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The Inner Bitch!
April 02 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
well I don't like the inner bastard, so one would assume that nobody likes the inner bitch.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Define what Inner Bitch means? I only like one bitch, and that's my Edie.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Define what Inner Bitch means? I only like one bitch, and that's my Edie. To see how others define "the Inner Bitch" and what it means to them. I'm curious..is it a personality trait, behavior or other??? Is it seen as positive or negative? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
probably depends on how you define what your inner bitch is. Can I be a bitch? Yes, apparently I am a bitch a lot of time if that means speaking your mind and being honest about your thoughts. I am the person who will give you an honest answer, not fluff your ego. People who don't know me find me intimidating for it, people who do love me for it. Do I sit around being bitchy? I don't just talk about people for the sake of it. If I am concerned about someone I will but I don't really engage in conversation that is just going to take the piss out of someone just because I can. I find it fruitless.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I call it the bitch shield.... a force field if bitchy behaviour thrown up to deflect people away from whatever issue you're having at the time. I WILL call you out on your shitty behaviour if it's unwarranted...... because you wouldn't put up with shitty behaviour from me... I'm not going to go to water if I get crap from a woman.... especially one I barely know. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't like me when I am. I've heard women use the term when they were talking about being assertive and not taking crap, but to me that's totally different. I have no time for bitches, whether internal or external.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I'm not meaning "bitchy" behavior (snarky, nasty stuff) when I say "the Inner Bitch" far from it. I meaning being a strong independent woman who speaks her mind, not being walked on like a doormat, speaks up for herself, shows her emotions, being a little sassy (would that be the right word??). As in opposite to being NICE all the time. That is why I am asking the questions I have asked. I am so curious over this topic. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Foxy
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lovman8
11 years ago
I full of opinions ( some would saw bullshit ) and generally not afraid to share them. But I think I'll sit this one out for a while !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Foxy I was wondering who clify was, haha, thought I missed something.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Inner Bitches ....not afraid to show/be/speak who you are, I think its sexy! My husband loves my "inner bitch" and she does get out often, definitely embrace it, its a part of who you are. I know some lovely women and have seen their "inner bitch" & I totally respect how they are wired and what they want and what they dont want and vice versa ....I think it can also be empowering to other women somewhat but yea thats just me though. Mrs_AJ
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RHP User
11 years ago
So strong women who stand up for themselves Are to be referred to as a bitches? Which by the way is a derogatory term to describe someone who is mean and nasty. Not all of us read self-help books so you will have to excuse people for not understand what you are talking about when you say inner bitch.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm a confident woman. I know what I like and do not like and unfortunately the 'inner bitch' will raise it's ugly head when I do not like something, something gets in the way of my wants or I just do not understand something. It can be quite ugly at times, but it's me and I believe in me too much for it to be a bad trait... If I did not express myself, I would combust. I also learn many lessons both good and bad about myself and others which I embrace with open arms. Mr Explorateurs has been on the receiving end on a few occasions (sorry honey) and it has been tough, however, I believe it has brought us closer and we are more accepting of each other just the way we are.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' if that means speaking your mind and being honest about your thoughts. I am the person who will give you an honest answer, not fluff your ego. People who don't know me find me intimidating for it, people who do love me for it.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I never mentioned anything about Self help books or gurus in this Forum. Are you having a slight dig maybe there at me?? As you have done that before a long time ago, as I remember. I beats me why it is mentioned and brought up?? You are entitled to your opinion about Self Help books ...maybe write a topic about it if it bothers you that much?? However I just wanted other people thoughts and opinions, and you gave yours, Thank you. :) BACK ON TOPIC. However I believe "being a bitch" and the "inner Bitch" are two different things. That's what I am aiming at. Just recently I mentioned to some friends about something I had done and said I didn't like that side about me. The reply was "sometimes you gotta let out your Inner Bitch every now and again and don't let people walk over you like you are a door mat, because you are too nice and worth a lot more." One of my GF's said "Every couple of months she lets out her Inner bitch". That's is why I am curious about this topic and wonder what other peoples opinions are about "The inner Bitch" Foxy
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wannabyummymummy
11 years ago
i certainly have an inner bitch and sometimes the bitch switch has a hair trigger!!! for me my inner bitch is the strong, firm and formidable side of my personality when things get tough she gets tougher, i dont really have the disease to please people, i try to be a good person and treat people how i want to be treated but when i encounter someone who steps over the line my inner bitch will step out and firmly put them straight. I speak my mind, i voice my opinions, i dont expect others to agree with me and i love a good debate (not an argument mind you just intellectual interaction on different points of view), some people see this as "bitchy"and i am cool with that, so i embrace that side of me but i reserve it for those that deserve it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find that 'a strong, independent and forthright woman' and 'bitch' to be mutually exclusive concepts. I just can't bring to two together in my mind. Now if we are talking about standing up for my children, well the term 'mother tiger' comes to mind.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Getting In Touch With Your Inner Bitch by Elizabeth Hilts..She is talking about how women have been socialized to be overly nice.....Toxic Niceness she calls it,she suggests that the image of Bette Davis,walking around with a cigarette in one hand and a martini in the other is the personification of our inner bitch....the inner bitch calls it as she sees. It she says...................I get what she means but I do hate that term......yes perhaps some women could be more assertive.but why call that the Inner. Bitch?......Assertiveness is not bitchness in my opinion,speaking your mind is not bichiness,by labelling a women's behaviour"'Inner Bitch" seems to be just reinforcing a particular negative view of women.....xx Q
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precious142
11 years ago
is unleashed by the outer/inner bastard.....especially when uncalled for
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RHP User
11 years ago
love the word bitch and dont see it as a negative, it doesnt bother me at all when referred as one or if I call someone that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
yes mine comes out at important times. it generally shakes people's nerves when they have been treating me like a doormat i like to get rid of my "inner good girl" as she continually tells me to let stuff go and put up with shit. a few of my friends and I went through some interesting times in previous years and it made it easier to allow the inner strength to show on a more regular basis. just because I'm quiet when you meet me doesn't mean I'll stay that way if you hurt me or anyone else really!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is a title used to belittle a woman who stands up for herself or has a strong personality....... When men are forceful it is looked at as a positive, when women do it it's labeled bitch, drama queen, that time etc, etc....... This inner 'bitch' as everyone calls it is somebody who knows what they want/like and won't let others stand in her way to get it........... Yes!! I have INNER STRENGTH that rears it's head at certain times..... Ok, ok, I'll hand in the saddle again and hop of the high horse...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Although I would never strike a woman (unless spanking), the attitude and persona of an inner bitch makes me want to slap her into next week. What this actually means is I can't deal with someone on purposely being nasty and my frustration reaches that point and I need to bite my tongue and just walk away or my inner prick will come out. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I'm not meaning "bitchy" behavior (snarky, nasty stuff) when I say "the Inner Bitch" far from it. I meaning being a strong independent woman who speaks her mind, not being walked on like a doormat, speaks up for herself, shows her emotions, being a little sassy (would that be the right word??). As in opposite to being NICE all the time. That is why I am asking the questions I have asked. I am so curious over this topic. Foxy Yep, I married her. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I never clash with them the way I do with the insecure... Bitches ? dont find them a threat or attractive , just in your face bloody annoying...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' Getting In Touch With Your Inner Bitch by Elizabeth Hilts..She is talking about how women have been socialized to be overly nice.....Toxic Niceness she calls it,she suggests that the image of Bette Davis,walking around with a cigarette in one hand and a martini in the other is the personification of our inner bitch....the inner bitch calls it as she sees. It she says...................I get what she means but I do hate that term......yes perhaps some women could be more assertive.but why call that the Inner. Bitch?......Assertiveness is not bitchness in my opinion,speaking your mind is not bichiness,by labelling a women's behaviour"'Inner Bitch" seems to be just reinforcing a particular negative view of women.....xx Q There is a big difference between being assertive and not putting up with crap, and being a bitch. Unfortunately in our society the general view is that women are supposed to be passive, sweet, and accommodating all of the time, hence even standing up for themselves in small ways often results in the 'bitch' label. As someone pointed out, you never see a man being called a derogatory name for being assertive and it is seen as a positive trait in males. I don't like the term inner bitch as it is just confirming that societal belief that women standing up for themselves is some sort of aberration.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrs_AJ' love the word bitch and dont see it as a negative, it doesnt bother me at all when referred as one or if I call someone that. I am not that precious when it comes to people calling me names. If that is the worst thing I ever get called I think I will survive. Swear words are a dime a dozen these days, it is water off a duck's back.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As with most words I believe that Bitch can be used in different ways. I call my best friend "My Bitch" and I mean it with the utmost respect and love. When my lover tells me I'm a bitch I know I'm doing something that is really turning him on. I love it when my "Inner Bitch comes out to play. It means I'm feeling really sassy, sexy, naughty, assertive and I won't put up with crap from anyone. Now hand me my too short dress, high heels and bitch whip, I've got a date with an incredibly sexy lover who can call me "Bitch" any time
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Qefenta2' Getting In Touch With Your Inner Bitch by Elizabeth Hilts..She is talking about how women have been socialized to be overly nice.....Toxic Niceness she calls it,she suggests that the image of Bette Davis,walking around with a cigarette in one hand and a martini in the other is the personification of our inner bitch....the inner bitch calls it as she sees. It she says...................I get what she means but I do hate that term......yes perhaps some women could be more assertive.but why call that the Inner. Bitch?......Assertiveness is not bitchness in my opinion,speaking your mind is not bichiness,by labelling a women's behaviour"'Inner Bitch" seems to be just reinforcing a particular negative view of women.....xx Q There is a big difference between being assertive and not putting up with crap, and being a bitch. Unfortunately in our society the general view is that women are supposed to be passive, sweet, and accommodating all of the time, hence even standing up for themselves in small ways often results in the 'bitch' label. As someone pointed out, you never see a man being called a derogatory name for being assertive and it is seen as a positive trait in males. I don't like the term inner bitch as it is just confirming that societal belief that women standing up for themselves is some sort of aberration. Shouldn't hold yourself down, it is more accepted as each day passes LD, the fight is not over though progress has become a thing. So has twirking. he he. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
My inner bitch only appears when warranted. I hate bitches so dislike being thought of as a bitch in any way shape or form. But, if the cap fits...wear it with pride bcoz generally from me, it's deserved. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I kind of poke and prod a woman's bitchiness till she explodes.Then explain to her, that we all have feelings and its easy to act like a bitch/prick but takes effort to be nice Effort always wins in my book ! Hang on Foxie is this inner bitch code word for something else??... I'm reading it like this.... *Guys do you like or dislike a woman's inner bitch..... We talking about her cha cha?*How dose it make you feel when you see a woman's inner bitch come out...... We talking boobies right?*Do you see it as a character strength or character fault in a woman...In a woman ? mmmm in a woman....*Do you see it as standing up for her self or run and hide/scared from it? .... oh im scared at first but when i lick and kiss the bitch and get to know her.... all is good!*If you have butted heads with a woman's inner bitch did it strengthen or break the relationship.... the butting heads bit is sexy time right? As i said before i take effort over bitchiness and NO a woman who has her own ideas and way of doing things in not a bitch. A bitch to me is just being mean for the sake of being mean !!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok, this thread I loved reading, way to go superfoxxxy. My inner bitch is straining at her leash, so I'm un clipping her :P The "inner bitch" is just another face of a woman that never comes out often enough. Don't surpress her, it will only work against you. A yin an yang effect. We cannot always be the good girl, the inner bitch to me possesses bright qualities, strength, focus, honesty, drive. It's simply a term that allows us to justify our inner thoughts, emotions an desires etc that are often repressed. It is an empowering term, to achieve, strive, and most of all "don't take shit" from people. I think many moon's ago they called it feminism. ?.....burn your bra stuff. ( which I will not do, I luv my playboy bras :P) I'm tough, ambitious and know what I want and like, if that makes me a bitch, well......ok. my inner bitch gets stuff done, she is but one side of me, part of me just as laughter is. Xx
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I'd bitch slap you but smothering you in my cheat may orove more fun. I agree with Ralfie in her post but Gods it takes an awful lot to get my inner bitch going then watch out.....They don't call me Cyclone G for nothing you know. Have a clashed with a bitchier inner bitch than I HELL YESS, did I back down No EFFING WAY because good always triumphs against evile. Just remember no caoes girls, those suckers get sucked into jet engines, tangled in debris and around propellors which can be your untimely undoing 😳 and the only thing I want to be sucked off by is about 6ft tall with a personality and seductive prowess to die for....with a grin and a completely satisfied sigh. Some of the othe Hell Bitches it has strengthened the friendship....the rest....who cares they aren't my problem anymore. Gosh all this sex on Thai TV isn't good for someone who's convalescing I can tell ya!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
sound amazing Indy:-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' There is a big difference between being assertive and not putting up with crap, and being a bitch. Unfortunately in our society the general view is that women are supposed to be passive, sweet, and accommodating all of the time, hence even standing up for themselves in small ways often results in the 'bitch' label. As someone pointed out, you never see a man being called a derogatory name for being assertive and it is seen as a positive trait in males. I don't like the term inner bitch as it is just confirming that societal belief that women standing up for themselves is some sort of aberration. No men are not called bitch for being assertive, but they are called cold, arseholes, over ambitious and uncaring. As anything some people will see that as a positive and some as a negative. A woman can be assertive without being seen as a bitch. It is all in the delivery. You know maybe some people are just cold - both men and women. I also want to question that women are supposed to be passive, sweet and accommodating. Are they? Is this still really true in Australia? I was never taught to be sweet and passive........ ever! I think my father would turn over in his grave if he thought I was bowing down to men just to satisfy some outdated social convention.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
What do you mean inner bitch, I'm just a bitch full stop......just ask anyone they'll tell you. But I am the nice bitch I know.......💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
11 years ago
Oh I love that word in context Bitch......oh that is me with a capital S for sarcasm Am I on track here?
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On_Safari
11 years ago
There's just somerhing so.....so.....evocative and believable about the way she says it!! Lol and yes Q I have video of me at my highest point 😷 they've removed all IV and morphine but shake me and I'll rattle. I get big ones and little ones and middle size ones all pruurrty colours but no Peanut M&M's 😩 i'm busting to see what room service has 😎
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On_Safari
11 years ago
...fir being completely naked ('cept for my wetsuit) all week and completely unabashed about my unprostheticised all natural jubblies hanging out?
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inspirit
11 years ago
For what?..........nakedness and juglies out? nah..........fuck that. Tho I may have to apoligise for the use of the word cunt :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Will I get bitch slapped? mmmmmm
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On_Safari
11 years ago
You'll understand completely when you hear Luvinit say it . It's truly something to behold!! 😘
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I also want to question that women are supposed to be passive, sweet and accommodating. Are they? Is this still really true in Australia? I was never taught to be sweet and passive........ ever! I think my father would turn over in his grave if he thought I was bowing down to men just to satisfy some outdated social convention. It's a generalisation of course, and again one that many RHP women don't fit into. Lots of women are assertive and not worried about standing up for themselves and what they believe in even if that may offend. But I do think that overall the author Qefenta mentioned is correct in that women are much more socially conditioned to be 'nice' than men are...and they are often seen as the 'peacekeepers' in families and relationships, and even workplaces.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being a bitch..well I think women who go around being bitches are women I like to stay away from. On the other hand..when I see a woman's "inner bitch" come out as in when she is laughed at, put down or just made to feel less....and she sticks up for herself...wow I think yes that is a woman I would like to get to know. Stick up for yourself type attitudes win me over every time. And just as an added comment here...men who go around being bastards, yeh well I don't need to say any more there. But when guys bring out the inner bastard....the inner self that is tenacious and won't cop crap...that is to me a trait worth having. I've got war stories and I'm glad to say that my inner bastard helped me get through when the odds were stacked against me. So yeh women who possess that inner bitch..that fight and that determination...I say good on you all!!
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inspirit
11 years ago
We can all be fucking bitches. Nothing wrong with that! Being assertive as a woman is NOT being a bitch! It is being confident and self assured! Bitch is bitch and you know it! It's when you come away and you think..oops I went to far! Makes you feel like shit as well! Inner cunt is so much better then inner bitch......you have to have grunt and OWN that fucking Bitch.. Oops there goes my dating prospects with that nice gentleman...meh........he was tool old anyway..
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inspirit
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' Will I get bitch slapped? mmmmmm
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RHP User
11 years ago
There's enough bitching in here that I don't need to add any ;) Now..... Where the fuck did I park my camel?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gotta love a good bitch ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
no.....because you want it:-) :-) :-) :-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is who I rely on to get me out of trouble. I used to be too shy to argue or stand up for myself. My inner bitch helped me not become a door mat. If some butthead yells at me for disciplining my children in public I unleash my inner bitch on them lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
always make it difficult. I have no problem with, in fact I prefer anyone that talks straight, says what they think, stands up for themselves, is assertive, sassy, doesn't take any crap etc, but would not label that bitchy behaviour or someones inner bitch at all. To me inner bitch behaviour is when someone talks about others behind their back, puts them down to others whilst being nice to them directly, or lies to or manipulates others especially when it is for fun or amusement or just because they can and want to show off. Playing mind games and driving wedges between people are other examples of what I think of in terms of bitchy or inner bitch...........yuuuuuuck.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
I am a strong independent women that has an opinion and can express it, this is often referred to as being a bitch. Meh! I don't really care. I can be a bitch absolutely through and through when I let the Scorpio nature run wild. To me being bitchy is very negative and is that snide remarks backhanded compliments, etc you know the things that men seem to excel at doing :) I prefer to let my inner slut out though it's so much more fun ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What bitchy comments. Isn't my pleasure as important as yours?
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a fine line between pleasure and pain,sang the wonderful Chrissie :-) :-) xx Q
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
WARNING WARING WARNING....Be afraid, be very afraid of the inner-bitch - run to the hills. Q has a cosy cave there.. ;) Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
There can be the inner bitch who is expressing herself - rationally which is totally fine, normal and reasonable .....and then you can also have the irrational new age inner bitch that says something ridiculous for no real reason apart from because she can and your not allowed to say anything in response because then you'd be a sexist pig playing the equal rights card. I'm fine with the first one, that's just normal democracy in a relationship but not the second as its simply not necessary and its very divisive. Weirdly this to have become quite common in Aus for some reason with everyone thinking they are rockstars or similar. I don't know about in the US where I suspect the same as here but the rest of the world trails far behind. Its a backward step IMO. You can equally apply the same to guys though there are many that are deeply in love with themselves and basically treat people pretty poorly. It simply serves no purpose these days. I guess I just don't like people who behave irrationally. So in closing I'd prefer the inner slut combined with inner bitch (type1) over the inner bitch (type2) I think I may have just confused myself
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I'm not meaning "bitchy" behavior (snarky, nasty stuff) when I say "the Inner Bitch" far from it. I meaning being a strong independent woman who speaks her mind, not being walked on like a doormat, speaks up for herself, shows her emotions, being a little sassy (would that be the right word??). As in opposite to being NICE all the time. That is why I am asking the questions I have asked. I am so curious over this topic. Foxy I would class this as a strong Independent woman someone that'll give it straight up no bull the type of woman I like
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its in me of course. I tend to be a person who will always care and help. Even when it means so often to go without myself like money or my time. Some people have taken advantage of this of course as you know there are the takers and givers in life. So when the takers want to shit on you as well. ""Then look out the Scorpio traits come out." I can the very best friend you have every had in your whole life. I can cut you off and never speak for a whole year. Then when I do finally communicate again, I will never let you get that close again ever. (sometimes never speak again ever).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Oh I love that word in context Bitch......oh that is me with a capital S for sarcasm Am I on track here? in a post the other day and it was censored out! *walks out all huffy*
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RHP User
11 years ago
The Inner Bitch She is entitled to unleash whenever she likes & its up to others to notice or not. I think most people would just ignore the inner bastard or bitch. I always think / just because you are in a bitch or a mood doesn't mean I have to pay attention to it or have it affect me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I got a message from someone I hadnt heard from in a while the other morning Hi its blah...........inner bitch sent a reply...........WHO?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Still waiting for a message .? I want first hand info .? You know why.. ?
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
You're made my day 😘 Nice to have you back......💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bitch Beautiful Intelligent Thoughtful Caring Honest / Horny That's my kind of Bitch lol
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Most people (female/male) have a hidden/stored away inner bitch??? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes......I keep mine locked under the sink where she belongs ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its just a matter of what does it take for it to come out....some people have it right at the surface...use it readily and often. Others have the "still waters run deep" mentality and it takes a lot for it to come out. I believe conditioning has a lot to do with it. Life has many ups and downs lefts and rights etc etc...so I guess we develop a certain level of "bitchiness" according to what has happened in our lives and how or if we have come to accept, those experiences.
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