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October 27 2012

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As a 'unicorn' I have had the privilege of exploring my sexuality with some lovely couples.   I have been the first for some couples, played with more experienced couples, and (with a FWB) assisted some women in enjoying their first time with a couple.   I have played in straight FMF situations and (my preferrence if playing with couples) bi FMF situations.   I initially explored with couples because I often could not choose between them when at a club. I am one who doesnt like limiting my choices lol. Those Ive had the privilege of being the first for have more often than not, been friends who knowing me as well as they do, wanted to explore that aspect for themselves and trusted me enough to introduce them to the fun of a third person.   I know we all have differnet reasons behind exploring a more liberated lifestyle but my question to girls (and guys) is what initially made you opt to playing with a couple?   Kisses Focus

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Was/is our favourite couple to play with..hubby was away but gave me a "Free Pass"! After a few days had gone past of nothingness I thought "Christ I better do something.." I texted them asked if they would mind "babysitting " me for the night and voila'Was a most enjoyable experience as she isn't just in it to please her man she genuinly is keen for a girls touch and there isn't an ounce of jealously there either so we all had a blast she playing with me..her playing with him, me playing with him we playing with him her or me..sigghs ( I know they will read this lol....)Anyways Ive often thought this as being a good way for couples to try the MFM or MFF option if they ever meet the right couples that they feel totally comfortable with. We've often joked about the" mystery box" scenario with this couple..a game of sorts..arrange a meeting and who will turn up at your door..him or her...(BIG HINT THERE!!! you know who you are....) ....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Blah, I really don't like the term 'unicorn'. Just putting it out there!When I first started out, I had no idea whether I really was remotely bisexual. I guess part of the reason why I went home with my first couple was because I had the opportunity to 'test'' to see if I did have that streak of bisexuality, but if it turns out on the night I discovered I actually wasn't, at least at the hubby of the couple to fall back on and with whom us ladies could solely concentrate our efforts on. Also, the both of them were absolutely gorgeous people, so that made the final decision ridiculously easy! :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    something I have yet to experience...the only couple that I am interested in and vice versa,just live so far away but hopefully we will meet soon. I think that the word unicorn is beautiful,such a magical creature,I like magicx R

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Whats the male equivalent of unicorn ?Blowfly ?

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  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    12 years ago

    I first tried couples because it was much easier to get time with other women than finding other single women so I guess you could say I took the cheat's way to get into their panties, hehe.Plus I'm pretty awful at picking up girls, I never know if they're into me or just being friendly :( The guys usually made a good buffer and if he was a good one he'd be in tune with his partner and tell me if she was into me.I gave up on couples eventually as I had a couple of bad experiences, one where the woman I had previously been with on her own changed her mind about 'sharing him' after we were already into it. I wasn't really into him anyway, just wanted to be with her again, and I was horrified at the thought of being the one that had come between them.Another where they had a fair bit of experience, kept insisting there were no rules, no boundaries, nothing off limits, etc when we talked beforehand. Yet when the time came that he was about to cum he suddenly, without warning, ripped his pierced cock out of my mouth, narrowly avoiding the very recent very expensive dental work I'd had done, and went over to fuck her til he came. He later said they had a "his cum is for her" policy they'd neglected to mention despite me asking many times and being assured there was nothing I needed to know. After those couples in particular I became so paranoid that there'd be something I wouldn't know, something I'd miss or they just wouldn't tell me (or something they hadn't discussed) that I'd be watching like a hawk for any signs that things weren't going right that it became really fucking draining and I'd go home tired and relieved rather than happy and satisfied. It just wasn't worth it for me in the end.xx Sarah

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I managed to get two girls back to my place for a bit of play once. It was my first threesome and it was a little disappointing. They each started getting upset that the other was getting too much attention. Another time, I shared one of those same girls with a mate. Again a disappointment as he started feeling the guilts as soon as he'd blown his load down her throat and became a bit of a pill. Since then, it's always been with Jennylee and whether it was a male or female that joined us, it's always been bliss with satisfaction for everyone. It's always been the same thing that's led me to experience threesomes. Lust.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Saturn - that is the cheats way out lol but I understand why you would go down that path. At least everyone knew what was involved and it would have been a much more relaxed environment than going in 'blind' so to speak.   Amuse - I understand your dislike for the term 'unicorn' and find that there are many I dont like that are often bandied around. I am so glad your experience was a positive one, and it is definately one way to test the water. It is always much easier if youre attracted to both parties involved.   Freya - my fingers are crossed for you in the hope that it is everything you want it to be. Oh and that it happens sooner rather than later for you.   50zcool - hmmmmm can I think on that one?   MissSarah - I pretty much gave up on playing with couples for similar reasons. More and more often I was finding couples werent willing to take the time with me (I can take a while to reach an orgasm) and while I understand that theirs is the primary relationship and I am adding a special addition to the bed for a limited time only it is disenheartening when I am left high and dry and theyre all done for the night. I was finding that many couples were so intent on their own pleasure that they often forget the third person in the mix.   Jensman - its nice to see couples who do offer the experience ensuring everyone is satisfied - sadly dont everyone is as thoughtful as yourself and JennyLee.   Kisses Focus

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  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    12 years ago

    I read a while ago saying that as the single woman joining a couple your 'role' is to make it a great experience for the couple. Now while I do get a lot of pleasure out of giving pleasure, I'd take a 3some or more with all singles over a couple any day.xx Sarah

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'I read a while ago saying that as the single woman joining a couple your 'role' is to make it a great experience for the couple. Now while I do get a lot of pleasure out of giving pleasure, I'd take a 3some or more with all singles over a couple any day. xx Sarah Hence why now if I do indulge in a threesome its with a FWB....strictly bi only and we ensure everyones needs are met   Kisses Focus

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi     I decided to give couples a go for two reasons. One I was curious as to what the experience would be like with two men "servicing" a woman. I must say the experience to me was was sensational. I have met some nice couples along the way who are also social friends as well as play pals.     The second reason (which probably should be first) is that I was having very little success meeting unattached ladies. I found they often said one thing but meant another. Then one got the flakers who didn't show up for a coffee/drink meet and the "attention" seekers who probably had no intention of meeting anyone but get their jollies by all the online attention they get.     Couples I have found are generally far more honest in what they want and say what they want in plain text without all the "coded" language that many unattached ladies use.     Just my thoughts on the subject.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I wasn't sure of my orientation sexually so the couple situation gave a good opportunity to test the waters. More genitals equals more fun so the preference for couples remains topmost. And like the person that messaged Lost_Focus, too many dissapointments with trying to meet up with single women.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Would love to try couples but I am the wrong sex or the wrong cohort or possibly the wrong state ! Or most likely all three !Quoting 'Deviousbassman36' I wasn't sure of my orientation sexually so the couple situation gave a good opportunity to test the waters. More genitals equals more fun so the preference for couples remains topmost. And like the person that messaged Lost_Focus, too many dissapointments with trying to meet up with single women.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Why cheats ?lol harsh in kindy kind of way.. Smarts way to go I will stand by..each to there own how they decide to play

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  • rk5tar

    rk5tar

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Lost_Focus' Hi     I decided to give couples a go for two reasons. One I was curious as to what the experience would be like with two men "servicing" a woman. I must say the experience to me was was sensational. I have met some nice couples along the way who are also social friends as well as play pals.     The second reason (which probably should be first) is that I was having very little success meeting unattached ladies. I found they often said one thing but meant another. Then one got the flakers who didn't show up for a coffee/drink meet and the "attention" seekers who probably had no intention of meeting anyone but get their jollies by all the online attention they get.     Couples I have found are generally far more honest in what they want and say what they want in plain text without all the "coded" language that many unattached ladies use.     Just my thoughts on the subject.I have found this to be true as well. I haven't been successful as yet to find someone to join both of us in the bedroom. I have been lucky to have been with a few ladies by myself and thoroughly enjoyed it for the most part.But I would hope that I come across as honest as you feel couples to be. I don't want anyone to have any surpises on the day so to speak.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ive never played with a couple, I've been in a relationship and we invited a girl in, worst idea ever!! The jealousy and BS lasted for ages. It wasnt worth the drama. If I'm in another relationship with a likeminded woman Id have another go at it but would have to be a special lady

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