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The harder unicorn to find

February 13 2023

I was having a discussion with a couple the other day about how hard it is to find a genuine bi male to play with a couple and not just an Avenue to play with the female. So I’m putting the question out there. What is the harder unicorn to find? Male or Female?

Comments

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    Neither. Couples don't find them. They find the couples or who ever they choose. They know couples are thirsty for them. Uincorns/Bulls (what ever you want to call them), get to choose which couple/people they want to play with, depending on the couples dynamics and relationship. There are so many smug couples out there, that expect unicorns to throw themselves at them with very little effort put in and yet are the 1st to whinge and whine that they have issues finding a unicorn. BUT then again the male (bull), might be "harder", if he knows he's going to get some double action. If you get my drift. 😉 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I’ve got some male Bi ‘friends’ who struggle badly to find respectful couples. . In fact, one now refuses to put his Bi status on his profile (here on RHP) because he got hassled so much by single guys (for Grindr-type hookups). He’s virtually given up 😢 . I genuinely think that there’s a LOT of guys who LOVE to experiment with their Bi nature, but really can’t find couples who don’t “use” them. . And as a female Unicorn, I’ve got to admit, I’ve struggled to find couples as well. The last two couples I’ve been with, I set clear boundaries about safe sex. BOTH husbands ended up trying penetration without sleeving up. 🤬 . When I had a couples profile with a play friend for a while, it was REALLY interesting seeing the whole dynamic/game from the other side. 🤨 .. But if I had to answer your question . . . I’d have to say that it’s slightly more difficult to find a female Unicorn.

  • Margo_Lover

    Margo_Lover

    2 years ago

    Good question. All the single guys we've played with (not many) have been interested in some bi action. They were listed as straight or experimental at most. I imagine a single guy listed as Bisexual would be Bisexual? There's a lot on here. We find single guys are exceeding easy to organise dates with, while single women are not at all easy to find, engage and organise dates with. (Same for couples really, as a 4 way connection is not easy.) So while we've not specifically looked for bisexual guys, I still think Unicorns would be much more difficult to find. - Alex.