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The Mask

August 26 2016

What does the mask mean to you? If you wear a mask to a party do you find it liberating,that it releases inhibitions and allows you to adopt a different persona? Would you have sex with someone who was wearing a mask,someone whose face you hadn't seen?. Do you find the mask an erotic device or quite the opposite? Q

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    its a fantasy of mine i guess the whole i'll never truly know who they were is a turn on for me. I dont feel it helps me to adopt a different persona though

  • LittleGiant

    LittleGiant

    8 years ago

    I prefer to see a clear unobstructed view of the eyes and the whole face in general. So much is said in the eyes, I feel like that can be lost behind a mask. Also when wearing them myself, I hate how they make it awkward to blink and rub off my makeup Miss Littlex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well, we all have a face That we hide away forever And we take them out And show ourselves when everyone has gone Some are satin, some are steel Some are silk and some are leather They're the faces of a stranger But we'd love to try them on - Billy Joel We all wear masks...it's just a matter of where, when and why.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    The Labyrinth Ball last weekend was a masquerade, and a KK sex party I went to a few months back was as well (well... for the getting to know you bit). I love them - even if I didn't actually enjoy wearing my particular mask. As the one I had was lace, and rather irritating, so I removed it. I'll have to buy another :) But it is a big fantasy of mine as well (high 5's PoisonIV) of going to sex party wearing full regalia and masks. A nicer version of Eyes-Wide-Shut. If only I could have mixed the Ball with the sex party, I would have found my happy place :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    To lock eyes with a sexy brunette at a masquerade ball....and have our mutual attraction play out non-verbally until our desire to be with each other takes over and drives us together in a meeting of lust, and serendipity..... But first I gotta lose like 20kg so my face isn't my only draw card Bahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Apparently we will be required to wear masks most of the night because they are live streaming cam with red hot pie. I've been to a few events with PoisonIV in masks. I love the effort most people go to. I have really long eye lashes and find it a pain to get something that is comfortable. As long as I can see someone's eyes and smile, I'm a happy girl. Eyes and mouth are the most important thing to me. I don't feel it offers me the opportunity to adopt a different persona. But having sex with masks on is on my list 😉

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    Quite the opposite. Masks freak me out too much! I just can't go there. They give me the Hibbie Jibbies. 🙈 Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    Blindfolds I can do. Ms Foxy

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Blindfolds I can do. Ms Foxy I'll keep that in mind... Tall

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    8 years ago

    I'd love to be able to wear a mask, but I need my glasses to see and cannot wear contacts..boohoo

  • Limited_Editionx

    Limited_Editionx

    8 years ago

    I like to be able to see clearly who I'm dealing with- I have nightmares about people with masks on 😳 XxMiss L. Ed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You reminded me of the Story of O where she wears little but a mask in her last scene at the Masked Banquet. She was obviously Queen of the Ball. She Owned it. I'm not sure how I'd feel in a moment of reality? It would depend on the situation. In fantasy, it sounds hot as Hell! Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Summersolstice' When I read your topic title, one thing immediately came to mind: "Oooooooooh, sssssomebody ssstop me!" I had exactly the same thought when I read the thread title!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    For the whole Eyes Wide Shut fantasy. But I would need to be able to see the person's eyes and be able to freely kiss their lips

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    The masked orgy scene in Eyes Wide Shut was what started us on our way with regards swinging. We love the idea of attending a masked ball , just something about masks and the anonymity behind them. Went to Saints n Sinners and wore our Venetian masks all night. We would however not like to have sex with a stranger who is wearing a mask - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    About seeing the eyes, and the facial (body) language. I haven't been to any such event with a mask, but even for social occasions, masks have been typically uncomfortable to wear. I would go for a professionally painted on mask or something along those lines... something that instead of hiding part of you, could help to actually show another side of you, while still helping with actual anonymity if that is the purpose.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ... Batman isn't 'Venetian' enough :( Who knew? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My face gets hot too and makeup runs! You can get awesome leather ones now that are quite pretty and have large cutouts so they don't hide anything and are more like an embellishment. And there's stick on ones now too which are made of very thin vinyl. They work like a temporary tattoo almost. Although I'd be worried about them peeling off and half hanging off my face! Or you can use eye lash glue and stick gems around your eyes.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    The greatest sex organ we pocess is the mind. So seeing someone who attracts you without seeing their face is interesting. It then gets back to poise and body language alone. Foxxy, ur a scaredy cat.... 👻

  • Eiliethiya

    Eiliethiya

    8 years ago

    I've never worn a mask, and never attended parties or events where they were necessary or just for fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I wouldn't have sex with another masked person unless I was sure I know the person and it's someone I have a strong attraction to. Wearing a mask is something that appeals to me. A half face mask that leaves the cheeks and mouth exposed. It gives the opportunity to step outside of my own world and be someone totally different with maybe even a little role play involved.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I dislike them because they are an embellishment! They don't hold an air of mystery for me, rather, once taken off they reveal a reality that is oft deceptive. No thanks Mary xx

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    Yes I am...haha but the nicest scaredy cat you'll ever met. ;) Actually, I think there's some very beautiful masks out there. But not for me. I just freak out, especially clown and those "Anonymous" masks. EEEEK No thank you!! I've been in shops, not notice masks hanging up, then bolt (like lightening) out the door as soon as I see them. Ms Foxy

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    Hehe.. 👻 👻 Ooooooooooo.. lol 😜

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    and yes, you are a nice scaredy cat.. 😀 👌

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    8 years ago

    but if i've already seen their face then masks are fine. Its not going to do anything for me, but it doesn't really distract either. I've done it before in fact, after a masquerade party. but if i don't know what they look like i'll have reservations i may not be able to get past. Wearing one myself... well i've never tried, but i dont imagine i'd feel much different and certainly wouldn't act so. It would be like dressing up at halloween, a bit of fun, but still me underneath.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    Thanks ;) Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A lot of large swingers clubs events require masks. It's a pain and as soon as I see someone without one, mine comes off too. The people I go with all feel the same. They look gorgeous but are very impractical. I wouldn't wear one to an event unless it was compulsory. But they make a sexy entrance for a partner it you want to surprise them 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    depends on the mask, I have a nice chrome mask that is shaped more like an eye mask with holes in it so you can see, it looks friendly enough. My full face venetian mask looks fine by itself, but when you wear it, the lack of any expression is very eery. Likely anyone who has seen The Strangers would know what I mean about expressionless full face masks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    While I consider myself new (again) to this scene and even newer to commenting on forums (LOL!)... This topic caught my eye and got me thinking. The thought of wearing an actually mask doesn't overly excite me - but the idea of a lover/partner wearing a mask, turns me on significantly! For me: I feel I wear a metaphorical mask whenever I enter a situation dealing with casual sex/swinging/rhp etc... It's about my headspace for me. Scar xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • OzRednecks

    OzRednecks

    8 years ago

    I wouldn't recommend wearing one into a bank..... But in the bedroom or a party, yes, we both like masks. :)