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The polite "no thanks" flirt..

February 18 2019

Could be us, but we assume by sending the reply flirt "thanks for the flirt, I enjoyed the attention", that were declining any further correspondence in a polite way.. Is this the general consensus or..? We seem to still get an awful lot of follow on flirts etc from people who dont seem to take the hint ! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • Great_vibes

    Great_vibes

    6 years ago

    Yes that’s my read on it, as that repsonse is located in the ‘no thanks’ section of supplied replies.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    That's my interpretation and intent when I send it. I do seem to get alot of messages after it though "hey thanks for your flirt" yada yada yada. To which I usually reply that it was a polite thanks no thanks not a please message me im keen.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Haha same fiesty!

  • britandtaiwan

    britandtaiwan

    6 years ago

    We'd probably follow that on and assume you're into us. The "no thanks but good luck in your search" is a much better response if you're 100% not interested

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    6 years ago

    It is in the "no thanks" section, but only if you use the full site. Otherwise it's just one of a mixed list of replies you can click on. I use it when I get flirts from interstate or other countries, or people not matching at all. A bit hard to meet for a coffee.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If is a definite NO as in single males, we say sorry but no. If it is no but if things change we say thanks for the flirt. People don't always get it. Sometimes they don't get no either.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That’s my intent with that particular flirt and the way I interpret it when it’s received.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think the subtleties are sometimes lost on eager guys and even couples. A clear thanks but no thanks is needed.

  • raceyroo

    raceyroo

    6 years ago

    Re OP. How can that be a 'no thanks' response when you acknowledge the flirt with a 'thanks' and then suggest you enjoyed the attention. For us that response appears to come across misleading if you have no interest in continuing a discussion you need to be honest and say so.We agree with Earthling 24, if there is no interest you need to say that. 'Thanks but no thanks' or even the comment 'we are not seeking new partners atm'

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Earthling24' I think the subtleties are sometimes lost on eager guys and even couples. A clear thanks but no thanks is needed. Why not just make it clear and simple? It makes sense.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    I see them same as you OP and will add that they need to have another flirt competition to update them. I'm sure there would be many creative responses.

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    6 years ago

    the "thanks for the flirt, I enjoyed the attention" response is the listed in the No section of flirt replies supplied by RHP. It has been a problem for quite a few of us for sometime....as it just encourages messages from people you do not wish to encourage and then they get shitty with you and say you have led them on. Its a no win situation...you dont respond and you get a shitty message, you do respond with the thanks flirt and still end up with a shitty message. There has been many asking for ages for a simple "Thanks" or the option of "Thanks....but no thanks." Sometimes , the standard rhp response flirt doesnt need to be creative....just nice and direct.

  • House_of_Fun

    House_of_Fun

    6 years ago

    If only we could have a "Thanks! All the best and good luck." Flirt reply or something. We've only been asking for years. (And not just here, some of us have messaged Support directly.) How hard can it be?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We as humans havent truly translated our humanly ettiquettes to the digital world. But then again, is our digital footprint reflection of our real one?