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The art of the tease

January 26 2013

Hey guys and girls, I read another thread recently about the difference in women and men and their hormones regarding NSA sex. It got me thinking, Every girl I know from here has complained about guys messages being so direct and blunt eg. Hey baby wanna come over and fuck.. Here's my number, email address, Skype address, dogs name etc etc. I get the feeling a lot of men and women have lost the art of the tease. The whole NSA sex thing while it can be fun for a fleeting moment IMHO it is nothing compared to seducing one another slowly, teasing each other until neither can take it anymore and your passion overrides everything. I know some people love to just get down and dirty which is fine if that's your thing. a little while ago I went to a burlesque show and omg so sexy and seductive without being smutty. The glimpses of what could be there Got me horny as hell with not a nipple or other female part in sight. I really don't know how to ask this without elaborating on my personal life but what do you guys think about teasing? How many times could you meet someone without sex but with plenty of foreplay, teasing, kissing etc? What little tricks do you like to use on your partner/s to keep them wanting more, getting them more and more worked up.. For an example, sometimes when I am going down on a girl I will kiss my way down her body and down her thighs. Then slowly run my tongue and lips upwards and around her labia blowing on it a little till they are pushing their hips upwards begging you to lick them. I will hold back a little bit then lick slowly upwards.. Anyway hopefully you get the idea. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The art of the tease is gone   As you know Op I do burlesque where you are trained to tease - however even in burlseque you will recal l that in the end there is the big reveal...   The same with the sexual tease - do what you will, but in the end..both parties will give in.....you may build tension but it will be released physically ...eventually   But the mind fuck, the tease of the brain..our largest sexual organ is a whole different ball game   I believe the art of conversation with sexual innuendo, witty banter, double entrende etc is long gone.....why ? because we dont have work at really getting someone into bed any more.....in my humble opinion   Ive only met one person in all my travels that could do this seduce the brain and mind with words..whenIi met him it started within minutes and went on for hours and days......by the weeks end I was quivering mess....he fucked me before he fucked me !!! - but he was an exceptional man - and one is lucky if they ever meet any one exceptional in their lives...   Sadly for all our modes of communication, the art of the tease, seduction is dead.........because like everything in our lives, we opted for the fast food approach......I want it and I want it now...with bugger all effort....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    This little FOX listens very carefully for a male (Regnard) howl.The howl must have vocal tease, some flirtation and some art of tease to attract the mind...NO tease or flirtation of the mind = no mating..When this little VIXEN hears the right tone of hail, it is returned by letting out a purrrrrrr vocal call, wave her little butt, flutter eyelids and prepare the den for mating....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    every Friday I receive a message,sometimes more than one,from the same man.A man whose name I do not know,but who I have met.There is nothing overtly sexual in these messages,but they are somehow erotic ,small details that reveal the thoughts and mind of someone who is not quite a stranger,not quite a lover,not quite a friend. Tantalising.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I have to say ...you have now met someone exceptional....:) and you are completely the rite person to appreciate this     Enjoy

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You are talking about the art of seduction. God it's been forever since anyone has seduced me. Said it before, when will someone sweep me off my feet? Yum!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Lost art. ? Not true... It's just that everyone expects things to happen without any effort. It's part of my nature to tease from the moment i meet someone who interests me. If she picks up on it and enjoys it, it will carry right through to the bedroom.. Not about to give you a running commentary or step by step lesson, but sex without effort is just sex. Sex with mental stimulation is another thing altogether... Jay.

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    12 years ago

    It's a jungle out there, so be prepared for some jungle warfare and unfair tactics.   It all starts with the eyes for me, that certain look and intrigue as you are drawn in and become curiouser and curiouser.   I talk with my eyes, so if you catch my glance you may understand...should you take my interest   Sometimes I play fair and if my subtle hints of touch and looks are not getting through to Mrs P, the I bring out my not so secret weapon and shamelessly walk around the house flaunting my goods.   The most effective teasing is done without touch

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Receiving an unwrapped present isn't very exciting for anyone. No anticipation, no inquisitive thoughts. When in a relationship with a woman, methods of tease are frequently discussed, tested and put into action.It is something both the woman and I enjoy. Watching her be able to make another man go weak at the knees is definitely a turn on.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Ditto Love your last line playful4u So true :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The art of the tease is a great game to play.. It is the best way to work up sexual tension. It is never done with overt, sloppy, grunting, banged out text. Well till that time the need, that explosive force is well primed, then with a subtlest flick of the finger, bang bang. To fire a gun one must cock the weapon. A gently almost imperceptible action, just a click. Once the shot is fired you will never be the same. If one is a good marksman with a well oiled instrument there is no target that can not be made to squirm.But the game works both ways. A target must present and entice that aim. Nothing better then a difficult shot. A hundred birds can draw attention but at that flash of something alluring I stand erect, present as a target my self and let lose with both chambers. Seldom do I miss and I do not always aim for head. Nor always wish to just eat. Just a mount for my desire. Tongue in cheek... or is that between cheeks OP, or working your way there. Bang. LOL blown it again..........

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    HotdiggettydamnU are absolutely rightA lot of guys do, do that when they message other female and couple members. Ruins it for a lot of true members.The fun and excitement is the journey/ travel... not the destination. I wrote something similar to a thread about role play... what I learned and how things were planned. Though it was a first time for me, and me as a person though Im an open book when I joined RHP in 2004 and I love to push the others buttons. When I sit and think about that night, still blows me away and gives a rise ;)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    i think i love you ...............lol...now if you were just 10 years older............damn damn damn...lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    and body language   I had a blast last night, one poor guy with seven women. His mates never showed up for an australia day thing. He is the lodger at one of my girlfriends house.   so we drank some Penis Coladahhhhhs as we all called them by the end of the night   we got into some sex clothes while he sat on a bed, as red as a beetroot but unable to turn away from the girls all changing clothes and laughing to we just about busted   even ripped one of the corsetts trying to undo it, and had to get him to help us all change into this and that   and No sex at all   we even all got into a kids blow up pool in the back yard and squished him in there with us. Just women having a laugh and great time and him learning a thing or three   I was down in the kitchen this morning and he wanders out of his room with a towl on and we just smiled he said I will live on the flash backs of last night for a long time   the Australia day tease.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ...it's really an art or anything that has ever been lost unless you didn't want to find it...you'll find only what you bring in, funny how life works that way.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Shinas, that show was absolutely awesome, are they on at the fringe festival this year? blindman - I think I know what you are saying... Your talking about birds right? Meeka - good luck :) I'm sure you're beating them off with a bat anyway!!! Was talking to a friend about how many people check out her profile compared to mine.. I was happy with 99 in the last month haha she had about 3.5k lol, talk about needle in a haystack on this site for girls. Funnily enough she wasn't really getting messaged though but the flirts, gees one guy had sent her 15 flirts and she hadnt replied to any because she just gets so many. missbowpeek - ;) now now that's just a tease friskyeating - let's just say I've learnt a lot about teasing over the last week and a half, came up against a master and we both came off 2nd best.. TR - goddamn, lucky guy ,)p

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yes they are..go to the website...you will see its starts next Friday nite with Big Top Tease (Im going Friday nite) - thats on for two nites then a stack of shows around the fringe over the next 10 days...or check out the Fringe website...

  • subgal_gc

    subgal_gc

    12 years ago

    A lovely guy that I met on here lives interstate and as a result we don't get the chance to see each other very often so we have worked out the art of teasing and seduction by the use of both the written and spoken words. We would write and share our fantasies and desires to get us thru the inbetween times of his visits. It is amazing the difference that mental and emotional seduction can make to the feelings of physical seduction when we are together. Its not to say that we wouldn't still enjoy the sex without it (cause it is great sex) but the teasing and mental seduction heightens the experience for both of us.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Will check it out, thanks