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August 02 2013

I received a msg upon another site and it made me start to question my curious side of wanting to explore the BDSM side of things or it certainly confirmed to me how complete trust is required before stepping into it all, specially if some are what I feel to be this unstable. This is the brief conversation I had... PD: Hello Are you submissive? Me: I can be however I like to question things to much. PD: After a long terms ub/slave totally obedient. Me: Yeah nah I'd frustrate you to much as I like to switch. PD: I probably beat you to much. Me: Probably but I would whack you back if I felt you were going over the top. PD: Last one who did that ended up in RPH. (Hospital) Me: Then your not dominant your just a wanker! And believe me sweet you wouldn't be putting me in hospital! Bashing someone to the point of them landing in hospital for sexual power pleasure to me sounds like a sign of a very unstable personality trait. I feel a true dominant master would never over use their control in such a damaging way. We have nothing further to discuss. Now I'm aware not all would be like this but surely there isn't many out there like this person...or is there?!... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

The guy is a out and out wank... Like to be present if he started his violence.. then who see who ends up in hospital...I agree, sexual pleasure and violence just not on... Besides the lack of respect and dignity .. he has a big big problem.Not that I'm against BDSM . In a controlled form I think it could be fun. ( never tryed ), but violence ?

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RHP User

11 years ago

its horrible but also probably fake

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RHP User

11 years ago

of a delusional psychopath me thinks....he obviously thinks that the current popularity of this awful tome, gives him permission to practice his abusive behaviour.

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Keyboard hero. Real life zero Block. DG

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RHP User

11 years ago

My mind shudder at the thought at having someone ignore my safe action. When will these so called doms realize its the sub who has the ultimate control.- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Keyboard hero. Real life zero Block. DG OMFG consider that phrase stolen! its awesome! props on that one DG

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RHP User

11 years ago

That is someone whom is an abuser.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Certainly one of the more bizarre encounters of online conversation that's for sure. - Posted from rhpmobile

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chevtrek

11 years ago

sounds like a turkey

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swifttall

11 years ago

Quoting 'EuropianBliss'My mind shudder at the thought at having someone ignore my safe action. When will these so called doms realize its the sub who has the ultimate control.- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'chevtrek' sounds like a turkeyNAHHHHHHHHHH He's all gobble gobble and an outright FOUL ugly man.FOXY

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kinky_master

11 years ago

Quoting 'EuropianBliss'My mind shudder at the thought at having someone ignore my safe action. When will these so called doms realize its the sub who has the ultimate control.- Posted from rhpmobile Yes - with any sane Master the sub has the ultimate control. However when you deal with someone like that who is just out for his own satisfaction at whatever cost , then these rules do not apply. And the sub is the one tied up - helpless. So be very, very, very carefull who you play with. Set up a safe call - and make sure that your safe call is expecting to speak to you - after all how easy is it for anyone to send a SMS from your phone. So - as I said before - follow your instinct. After all you are handing over control to your well being to someone else.

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inspirit

11 years ago

Fuckwits like this should be named, sorry guys that is my view.

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inspirit

11 years ago

Another 50 shades of idioism at the helm. I must admit I have not read the book though I recently saddened to learn a WOMAN wrote it!

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RHP User

11 years ago

He is a physical and emotional abuser, men like that are pond scum. I hope you reported him.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Tough guy woman beater.

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madotara69

11 years ago

Quoting 'inspirit' Another 50 shades of idioism at the helm. I must admit I have not read the book though I recently saddened to learn a WOMAN wrote it! You could not have given a flying fuck for what you may have read, or who wrote whatever it wasWhen it was suggested that your being in control would in a stand off, be reduced to absolute none.If I had your clitoris held with a firm hold bite between my teeth, as I have patience enough to know cuming will be the result. You know that you will cum, but not when you do.Any medical issues would be related to dehydration and the ability to control any muscles for being able to walk for some time, any pain would be state of mind for no control to when it will happen next. The diagnoses would read positive for you being complete. So hospital would be an exhilarating part for experience to attend. And having some nurses nurse you for a couple of days while you regain your senses and relax would further be contributed to the levels with uncontrolled Intensity and the effects with orgasm you have not known existed. Oh inspirit you are Absolute and absolutely everything and absolutely you want shown, what cant be told. You control everything within do you want to control how deep you are willing to go, or want to let go and find places you do not yet know exist within passion and feelings, a cocktail creating desire to absolutely control bringing the intensity for uncontrollable bodily reaction, and absolutely no care for where the fuck you are, who you are, or any fucking thing at all, while you are going there.As long as you continue to cum something like the last way you came and the next way you cum will be nothing like the way you would be cuming in the now, as there is no way into hell that you want to pass out for some time yet. So you risk making a deal with the devil inside.I reckon that is where you would invite one of those doms to assist. Crossing your fingers with hope to die, If he is not a Master.I could have taken you to the point of hospital, but you want way more than that. Too much woman for the normal sort of hospitalisation. I would not have the discipline to control myself and may possibly seek the attention for a doctor to monitor my state of reality for the moment. for fear that I might not make it back to ever being normal again. It happens.A woman the likes of you can have similar effects to men, much the same as a frontal lobotomy. If you let yourself go with them.Mado

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RHP User

11 years ago

The sad part of the OP's post is that people like that do exist ......................... and yes, we do know of one such person who has reportedly put his Subbie in hospital on a few occasions (multiple reports .......... different sources). Even sadder is that the Subbie admitted to Gaz on one occasion that she had indeed been hospitalised as the result of 'him getting really enthusiastic in play' ........... seriously.This guy has tried to get many women as subbies across the years and tried extremely hard to get Sheba as a subbie (his modus being to look for married women as he felt it gave him a power) but he underestimated and learnt very quickly not to fark with Sheba or Gazz in that way.But he still exists and is out there prying around the BDSM scene although we do know from many within the scene that he is very well on the 'do not touch' list.Simply put, this guy and that experienced by the OP are not BDSM proponents, but simple control freaks with their own little fantasy of abuse that they wish to live out on people. They are best left alone to their own worlds so they cannot cause pain or conflict to those not wanting pain or conflict.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes reported right after my last msg. - Posted from rhpmobile

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inspirit

11 years ago

Tea...... I think you have had too much tea no one gets out aliveQuoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'inspirit' Another 50 shades of idioism at the helm. I must admit I have not read the book though I recently saddened to learn a WOMAN wrote it! You could not have given a flying fuck for what you may have read, or who wrote whatever it wasWhen it was suggested that your being in control would in a stand off, be reduced to absolute none.If I had your clitoris held with a firm hold bite between my teeth, as I have patience enough to know cuming will be the result. You know that you will cum, but not when you do.Any medical issues would be related to dehydration and the ability to control any muscles for being able to walk for some time, any pain would be state of mind for no control to when it will happen next. The diagnoses would read positive for you being complete. So hospital would be an exhilarating part for experience to attend. And having some nurses nurse you for a couple of days while you regain your senses and relax would further be contributed to the levels with uncontrolled Intensity and the effects with orgasm you have not known existed. Oh inspirit you are Absolute and absolutely everything and absolutely you want shown, what cant be told. You control everything within do you want to control how deep you are willing to go, or want to let go and find places you do not yet know exist within passion and feelings, a cocktail creating desire to absolutely control bringing the intensity for uncontrollable bodily reaction, and absolutely no care for where the fuck you are, who you are, or any fucking thing at all, while you are going there.As long as you continue to cum something like the last way you came and the next way you cum will be nothing like the way you would be cuming in the now, as there is no way into hell that you want to pass out for some time yet. So you risk making a deal with the devil inside.I reckon that is where you would invite one of those doms to assist. Crossing your fingers with hope to die, If he is not a Master.I could have taken you to the point of hospital, but you want way more than that. Too much woman for the normal sort of hospitalisation. I would not have the discipline to control myself and may possibly seek the attention for a doctor to monitor my state of reality for the moment. for fear that I might not make it back to ever being normal again. It happens.A woman the likes of you can have similar effects to men, much the same as a frontal lobotomy. If you let yourself go with them.Mado

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RHP User

11 years ago

This winner is either a faker or an abuser, whilst the first is not as bad as the latter, both are equally repulsive.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Hello all, a Dom here.While I am not into what the 'gentlemen' is into what I will say is that he is being honest (or is full of it). While I am not defending what he is saying I would like to point out that the number one rule for me as a Dom/Master is honesty. Be honest with your sub but also be honest with yourself. So if the sub is into really rough stuff then each to their own (its not for me though).For all the sub's out there just make sure you follow some simple safety precautions and take it slow (ie, about how much power to give up until you are sure).

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