mind.The seed is planted, I take it and my imagination and anticipation make it grow into something more, something I want to take, something I want to give. He sees it in my eyes, the dance of mind seduction begins. The mind is our greatest sexual organ. My eyes will show that my mind is connected.We mirror each other. Cant break eye contact because you feed off the lust you see in each others eyes. The dance, more words, just a simple sentance.not a question. It doesnt need an answer.Your mind is imagining his touch on your skin.Just the tips of his fingers gently touching your arm.I get goose bumps just thinking about that touch.I have to look away.He knows.He smiles. He gently cups my chin in his hand and turns my face upwards so he can look in my eyes again. That one gesture and touch and smile blocks everything thats not irrelivant to that moment. Nothing else exists except the electricity running from each other.so strong that it even makes your heart pound faster. The dance of desire..... And then my alarm goes off and wakes me, and it was only a dream.haha.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That is really required is for a man to show interest and pay attention..look into my eyes..and kiss me 😍xxFreya

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    This could explain where I'm going wrong, there's an art to it..... Seriously, I think it has a lot to do with the eyes, my whole look changes apparently, I get a naughty sparkle in my eyes. I think that happens when my mind starts thinking about his touch as he runs his hand up my thighs, his smell as he wraps his arms around me, his kiss as our lips meet for the first time, his breath on my my neck.... I was doing some training the other day at work, the guy delivering the training was young and sexy, next thing I know I'm picturing how he'd looked tied to my bed with me doing lots of interesting things to him. I'm guessing my face changed because the guy started to look scared all of a sudden, i had to stop then and there, he seemed to relax then....😈 As for MrRightNow, well he'd probably only have to tap me on the shoulder, I'm as toey as a cut snake...lol

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Had to seduce anyone. Chemistry between me and her will either make it happen or it wont. No chemistry? Why bother? Guys seducing me? Not required. Just a very good series of messages Fussy with my women but not my men.....

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Seduction / Manipulation / Persuasion - it's all three in a sense.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Buy me a glass of champagne.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That's hypnotism😜xxFreya

  • Originalbadboy

    Originalbadboy

    10 years ago

    It is all in those few first moments they see you. The right approach to the right person at the right time all ways works. The right approach at the wrong time and its over. I believe stir was right with the be your self. If they don't like you for who you are they will come to hate you for what your not. Obbi

  • langton11

    langton11

    10 years ago

    IMO Sir_Stir is on the money.I would never make a conscious effort to seduce anyone, it the chemistry is there, it's very hard to stop thing moving forward.....unless the first kiss is not a fit, that could potentially stuff it all up lol. Albeit, I suppose the way one dresses, the cologne, the flirtatious bantering, the overly comfortable touchy conversation are all a part of the seduction game, but again, without the chemistry, it would be in vain, so maybe they're more a part of laying the foundation for creating the chemistry, or maybe, just maybe, I've now over thought this lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well, I am very disappointed, it must just be me then. But I would love to be seduced and swept off my feet. Blokes just turn up for a coffee date and hope for some chemistry and send a few dirty text messages and think that this is all that is required. Makes a women feel like she has to do all the work and make the moves. Where is the romance, the charm, the seduction, the flirtation? Sorry, but it leaves me totally uninspired. NEXT!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For me I suppose it is just about words, playfulness, eye contact and my attention on her and her alone. No thoughts or eyes wandering elsewhere just me and her and nobody else. I am sure there is much more and I have to agree with sir stir it is all about being yourself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    interest ... confidence .... .......... and just enough alcohol to be talkative ..... part science ... part art ...... and the rest is lotto ...... i.e. a heap of variables ...... I think that some one here had said that it was phermonal chemistry

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    interest ... confidence .... .......... and just enough alcohol to be talkative ..... part science ... part art ...... and the rest is lotto ...... i.e. a heap of variables ...... I think that some one here had said that it was phermonal chemistry

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Hmmmmm keen to jump to Mekas defence actually. In the process thought I check the Oxford dict definition.. The most positive version I could find was the origin of the word ex Oxford. Late 15th century (originally in the sense 'persuade (someone) to abandon their duty'): from Latin seducere, from se- 'away, apart' + ducere 'to lead'. Others like Meeka says are not so favourable. So are posts above responding in terms of the concise definition. AND are some responding to the connotation? Personally I prefer the connotation - and Yes I'm a fan of that completely.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I find seduction the art of suggestion. It's the planting of the seed of thought that provokes a little interest, a little danger (to raise anxiety which often is misinterpreted as lust), a little desire, a little we may end up with our clothes on the floor. It's an art to keep it suggestive, letting it be flirtatious, letting the desire build until there is but only one desire :) Though yes, too slow and it's boring, too fast and it becomes cocky. It's a dance that has you spiralling closer and closer until you're lost in the dizziness together :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The internet had killed foreplay!!!! :(

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    .so I was informed by the younger work colleagues..

  • Originalbadboy

    Originalbadboy

    10 years ago

    Well the use of that app "another name for kindling" has killed off the need to be seductive with regards to the connotation. You just go "hey your hot lets go for a roll in the hay...." or as most young people say " Your hot, lets fuck". I believe in the use of the connotation of seduction but not the literal definition. I love nothing more than to incite a fire within the other person, a burning desire to find out what maybe and to explore their respective desires. But one cannot do such things without some chemistry and a few firing neurons. It is a skill that many don't believe they need to learn as they are "Gods gift to women". Obbi

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    - "Video Killed the Radio Star"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'CucknShells' IS turning a man on the same as seducing them? Shells In my experience, seduction is a 2 way thing and only ever happens when both parties are in sync to what is going on. If all I see is your cleavage on display and miss all of the innuendo in what you are saying / the flick of your hair / the way you play with the stem of your champagne flute then what's the point? Second and third base is where all the fun is at... the anticipation of what is to come...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Romance & seduction are dead The internet had killed foreplay!!!! :( Is a spa bath in candle light romance? A long massage? Taking a very long time to undress each other? Maybe I'm good at the romance but no good at the seduction so I never have anyone around to find out :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    so many times the main hnt is missed. seduction is so much more than a spae in time; much more than a flick of hair, or how fingers wrap around champagne flute… so many moments are missed because seduction is many times more about inner ego than giving what the other one craves...