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The importance of first impressions
February 05 2023
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FeistyFatty
2 years ago
Amen🙏🥰
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madotara69
2 years ago
Oh dear, I need a sec to catch my breath… The problem with my heart is down to 20% and stretched now never get back That disgusting language just came to me through you, So what makes you any better than you have become them too play the game. Sorry man bash who cares we all get it. Mado Mado Tara xx
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Sawadee
2 years ago
Yes ' first impressions do count but how can you dump a person after one impression. ? OK ' l get if you recieve a message thats degrading and not worthy pursuing . I would do the same .. But to dump on someone just because they might not of had the same education level shows a certain level of arrogance. I was pulled out of school at 14 years of age , so l never completed my schooling . But that never stopped me from having a successful 12 year sporting career followed by and operating successfull business' .. Im very aware my grammer is not always up to scratch ' but l get by... Judgeing someone without getting to know them ' can ' in my opinion be a big mistake .. There are plenty of good people out there who undeservingly get suppressed by those who feel they know better... Sadly ' the spell police are still alive and well ?
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RHP User
2 years ago
That also applies to a lot of the women on this site. my biggest bitch is i get likes from women which in the majority are guests and i send a polite message. Not knowing if they wanted me to message as they can't message me being guests, they have read the message and no reply keeping in mind they initiated it with the like so maybe a few manners are needed there
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deepestpurple
2 years ago
Be yourself unless I don't like it then you should be what I want you to be. In fact, shame on you for not knowing what it is I want you to be and being that in the first place.
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MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Bad Language and disrespectful messages, I get how you feel. The bad grammar, I compromise on that especially with some guys. Some (not all) left school classrooms because they went into the work force. Ie: school based traineeships etc and are great at hands on stuff. If you get my drift. ;) At the end if the day, no one is perfect. OK, maybe I am with my perfect imperfections. 🥰 Ms Foxy
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Cuckandhisqueen
2 years ago
I do think that some don’t even try. I get paragraphs, (I do appreciate the time it takes to write) with no comas, no full stops, just one great big mess with words that make no sense. They don’t read over their own messages. I’m just not interested in spending my time trying to make sense of them. It’s like I’m communicating with second graders. Seriously, at least make an effort!
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MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
I don't think guys have "forgotten" how to be gentlemen. They certinally know to be one around the right woman. They've just choosen not to be a dickhead at that time when they sent those distasteful crude messages. Belueve you me, They know exactly what they are doing. Same goes for women too. It's not the case of the one sex. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
2 years ago
.. I’ve had many discussions with men who are clearly not born in Australia. I’m always happy to speak with someone who has made an effort to communicate. . And I’m also happy to moderate my own preference for good spelling, etc, if I can tell that they’ve read my profile and they’re TRYING to connect. . Effort goes a loooong way 🥰 . But like you, I’m pretty tired of bad-mannered men who send revolting and disrespectful messages, or men too lazy to just quickly read and then edit a message before they hit send. . Just yesterday, a prime specimen sent me a message saying “I want a dirty fuck”, with ZERO previous history of ‘dirty talk’ with me. . Am I SERIOUSLY, still expected as a woman, to just accept this kind of disrespect?
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Kokoflamingo
2 years ago
Im finding its 50/50, with a " Hi, I liked your profile, would you like to catch up for a coffee or drink sometime" message followed by a " Hi, would you like to be pounded by my dick" message. I now prefer meeting people at meet and greet events or club nights. Crass messages are deleted .
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Cuckandhisqueen
2 years ago
I had a guy message me for the very first time saying “I’m free now, can I come over?” Errr….how about no!
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FeistyFatty
2 years ago
Queen. I absolutely love this topic. Thankyou. The forums have been completely devoid of any substance for so long now. I doff my hat to thee💞
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oil_beef_hooked
2 years ago
I can understand how you feel about poor grammar, it can hurt my little man brain trying to decipher the meaning of a message sometimes and that’s enough to loose my interest. For me though I’m more quickly turned off by profiles with long list of demands and effectively wanting me to be some kind of performing seal in my opening message. Sorry but if a gentlemanly hello ( just as I would if I met in the street) isn’t enough then the effort outweighs the slim chance of reciprocation.
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Sawadee
2 years ago
Most men dont fully realise what you women have to contend with until something like this comes up . I dont send messages, and even if l was a paid up member ' l wouldn't send anything crude , lm just not that way inclined. But when someone takes the time to ontact me ' l always reply . Common decency costs nothing.. Admittedly ' l dont recieve messages like you ladies and if l did ' l would delete them also.. That l understand. But to dump on someone because they battle to compose something ledgeidable when they are thoroughly decent people , is just plain wrong..
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madotara69
2 years ago
Got a message, she said she loves to suck cock.. I buckled and read on in forgiveness, I woke up next day and god was still holding my hand 😇 Mado Mado Tara xx
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Gorgeous2
2 years ago
I agree , bad grammar is off putting Not man bashing
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52SexyandSingle
2 years ago
Could not agree more OP !!
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Curvesnextdoor
2 years ago
Hmm obviously “licking cunts” is not class but I don’t really see anything wrong with keen as . as long it is within the context of an open and genuine conversation Sometimes i feel like women put too much emphasis on ticking boxes first up that people get thrown in a heap. It is easy to dismiss potentials if they don’t tick all the imaginary boxes. Plus smart manipulators often get the sense of what the expectations are… just because someone is a smooth talker doesn’t make them great in bed! Men are suprising! Not everyone is verbal!
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ComfortZone
2 years ago
I often see ladies profiles that have a lot of spelling errors and little or no punctuation etc, but I generally look past this as it could have been written in haste or they just had a bad day. It's not the end of the world. At least they attempted to write something. I have found that a poorly written profile can often be an indication of a fake profile too. What I dislike are those who simply choose one of the generic profile descriptions. Even worse are those who write nothing.
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SweetSerenade
2 years ago
There's seriously something in the water lately. People saying"yous".... "yous guys are hot as" ..shoot me. And the unsolicited dick pics.... crikey, our profile clearly says no nudes thanks, you'll blow any chance you have... and bam, they still send em. My personal favourite response is, "That's nice, looks kinda like mine but smaller." A trend lately with the single males... 'I'm hung'. Just drop that in your description 4 times, and then in your initiating message. Maybe we're in the minority, but we don't give a shit. And profile names... have a lewd name, instant block from us no matter what. Where's the class indeed.
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Ms_silk
2 years ago
Understand the bad grammar aspect, however be mindful that some of these people maybe more intelligent than yourself. As english may not be their first language. On another note too much abbreviation just shows a bit of laziness and foul language is definitely not a turn on for me. Regarding abuse yes too many to count. So now I screenshot the conversation and report the profile. Tell them I've reported it as well. The only way to change online bad behaviour is to be a active part of the process. RHP are doing well in response and actions are taken. You might find that a person may not be able to send pics in conversations. This is because they have been reported before and the access removed.
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MnauMnau
2 years ago
Interesting topic. As a male with an English as a second language, I always do my best to write any initial message as polite and respectful as I can. I re-read members profile multiple times to connect, everyone is treated individualy in a unique way. And that's between 2 paragraphs to about 5 pages. I don't send di.k pics in first messages, or at all. As most members don't like "Hi, hey, what's up, ..." I use "Dear..." Everything withi social norms, accepted and expected politeness. The replies I'll get, if any! Are: - No reply, but message was read and my profile checked. - Any dick pics? - Hi, cock shots? - Face pics? - Hey, hooooooow. - Big Cummer? Or - I like your profile and your style, we might be a match, face pics? No response and blocked. Recently, I had a messages back and forth between couples profile. Exchanging role plays, pics, soft/sexual rhymes, being engaged. Then sudden stop. I do agree, grammar is important. But for others is also look, than ethnicity, how long is my Schlong, six pack, height, if you can host.... It's very long process ;)
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