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The phone call

September 10 2013

Just back from coffee with some girlfriends, yes all on RHP.We all just had the same problem with the same guy. Yes guys we all know your texting us, without realising we know each other.Nothing wrong with that, as its a small pussy market in Perth.Hoever heads up guys, do not call a woman who works full time or lives with husband or kids , after ten at night.Especially after she has told you NOT to do that, no matter how pissed and Horney you are, show some respect.When my husband is home, he sometimes shares my bedroom and is not thrilled to have my phone go off at night , especially if I get a shit load of messages. I do tell the rules but some break them, so then I don't see them again.Many of us have kids and family so its not an option to turn the phone off, but I do turn my sound off.I think respect a persons home life is important. The other point women bought up, is men asking for threesomes with your girlfriends, even before they have fucked you?Women are not steak knives fellas you don't get the whole set just because you ask.How would you feel if a woman said, yeah love to meet you baby and can you bring a friend, just in case your cocks not up to the task?Ladies have you had either or of this problem.And gentlemen? if you were one you would not do either of these things.

Comments

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    File under "dumbarse" DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    LMFAO That guys busted!!!! It takes a good person to stand up "some" people, especially if they do inappropriate behaviours...They need to be told or else they get away with it with the next person!!! It drives nuts and drains me telling "some" men their behaviour is unacceptable!!! *thumbs down* and they wonder why women get pissed off...A floppy "sorry" means jack Shit!! FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Some women will accept the "after 10pm booty call" - so really do you blame these men??? Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As usual you have me rolling on the floor laughing....     Seriously....when you write that book i want a first print run signed copy!

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    Touch wood, but I have not yet experienced the same thing as your friends had Lady T, because I am a single woman and I am being extremely selective these days as to whom I chat to or meet in person, just to eliminate the chances of running into an idiot or an ignorant dumbasrse! I have a rule where if I say no to a message and he keeps coming back, then I just simply block the guy! I don't usually respond again after my initial reply to say no, but there are times when I have to say no the second time and give out warning. Up to this stage, it is up to the man to stop or continues, but it is my decision to block him or not! Lol- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't call after 8:30 unless its invited- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    All the Fíng time, yep know the odds are stacked against the guys, but come on are you really that desperate that you risk offending the lady you are either trying to or are already getting a bit from? Do they really think that because we play, we will play with our friends or share with them? FFSooo that comes across a little aggressive, sorry but I really don't get it! Maybe some guys are willing to explain why they ask this question?I'd Like a copy of Lady T's book too, I gather it will have beautiful photography to accompany the giggles and anecdotes ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have my phone on vibration/silent under my pillow at nights (for emergency incoming calls) and got woken up by some guy texting me at FIVE FREAKING AM!!! Makes me a Grumpy Bum all day >:(- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As much as I might hope guys would respect the boundaries I set, if they didn't , it'd be a swift goodbye. If too many people, including couples or women were bothering me at the wrong time, I would very much consider getting a secondary phone that I can turn off at my convenience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    They must have clever peckers or phones with large numbers to be able to use them. Obviously they aren't using their brains as the brain would take control of the situation you would think!!!

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    YEP!! Usually when I am with some one else. OOOOPSIES..Phone on silent here after a certain time. So it doesn't bother me in the slightest. Txt all you like lol. As for the threesome thing.... I tell them... if you want it you invite a girl for me! It isn't my fantasy it is theirs so they have too make it happen ...right? lol Single life is just cruzy ere, lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In March, Mr Tryst and I were arranging to meet a pleasant sounding man from here.   Imagine our surprise when I received a booty call (a phone call I didn't answer, a voicemail, and then a text) from him at 2.40 am one morning. Mr Tryst happened to be in my bed and we had a laugh about it. The next day we informed our horny friend the date was off though.   x Ms Shout.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The phone calls that aren't made? I received a few fantastic emails from a lovely sounding couple last week, and the female half and I agreed to speak on the phone on Saturday. I didn't hear from them, but received a message here saying they couldn't find my number. No problem, try again Sunday, right? It's now Tuesday...

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    mobile phone is pretty much useless to us, no good at home or work, so giving our phone number, is only to people we consider to become friends with and feel that we could trust them.If it was for a play date, we may give the number once we have met them, but would prefer to ring them. It is a pain in the arse changing the home number.Mado Tara xx

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    11 years ago

    Very interesting n I have missed reading your forums Lady T xx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    1am drunk phone calls aren't the way into a girl's pants??     I'm going to have to rethink my whole stratagem now. Bugger, I hate thinking.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    someone wanting a 3some without even meeting you first is pretty common. It speaks to the person wanting more to fulfil their fantasy rather that sharing one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just to be devil's advocate, I wanted to say that not everyone would know they were calling at an unsuitable time. Some people (like me) are awake at odd hours and I suggest that its just a horny person having a go. Its good to be very selective when giving one's number out I guess.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Kaleidoscope' As usual you have me rolling on the floor laughing....     Seriously....when you write that book i want a first print run signed copy! PMSL!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I come across this men yes and it is a bit sad sometimes they ask.....even you dont have this on your profile. However I see it also its a good thing they ask because then I know this particular person is not on my wavelength......I am just to intimate for sharing.On the other hand....who knows what is down the track......we all can change our preference with time, then I will state this in my profile. For now...its one man only.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So, do you give them scores out of 10? ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Morning Ladies, I set myself up with KIK (instant message phone app) so that guys/ladies can contact me. After a few meets and when I feel like I can trust that person I then give out my number. Ms NC2147 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    11 years ago

    I too hate getting messages early in the morning.   Hoping not to sound like too much of a wanker here but It wouldn't be as bad if it was someone that you were totally into but it seems to be the ones that you don't want to see anymore.............or certainly as much.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    LOL LOL I wonder if the man/men is question, has read this and know he/they were discussed at a ladies morning tea?FOXY

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY' LOL LOL I wonder if the man/men is question, has read this and know he/they were discussed at a ladies morning tea?FOXY Are probably crying with disrepair, what a fuck upMado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    to have the group of ladies I assume that were meeting number would be insanely hot and a very lucky bloke (now know as vacuum head or shit for brains) and no way on this slightly less green planet would you blow that gift for a stupid call outside of 9 am - 2:30pm.The lowest denominator always wins so in his case given there is no brain cells in the penis I can see why the phone calls occur.It would be a laugh to know if vacuum head/shit for brains has read this and can actually translate it into intelligent outcome.All I can Im ready to substitute for the idiot anytime, :-). I wont ring and would happily be your booty call.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Cheekyarses' Very interesting n I have missed reading your forums Lady T xx- Posted from rhpmobile Looking at that perfect bottom

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' So, do you give them scores out of 10? ;-) Its the new system now , your either competent or not competentand to the other poster about giving numbers out, the guys that do this I have often met and had sex with, or as one red head woman would say in politics " we had the conversation" about how this would work.I tell them the times they can and cannot call. If they cant take instructions then its a FAIL.I used to hold up score cards like with diving meeks, but some dude started to cry and then i had to give him a sympathy fuck...so the dive cards had to go.And yes I must start that book, I in a writers group, its just the research part well its just ummm i think I need some more research, and if umm i could just stop getting lots of umm research I may get out of bed and write that darn book! Lady T ever so naughty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Brilliant! I am sure you were a hard marker. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    2.30pm??? I assume you are married then.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'NewCouple2147'Morning Ladies, I set myself up with KIK (instant message phone app) so that guys/ladies can contact me. Downloading it now!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' 2.30pm??? I assume you are married then. No just the opposite Im enjoying being the dirty secret :-)The boys need to understand that if you going to chase the MILF's and hunt the Cougar you need to understand their normal environment and blend into their lifestyles. Im loving the experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am happy to be asked to bring a girlfriend - at least you know its not going to be someone secretly longing for a relationship. I have a couple of girlfriends I team up with and we ask if they want three or none. And what do you know - some men run at the thought of three. Those that stay get a great time as we all have different specialties.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Gayely' I am happy to be asked to bring a girlfriend - at least you know its not going to be someone secretly longing for a relationship. I have a couple of girlfriends I team up with and we ask if they want three or none. And what do you know - some men run at the thought of three. Those that stay get a great time as we all have different specialties. I am happy as well, depending on the guy and circumstances. However if its the first thing that comes out of a guys mouth before he has even had a one on one. then we as in my girlfriends, assume he is not interested in us as individual women but rather as an EXPERIENCEand going to see the pyramids is an experienceor jumping out of a plane is an experienceI am not some dudes science project. If I he proves he can keep it up to please more than one woman, or that he goes down, knows how to use his hands and to kiss. Well then if he can do it with me , thats a transferable skill me thinksTo many guys jump in the deep and and find they blow and then have no skills to swim the rest of the distance.I have no fear of anyone forming a relationship , as I am married so thats not a problem for me. But guys can still want a relationship and threesomes as well. Just ask any husband on here sounds like your a lady that knows how to have a fun time, on your terms so its all good , horses for courses