The “sweet spot”

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 years ago

  There should be No expectations or pressures. I like to meet within a week and a phone call prior. I know during that phone call and by the end of if I want to met them or not. I follow my gut. I will state at the end of the call what I would like to do. I either wish them well or we arrange to meet up by discussing schedules then and there during that time. There is never a guarantee of play on 1st meet. If anyone tries to tell me otherwise, tries to manipulate the situation, or beg or convince me otherwise or how they want to get off (being selfish), they'll get an instant no from me. My rules are: having firm healthy boundaries in place, mainly for my own safety. If people do not respect them, then that's on them, not me. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Meet for a drink and chat, with the upfront agreement of No expectations or obligation to proceed if anyone isn't happy.

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  funtimescouple1

  3 years ago

  We love meeting couples and are very open minded. We chat online enough to ensure we're on the same page. In our mind you don't know until we meet. Whenever we meet a couple there's friendly chat....travel, everyday stuff and lifestyle chat. The difference for us is the flirtiness....compliments, eye contact, cheeky comments and smiles and touches. Everyone needs to agree and be comfortable. If that obvious extra flirty connection is there between opposite couples then the question often doesn't need to be asked. Play just happens.

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  2EssesExploring

  3 years ago

  The sweet spot is after some great chatting to get to know someone and see their facial expressions and how they react to different emotions we then move on to watching everyone’s reactions as the clothes come off and kisses are exchanged. The next sweet spot is when we lock gazes as everyone’s bits are being pleasured

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  I dont agree with chatting too long and its lost. Not for me anyway... I like to get to know the person more than just 'what are you into? With the current in and out of lockdowns etc there has been people ive spoken to for a loooong time but never met, or maybe just met once for coffee. If the conversation can continue without meeting then I believe its a positive. A phone conversation can definitely be a good alternative to a meet to see if you could have a connection IRL. The voice and laugh of someone can be a huge turn on 🤪

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  Drewbris

  3 years ago

  I'm sure everyone is different, and every potential meet up is as well. Some people I have never met but are great chat mates others I have meet fairly quick. The sweet spot is in the connection.

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