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The eyes have it
September 09 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me is terribly, incredibly, intimate....So casual lovers, no. Hell I can barely look my best friend in the eye some days.Having said that I'm a real sucker for beautiful eyes and it's inevitably a large factor in whether or not I am physically attracted to someone."Eyes are windows to the soul"
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love watching a man as he cums. It is amazing the facial contortions they go through and how there entire face changes on orgasm.
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uneventful
13 years ago
Look in to the lovers face and eyes at all intervals except two ... .when kissing .. and when ................. there are the two distinct times i have my eyes shut and find it extremely difficult to do either with eyes open
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tamworthguy46
13 years ago
Yes Indeedy....i like eye contact.....even more so when it's realy passionate and intimate....long kisses followed by some eye contact .....you can certainly see passion in someones eyes, even more so if they are your lover. Tam
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RHP User
13 years ago
...when I am with a lover for the first time and she is about to let go, I seek out her eyes to hopefully capture that very instant as it will never be repeated again. In a way...not unlike innocence lost between two. | Perhaps my tendencies toward being "a bit" dominant show through.....but I will often have my finger wrapped loosely in her hair or tangled tighter, depending on the view. There is a delicious intimacy there to be shared...whether as a friend, or a lover or more. Certainly it won't happen every time with someone but that first time, yes...please do. | It is...in the eyes of the beholder.
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
.....to look into their eyes when you have them blindfolded
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RHP User
13 years ago
...peak together, perhaps peek as you peak? | Besides, I'm not that kinky...only the ropes, ice, melted chocolate, essential oils and frozen blueberries come out on the first time together. | The moving van with all the rest...arrives later.
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
....peek as you peak.And we all know you are not that kinky,just extremely verbose.
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RHP User
13 years ago
even when chatting to someone you have just met...you are doing all the talking..asking all the questions...and not even getting a sideways glance...what's the point... Eye contact is a valuable form of communication...Yes, I do realise that in some Cultural communities that this is difficult, but to for me personally, it is important...it shows at least a hint of interest... I miss that intimate eye contact...the eye contact that lasts just a little too long, in a public setting, that signals what is in store for later that night...just melting into someone elses eyes...when making love...concentrating on the almighty Orgasm...mmmmmm
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RHP User
13 years ago
...I'll lick anything once and more if I like it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Chasingmidnight is a Mills & Boon man Ruby. :-) I don't think I look into lovers eyes much to be honest and when I do I think it is often a cheeky look as I usually like to have a bit of fun with it. Some people take sex a little too seriously for me. I always have my eyes closed when I come though. xx Meeks
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RHP User
13 years ago
Funny! Gotta pay that. I think what you have described CM is lovely. I like "nilla" too. Dreadfully fond of it at it's best. So hard to find it at it's best though Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...I'll lick anything once and more if I like it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know i've never thought of whether my eyes are open or closed when i cum....kinda not paying attention at that particular moment. I would say mostly open but i sure as hell aint looking into anyones eyes when i do it. eeep...a tad too confronting for me. Intense. Intimate. Weirdly enough i never even do it with hubby. That would be one of my very few "firsts" actually. Hot if I could manage it. I think it would have to be a very intense, strong person to get me to do it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is a funny one for me... When I am talking to someone sexy, for whatever reason I tend to get mesmerised by their mouth and lips... so without realising it I tend to look at their mouth, and facial expressions. I love the pout or glisten of a lip and the different shapes we make with our mouth when we talk. It's not that different during sex... I love looking over someone's body, I don't just stare at their boobies in a creepy way anymore - I actually try to take everything in. . But for whatever reason, my brain occassionaly pokes me and I get drawn to their eyes, and no matter who it is, I tend to get a bit of a jolt in heart rate when I look into someone's eyes. Even if I am just talking to them, and even with men (and even before I've had 4 beers sometimes!). So yep, there's something about the eyes.....
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
I'm usually eyes closed, head back concentrating on the sensations of a building orgasmand when i'm giving head i'm all 'eyes on the prize' and listening for their reactions, if they want to watch i find it distracting to look at them.xx Sarah
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
Thanks Meeka....best soft comedy line in a forum award goes toooooo....Chasingmidnight is a Mills & Boon man Ruby. :-)Verbose tastes like spearmint and strawberry with a dash of gin I think.
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jensta
13 years ago
Love to look into each others eyesI am very Cheeky & Love to flirt with my eyesEye contact during sex is great Its about connecting totallyI love to see the pleasureEye contact is soooo SEXY!xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
You gave me quite a start when I read it....The answer for me has always been no, I'm an eyes closed kind of girl..Except for one person I spent a fair bit of time with this year. There were times I couldn't look away. Food for thought...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now Meeka, you read the good part but there was a tag line there about being "just a little bit" on the dominant side? | Quoting 'Meeka100'Chasingmidnight is a Mills & Boon man Ruby. Some people take sex a little too seriously for me. I always have my eyes closed when I come though. | Sure, I could have said it in a lot of different ways but I am proudly a bit poetic....kind of like how justice works. You know that little stool you lug around...what with you being just a tad vertically challenged? Well now...about the time your eyes start to roll back in your head and close...I think one good swift albeit accidental kick to that stool might just get your eyes to open wide. After that you can wear a deep sea divers helmet for all I care...and it might even prevent injuries knocking you off the stool from behind. | So then...see you next Tuesday for lunch? | | Quoting 'irresponsibility'Except for one person I spent a fair bit of time with this year. There were times I couldn't look away. Food for thought... Guess that just goes to show that there is still a fair bit of value left in intimacy, even between good friends. | Food for thought...please pass the menu. | | Meeka the other is hillbilly birth control...they used a bucket and kicked it out too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It was Mr JJs eyes that attracted me to him way back when.. Even to this day I still have some moments when he looks at me in a certain way with them blue /green eyes...So I really love a guy who can look you right in the eye when he talks to you and is not affraid to catch your eye while making out.. hmmm.. although when its getting near' I must admit I have to close my eyes...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nah....Show us your pink bits
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RHP User
13 years ago
Totally agree with you goodgrlz I find it very confronting and too intense and I also find it harder to orgasm if I even try to look into my partners eyes. I actually thought I was weird until I saw this thread. Even being so in love with someone I still just cant muster up the courage to open them and look. If he is blindfolded or I'm fucking him with a strapon I can look/watch but when it involves me cumming then I just cant... Mrs curiouslykinky72 xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Being half deaf I do a lot of lip reading instead of making the normal eye contact with people but since my partner and I don't need to speak when we are in the bedroom I can look deep into his eyes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...so this verbose, it tastes a bit like that? | Quoting 'ruby_blossum'Verbose tastes like spearmint and strawberry with a dash of gin I think. | I guess I could try it as long as you keep a double Midori handy to toss it back. You know what they say about that stuff, if you want to make Midoria you have to lick a few melons... | ...so I'll try four and twice if I like it. | | Don't worry, there are only two kinds of people that understand my binary form of logic. Fortunately I am 10 of them....being a little bi-polar comes in handy sometimes you know. | | There you go...a one-liner hanging slow over the outside edge of the plate.
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RHP User
13 years ago
yeah some of us get ya CM
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RHP User
13 years ago
...now every maid and her man servant has my credit card number along with the password numbers to my eBay account. That was quite rude, DGT...so to repay the favour? | Guys, gals and all things in between....here is her phone number. | 110010101011111010010101110001010001111001010001001000111 | You know what's crazy...somebody will try that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
They understand binary barcode in Uzbekistan cos thats who'll be answering.....or one of those super dooper secret depts that wait for bi-polar peeps such as yourself to ring through....intercept the call.....and then your ass is toast yeah I know...too much tv
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RHP User
13 years ago
...that's the amount you owe at Sexyland.|$1100101010111110100101011100010100011110010100010010001.11|It's embarrassing, but they asked if I could remind you to make a payment on your account. I am sure they will forgo the 11 cents. | ....damn, whatcha buildin'?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mrs CK72, I think with the right person it would be more intense for me IF he could get me to do it. I am very happy though with eyes open and watching everything else. I do like to watch what's going on, i'm told i do what guys do and i spend a lot of time looking at his lips although i'm quite mouth obsessed and no matter what he's saying i'm thinking about kissing him oddly enough. I'm more than capable of looking into peoples eyes when i talk to them, i do it as habit. So no issues in other area's. I flirt with my eyes which is lots of fun but as soon as things get intense I'm looking at anything else except for his eyes. I have noticed that on the very rare occassion where i have been the dominant partner i have had no problem at all looking anyone in the eyes. It does make everything more intense. xx goodgrl Quoting 'curiouslykinky72'Totally agree with you goodgrlz I find it very confronting and too intense and I also find it harder to orgasm if I even try to look into my partners eyes. I actually thought I was weird until I saw this thread. Even being so in love with someone I still just cant muster up the courage to open them and look. If he is blindfolded or I'm fucking him with a strapon I can look/watch but when it involves me cumming then I just cant... Mrs curiouslykinky72 xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met one that made my eyes go crossed. It was only my third FFM.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Only when she is saying NOT in my eye ... Not in My eye it stings
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11'Only when she is saying NOT in my eye ... Not in My eye it stings Love ya work wowwow! . I'm a big fan of eye contact, but agree also that it is a very soul-baring, intimate thing, so there is a certain special kind of vulnerability that goes along with it, and I think that may have been what Mr Midnight was going on with ala Mills & Boon. . I think that the eyes can say SO much and often when there is intense eye contact between two people, it negates the need for words and other sounds. . Flirty x
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