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The term "players" what does it mean to you?

October 07 2012

Greetings all, my first forum post, so be gentle! Apologies for the big clump, my iPad abhors paragraphs. After reading many many forums, the term "players" keeps popping up and in different contexts at different times. So my question is, "what does the term mean to you?" Is it a person who tells you everything they think you want to hear just to bed you without meaning any of it, only to disappear into the wild blue yonder? Is it someone manipulative who is only after what they want? Is it someone who just likes lots of notches to their belt? I would love to hear the opinions of one and all. I apologise for the tags, when I started typing it in, players didn't come up....only playboy, plastic surgery and plane? Go figure!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    to me is someone for whom sex is a game that they must win...regardless of the feelings of others...all is fair in love and war is their motto...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My definition is basically someone who fakes an emotional connection because they think that is what you want to hear to get you into bed. Often he is doing the same with multiple partners at once or in very quick succession. The reality is they are only interested in sex and will say and do whatever it takes to acheive that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is in my opinion, the definition of a player with what Freya said, tacked on ( I always seem to post after Freya :)..)   Google the word "Player" - and I swear you will see both my exes names in bold written next to the word.... ...     Im done with bad boys...........alone alone alone.........

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lets think a player in a team..a player in a band... a player between the sheets..are we all players to some extent..? i am talking in a good way ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    players come in all shapes and forms ...governments, car salesmen, fuel stations, and dogs when they want treats

  • cougar4fun

    cougar4fun

    12 years ago

    To me is someone who does or says what they need to, in order to get what they want out of a situation, regardless of whether it is the truth or the right thing to do.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Do mind putting some undies on, you look like a naked sky diver who crashed through the ceiling and landed on a bed.. A player is a guy / girl who likes to get as much attention from as many of the opposite sex they can.. The more ppl they feel they can win over the bigger boost to the ego. These ppl are generally good friends to be around , but terrible partners to be with.. Occassionly they feel they want to settle down, but this is usually only temporary before they feel the need for their next fix.. In short... its a habit.. just like any other personality behaviour disorder... Mrs JJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Someone who is skilled at manipulating people by pretending to care about them when all they really wanted is sex. Then he/she does this in succession. Derived from the idiomatic expression, "play him for a fool". What? It seems like the expression refers to a woman.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To me the term describes someone who has multiple relationships because they like the thrill of the chase and get an ego trip of being wanted (as opposed to simply enjoying the company of a variety of others).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'coodi_yowie' players come in all shapes and forms ...governments, car salesmen, fuel stations, and dogs when they want treatsWhen I scream for the umpteenth time to stop fighting boys and I look out the corner of my eye and they are grinning with delight .... "we got her again" !!! Is it a person who tells you everything they think you want to hear just to bed you without meaning any of it, only to disappear into the wild blue yonder? Is it someone manipulative who is only after what they want? Is it someone who just likes lots of notches to their belt?and too can deifinitly be all of the above

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They tell women they are like hot bread on a Sunday morning how they like to snuggle   they pretend to like your dog, when you know that secretly they are a cat guy. they like to swap one warm hole for another, preferably with as little time as possible in between after fucking you they whisper in your ear do you have a bi girlfriend?   they have to leave so quickly after they come that they fling of the condom so quickly , that you dare never to turn a fluoro light on in your bedroom as csi would think it a mass rape scene.   they leave the front door propped open and the car running when they say they are going to give you the works baby their idea of the works   is fucking you with one foot still on the ground so they can make an exit stage right quicker than, Banister breaking the four minute mile.   The say ohhh baby I so want to see you again and you see them tossing their throw away phone into your front garden Usually players stick it to you, one way or another and usually quickly.   love Cersei Lanister

  • Mr_DarkChocolate

    Mr_DarkChocolate

    12 years ago

    hrm i'd say a player is anybody who "plays" manipulates another person into doing pretty much anything they want to, it's usually sex most people localise it to the whole sex thing but really the sandbox for manipulating people "playing" is much much larger & can be useful

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred'     They tell women they are like hot bread on a Sunday morning how they like to snuggle   they pretend to like your dog, when you know that secretly they are a cat guy. they like to swap one warm hole for another, preferably with as little time as possible in between after fucking you they whisper in your ear do you have a bi girlfriend?   they have to leave so quickly after they come that they fling of the condom so quickly , that you dare never to turn a fluoro light on in your bedroom as csi would think it a mass rape scene.   they leave the front door propped open and the car running when they say they are going to give you the works baby their idea of the works   is fucking you with one foot still on the ground so they can make an exit stage right quicker than, Banister breaking the four minute mile.   The say ohhh baby I so want to see you again and you see them tossing their throw away phone into your front garden Usually players stick it to you, one way or another and usually quickly.   love Cersei Lanister   Loved it!....both your comment and the book!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    As well as one that chooses to boast of their supposed amazing pleasing powers/number of "notches".........:) Tuscanred, you make me laugh almost every day! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    more concerned with notches on a bedhead than they are with the business of interpersonal relationships.... to us, they don't rate on our radar at all.... none of the words we think of could be classed as a compliment...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sorry to be absent a few days, had a nice getaway out of mobile and Internet service areas. Thanks everyone for your responses, especially a few of the forum regulars. I think maybe the saddest part about a player is what they miss in the opportunity for a connection. I love your situational examples Tuscan, gave me a particularly vivid picture and a good sense of what you mean. I never thought of the skydiver aspect before MrsJJ. I suspect I will have a new pic up soon as every time I log in now I will be thinking of skydiving lol.