The Thinking Woman's Fuck

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  And there were repeat encounters. Its may be my age but if theres a connection its always good, and you can feel the mutual need to please, followed by the lying together in each others arms as you come down from that euphoric high. I have some fond memories that will always make me smile....... It makes up for the guys who say they are only on here looking for sluts to fuck ( as announced in the chat room the other day). There are genuine, passionate and caring guys who will give you nights .....or mornings, afternoons, whatever.....to remember.

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  PurePeony

  9 years ago

  I just discovered this great topic! WineFirstX, another good topic by you! koko, I like your comment. That chat room comment from the men that you shared is sleazier than a barrel of grease! Yucks! Unbelievable! Makes me really really want to take it very very slow to weed out people like that. Sadly, some of them have learnt to be polished and a bit more immaculate so it gets harder to peel off the veneer. Back to the topic. OP, what you have described sounds more like a relationship based on LOVE. I doubt that such an encounter is possible from a casual standpoint. I mean, it can be replicated but nothing can replace the intensity, the soul-connection that you get from making love, as opposed to just fucking to satisfy lust. Maybe, that is why I struggle with being on RHP. I much prefer making love to fucking. Well, unless I've been crazy-deprived but even then, I still have standards. LOL! Let me share quotes from an article I've read recently, "The Hook-Up Culture Only Exists Because This Generation Has Never Properly Fallen in Love" : "The concept of love and intimacy is so incredibly beautiful that once you understand the concept fully, once you realize your brain can create the feelings associated with romantic love, you’re hooked on it for life." "It’s the intimacy we are truly after and it’s the one thing almost always missing from a relationship. ... ... Intimacy requires you to expose yourself, to show your true colors. It requires you to be vulnerable and to place all your cards on the table." "True intimacy is a complete unraveling of all our defenses. It’s allowing someone else to see us for who we really are, not just for who we let on to be. And for intimacy to truly be present, it has to flow from both parties. A majority of relationships don’t even come close." "By being in a bad relationship, you are hurting yourself, just as you are if you’re settling for a good one. Great love does exist. A great version of you does exist. Near-perfect is attainable and what that means you will understand when you find the right person. Stop wasting your time dating people you don’t really care about or don’t connect with on a deep enough level. I never understood this, but that’s only because the first time I fell in love, it was the real deal. I now can never settle for anything short of “wow.”" I have tried to listen to my body's urges and meet its sexual needs but the heart and mind and soul simply rebel against it and on a deep level, reject it. I've given it a fair go and whilst it does satiate the lustful urges (which can make me go crazy and sex-obsessed esp since I am highly sexed!), I'm never fully satisfied. It's akin to this : After tasting the best steak at a 5-star steakhouse, could you ever be ecstatic about a McDonald's burger ever again? :P Sometimes, I wish I weren't so philosophical because it's so much easier to be happy when you don't ponder so much but oh well... born with it. Haha!

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  Badsitefguys

  3 years ago

  I disagree there seems to be a bit of chat but not much closing the deal.

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