The difference between 'making love' and 'having sex'

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Making love as the words indicate involves emotions and pure feelings of love for the person you are making love to. It can be the closest you can be with someone both physically and emotionally. Whilst having sex just involves pure lust and physicality. Having sex is all about pleasure and getting to the Big O. Making love is about the journey to the Big O.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Maybe I'm wrong but to me "Making Love" involes a combination of both the physical with feelings & emotions of sex with someone you are emotionally involved with on some level . "Having Sex" is just enjoying the physical pleasure of the act.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It couldnt have been said any better wanted_older .. that is a perfect distinction between the two.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Wanting older,have to admit you put that together very nicely. There should be more LOVE,going around,Life without love is meaningless.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Of course there is a difference and 'wanted older' put it so perfectly. It is the journey that I am missing, to be sure.... Ohhhh, where is the LOVE? Hmmmmmm

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Making love there is a candle glowing warmly , Sex !,, there is no candle , but she has a paper bag on her head , and you have too , in case hers falls off !!! ~~~Horrible~~~ * Warning , dont use plastic bags ,, its dangerous !!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  dare I say it ...?? Making love is about having a connection - yes emotional, but no, it doesn't have to be with someone you love as such. It can be a one-nighter in my opinion, but it has to have something extra special, where the physical has rhythm, the emotional has intensity and even the spiritual ... that sense of real expansiveness and timelessness ... gets a gig. Where you get lost in the touch, smell, feel of each other and can look deeply into each others' eyes without feeling awkward. (God, I sound like a wanker!). Ok, maybe that's all crap lol (I hope not though!) But maybe it's just this ... making love is what we long for, sex is what we settle for! (Or is that just chicks? Or even just me perhaps??)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Thanks guys and girls for all the replys. So to sum up 'making love' is where you have feelings for the person 'having sex' is simply having sex with no emotional involvement. I like wanted_olderguys analogy about the big O and getting there. Now to find some willing participants searching for the big O and they may even be interested in the journey :-)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  lover or sex buddy....snuggling up together under covers.... only the tick of the clock points to wether we awake to rejection tommorow.. cheers astralwalker.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Raven baby,really after reading your crap,and it seems you really dont know the difference between LOVE & SEX,and we think it,s just you.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  fortunately, toto..., everyone is entitled to their opinion ;)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  or is it rosanna, would hate to blame the wrong one. Another post, another topic, but the same big slice of brutal immaturity. PD

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  to us anyway. Making love is being with the one you love with the lights down low, no time restraints, no pressure, nice and easy with mutual desire. Sex is surprise her in the carport/laundry/kitchen/lounge, bend her over the car/washing machine/counter top/lounge and take her from behind like a wild man pawing and grunting. LOL Pretty simple. Next!

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