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The come down

March 05 2018

Hi all, long time reader....not often poster here :) I was wondering about people's thoughts and strategies for the inevitable come down that occurs after a wild fun filled night. This is especially so for singles who might not have the company and support of a partner with whom they can reflect on the activities of the night before. The bdsm community are well aware of "sub drop" and anyone who doesn't consider aftercare is soon known about. Is this something others have experienced? I would love to hear people's thoughts on thi. Many thanks.

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madotara69

7 years ago

After care ?

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inspirit

7 years ago

Sounds as though you are referring to two different kinds of play? Sub drop after care is extremely important and needed. However always staight after play or at least very soon after, for me anyway. As for a fun filled night of shanigans which to me is just that, I love getting home to chill in my own space. Im not saying a night being in a submissive head space isn't funfilled, it is just different. For me anyway. Its intense and boundary pushing taking you to places you once thought, you could never go. - Posted from rhpmobile

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inspirit

7 years ago

.. and I hope insightfull for many. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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beebs

7 years ago

Thank you inspirit for your thoughts. I mentioned sub drop as an example of the consideration that is given to people as they come down from the endorphin infused space of a session. I’m not for a moment suggesting that in a group swinging scene for instance that strangers would be following up but that said, my regular play friends and I seem to make sure we touch base in the days after. I guess I am coming at things from the angle where the single person has got home, domestic life surrounds them, family obligations probably exist in some form or other and work beckons the following day.

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EarthQueen

7 years ago

Feel it often. I'm mostly happy being single but that after drop can be a bitch. Almost like a mini depression before you pick yourself up and dust off again. But I also have the same feeling after a fun weekend away with girlfriends or a great night out watching music and dancing. So not just exclusive to sex. Part of it I guess is the endorphin rush of a great time, be it sexual or otherwise. Or with sex just the realisation that it would be great to do it again the next morning with a partner and cuddling and touching afterwards? That part of being single kind of sucks.

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LetsFrolic

7 years ago

Just sucks in general - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

...strong Irish espresso in the morning. Buzz to buzz with no sex-over. ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

What's a wild fun filled night?

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RHP User

7 years ago

Well you’re aware of it, so you’re halfway there. Just keeping busy and remembering the hot steamy moments and look forward to the next meet. Sexting keeps the high going too. Vitamin B and potassium also helps. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

That’s why you make other kinky friends who you can bragg and compare notes with!! Or better yet, you take some of your friends to the wild parties so you can all reminisce together in the morning. I notice on here that lots of people, although it seems it’s more the men, just use RHP to hook up without realizing that making friends amongst like minded people can be a real bonus.

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