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The fake orgasm - by men!!
May 16 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
My ex, when we first started dating. lol. just once.I guess he was over it and wanted to finish but couldnt?
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cbdlivin
12 years ago
Yep with a condom it is easy to fake, and of course the reason was I wanted to be anywhere but where I was, so I faked it, though I did make sure as much as I could that she had enjoyed herself.....this was a few years ago, now I would just say I don't want to be here and leave.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Yep.... long and complex story.... but when youre married to an asexual woman, and the infrequent sex was very impersonal, and disconnected...... even a guy wants it over and done with.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
say it isn't so!One of my greatest pleasures is feeling a man become taut, rigid and coming inside of me with such a primal growl......I would be absolutely shattered to find out someone had faked that with me...I want a crying emoticon now
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RHP User
12 years ago
Must confess to feeling somewhat ignorant of this (bad,bad girl). Having faked the odd one here and there myself over the years (mainly to 'protect' the fragile ego of a lover), it never occurred to me that the same may be true of the men folk! Maybe our egos are just as fragile????- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a couple of times over the past few years , reason being it was just getting boring the person I was with wasn't very adventurous and it was really just being mechanical it was getting to the stage that it would be gravity that pulled the spunk out of me , wasn't her fault wasn't mine either it was just there wasn't any real chemistry and it was sex that shouldn't have happened , I wasn't attracted to her and she wasn't attracted to me we fucked purely for the sake of it on both occasions we both faked it to get out of there after those two episodes I make sure there is real chemistry and real sexual attraction if there isn't I would rather partake in some self abuse :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I fake Orgasm when I Masturbate;) I just don't want to hurt my feelings because I'm a nice guy . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
An orgasm from having the actual intetcourse, because I don't cum easily and it only takes a well experienced man to make me cum via intercourse 😜 and sadly not many men that I have had relationships with could make me orgasm easily. However, I am very mindful of my lover's feelings in bed, so I always fake it enormously so that they can't tell I was faking. BUT there is a secret way which man can make me orgasm like a rocket shooting up to the space! Lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I got verbally abused by some men, whom I dated over the years, when they got frustrated and embarrassed about being unable to make me cum via having intercourse! Instead of blaming their own incapability, they verbally abused me. So, I've learned my lessons and figured that the best way to feed some men's egos is to fake an orgasm lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have been feeling this about you!!! I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings either!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
SweetGem if there is a secret way that a man can make you come..... Why the hell is it secret? I would be telling him about it let me tell you. I mean why wouldn't you??
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I will tell my partner how to make me come behind the closed door, and that's what i meant too when I said there was a secret way, because I don't wanna openly share this secret way with everyone on the Forums lol Besides, it's a huge turn on if a man knows how to work around my body and find my sweet spot 😜 Hence I say it only takes a well experienced man to make me come easily :-)
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wingman2014
12 years ago
If someone did a survey, Im sure they would find out that it only happens during footy season.....possibly just prior to kick off
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sweetgem, tell the guy! Why keep your orgasm secret? Men don't have ESP and as each woman orgasms in different ways its a lot to expect men to know how your body works. I have found men to be the most eager and fun students of women's anatomy. I'll probably add more to this later as I'm quite surprised by your post.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I read you comment right you don't cum from intercourse. Was this right?Many women don't cum through vaginal penetration only. Maybe you are a woman who just cums through clitoris stimulation only. Have you tried? I have never faked it. Should I don't have an orgasm its Ok for me and the man has to accept it, sometimes you just don't feel like one, that's what I experienced in my life. Its fine too, just being there and hear the mans pleasure. This part is more in a long relationship and not in a one of encounter.I was only with one male from RHP who couldn't ejaculate this was a very strange experience for me. We talked about it and he told me he has problems cumming even when he masturbates. And yes as a woman you can feel a bit sad when the male doesn't cum.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is nothing more exciting to me than to learn about my partners and how to please them. If there is something that does it for you, I am sure that any gentlemen In his right mind would love to be taught, so that that you get as much pleasure as he does. To me, my partners satisfaction is paramount, I would most definatly want to know how to please them. As far as the male faked orgasm. I can say I have never faked ones, but in terms of no ejaculation, I have twice experienced an orgasm from strapon sex and hand job at the same time, that was so intense I couldn't hold myself up, and I did not ejaculate. Every other time Ive been taken however I just erupt....love it :)
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I DO TELL the man! And men who have had interaction with me will prove that too! 😀 Perhaps I didn't structure my earlier post properly, so let me say again 😋 My first post was a response to InAdditionTo's thread about me have been having to fake an orgasm too many times because I don't come easily via having intercourse, but there is a secret way (other than intercourse) to make me come, which only takes a well experienced man to know it without me telling him. However, I didn't say that I wouldn't tell the man if he was not so skilled. So, my post was more about telling InAdditionTo that even though I don't come easily via having intercourse, I do come in other way 😀- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sounds like you need some advice from the Pussy Whisperer. He is around here somewhere. (^_^)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with paintme. Women need to participate and speak up more in the bedroom.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I DO come from intercourse as well sometimes, when I'm with certain men, but not with every man 😩 You could be right, I do get orgasm easier from clitoris stimulation I've noticed.- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I DO share with my partner what turns me on and what makes me come easier :-) but it's a huge turn on when I don't need to and/or when my partner can just do it magically even before I tell :-) However, I would love to hear from some experienced men and women for tips on how to come easier from vaginal penetration :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I hear you and as I have said many times in this thread that I DO actually tell my partner!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I didn't mean to hijack your thread, just wanted to get my message clear :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just for your info some of us have instant posting rights but your comments are still going through an approval process. Right? That means that Anything, Litonya and myself could not see your answer to Paintme when we wrote our comments. So it may appear that we were not reading your answers but the fact is they don't appear until they are approved which can be hours later. If you log out and have a look at a topic you have just made a comment on you will not be able to see your comment. Does that makes sense? Friday afternoon and I am brain dead.
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RHP User
12 years ago
S'all good! And I hear you - me too :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
All good sex starts in the mind... if there's a whole lot of expectations going on' all you going to get is anxiety which inevitablely leads to failure... Short or non existent foreplay is a passion killer.. Geting the few essentials right and chances of reaching your orgasm double. I tryed to fake a orgasm last year but was caught out... she checked the condom' so all I done was dig a hole for myself... Not good... Just couldn't cum no matter what' but did'nt want her to think it was her, so I thought by faking it she wouldn't feel bad... Obviously got caught out big time and a very awkward moment...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never faked but sometimes I don't ejeculate, which can cause a bit of crankiness with some women, until they understand. I'm pretty intimate, and if there is no kissing allowed, or we are doggie style, it can feel a little impersonal at times, and in that situation if I delay my orgasim, I'll sometimes lose it. I stay hard, but could pound away for hours and not come. Condoms also contribute. If we take a short break, my sensitivity will return and I can normally produce :) Hp xo
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah iv'e done it before. My partner at the time use to get really turned on if we came a the same time. I can keep on going after i cum and i didn't want to be selfish. So i just kept going and when she started to cum i faked that i was too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting subject fake orgasms, when having sex Im not into just raw pounding for me its more of how you would say a spiritual and personal connection I put all my energy into them almost like karma sutra haha not that I have ever tried it but connecting sexually beyond just a dick in a hole flopping on top of the women. I find that I have to connect with the person mentally helps me and we get along more than just physical attraction.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Isn't the point of a fake orgasm that the person you are with never knows it was fake? Having said that, I am too honest to do that to someone.....except once in Adelaide about 22 years ago but like DG....it's a very long story
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RHP User
11 years ago
Any woman who gets cranky because you don't cum is missing the whole point of sex! And missing out on a whole bunch of erotic experiences around not cumming - everything from deeply connected tantric sex to bdsm orgasm denial. It's a definite buzz for me when a man cums but if he takes himself to the edge and stops (cumming, not the intimacy and sex) and saves it for later, phwoar!! That kind of control and intentional sex is damned hot.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm still trying to get my head around this one..Why would a guy want to fake an orgasm bewilders me. There's nothing more satisfying than cumming after you've enjoyed an intimate moment with your lady....or someone else's. :) Hmmm, to the guys out there that fake it..Do you have what it takes?
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enduran
11 years ago
So i have done this multiple times in my life. Its usually when it is the 3rd or 4th time in a night and the lady is working hard on it and I am already happy and grateful for the awesome night so far. So before she gets too tired and feels like its her fault i fake it a bit...i dont see anything wrong with it. I still had my fun, she is happy she got me over the line and we can both retire for the night being happy. Not faking it would just cause her to question herself, so i rather make her feel good about it.And yes i know its not her problem or fault, but many women think that way in my experience, hence the fake as the elegant out.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Mr Luvn To throw out the inference that men dont "Have what it takes" to ejaculate is insulting and ignorant. It completely disregards the circumstances and context within which some of us have admitted to faking it. Maybe you don't last long enough for faking it to end a disconnected sexual encounter is an option for you. Maybe you don't recognize women faking it to you just to end the hammering. Maybe you don't care as long as you come. Whatever it is...... I could not let your comment go unchallenged. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
did it once with a couple MMF. Felt bad because the guy finished really quickly and you know - don't want to be rude.Boy did I put in a dramatic performance though - brought back memories of "When Harry Met Sally" - only man version.Still had a great time - and they didn't notice. I felt dishonest but didn't want to bring disappointment to their puppy dog eyes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mr Mischeviouslad...Way too funny..We all have our own opinions on a topic and can speak as we see fit to..such a shame it cuts to the bone for some..
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
...and its a shame some have to smear others when expressing that opinion... just to prop themselves up a little.DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
No "Propping Up" going on here..As you don't know me...I'm not one to beat my own chest!
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RHP User
11 years ago
So you didn't notice that you did your fair share of smearing in your post? Or, in the spirit of most kindergarten sandpits, do you justify that because someone else started it? Let me appeal to your more mature nature fellas - please stop the childish dog fight before you get the thread pulled for going off track, and frankly, for being morons.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Whenever I have faked an orgasm in my life, it was to: 1. Get the sex over with already, when halfway through I realised I made a mistake (Think a bad one-night stand) 2. Spare the feelings of my partner when he just wasn't getting it right 3. Make my partner feel great when he was doing all the perfect things, and I the issue was with me I can only imagine guys fake it for the exact same reasons. I've certainly met a few men that have admitted to it. x Ms Shout
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Indeed @ Ms Shout And nothing at all to do with having what it takes. Thoughts of others. DG
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Clarification... "Thoughts of others"..... referring to empathy and non self interest. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have (in the past) actually faked my orgasm because I couldn't quite get there, and yes, I had a condom on so was easy to fake it, and then "go clean up".I only did it the once, but yes, I guess with condoms it's entirely possible to do this. I was much younger then, and these days, I am far more into the act of sex for the chemistry and connection rather than just the penetration of it.Caring xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
sometimes I don't cum. Doesn't matter, I have still had an awesome time and I know that she has too. I would hate it if a woman faked it though. Mind you, I ask, can a woman fake an orgasm AND contract her pelvic muscles at the same time , while a man is either pounding away inside her or is licking her pussy and playing with her clit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've done it a couple times...when I've cum once and she wanted more and I was tired, so I made her cum then pretended I has so I could catch some zzzzzz's
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissPoppins' say it isn't so!One of my greatest pleasures is feeling a man become taut, rigid and coming inside of me with such a primal growl......I would be absolutely shattered to find out someone had faked that with me...I want a crying emoticon now Good lord how many men have faked it for my benefit? Shit.... I'm with you Mrs P I love hearing a man moan with pleasure and buck and silently or loudly grunt/sigh/moan his way through orgasm. That's it though, I'm going to try and go silent and see how that works for me.....Sweetgem and others:"A woman should have an understanding — who is she, how is her body composed, what is the possibility of her body, but she should not be looking for something like a race, like a game, like a duty. Looking for the G-spot orgasm or the vaginal orgasm as a need, as a duty, is the best way to lose the happiness of sex."I don't think I've ever experienced an orgasm induced wholly by a man's penis alone. I am admittedly clitorally stimulated, this said though doesn't mean my clit is going to respond to just any kind of touch. I think the biggest aphrodisiac is the connection or stimulation of the other senses first. Be it in a gang bang scenario or one on one there still has to be arousal and the desire to give pleasure and be pleased. Apparently approx. 80% of women out there only achieve orgasm via clittoral stimulation, fewer experience penile orgasm and then some women have never had the experience at all. I'm not committing to percentage rates here because I can't find the paper I read on it ages ago but I was surprised by the figures wondering why I couldn't just cum from having a cock inside me and if I was "different". Apparently we're normal girls so don't sweat it, if your man/men are patient and awesome lovers they'll work on it with you not against you. After all they hate it if we have to "fake it".
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Clarification... "Thoughts of others"..... referring to empathy and non self interest. DG And we can perfect our techniques together. Always happy to help out a mate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'spicyandpassion'Mind you, I ask, can a woman fake an orgasm AND contract her pelvic muscles at the same time , while a man is either pounding away inside her or is licking her pussy and playing with her clit. Too easy. Add a little quiver, some heavy breathing and a satisfied grin, and no guy ever catches on. Unfortunately I think a lot of people tend to overdo it and go into the "When Harry met Sally" routine, like Inthecity mentioned. Wish I could have seen that, though.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Ms Safari Anytime X
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some people just have no idea about turning somebody on. Unfortunately I have used the 'fake' orgasm technique to end a terrible encounter with a 'dead fish' (you know what I mean). Anyway, these days I would simply say 'this is not working for me' and end it without being an arsehole. Mast.Calv :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
While I disagree with the idea of 'faking it' as you only do yourself a disservice to your partner in being disingenuous, I recall stating I had finished earlier than I did after a couple of plays that night due to various reasons but not before all parties were satisfied.I guess find the 'end' isn't what I enjoy but rather the journey and the exploration, along with the sounds and feeling of seeing my partner climax are what make play satisfying so 'finishing' isn't so much a goal as a comma between plays...I agree with mastercalv in that being open and honest about, perhaps working out if there is that chemistry before you bed and then explosive play after all the tension. If it doesn't work, try communication?...
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RHP User
11 years ago
OMG, Bugger doing that , I so enjoy the feeling way to much. And enjoy bringing a lady to that point of enjoyment also, will always go the extra mile (miles) to get her there. Mmmmmm Yum !!
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sprong
11 years ago
I find my orgasms come (so to speak) in two stages, both intensely pleasurable, with the second one being at the point of ejaculation... So it's quite possible for me to orgasm without ejaculating (took a bit of practice... but practicing was fun either way!) and generally I can then continue on having intercourse without interruption. Not sure if that's the same technique used in tantric sex - if I run across a partner who's an expert, I'll ask! (Or if any forum goer knows, I am curious). Tl;Dr - guys (unless I'm a freak) can orgasm, without cumming...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep I've done it a few times. Even if you do get turned on later and cum.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sprong' - guys (unless I'm a freak) can orgasm, without cumming... Very true, and I've been lucky enough to witness it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inthecity421'did it once with a couple MMF. Felt bad because the guy finished really quickly and you know - don't want to be rude. Boy did I put in a dramatic performance though - brought back memories of "When Harry Met Sally" - only man version. Still had a great time - and they didn't notice. I felt dishonest but didn't want to bring disappointment to their puppy dog eyes.any time
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'BNEguy78'Yep I've done it a few times. Even if you do get turned on later and cum. I am here with girlfriends and I said holly shit look at this guy one just spat her drink over my computer that thing needs its own post code
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RHP User
11 years ago
.......... I get an erection, really loving the stimulation, loving the closeness. loving everything. Just can't come. No matter how much I want to. i am rock hard, feeling every mm of slippery, warm, grasping, clasping vagina, feeling the pussy lips pull at my cock, wetness pooling, between us and around my balls, feel how much my partner is into it, it seems wrong to deflate her by just stopping and saying 'sorry love, can't come'. When my partner is really loving what we are doing, moving, making noise, rubbing her foot on my calf, kissing me passionately, it feels wrong just to keep going what seems like forever when I just know I am not going to spurt. And probably like others, then I can start to panic a little. How will she react? And some women, as well as men, I have found can suffer a crisis of confidence if they feel they 'don't have what it takes' to make their partner cum in a heaving, shuddering climax. Even if I assure them it's not them, it;'s me, it's happened before with others, I really loved what we were doing and I want to do it again. I have found a way to avoid this is concentrate on her, making her feel special, like I appreciate what she's doing, trace her back with my fingertips, take her face in my hands, stroke her hair. The more you worry about yourself, the more it isn't happening. But I've found making it special for her makes it a feedback loop - then all of a sudden, you're there. As far as many women not being able to orgasm with penetration only - Well, only 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 can according to Masters and Johnson or Kinsey depending on who you believe. Could they be wrong>? No doubt, there are those who can easily, and some men do have skills that others don't, and/or some women are turned on in a special way by a special man that enables them to with that man. Some men can't come through intercourse. But just because you never have, doesn't mean you never will. But even if you never do, that doesn't mean you can't have fun, trying! I've only ever been with two women who could just with penetration. Whereas, I'm pleased to say, never had an issue with fingers and tongue. And the women who can't cum through intercourse tell me they still have a great time fucking - and part of that is feeling me come. So we are back to - making your partner feel special.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not ideal but sometimes you have to fake orgasm. I was recently with this woman with extreme sexual appetite. Sadly I just couldn't keep up with so yeah I had to fake it for her pleasure. I think it was the polite thing to do. We still catch up. Regularly for casual every fortnight so I think its ok?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
On-Safari, I like reading your replies on these forums. You are so open with your thougts and replies.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'InAdditionTo' Must confess to feeling somewhat ignorant of this (bad,bad girl). Having faked the odd one here and there myself over the years (mainly to 'protect' the fragile ego of a lover), it never occurred to me that the same may be true of the men folk! Maybe our egos are just as fragile????- Posted from rhpmobile
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