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The Politics Of Coming
July 14 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Someone has to go first! I can't imagine the announcement of: "OK guys, we'll be bringing the evening to an end in 5 minutes- so you're all free to cum now!", would enhance the mood. I say awesome! He's done, now he can concentrate on the rest of us!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its only polite to yell out Comming ready or not! works for me
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RHP User
12 years ago
everyone wants to cum first.......perhaps next time OP you could give a motivational speech and explain that your chosen event is the marathon not the sprint and that the winner is the one who cums last.x Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
I kinda thought that was pretty much the point !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
My issue was really around having his cum in her vagina with my hubbie still unfinished. Maybe we're just too new to the scene to see this as an attractive proposition. But generally too I am really interested in what others can tell me about coming when it's more than just the 2 of you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
1/. Why is it rude? As others have said, isn't it kind of the point? 2/. When exactly did you expect him to cum? AFTER play has finished? 3/. You sound surprised that everyone's cumming during a foursome? Ummmm.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I usually give my self time to ask if it's ok.Most times your lady is in the mood to share a fuck. In this case it's bad form. But every now and again they want to get off buy pleasing you. Then it's fine.
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
If he's going to cum first he should refrain from doing so inside her before anyone else gets near her pussy. That does seem pretty rude, especially if they expect anyone to get their mouth near her...Unless he's just a selfish dick who wants to mark his territory then get a shot with you and leave your hubby wanting?
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SacralChakra
12 years ago
It ends the fun for his wife as its not safe for anyone to go near her except him... Its not like it can just be wiped off.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We think we see where the OP is cumming from. You meet up with a couple the anticipation grows with the intention of swapping etc. How long do most expect the bedroom play to go for? We can see the selfishness if one is not controlling himself so play is over in 15 minutes, apart from the 100s of super stud guys on RHP that reckon the cum time and time again and still keep going, In reality we havnt seen that! In the swap situation, We might start off with our partners but I will not have intercouse with the other lady until her husband is into it with my wife and if he cums in 5 mins well I do the same...its 4 way play for us. So because he cummed in 5 mins he has cut the play short for the other 3. We dont think the OP is asking about safe sex, as condoms and dams for oral and intercourse with others.......dont we? We have experianced some couples ask dont have sex with your partner before me...ummmm paranoid!
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' If he's going to cum first he should refrain from doing so inside her before anyone else gets near her pussy. That does seem pretty rude, especially if they expect anyone to get their mouth near her...Unless he's just a selfish dick who wants to mark his territory then get a shot with you and leave your hubby wanting? Quoting 'SacralChakra' It ends the fun for his wife as its not safe for anyone to go near her except him... Its not like it can just be wiped off. It is selfish to cum over his wife i mean would another guy go near here with cumm all over her? if i were you i would insist on everyone using condoms that way the guys can cum where ever they want and its all contained and doesn't expose anyone to any nasty surprises.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'TokenUtopian'My issue was really around having his cum in her vagina with my hubbie still unfinished. Maybe we're just too new to the scene to see this as an attractive proposition. But generally too I am really interested in what others can tell me about coming when it's more than just the 2 of you. Ok, clarification helps. But wouldn't your hubby being using a condom? Otherwise wouldn't be safe regardless of whether the other man had come or not. So is the other man's come an issue if thats the case? We would generally just feel that if you're having a foursome then things get sticky - as long as it's safe sticky what's the prob? lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe everyone should be using condoms regardless of who they are fucking? That'd solve the problem. Mind you, even that makes no sense to me unless the ladies are using dental dams for oral on themselves. So is the squeamish part here the men not wanting another mans cum near his mouth? But the ladies are supposed to be OK with tasting the other ladies fluids on a cock, but men's fluids are a no go zone on another pussy?? That doesn't seem fair!
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RHP User
12 years ago
What happened to safe sex? Or do couples not practise this nowadays?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Doesn't anyone possess fingers any more? hahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
>p>This was 'supposedly' safe sticky with my hubbie gloved up, but our male playmate bare with his wife only. And vice versa (hubbie bare with me). If the shoe had been on the other foot, my hubbie would have checked in with everyone-else first. Some of you on here are right, it did cut the play short but you know in this instance... that was fine, it was pretty late in the night but I can see that the timing could have been an issue. It's more the uncontained boldly fluids for us. Don't get me wrong I love sperm, orgasms are awesome but good communication makes for everyone getting what they want from an encounter - or as close to that outcome as possible. Safe sex is a priority to us but we're also not wrapping ourselves head to toe in plastic. We play the way the majority we've met do... No rubber for foreplay, no dental dams, bareback with your own partner, rubber with others. We won't play with couples whose status is if required or sometimes, that's our choice made to lower our risks. His come presents a potential risk. In the words of Pauline Hanson: I don't like it :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think MissSarahCurious hit the nail on the head. Cumming inside her before anyone else had had a chance may seem poor form, perhaps atleast asking if they (other couple) are fine with that would be a proper type of ettiquete. Having said that, I have no experience with other couples, newly divorced and ex had no interest, so maybe I am way off the mark.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd only be too happy to cum in her after hubby has. Would be such a turn on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting Token ............."We won't play with couples whose status is "if required" or "sometimes", that's our choice made to lower our risks." This "choice" offered by RHP I thought a little ambiguous. I didnt like any of the others either. In the choices that were offered, we both chose "if required". In a group situation (still group "virgins" ....but we are "fresh off the bus") I would NOT wear a condom with my wife (Im neutered), unless the other couple had an issue with that and explained (if required). But I also would not cum inside her. I would WANT to wear a condom with another woman (now its required), and expect that another guy with my wife would be the same (also required). So anyway this is viewed, there is protection where required. Isnt it all about communication? Perhaps this etiquette could be discussed during the "interview". (note to self) Yes life is all about Mangaging risk where it cant be eliminated.
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RHP User
12 years ago
there is no correct etiquette here.Just because someone cums, it doesn't need to stop, just take a break, have a shower & start again. If you're really keen, help clean up ! You may meet guys who cum a few times during a session of fun. What will happen when you meet people who squirt?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe it was just habit?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Crikey,didn't know she was into foursomes, would someone please explain?
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
Quoting 'classywicked'Yes life is all about Mangaging risk where it cant be eliminated. I chuckled to myself when i read your post Classywicked lol managing risks mmmm being an WHS officer at work we come across that saying alot It would be an interesting Risk Assessment to write on a foursome play.Not to mention the 'Safe Work Method Statement' lolDoes anyone have a MSDS on sperm??????? lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can see the sense in requiring condoms for foursome play regardless of whether it's coming in your partner or the other lady. Due to the makeup of male ejaculatory fluid, it is a very good carrier of some STI's (i.e. HIV is very easily transmitted from male cum). I can see the sense in not wanting other people's ejaculatory fluid getting anywhere near either of you. In the case of coming early, perhaps it was late and he was tired, didn't have the best control. Sucks but it happens. If he had been jacketed, the play could have continued, so yeh, I guess you could see it as a bit rude. We generally go for the girls come first, then guys are free to go system as everyone gets to have their fun. I start to get a bit bored and tired if play goes on too long, but I don't mind sitting back watching the view, then joining back in for Mr Otori to come.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i like to whip my cock out and Scream at the Top of my Lungs ....Hey Mum check this out just as i am about to Blow....... I never get why ..Its just fun Yeah that will kill the moment..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't understand the problem ....Just dive in cuz ....thats the best time , a pussy filled with cum ...so soft , creamy & warm ..get your cock straight into it ...or better still dive down & lick that pussy clean .....love the taste of cum filled pussy...After all we're not talking love making ...isn't this hardcore fucking ?.....if your just into str8 sex then why are you swapping & playing 4 sums ?....don't let fear hold ya back just go for if ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes please , Sloppy seconds. Best to get your partner nice and wet before swapping! Then whos for round two!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I recently played with a couple and the male of the couple did this too. I had gone down on the female and she had gone down on me but neither of us had come. Then while she was going down on me he fucked her and came inside her with no condom - he was one of those guys who does not make much noise when he came so I did not know. I went to go back down on her and smelt it, I sort of pulled back and then she comment "oh he has had his fun down there, do you mind?" YES I FUCKING MIND. I anted to eat pussy not pussy cock combo. And it was not late - he had not had much to drink - there were condoms available so no excuses.
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