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They have caught your eye - What makes you turn away?

July 09 2019

You see a great profile photo and click on it. What's in their profile that makes you close it and say no? Similarly, what makes you walk away from a good looking person or couple you met in real life? In a profile, we are looking for a couple with a bisexual or bicurious female. A straight female makes us say no. In real life, it is all about respect and personality. If someone is rude, we will give them a few chances maybe, depending on their level of rudeness but after that, I want nothing to do with them at all. As far as personality goes, "the I used to..." line gets to me. I want to be around people who make the most of themselves now, not yesterday. What makes you walk or run away?

Comments

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    5 years ago

    There are a few Smokers being one of them. At Bay City, we were approached by a young attractive blonde female. We chatted at the bar over our drinks, and it was clear to us that she wanted to play. And then she got up to go to the smokers room. That for us, ended any attraction we had, including any intentions to play. Yes we are fickle and superficial no doubt. We just don’t enjoy licking (kissing) ashtrays :) . Our choice and our right. “Safe sex if required “ or “safe sex never “ are another. And then there are the templated phrases “ I am a sexual animal and can’t get enough “ “ I want sex now “ etc etc etc

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    For me how they talk to me, if I feel they pushy I wake awake.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    a great profile is one with some meat on its bones with one or two public pics of torso or a cheeky grin. Love a cheeky smile! The ones that allow me a glimpse into their personality are more likely to hold my attention. I do like to read profiles that have been considered and perhaps offer a funny quote from TV, or for bonus points an actual book, or an insight into how they like to meet, just for example. There are emaciated profiles that provide little or no inkling about the person and they are a turn off, even more so if they have a Guest profile and don't even ask me about Ask Me's! A general lack of investment on any level instantly rouses my suspicion that the profile is disposable and a waste of time. SNW

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    If its not in the kiss,it's not happening. Hugs Q

  • windows_spent

    windows_spent

    5 years ago

    I walk away from smokers; those who mention “no time wasters” (I don’t rush to sex, it’s about connection) and those with NSA mentioned. If there’s not a word in the bio you don’t warrant a return flirt, if you message I might gently mention that - the campground ⛺️ rule, try to help them if they want to be. I also don’t fetishise tattoos and so someone with many I tend will expect me to like em - so usually give them a swerve. Elsewhere, mentions of 420, no for me. Likewise references to puff n play. In person, it’s a chemistry or spark I’m looking for. Respect, a level of feeing safe and that’ll respect my boundaries or when no means no. Optimally the convo will flow freely and bonus if it’s a bit flirty.

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    5 years ago

    When it comes to walking away, which I might add I do a lot of, for me my perving time has finished, yes I’ve enjoyed the social interaction and chances are would love more, but for me I have my perve, enjoy the fantasy that I conjur up in my head and go about my business....theres usually nothing wrong with them at all....

  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    5 years ago

    May sound odd to some but I avoid profiles and couples who are stunningly beautiful. It's purely a confidence thing in that I can't see them being interested so I'd rather turn away and not bother as opposed to trying to spark something up and risk it being be shot down in flames or being intimidated by them. I know that in person / reality, it is a little different however that's my mindset.. Mr NvC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    It makes sense that people do that but definitely try to say hi in person. Online can be difficult for everyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Profiles that are obsessed with cream pie, unprotected sex with randoms, safe sex if required, those into bare gangbang etc. Then there are smokers, drug users etc. Get past all that and you get people who just refuse to stand in front of camera and take a proper photo of themselves to share in private. All photos from above like teenage Instagram users, and then you get told off for asking for a clear photo. I thought I was being too unreasonable so i decided to actually meet one such couple even though they refused to send one clear photo. They looked nothing like their blurry dark photos. I understand lack of self esteem and all but come on, lying doesn’t make it any better. After that I just tell people “sorry, not interested”. You refuse to show me your face or what you look like, it’s a blind date for me. Not ideal. I don’t get whole lot of time off work. Not risking my time like this.

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    5 years ago

    For me it's all in their profile description and what they are looking for. Mines a novel and I get that people wont read it all, but I dont care. But when I look at someone's and there is nothing there or very few words that doesnt give much of a gauge on who they are. Smokers I'm not a fan of and drugs etc. I've found a lot just want online play. Indecisiveness is a big one for me, I get confidence and anxiety is an issue, but simple decision making that requires a weeks thought annoys me. Or if you plan to meet after a good conversation is met with I'm not sure and no decision is made. I love a woman who confident and tells me what she wants 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

  • dockland

    dockland

    5 years ago

    When you look at a couples profile pictures and there are several of the guy, usually with his appendage on full display. with the partners shots that look like she has been snuck up on and photographed from behind, or they look as though they have just been lifted from the family album. Couple, yeah right.

  • dockland

    dockland

    5 years ago

    That would be Flag