M41
The Great Gender Imbalance...
March 25 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
That would be pretty decent odds! If you take search criteria etc into account it could be more like a thousand to one for some blokes, just taking the numbers of each genders profile and using that as a ratio could be quite misleading.I think the reason is that the women you find here are but a small microcosm of the female population as a whole. I wouldn't go thinking that what you see or read on this site is necessarily representative of the broader female population.Whereas blokes are just blokes and easily led by there dicks, straight here..... and similar sites.Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
Girls can get it any time they want. Girls can get it when a man often won't. (Don't you love the way they rhymed want with won't. Clever buggers.)
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RHP User
13 years ago
The rest of the female population is out populating No seriously though if you think about it, there are a few girls who are younger on here, but mostly its the girls who have already had their babies and want sex again ........giddy up lol The mid range girls are in the thick of those child rearing years , and it's not a highly sexual time for us girls, the whole changed body and getting it changed back, breast feeding during the night, and non sleeping children makes Jane a very fucking tired girl therefore, they aren't going to be found looking for extra curricular sex, they are flat out finding 5 minutes to give their partner a shag It also leaves their partner an exorbitant amount of time to join rhp and find himself a shag or ten All you horny husbands put your hands up and say 'Hi' lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I thought all age groups were pretty reasonably represented here, but I aint going to count them all. Liked your response though....funny girl!Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
Women are bound by convention. Single women often look for a mate, and want more than a roll in the hay. Very few women want no strings attached sex Men are designed to spread their seed into anyone or any thing Women are on the other hand not able to have the kind of easy quick satisfaction a guy gets from his cock, no matter where he sticks it We need a little warm up. Besides women who fuck around are sluts Men who fuck around are hero material Do you think you would pick a woman of RHP to marry? to tell your friends hey I met my sexy wife on RHP? Its rare My female friends that are not on RHP would have a heart attack and never speak to me again if they knew what I got up to I am a whore, slut, tramp, home wrecker, cougar, no woman gets a prize for being on RHP Except for random acts of fucking Even then its hard work , as plenty of guys either hassle you and do not take no for an answer, do not turn up, or turn up once or turn up and want you on your knees asap. Then wipe dick on curtain and walk out. Women do the other date sites cause they think that men want something more there..yeah good luck with that one most men are on two sites one for the date nice girls and one for the sluttish sexy women never the twain shall meet,
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RHP User
13 years ago
"You can get anything you want...at Alice's restaurant". | I don't think "the odds" are any more particularly skewed than if you went out on a Friday or Saturday night and had a wander about the city...sure, the balance of men and women there may appear more equal but then think about it in the same terms as you would about this site. If you walk in looking to simply hook up...I'd probably take the bet that there are 10 guys thinking the same thing as you for every eligible woman thinking that would be same thing too. Certainly too the comments made by the delightful ladies herein the main are true...and the common thread is that you will find what you are looking for even if you aren't quite sure what that is...and we all always get exactly what we deserve, maybe earn is a better word? | Personally, I know of several or any number of very classy and sophisticated ladies here that I would never brand with the label of "trollop", "tart", "slut" ad nauseum...but just like in that thing called real life, you may just find a few here. It's how you approach and what you make of it. There are some amazing women here that I would be happy to have on my arm and walk into some of the most high-brow pain in the ass events full of snobs and knobs that you can imagine...and I know damn well that no matter what, we'd be having fun. | Play the hand you're dealt...and go all in.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are soooo many sites for dating and relationships...to find the elusive ONE....thats where you will find most women...... Over the past couple of years I have been on four other sites,the first was a site where you could only be a paid member and the questionaire was so long I fell asleep before I completed it,two are sometimes pay sometimes free,and the other is completely free. I am not looking for THE ONE..or the Loch Ness Monster exists> I think the main difference with RHP is that it is unashamedly a sex site......heaps of women I know would never dream of being here.....cos THE ONE is probably not lurking about here just a lot of sexed up men or wannabes
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RHP User
13 years ago
A far greater proportion of men than women are interested in having casual sex. Many of the reasons for that have been touched on above. There is also quite a bit of research to suggest that women are more affected by oxytocin (a Hormone released during sex) and therefore feel more 'bonded' after sex than men, which explains a reluctance to engage in casual encounters.
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RHP User
13 years ago
testicles
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QLDtwo4fun
13 years ago
I think both D_G_T and Tuscanred have got it right. The pool of available women is limited by other things going on in their lives, and there is still stigma attached to women who break away from sexual conventions. Gay women don't seem to be as bound by convention. I wonder how many frustrated women would love to be on s site like this, but are bound by sexist convention. Would I marry a woman I met on RHP? We are on this site as a couple. If I was in the market for a wife, why not RHP, at least you know you are sexually compatible.
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RHP User
13 years ago
simply its because women can get it any time any where they so desire. They just have to snap their fingers and they are flooded with choice.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe it's about cultural convention. Old school women may not like being perceived as being pursuers of sex or relationships. An unspoken norm. I'm not saying women don't Perdue relationships... I mean it's conventional Victorian era custom that women not to be seen in public tongueing for it. Of course I'm not saying women here are tongueing for it... rather, are taking a modernist independent approach to their own independence and self empowerment and determination, by being here. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok.. Some are tonguing for it... But that's all good in my book. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'slinkey'testicles I laughed out loud with that one, well done!
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jandv
13 years ago
There were 30,000 more females (enroled) than males in the latest qld election. I wonder if there will be a time when the ratio of females to males change on websites like these AND men will be sort after !! LOL 10:1 females to males. Wow, what would that be like? LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Bathsheba' A far greater proportion of men than women are interested in having casual sex. Many of the reasons for that have been touched on above. There is also quite a bit of research to suggest that women are more affected by oxytocin (a Hormone released during sex) and therefore feel more 'bonded' after sex than men, which explains a reluctance to engage in casual encounters. nice quote, i've heard about this too..... relevant! and so true... 'a far greater proportion of men than women are interested in having casual sex' think of it this way blkcapricornday'...... i'd rather be a bloke looking for a woman, than a woman looking for a bloke..... if your catching what i'm pitching! We've got it easy.. the flip side is; the man, woman ratio doesn't favor us blokes..... but the women have to deal with a lot more bullshit and dickheads we than we do! ....and some men aren't the most tactful of critters are they!ps,, shouldn't be any pressure to 'standout'.... paint an honest picture of yourself and hopefully someone similar will find you!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nice post, man, but speaking about painting an honest picture of yourself, your profile pic, ... well, ...um, .....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Nice post, man, but speaking about painting an honest picture of yourself, your profile pic, ... well, ...um, ..... haha, cool pic hey! people have commented on it, they picked up what i was laying down.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am a one of those DGT..........8 years of suppressed mojo lol time to catch up and I don't mean on sleep. I think it's a cultural/ innate evolutionary thing. More seed sewing single men look to hook up on line (it's a quantity thing.) Females I think in general want to meet through someone mutual (it's a quality thing.) Yes probably a primal thing about finding a suitable mate think species lol :) something like that.Cass xxxQuoting 'D_G_T' The rest of the female population is out populating No seriously though if you think about it, there are a few girls who are younger on here, but mostly its the girls who have already had their babies and want sex again ........giddy up lol The mid range girls are in the thick of those child rearing years , and it's not a highly sexual time for us girls, the whole changed body and getting it changed back, breast feeding during the night, and non sleeping children makes Jane a very fucking tired girl therefore, they aren't going to be found looking for extra curricular sex, they are flat out finding 5 minutes to give their partner a shag It also leaves their partner an exorbitant amount of time to join rhp and find himself a shag or ten All you horny husbands put your hands up and say 'Hi' lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'Nice post, man, but speaking about painting an honest picture of yourself, your profile pic, ... well, ...um, ..... And yep , you get what you see. And then some Thanks to my fluffer with the black gloves! god my poor girlfriend is ropped in all the time to take pictures. Well every photographer needs props sometimes , its at tough job My work life is hell at times, NOT!!!!!! Brains and arse good combination. Janeman if you were in WA i could photograph your bum too! I think you need to come back to Mandurah coodi, I think I need to take more pictures, did not quiet get the tat right. I know its just on your arm but I may have to take all your clothes of , errrm just in case maybe with a little bit of sprinkles to go with that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
the 'ratio' isnt accurate....theres this huge population of men who pose as singles to access play.....so the numbers arent a true reflection of the RHP population.... if you excluded those who are attached and play on the sly....and those who have a profile for the male of a couple, the figures would be more accurate.....but, as the gals said....women are inherently busier than men....what with housekeeping and homebuilding and childrearing...theres not many hours left in the day for a single and available gal to play with........much different to guys who have relatively little in the way of responsibilities.......
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Ivoodoo
13 years ago
Its the rules of nature.... You rarely see girls buy guys drinks at a bar ... Same goes for online dating guys are more likely to for out money and show what they have ... That's nature male courting 1 on 1 where as women seem to have less problems "pickin up" in a non online environment even if they have 15 kids an saggy boobs they find a root whereas guys can look like let's say brad pit and still not have any luck on the streets ..... Yet the male sex drive is high, so you find lot more guys window shopping and looking for love online.... There are sites with 50 50 ratio but as a male you will go on a waiting list while you wait for women to join :)
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