PL1963

PL1963

M62

"The Old Bulls Paddock"

January 13 2016

Hi Forumites, this is my 1st post in 3yrs of RHP membership. Lol. Older mature guys, use this to showcase your "wares", or tell us about the worst profile or comment you've seen about us "Old Pricks". Mid 40's guys, pay attention, as once you turn 45, it's in the truck and off down to the "back paddock". Lol. Ladies and couples, perhaps you could tell us why we "get speared" @ 45, and tell us if you've had some fun with a "mature guy" and why you liked it. This is mainly for a laugh, but some useful information may come out as well. Cheers Paul.

Comments

  • Livingandloving2

    Livingandloving2

    9 years ago

    Mrs LAL here. We haven't started playing yet however, the first play will be with a mature gent. One in particular has got the " right stuff"... Experience, non pushy, confidence and GSOH. I agree that age doesn't come in to the equation. Forus ... it truly is about the attitude and feeling comfortable with the person. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • lovebitten

    lovebitten

    9 years ago

    I don't understand why men over a certain would be considered or would consider themselves past it. It's sad some fellows lie about their age. Experience and gravitas are sexy and very appealing to me! Lovebitten xox - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    The only single male FWB I have is 47...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Rarely contacted by older men,it's mainly men in their twenties and thirties with a granny fetish . .most older men are looking for much younger women in my experience .One 57 year old I briefly chatted to was looking for a 27 year old...and I have also been told I am past my use by date...ouch 😁xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We had an over 50s meet, and the ladies and gents were lovely. Im only here for casual lovers/friendships, so I prefer younger guys. If I was looking for something else, it would be with someone of my own age. I get passed over because of my age, thats fine, every one has different tastes. Dont take it personally. Im currently talking to a 50+ guy, he is funny and charming and looks great, whats not like ? I just think that on these sites, the women may have just come out of long stale relationships and are looking to play with younger guys. Some women that is, not all? xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We both rather like mixing and having fun with more mature people. 45 plus. Had a wonderful time with a lady in her late sixies. A more mature person just seems more laid back, to us anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    9 years ago

    A funny subject, but just the reality of being a guy over 45, though it gets harder over 50... These sites give an opportunity for woman and couples to have some fun with a variety of people and they mostly pick the younger guys as there is plenty of choice out there, and being intellectually superior to a younger guy does not beat him being 10 years or more younger than you... In the end its not something to worry about it is just a reality. B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Maybe the difference is the mindset of the gentleman in question? No offence intended.. just saying..older men definitely have something to offer ladies of all ages... 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    all i can add is thankfully there are other sites and i have had more success onI'm not gods gift in the looks department,hung, ripped,bent or have some major kink or an intellectual being. I'm also not a bogan or someone who cant carry a conversation who doesn't know how to be in the company of a ladyand at 50 + everything is still working okay.. I don't have any answers but the six months i was a paid member i couldn't even manage to pull a coffee on here, yet i managed a meet on Sunday and with another last night off the "vanilla" type siteanyway persevere and good luck with it.

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    9 years ago

    That while things get a little harder the older ..... Life is still what you make of it. If your mindset is very negative then will make things extremely hard no matter what your age.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I am only interested in men over 45.Younger guys do not do it for me.But......do guys over 45 really want older women?OP your age range is 25 to 65.Are you really wanting 25 years olds to contact you?

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    9 years ago

    I have only ever been interested in men closer to my age, not all interested in younger guys. I am also only interested in someone who lives locally, emotionally available, wanting more than just a quickie,someone that I am attracted to as well. Now you may think its hard to find all that with one person....you are right. ....it is possible though

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Shit, i'm better off staying out of this, i'm part of the cause 😊 all I can say is you're an awesome guy, be happy, healthy, fit, grab life by the throat or the balls lol (works for me 😉) and never, ever, use age as an excuse. Keep your glass half full and lap up every single moment. Find things that inspire you, fuel you, music and exercise do it for me, and the beach, the trifecta for me now. Anyway, hang in there, there are plenty of women who prefer more mature age men 😃

  • langton11

    langton11

    9 years ago

    I'm 46 now (my profile pic is approx a year old but I have improved a little bit since then, just too lazy to take another pic lol) and in fairly decent shape for my age. As we're always learning, I think age gives us the upper hand as we have the opportunity to improve ourselves and our understanding of others which overall shapes us into a better (or sometimes worse) person. I feel that us older guys, much like older gals, have more to bring to the table more often than not. I cannot do the really young girl thing. The lowest I'd even consider is early thirties and on the upside early fifties, but it would largely depend on the individual much in the same way curveemama mentioned above. I_touch_myself2.......you're trouble rofl As you were :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yep , wholeheartedly agree . Even most of the ladies our age are looking for younger bulls . They may say they aren,t but with the ratios on here , and when you look at their friends lists they are all younger men with rippling abs . Makes it hard for us older guys , even if we are more experienced or thoughtful in how to please partners . Haven't had much success on here at all to be frank , had more outside of RHP , I honestly don't know why I payed for membership . Most messages are not even replied to and feel this site is just another indication of the plastic society we live in nowadays , all fluff and no substance .

  • robb4532

    robb4532

    9 years ago

    I'm mid 40's and I wouldn't consider myself a "mature guy".... I think age is irrelevant. The way I present and conduct myself represents me more accurately than any single number. There are definately woman out there looking for men their in their 40's and 50's...and many are very sexy who have life experience, know their own bodies, are comfortable in the own skin and are looking for similar qualities in men. Don't put us out to pasture yet Paul...the fun is just begining!! Robb - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    lol 😁 trouble I am 😯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    us old cows know how to handle the old bulls.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Old langton11 has much trouble getting what he wants on here. Begs the question as to who is really responsible for relegation to the back paddock. Lose the idea that by being older you have more experience in pleasing women. If it seriously took you 20 odd years to work that out you are an extremely slow learner. Accept things as they are not how you think they should be. Own the problem and you own the solution.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hi Paul while aging makes the girth thicken, the hair grey, recede, disappear and grow more rapidly out of your ears, nose and eye brows ... .. it also tends to imbue us with other redeeming traits .... patience ..... gratitude .... knowledge .... experience and technique. The one that stands out for me is experience .... which gives the knowledge of what is possible .. and the will to search a little longer to find it .... whether it be .... a personality type ... or the secret spot that every individual has which makes them ... er ....happy ;) Jules spoke of being adept and comfortable as a social partner .... not every thing lives and dies in the sack .... great company is a very redeeming trait, and will overcome most adversities .. with a giggle ... yes .. our expectations of physicality lower ... but I find that the joy of flirting and seduction are enhanced ... and as one of the older (Ulysses .. is a few 1000 BC ) can I say to you .... that my current theory is that the mind is by far the greatest sexual organ .... without it, fabulous bodies, with the best intent and equipment will fail ... we can all remember sexual flops, which should not have been when we possess perfect equipment ... but can i suggest to you that the mind has the ability of solo pleasure purely mentally, even to the point of orgasm .... ask any 15 year old. ... and as a person who likes to write, and do my wooing that way .... prime and feed a woman's/partners brain sensually ..... and her body will treat you with her pearls .... ps I consider it poor form not to sample the pearls after .. after all .... she would do it for you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Wheres Meeks with her milking stool???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My view, life begins at 40, 45 is half way there when aiming for 90+. Not old yet !

  • precious142

    precious142

    9 years ago

    Is all I can say..........and speaking as a DOW, that means something..... There is a time and place for all ages.....and all experiences. Take a chance and just go with it....well, works for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Two bulls are standing on a hill overlooking a paddock full of cows.The young bull says "lets charge down the hill, trample the fence, corner one and fuck her !"The old bull says, "No, lets walk down the hill, go through the gate and fuck them all"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Lol the least Dirty Old Woman I know, very Respectful Elegant Lady I have had the pleasure of meeting and knowing. You shouldn't be out the 'false advertising' you know lol The world is not full of enough special people like you :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Just turned 45 in Nov the 'salt and pepper' has started whilst I can agree with most of the sentiment on here I'm finding that the 'fun' times are are 15 years either side of me and I'm loving the company and friendship that goes with this stage of my life.