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This has no doubt happened before sorry to rehash

December 09 2009

We have had a fine young fellow in our sites and even though there is a definate physical attraction between my lovely and her suiter he seems to be unable to converse with her, my question is this. 1) is it a generational / social thing or is it likely that he is lost and doesn't know where to start. I (hubby) have done all I can to ensure he knows we are genuine and he is free to persue her.2) is he just to young and unfocused to know when he is on a good thing.to clarify wifey has warmmed to the idea of the lifestyle due in part to this lads body but ladies correct me if I am wrong but you still need a spark to start a fire.....after several attempts at failed conersation he drops off the radar then out of nowhere calls and says Im horny can I come over and f!@# you. We have childeren and one rule we have is no play at at our home add to this the near midnight call. I work away and I get a call to this end and tell the Wife that she should cam him and play that way given that she has never even had any face to face time with this lad and he was told that I would be present though not playing.Is the world that instant, do younger people fail to see that the journey is as important as the destination.should we smash all electronic media now before we forget how to converse with our fellow man.I have to go I'm shaking my head to the point of spinal damage...your thoughts my fellow earth dwellers

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The "I'm horny and need attention right now"  booty call is more or less a modern phenominon caused by the advent of instant media access... you just couldnt do it in the 1950's with shared party telephone lines and switchboard operators always listening in on the gossip. :p   Havent you noticed that young bodies are always handsome and beautifu?? But some younger people on here are excellent communicators and seems to me that makes them very attractive. Down Gaz. *spanks self with wooden spoon*   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Personally..I would forget this young man...   He can't be a bit of a friend first???..Seriously gotta have mental stimulation there..   Any guy on my msn...They start sweetly..then drop off...then suddenly they are back online..and say ohhh.I am horny!   derrrrr...ummm....yerrrr  ain't we all...go n have a wank with some porn!!!   And they wonder why they end up deleted on my msn..pmsl....and the really bad ones end up on my block list too...pmsl   Too many young men have the* I am hot so I can get anything I want* attitde...NOOOOO....well not with me anyways.   I have got friends on msn that are that.....friends..never met them ( yet)..lol...But damn...They have proven they are my friends!!   I adore them...   kisses   sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Minutes after reading this post I get an email from a 26y guy.. just managed over the line of my age cut off point.... lol ... and he contacts me... so I write back with the usual palarva give him my phone number and tell him I cant host but if he comes up with a venue we should meet.   He rings while I'm on the phone to a client and says his name.. and frankly I know a lot fo guys named Phil, right.. so I say "phil who". and he says "Phil from the web site.. look you sound like you dont know me and you sent that message out to heaps of people".. and I say "look its difficult to talk now can I call you back" (I mean, my client is on hold.. lolz).. and he says.. "No I'll call you back".  ffft.   So he calls back just now and says "I think that's weak act sending that email to ahlf a dozen people" and I say "Mate, I jsut replied to your email, that's all.".. and he says well if you want me to come over to your house when" ....   Now at this rate Im thinking I said right off the bat that I dont host.. this guy is not listening so I say... "Mate, I can't host how about we meet at a venue in the City and work something out".... and he says "Look you find a venue and then you can suck my dick" But seriously..... some people are so full of bad attitude like they're doing the world a favour just existing.   NEXT.   hehe. Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    That's the word...NEXT!...         kisses sweetpetite41 xxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Funny hearing all that ... i told hubby we should be only looking for couples 27/28 and upwards i tried to explain that we wouldn't be on their level but hubby being hubby...lol  was so sure that we had it all covered... thats till he had a fine young lady tell him if we wanted to meet with them (couple)  it had to be the next day or the day after becuase that was the only time they are free!!! oooh she went on tell hubby that we are sooo lucky that they even looked at our profile let alone that we had some of their time to chat... hubby was pissed and couldn't believe that these two wanted it there & then and on their terms... I told hubby that most of the young ones don't want to chat or have drinks or get to know eachother with some flirting and a bit of a tease... they are in such a hurry and want it all now.    my advice is move right on... there is plenty of fish in this sea...lol    Tip: Without feeling you are becoming a parent... lol  we have found from time to time you can explain what you're after by trying to indulge the person in role play or fantasy but even then they still need to respond   Good Luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    He is a virgin and feeling a little intimidated, you didn't say how old he is, maybe your wifey is old enough to be his mum! Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Not that yng but close haha. He seems to have seen the error of his ways. I feel that i may have been a bit harsh after all I to was yng once a wwwwwwhhhhhhiiiiiilllllleeeeeee back and was controlled by my little head lolI called and pointed out that this is a shared thing not a right or a service we enlisted him in. he has seen first hand what playing with a cple with kids takes and if he hangs in ther he will reap what he sows so to speakThanks for the interest in my little rave. I was a bit tired after 12 nightshifts and when i got the call I was a bit out of sorts,I know better than most that before you vent your splean you should take a deep one and count to 10 or 1000 as the case may be.for those of you that have taken the time to wait for us THANKYOU as for picks well in my line of work you need to be real cagey, I know we all have a certain risk factor in our lives but those that want them know how to get them.this has turned into another rave .....but I leave you all with best wishes and seXXXy thoughts for the xmas and new year time period..... once again in my line of work Please be safe I dont want to runny into any of you horny buggas in the line of duty.