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The real you?

May 20 2013

I can't imagine writing your own profile on a website is going to reflect the real person behind it. I sometimes look at what someone has in their shopping trolley. I'd rather look at a coles docket. What are the things that reveal the real you?PS: Is it bad to look at what is in someone's trolley? PPS: by trolley, I mean trolley. It's not some metaphor...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You can't gauge anything about a person by what they are buying at one particular time at the supermarket.....you can gauge however, what they're planning on eating.....and I hope one day, I'm the one in the trolley :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think on a site like RHP, most people are trying to portray a "best facade" rather than the real them. They are trying to compete with all the others out there and look sexier and more interesting than they truly are in real life. So no, I don't think anyone's profile really reflects their true selves.On the PS, trolleys are see-through so I don't really see an issue in looking, as long as you don't have a rummage through.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    12 years ago

    Our profile pretty much sums us up. If the reader chooses to they can gather quite a lot of information about what we're looking for - and who we are.It's amazing how many people who send messages out to us don't read our T's & C's...But yeah, we could be full of shit, but I do believe because words are an expression of the mind and soul that people who write from the heart could present a reflection of their true selves, just like poetry, a book or a news piece it's your interpretation that creates a true or false mental picture.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Although I'm not gunna tell you what I'm like after my kids have been spewing all night, the water tank is empty and I just ran out of nappies. That stuff I'll keep for my real life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I like to think my profile is open, honest and reflects me. As far as competing with others...I have no want or need to compete. If a person or people would like to talk to me or meet me then that's great, but I'm not up for playing games or chasing someone, unless of course it's around a room or in bed :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Embarrassing things in particular, say condoms, lube, laxatives, incontinence pads, you get the idea... True story... I was on my way to a big date one night and needed condoms, so I stopped in at the local Woollies, I was nervous as it was the first time and hadn't eaten all day, so I grabbed two bananas to down in the car on the way to the pub, So there I was with a pack of Zeroes (large)and a couple of big bananas standing in the loooong queue... I had a few odd stares, what would you have made of my shopping items that day Sunshine? Anyway the checkout chick asked if I would like a bag... Ummmm yeah, I still had to walk out of the Plaza and through the parking lot!

  • jensta

    jensta

    12 years ago

    I work in Retail ... Shopping Trolley tell tales So True ... I know more than I need to know When they come through with there condoms up sale is would you like some lube with that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    we are who we are, and our profile reflects that, at least in our eyes it does...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My ex husband found it and said "That's the girl I fell in love with"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Damn, mine is pretty accurate, maybe that's why I've not been getting any responces

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If I feel I get weird looks I play up to them....in your case I would've looked them in the eye and said "what???? They don't wilt like carrots!!!"- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I didn't mean to say people deliberately write misleading things. I guess I am frustrated about communicating the real me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is scarily accurate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' is scarily accurate Mine had something about me being able to make my own curry paste and I have a reasonably large penis. These things are true. I made my own curry paste recently and I remember the ingredients and a few people have told me my penis is on the larger side. But this isn't what people want to hear. But there are people who like curry and large penises. Darn it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    my profile is 25% me the other 25% when you chat with me. And the rest, should we ever meet.Really we are only talking sex here, but sex is not the whole me, far from it. there is much more about me then sex.Is it the truth what I portray here,yes it is with my 25%.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They'll tell you my profile describes me perfectly. A lot better than my far-too-fucking-nice forum posts, actually.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    On a recent trip to the supermarket i had in my basket;   Dipping chocolate, strawberries, antipasto nibblies, dips and biscuits, chocolates, 2 types of lube (because i was out of both!) and some popping candy.   The lady who served me took one look at the basket's contents and looked at me....I smiled and said "it's going to be a great night "

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Where we write each other's profiles!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think it's inevitable that the an intro site has limitations. I mean really how many people don't like MUSIC, FRIENDS or TRAVEL? As a rookie here i was frustrated by the some of the fields where templates were the only option.   Your only way to cut loose is in the about me/looking for zones.But text can only do so much. Most of us would have sent emails that have been misinterpreted one way or the other. . And let's face it, you can't say too much on a site like this unless you are a complete exhibitionist? What would your mum say if she recognised you on here?? Erm, although why would she be on here... Moving right along.   To get to the point! To know the person you've really got to meet the person at the other end.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    have you ever read a bad one....until i've met you, all your fluffy, flowery words, mean diddly squat Mr S

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77'is scarily accurate jeeeezee you have really dumbed yourself down on your profile and look ma , no vagina! so I am gonna write it for you   Madam Mim articilate,funny, brain bigger than her boobies..and thats sayin something private and quiet till you press my buttons able to write poetry on table clothes   keeps people up all night making them laugh so hard they have sore ribs the next day cant keep people out of the mini bar at a five star hotel   sex... only into ninja sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb'Where we write each other's profiles!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I should have popped that big banana in my mouth and swirled my tongue around the tip like I damn we'll owned it! "Yeah, look at the big boy I'm doing tonight! Don't knock it till you've tried it!"

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    is usually just a smidgeon of me... Want to get to know be more...dare you to come to Karratha and see my shopping basket.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you list endowment size as bigger than 8" you get way more hits than 5-6" However I don't want to meet anyone that wouldn't be happy with my little friend :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    About my profile, I figure u want to get to know me a little better ask a few questions!! I've nothing to hide so to Speak!!! Gypsy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Absolutely....the judgemental pricks....fuck em :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I leave it up to others to read things into it.. They will anyway. ? Being a bit of a no fuss sort of person. I wanted to convey that in my profile... Anyway ' that's only a basic introduction.. I like to think there's a lot more to me than a few lines. The only way that will happen is a face to face meeting.. THAT'S the real test.... I'm confident the people I meet will find me as per profile... Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I leave it up to others to read things into it.. They will anyway. ? Being a bit of a no fuss sort of person. I wanted to convey that in my profile... Anyway ' that's only a basic introduction.. I like to think there's a lot more to me than a few lines. The only way that will happen is a face to face meeting.. THAT'S the real test.... I'm confident the people I meet will find me as per profile... Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That what a lot of people neglect to think about, is that this is only the meeting place. The very first conversation or interaction that takes place. Many people put too much store in what's in a profile. It's marketing pure and simple....and it should be! The true vetting begins AFTER first contact, when you have the opportunity to interact on a personal level and decide if this person sounds appealing, has the qualities you are looking for in this particular interaction or not.   It is up to you, the individual, to screen and vet in a way that narrows the field to those that you want to interact further with.   If you are meeting duds....take another look at your screening process, there is something wrong in there.   Caveat Emptor!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Karynb or anyone else...you write me a profile. I'll post it up for a month.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit'is usually just a smidgeon of me... Want to get to know be more...dare you to come to Karratha and see my shopping basket. have one planned for august going up with another artist, we are going to hit the pubs and draw caricatures for people.she is on rhp as well. just going to sleep in back of car, or swags and maybe head to port headland and broome then back down for the canarvon cup to do more drawings. should be a lot of fun me thinks and you can show us the pub in karratha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'anybodyjustnow'Karynb or anyone else...you write me a profile. I'll post it up for a month. and do photoshoots but as your not into one night shags, and the flight is to expensive cant help ya   but may come over that way for the art gallery its pretty good there   I think you have to know and talk ot a person offline for a little before you do their profile, so I ask things like do you cry when you cum? do you spread the vegimite all over the toast to the edges   do you see that little beauty spot on my labia? you know nothing to intimate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But you'll have to submit to my 101 questions! Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' Karynb or anyone else...you write me a profile. I'll post it up for a month.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Tuscan your gorgeous...I'd be happy to wander around the galleries with you anyday. I'm sure paintme would accompany us as well ... and who says it would be a one night stand As for those two questions...No I don cry when I cum, although I may have shed a tear by accident when bound and flogged.I don't do vegemite, but when I make vegemite toast for a visitor, or someone when they are sick, I do spread it all the way to the corners.Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'anybodyjustnow'Karynb or anyone else...you write me a profile. I'll post it up for a month. and do photoshoots but as your not into one night shags, and the flight is to expensive cant help ya   but may come over that way for the art gallery its pretty good there   I think you have to know and talk ot a person offline for a little before you do their profile, so I ask things like do you cry when you cum? do you spread the vegimite all over the toast to the edges   do you see that little beauty spot on my labia? you know nothing to intimate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ask Away :) Quoting 'karynb' But you'll have to submit to my 101 questions! Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' Karynb or anyone else...you write me a profile. I'll post it up for a month.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Tarts a great idea! Can you write mine too? Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Presenting your "best face" is all part of the fantasy ;)If you wanted real, well there's other established means of finding "real"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Your first 10 Questions: 1. Describe your ideal sexual encounter. 2. Do you have a written list of goals? 3. You have been given a day off, a gift! How do you spend the day? 4. Complete this sentence. I feel passionate about...... 5. Whats the biggest lesson you've learnt in the last 3 years? 6. What do you hope to find on RHP? 7. What are your top 5 values? 8. 3 things i want to do before i die are....... 9. White lies are Ok when......... 10. Quality of life means........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Are you also willing to submit to my 101 questions?? Quoting 'SuperFox'Tarts a great idea! Can you write mine too? Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    well i put myself up front pics are real there not done by profeesional photographer and the only thing thats not refealed is i smoke cigs in pic but is writen in discription im thinking about putting one up my ass though just for a bit of fun fun haha . im planing to quite ... my rv like profile has nothing fake on it but as we grow old like when i became a member i was 43 now im 44 but believe it or not i look fitter .. no not from all the fantastic ladies and sex ive been haveing but my own personal echieve ment in get fiiter cardio up qite smoking ..so what you see is what you get ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    but too late, I am leaving.I have enjoyed the forums but not the rest of the RHP experience...what there was of it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Lysistrata12' but too late, I am leaving.I have enjoyed the forums but not the rest of the RHP experience...what there was of it... Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi! Sunshine _ Man :) Thanks for your Topic. My reply to you is Yes My Profile is me. I took a lot of time and effort to compose 1 that will enable those who checked me out to be aware of the Basics of Who I Am.. What I'm About.. What I expect from others.. To the extent that they can make a balanced decision to get to know me more or pass.. I'm lucky that those I've met in Person, have mentioned that they're very surprised, as I'm so much more than even my extensive Profile says .So I feel very flattered that they think it and appreciate spending time with me even if Sex isn't involved :) Frankly I've no time or Inclination to be anyone but Myself. So why Fake it or view me in a different light.It doesn't work. I'd be deluding Myself which is very Negative I'm not into that.. Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Although I should mention how dickish I felt taking the selfies, I'm not that kind of guy but advertising is a must.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    xoxoxoxoxoxox

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    August you say huh!!!!<<

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    August you say huh!!!!<<

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But don't think for a second, that you're going to like them!!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I actually leave some things out like skills etc because I would prefer to leave that for people to find out when there's a mutual interest/attraction. I also don't think it's appropriate to comment about finances, emotions and family etc - those intimately personal details. It's not about competition for me (I know that's easy to say because I'm a girl on here), but I believe this site is about seek and you shall find.....and all in good fun! With regards to the shopping trolley comment - to make you all chuckle....... I was chatting to a guy and when I allowed access to my face pics he said I shopped at Coles New Farm. I said quizzically ....yes. Then he said he watched me and said I had bananas in my basket!!! I freaked out because I was so shocked, horrified and embarrassed because I knew the reason why I bought the bananas ;) taking special time to pick the perfect specimens lol. That was 2 weeks before our chat and in the end I had to block him, as it was just too stalker freaky. Now I hide the fruit and veg lol. Lolly xxx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We think ours is pretty accurate, sure there is the nitty gritty bits and pieces of your life that you wouldn't put in your profile but hey if we put it all in there would be nothing to learn about.. I really don't see the point in not being honest about what you want/like or are looking for, in the end we are looking for people that are like minded and that we may click with, if your not honest then really your doing yourself and others a disservice and potentially wasting one another's time.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think there is a difference between honesty and truth. Some people think that they are something they are not. They will honestly write their profile eg "not pushy" not realising that to most people the truth is they are pushy. Then there are the knowingly dishonest ones. Finally there are the honest and true ones. They don't have a skewed reality about themselves. As for the shopping trolley or docket......I don't wink at a lady just because she bought a butternut pumpkin and a jar of Vaseline. She could be hungry and have cracked heels.- Posted from rhpmobile