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The power of sex compels you... to have sex!
August 14 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Makes me impatient and cranky. Unsatisfactory sex leaves me even more frustrated than I was to begin with! When it's done right I'm much calmer and tolerant :) Good on you for lasting as long as you did :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sex is.There is nothing more to be done about it.Sex builds no roads,writes no novels,and sex certainly gives no meaning to anything in life but itself...Gore Vidal
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RHP User
11 years ago
So I don't have to 😄- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have sex every day , it still wouldn't be enough!! Unfortunately my life as a single mum does not give much opportunity to divulge as I would like and I tend to get a bit short tempered when it's been a couple of weeks- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The more I have it, the more I crave it. But it works the other way around as well: After a few monts of being celibate, thoughts of sex are pushed to the background. That was why I was able to stay in a sex-less relationship for so long.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Before RHP I had not had sex for three years.I have been on RHP for 18 monthsI am a happy camper but I can just as easy slip back into no sex at all.I would miss it , but more than just the sex its the human contact, having someone in my bed naked and warm and talking to me.that part I would miss.Before RhP all I took to bed were books I am enjoying my sexuality, and will continue to have sex as much as I can before the wheels fall of this old gal.I feel sexy, I feel desired, I feel happy I laugh out loud more and I engage with people more and not just for sex.in those three years I was reclusive and would look away if someone looked at me but to tell the truth I was invisible to men and to my self.Sex has that novel at my finger tips, but I just cant stop doing enough research!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would rather be celibate and do without for a time than have bad sessions of sex, better to have quality sex sessions less often than the former it is more fulfilling and satisfying with the right chemistry and connection
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Guys...... pay attention. The good ladies of RHP are sharing their wisdoms... DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To make the good sex really good? Kind of like the argument you need to experience pain to know pleasure? If someone has always had great sex (if possible) then perhaps they wouldn't know it because they know no different? Very philosophical I know but maybe we need occasional bad sex to appreciate good sex lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Everyone goes through it sometime in their life, your getting it or your not, like anything its how you respond, you know what they say about habits
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RHP User
11 years ago
Like JayJay, I'm a single mum with little kids. I work. I take care of my parents when they need me and help out on the farm. As I drive to Sydney with my freshly shaved bits, I start to feel the excitement build. I go a bit silly and let my hair down ... a lot. I then drive home back to my busy and beautifully fulfilling but celibate life. Switch ON. Switch OFF.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thankfully not, as I'd be in a world of depression if I was!But I agree with Dragonfyre2010, I'd much prefer quality over quantity.
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RHP User
11 years ago
.. is never too far away from my mind, and I imagine most people are the same. I can tolerate not having sex for periods of time if necessary . Regardless to what some say' I find the greater the abstinence, the less semen. The more sex I have the more semen i produce and the more horny I become. Nature's way of keeping us on our toe's I guess...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of being completely sexually fulfilled in just one period of my life. It changed everything about me - I was ready to be opened wide (pardon the pun) and someone came along who did just that. He unlocked places in my heart, spirit and omg body, that I had hardly imagined. My cravings for him were intense and relentless and I was a complete nymph. I also happened to be madly in love with him. It was magical and unforgettable. Before that I spent 12 years in a sexless relationship - literally 3-4 times a year, sometimes less or none for a couple of years. And after my mind-blowing time (and the sadness of that ending) I've returned to a life without sex. I just can't imagine what it would take to open up to someone again and I simply could not live with mediocre sex, as I would describe almost every other sexual experience in my life. So, as Mesmerised said, I've switched it all off. If it wasn't for all of you sexy, horny people reminding me what might be out there, I'd probably channel my desires into something ridiculous like becoming a crazy cat lady! Fortunately though, I have the forums :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Without sex. What you do when you abstain is un mentionalble.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because when I ain't getting any I pull my fu@&+}*# hair out!
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madotara69
11 years ago
I only think about it every couple of minutes, so it doesn't impact to all of my time. I just wish Tara would take a rest now and then.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77listNum 21183146272003'Sex is.There is nothing more to be done about it.Sex builds no roads,writes no novels,and sex certainly gives no meaning to anything in life but itself...Gore VidalOh you sexy lady. Sex and love are tied inexorably together. I will build roads, I will write all day and all night. I have done all this, yes for sex but was that love. There was some crazy dude early last century that pointed out our drive is almost entirely driven by sex. Poor old Freud he seems to be forgotten. Gore well easy to be brave in a world of correctness. We are after all, all the same, and have been for way longer than when we learnt to write.I can have sex without love, have done way to many times. It comes and goes, but sex with love (oh we here hate that word) is something worthy of the greatest achievements we as humanity have ever set out to accomplish. In my world there are two types of sex. One type falls under the headings, clarity, performance, or requirement. Yep its fun but I can do without. Then there is emotional sex, done for the love of the other, done because there is nothing else in the world that is better than being one with another. I would climb a glass covered mountain of fire for that sex and every day without is another day waiting till the next time. A month without is a description of hell.Oh wait there is one more type of sex, most do it all the time and its purpose is selfish and gratifying. Sex to get off, to come, to release all the tension, to lay back and go mmmmmmm.. dirty, uncaring, self satisfying sex. But then OP in those long days of abstinence did you not wank as this type of sex is easily found in any private place at any time. SO how hard would it be to go a month without even the release of a wank. Me, fuck that I wont even try to see.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Most people here know what I'm about to say..... So I don't have to 😄- Posted from rhpmobile About or do you have the tense wrong. What were you to about say? :) or am I hanging on a thread with a prospect of about. Just messing with ya. Always good to have a regular forum dude that gets as much attention as me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' The more I have it, the more I crave it. But it works the other way around as well: After a few monts of being celibate, thoughts of sex are pushed to the background. That was why I was able to stay in a sex-less relationship for so long. Will somewhat agree. Practice makes perfect even if that practice is the negative. Been in the sex-less relationship and know how day to day is just the grind without the sweaty, throbbing, lustful fucking. Never again for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' Before RHP I had not had sex for three years.I have been on RHP for 18 monthsI am a happy camper but I can just as easy slip back into no sex at all.I would miss it , but more than just the sex its the human contact, having someone in my bed naked and warm and talking to me.that part I would miss.Before RhP all I took to bed were books I am enjoying my sexuality, and will continue to have sex as much as I can before the wheels fall of this old gal.I feel sexy, I feel desired, I feel happy I laugh out loud more and I engage with people more and not just for sex.in those three years I was reclusive and would look away if someone looked at me but to tell the truth I was invisible to men and to my self.Sex has that novel at my finger tips, but I just cant stop doing enough research! Mm that is true. Sex to avert loneliness, but then there are many other ways to avoid the quiet nights listening to only ones heart. There is indeed a more casual and relaxed togetherness when the boundaries of sex have been eliminated. No offence intended but "Wat up girl?". IMHO you need love. (gonna get a slapping for that.) But then you never know when love will land at your feet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Dragonfyre2010' I would rather be celibate and do without for a time than have bad sessions of sex, better to have quality sex sessions less often than the former it is more fulfilling and satisfying with the right chemistry and connection Well said, chemistry is the most fulfilling part of sex, dare I say LOVE again. But can't agree with the celibate part. Wanking is such a bore.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Liebsterboy' To make the good sex really good? Kind of like the argument you need to experience pain to know pleasure? If someone has always had great sex (if possible) then perhaps they wouldn't know it because they know no different? Very philosophical I know but maybe we need occasional bad sex to appreciate good sex lol- Posted from rhpmobile Was about to say. Young man there is much to experience. But you are late 30's so would know all about bad sex, unless you are a very luck man. Personally I do not believe and that one must have the bad to know the good. Happiness and joy are in themselves that. They do not need a litany of bad to make them what they are. I find I never think of the bad times when the world is rocking. We all know a great time no matter the suffering or not we have experienced. The only reason for bad sex is to learn where not to go. Plus pleasure is normalized, does that mean that what another thinks as the best night of their life to you would be the worst. Be happy to be happy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cwhereitgoes' Everyone goes through it sometime in their life, your getting it or your not, like anything its how you respond, you know what they say about habits Oh a rut. I seem to get into them way too many times. Me big man... rut rut rut.. LOL yes there are droughts but that in my view is always self inflicted. Lest we all fall in the habit of "could of but naa too hard." What an awful habit.(quiet giggle "too hard" ..... LOL rut rut rut).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' Like JayJay, I'm a single mum with little kids. I work. I take care of my parents when they need me and help out on the farm. As I drive to Sydney with my freshly shaved bits, I start to feel the excitement build. I go a bit silly and let my hair down ... a lot. I then drive home back to my busy and beautifully fulfilling but celibate life. Switch ON. Switch OFF. Oh you machine. Lucky all those that know where that switch is. Lucky you as you have it in hand, but is it the sex (maybe you should get a battery operated friend or a few more.) Always good to let ones hair down, or removed, but really is it the orgasmic sex or is it the pleasure of getting out and having fun. Could be done without the sex. (lord forbid).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MsElle72' Thankfully not, as I'd be in a world of depression if I was!But I agree with Dragonfyre2010, I'd much prefer quality over quantity. Would that include only the once ever, the most awesome mind blowing fantastic fuck session? Memories don't cut it for me. Great they are but better is looking forward to the next and I hate waiting. Oh the things so wrong we do for quality over quantity. if only it was all quality how hard would it then be to go without.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' .. is never too far away from my mind, and I imagine most people are the same. I can tolerate not having sex for periods of time if necessary . Regardless to what some say' I find the greater the abstinence, the less semen. The more sex I have the more semen i produce and the more horny I become. Nature's way of keeping us on our toe's I guess... Me and you are never eye to eye and i am on a rant (rut) tonight. But this time I totally agree, use it or lose it. There is a grace period when abstinence is ones goal. Formerly known as blue balls but then that fades. Could I ask how long have you gone without a wank for in my book a wank is sex, and abstinence has no hand.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lolygoblblisbom' Of being completely sexually fulfilled in just one period of my life. It changed everything about me - I was ready to be opened wide (pardon the pun) and someone came along who did just that. He unlocked places in my heart, spirit and omg body, that I had hardly imagined. My cravings for him were intense and relentless and I was a complete nymph. I also happened to be madly in love with him. It was magical and unforgettable. Before that I spent 12 years in a sexless relationship - literally 3-4 times a year, sometimes less or none for a couple of years. And after my mind-blowing time (and the sadness of that ending) I've returned to a life without sex. I just can't imagine what it would take to open up to someone again and I simply could not live with mediocre sex, as I would describe almost every other sexual experience in my life. So, as Mesmerised said, I've switched it all off. If it wasn't for all of you sexy, horny people reminding me what might be out there, I'd probably channel my desires into something ridiculous like becoming a crazy cat lady! Fortunately though, I have the forums :) Dear lovely lady. First, opened wide is not a pun its a double entendre, it has two meaning, a pun has two meanings but is reliant on the sound of the word/s hency literal meaning is obscured by the similarities of sounds. As tonight i am rutting all night long. Pardon the pun. Oh that said and of my chest, and knowing a few lovely animal pussy lovers. I would say that from my experience you do yourself a disservice not trying the field. One never knows (well mostly) if the sex will be good. Will it rock your world. Could one be a slut (I am) and try each and everyone. You never know what, where and who it will be and the more you try the better the odds are that that storm blows into your life. So keep it switched on and at least its a good way to meet fellow cat lovers.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Without sex. What you do when you abstain is un mentionalble. Who should I find at the end of the list. Well I have answered them all tonight and I am sure you know why. If only I was a fly on your unmentionable wall. I would ask what does one do when desired is unattainable, should one try harder or am I in my abstention the one in a long drought from my needs, self inflicted, because I do not try. Need to wank now and will leave it to chance, maybe luck would have us meet, someday. I hate the wait.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What could be so unmentionable??? You've got me a little intrigued. Sex is well....just sex. It can't be THAT devastating to go without can it??- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You start choking the chicken till it vomits every day... Then you start growing hairs on your palms... And eventually you will go blind. And that is unmentionable. Jeez everyone knows that!
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RHP User
11 years ago
God you paint such a funny mental picture.....lol But in all honesty, I'll be sure to keep my eyes on my palms then :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'What could be so unmentionable??? You've got me a little intrigued. Sex is well....just sex. It can't be THAT devastating to go without can it??- Posted from rhpmobile After my 2 month hiatus from sex. It took 15 hours 2 girls 3 guys and 1 trans girl to get me to settle down. What I did in that time, well, I think you have read enough of my posts to know what I get up to. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
😉 Yes I have.....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paintme'Like JayJay, I'm a single mum with little kids. I work. I take care of my parents when they need me and help out on the farm. As I drive to Sydney with my freshly shaved bits, I start to feel the excitement build. I go a bit silly and let my hair down ... a lot. I then drive home back to my busy and beautifully fulfilling but celibate life. Switch ON. Switch OFF.Yes switch on the vibrator!! Then switch it off!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Jay Quoting 'Jay_Me' .. is never too far away from my mind, and I imagine most people are the same. I can tolerate not having sex for periods of time if necessary . Regardless to what some say' I find the greater the abstinence, the less semen. The more sex I have the more semen i produce and the more horny I become. Nature's way of keeping us on our toe's I guess... Me and you are never eye to eye and i am on a rant (rut) tonight. But this time I totally agree, use it or lose it. There is a grace period when abstinence is ones goal. Formerly known as blue balls but then that fades. Could I ask how long have you gone without a wank for in my book a wank is sex, and abstinence has no hand.Yep ' your right. we are so opposite in our way of thinking, just one of those things I guess. To answer your question on abstinence. I was in a sexless relationship for too many years, going without became the norm and in the end I became just as stubborn so it was a stalemate. Being the proud person i am , It was never a option to have to beg , so I settled for abstinence over belittlement. Coming from a sporting background where recognition was part of the lifestyle, I still remained faithfull and would go for ages without any release with only the occasional wank to keep things working.. Thankfully ' these days are different, and I get to enjoy sex for what it is even though I am fussy..
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RHP User
11 years ago
for most of us abstinence isn't a luxury that we can choose, it kind of chooses us.... and i guess whatever the consequence you just have to deal with it!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'Freya77listNum 21183146272003'Sex is.There is nothing more to be done about it.Sex builds no roads,writes no novels,and sex certainly gives no meaning to anything in life but itself...Gore VidalOh you sexy lady. Sex and love are tied inexorably together. I will build roads, I will write all day and all night. I have done all this, yes for sex but was that love. There was some crazy dude early last century that pointed out our drive is almost entirely driven by sex. Poor old Freud he seems to be forgotten. Gore well easy to be brave in a world of correctness. We are after all, all the same, and have been for way longer than when we learnt to write.I can have sex without love, have done way to many times. It comes and goes, but sex with love (oh we here hate that word) is something worthy of the greatest achievements we as humanity have ever set out to accomplish. In my world there are two types of sex. One type falls under the headings, clarity, performance, or requirement. Yep its fun but I can do without. Then there is emotional sex, done for the love of the other, done because there is nothing else in the world that is better than being one with another. I would climb a glass covered mountain of fire for that sex and every day without is another day waiting till the next time. A month without is a description of hell.Oh wait there is one more type of sex, most do it all the time and its purpose is selfish and gratifying. Sex to get off, to come, to release all the tension, to lay back and go mmmmmmm.. dirty, uncaring, self satisfying sex. But then OP in those long days of abstinence did you not wank as this type of sex is easily found in any private place at any time. SO how hard would it be to go a month without even the release of a wank. Me, fuck that I wont even try to see. Lady T, thats in a class of its own
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'Been in the sex-less relationship and know how day to day is just the grind without the sweaty, throbbing, lustful fucking. Never again for me. I hear that! And fuck, you do like seeing your own pic on a thread, don't you?
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RHP User
11 years ago
The problem with the double entendre is that it doesn't sound good when coupled with a pardon. Pardon the double entendre? Odd! Pardon the pun? Misplaced (intentionally) but infinitely more catchy ;) And besides, if some of us didn't take a little bit of literary license now and then, you'd have nothing to complain about!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Analyze any human emotion,no matter how far it may be removed from the sphere of sex,and you are sure to discover somewhere the primal impulse,to which life itself owes its perpetuation....Siggy
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leeroybbad
11 years ago
Sex is natural,Sex is good,Not everybody does it,But everybody should...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lolygoblblisbom' The problem with the double entendre is that it doesn't sound good when coupled with a pardon. Pardon the double entendre? Odd! Pardon the pun? Misplaced (intentionally) but infinitely more catchy ;) And besides, if some of us didn't take a little bit of literary license now and then, you'd have nothing to complain about! Thank you for the explanation. It was a little light hearted humor that I attempted and failed at, I feel like such an ass. Oh pardon the Homonym, or is that a pun, or is that double entendre. Wait, or is that a homograph, after all an ass is not an arse or is it? Do not fall for english teachers they mess with your mind. I have been so hanging to use the term double entendre on a sex forum. Please do not ask me why, the shame, the shame...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'leeroybbad' Sex is natural,Sex is good,Not everybody does it,But everybody should... ^agreed
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' Analyze any human emotion,no matter how far it may be removed from the sphere of sex,and you are sure to discover somewhere the primal impulse,to which life itself owes its perpetuation....Siggy Yes he was an insightful nut case. Yet do we build roads to get anger, write books to achieve embarrassment. Sex is the primary impulse for life's perpetuation. Yet that is no longer true and one could say with modern medicine, technology, and culture we need only love, love of the family and each other.Thus I match your quote with...All you need is loveAll you need is loveAll you need is love, loveLove is all you need... Beatles. LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
the conversation is about sex
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh silly silly me get the redickulus love word mixed up in all the heart pounding sensually excessive debortuary. BTW I know its ridiculous. LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
How your mind and body ages....like a car needs a service :-) our bodies need to release the wonderfull endorphins that only good sex provides. I'm with the girls quality over quantity and would never sacrifice my sense of self for anything less.... Would rather mastubate :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been single for 2 years & have not been with a lady for almost 6 months now.I am happy with my own company so I dont really miss all that goes with sex.I know that this sort of life is not for everyone,but I dont mind for the time being. I think that sex really does help to keep the peace in society,Monday mornings woud be alot less enjoyable for me if the rest of the guys that I work with didnt get a bit on the weekends & thru the week.LOL As for being dependent on sex, yep there are plenty of people that really do need it regularly. Lets not forget about the release of natural endorphins that we get during a good sesion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are none so blind than those who will not see....John Heywood 1546 and that aint you babe....apologies Bob..
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see." Mark Twain.Big hug kind Freya77
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