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The effect of masturbation
March 02 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mentally and physically, masturbation helps enormously in both areas. If you get up in a hurry and begin the day without looking after your needs, I often find myself far too edgy and not focused on the business at hand (unintended pun there!) Bring on Sunday
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RHP User
12 years ago
I only do it for medicinal puposes though
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RHP User
12 years ago
Clears the mind, then you`re ready to face the day !!! And like Devious said - medicinal purposes only haha x
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RHP User
12 years ago
if you masturbate in the morning,bring yourself just to the edge,don't cum.You will be energised by this restraint, and you will be erotised for the rest of the day. Later when you relax at home,that is the time to cum.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What a steamy OP! I confess, hardly a day goes by... Regardless of how much sex I'm getting.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
OK, Youve got our attention misschuckles. The range of chemicals and hormones released are very beneficial...... thats why we do it..... if it wasnt beneficial, we wouldnt. (and dont listen to the Pope..... you wont go blind..... my eyesight is 20/20... and shouldda gone in my teens if that were true!)I will put an alternative view out there though.... only because youve mentioned clitoral stimulation.A lot of women have created their own 'clitoral dependancy"..... and I have spoken to numerous women who have mentioned being unable to climax through any other form of stimulation.Now, I know some people will offer critical comment from me saying this...... that, is not ideal...... and vibrators can be bad, as well as good.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do agree you can get "clitoral dependency" if that it's the one area you focuse on.. Most women explore more then just there clit when masterbaiting. Hello we have lots of fun things to play with....... Alone .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Vibrators can bad...very very bad when batteries go flat.. LOL They also can be very very good in times of need!! ;-) Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dam spelling errors :/
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RHP User
12 years ago
my name is Freya and I am a clitoral dependent and I swear if you owned one DG ,you would be too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, I'm not joking, I'm serious. I'll explain. My wife's libido is lower than mine so I'm always wanting more sex than I get. I used to be a person that masturbated 3 times per day with porn. I developed what I call "pornographic saturation", where even the most interesting/exciting porn isn't doing it for me any more. I like amature porn because it is more realistic (pussies actually get licked). Watching this porn makes me a little sad because it reminds me of my previous sex life to my wife. Also porn fucks up guy's arousal levels when in real sexual situations. I have noticed this. I'm so sick of constantly being in a state of sexual hunger! So I have actually discovered something. Your sexuality can be turned off. I never thought it possible, but it is so relaxing and peaceful to not be hungry. So I have not used porn or masturbated for about three months now. I would rather be non-sexual, than staying up late looking for porn on the Internet and masturbating in the dark while my family sleeps and trying to keep an ear out for my kids incase they wake up. I'm just over it! Secrets
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RHP User
12 years ago
We get it. We've heard it before. How about not 'edumacating' us all and just telling us how good you feel when you play with yourself :P Not the biochemistry ffs.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes. My off switch is extraordinarily well developed. 13 years with a man I adored who had no interest in sex with me taught me well. Later discovering that sex only works for me if there is also love means sex is a rare adventure. And I would much rather go without than have sex and feel terrible about it. So I can switch off easily to that - but not to masturbation! You might enjoy learning about Tantra Mick - reconnecting with your own body in healthy and deeply, intensely sensual ways. Without the need for porn addiction :) Thanks for being so open x
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RHP User
12 years ago
I remember having breakfast with a friend. She was reading the paper and having a tea and I masturbated. Such a nice way to spend the morning. We went for a long walk afterwards. I also think that if my sex drive was lower, I would get more done. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lilmisschuckles' We get it. We've heard it before. How about not 'edumacating' us all and just telling us how good you feel when you play with yourself :P Not the biochemistry ffs. Oh, Im sorry miss cheeky..... did I cut too close. lolNow if miss Foxy gives me her clit (not forever, just for a few hours).... I'll let you know how it feels.lolDG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I make no secret of my challenges. But as you also well know, I make no secret of my intolerance for superiority ... or broken records :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont mind the occassional masturbation session but because it is an entre and not the main course I tend to do this maybe twice a week if no man is handy. I prefer the real thing and find that after several months of cooking for myself...it fails to work. So I just dont bother. Who has the time to spend all day in bed masturbating anyway? Micksectre81...I'm hearing ya buddy!!!
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
The record works well........only a few scratches on the flip sideDG
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RHP User
12 years ago
sex can be a drug,the more you have the more you want it's true.But it is also good for your physical and mental health.Moderation is such a boring word I know, but perhaps it is about balance and moderation. Life is hectic for a couple with a young family,and when you work shift work as does Mrs.Secrets it must be difficult for you both to schedule time to even think about sex,let alone have sex. I think Secrets that your post is the most thoughtful and in some ways inspiring yet saddening post I have read on the subject of sexuality from a man.Raw and honest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Micksecrets81' No, I'm not joking, I'm serious. I'll explain. My wife's libido is lower than mine so I'm always wanting more sex than I get. I used to be a person that masturbated 3 times per day with porn. I developed what I call "pornographic saturation", where even the most interesting/exciting porn isn't doing it for me any more. I like amature porn because it is more realistic (pussies actually get licked). Watching this porn makes me a little sad because it reminds me of my previous sex life to my wife. Also porn fucks up guy's arousal levels when in real sexual situations. I have noticed this. I'm so sick of constantly being in a state of sexual hunger! So I have actually discovered something. Your sexuality can be turned off. I never thought it possible, but it is so relaxing and peaceful to not be hungry. So I have not used porn or masturbated for about three months now. I would rather be non-sexual, than staying up late looking for porn on the Internet and masturbating in the dark while my family sleeps and trying to keep an ear out for my kids incase they wake up. I'm just over it! Secrets Mike, that's amazing reading, thanks for sharing. I know a little bit about what you mean. I think it feels a bit like being a crack addict (doesn't have to be internet porn, either...). Perhaps not a topic to press you on further, but I wonder if it had to be so black and white - turn it off, or turn into a late night porn junkie...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for you kind words :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Absolutely true for me. The less I get it, the less I think about it or want it. But when I getting sex frequently I want it all the time!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I will put an alternative view out there though.... only because youve mentioned clitoral stimulation.A lot of women have created their own 'clitoral dependancy"..... and I have spoken to numerous women who have mentioned being unable to climax through any other form of stimulation.Now, I know some people will offer critical comment from me saying this...... that, is not ideal...... and vibrators can be bad, as well as good.DG DG, it ain't rocket science. I would say most people masturbate in the same way and same position a lot of the time. This often means that you are conditioning yourself to only orgasm in a certain way which makes it harder to orgasm with a partner. This can be said for men as well as women. At the end of the day no one does it as good as MrsPalmer. So it is always good to change it up. Different positions, different toys, etc. I think I have said it before... I am too impatient a lot of the time and I struggle not to push peoples hands away as I want to do it myself! It is a very bad habit........ Probably why I love being tied up.
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badboyhere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I will put an alternative view out there though.... only because youve mentioned clitoral stimulation.A lot of women have created their own 'clitoral dependancy"..... and I have spoken to numerous women who have mentioned being unable to climax through any other form of stimulation.Now, I know some people will offer critical comment from me saying this...... that, is not ideal...... and vibrators can be bad, as well as good.DG DG, it ain't rocket science. I would say most people masturbate in the same way and same position a lot of the time. This often means that you are conditioning yourself to only orgasm in a certain way which makes it harder to orgasm with a partner. This can be said for men as well as women. At the end of the day no one does it as good as MrsPalmer. So it is always good to change it up. Different positions, different toys, etc. I think I have said it before... I am too impatient a lot of the time and I struggle not to push peoples hands away as I want to do it myself! It is a very bad habit........ Probably why I love being tied up. and don't forget about her five daughters as well
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RHP User
12 years ago
the thought or knowledge, that when a certain person is masturbating they are doing it with thoughts of you...revisiting an experience that you have had together....I find that extremely erotic.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I told you that in confidence!
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RHP User
12 years ago
sorry,sorry,shhh
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