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This is a question for the men, maybe even my first rant.
April 09 2014
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sweetgem
11 years ago
I had an interstate business traveller asked me if I could meet him in his hotel room during the day, because his nights were fully booked and he had so much free time in daytime. This is one of the reasons why I don't usually and lightly do casual hook up when I travel, because I can never know if the person would ask for the favour in return, and I don't want to be pressured if I say no. Difficult! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get annoyed when you get asked to play and you say you have your kids .. There comment then is don't they go to bed ?? Seriously wtf I'm not inviting some strange man into my bed let alone my house while my babies are home - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a male and a FIFO worker I respect exactly what you say. Even though I am only available for 6 days in 14 it should not be expected for a lady to drop everything at a males request. Tell them to show respect and appreciate what the see when you meet for the first time. Just because we are on RHP does not mean all of us ( men and women) are out for one thing only - that being sex. To me it's all about socialising and meeting people. If it leads to sex, well that's good too, but there also gas to be the right chemistry - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
no men has written back, except one to my private message. I can now assume I am right with my thinking. I was expecting a input to correct me from the males on RHP.So I am right....men believe women can just leave everything for a quick bonk. I have to say I am a little disappointed to be so right...sad even.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Yes it does get disappointing at times, to be honest, it's not just men, it's women too who make demands! As a single women, yes I believe SOME not all men think women should do as we are told, right now and drop everything! Well I can't, others might?? I know I'm multi-skilled but *sighs* I can't be everywhere at once. My spare time precious to me and I want to be given a choice. I work full time, my role is with people all day long, fixing issues, meetings and very demanding and when I do come home I am mentally exhausted as in my brain just can not function! Sometimes the last thing I want to do is chat or even have a conversation with someone. Maybe just a spoon and cuddle would be nice. I need that time out to recharge..it's an introvert trait. There have been quite a few times lately were I have had demands made on me, cause I live by myself, no children living with me and they have invited themselves over... How rude is that?? I want the choice to invite someone... I also believe because we are this Adult site, sex is handed out on a platter sometimes. All I know is...when I am with someone, I don't want to feel pressured about time or being pressured into having sex with them, cause if they have my full attention and we are enjoying each others company, why add that extra pressure? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Men like that are clearly employed by centrelink :) Having said, I find it incredibly frustrating to hear the words "but you're a truck driver, and you're never home enough!" While I understand that you lovely gals out there want someone regular, a statement like that screams the same thing.... I want you when I want you. And to me that's selfish, and pretentious of anyone to have that mentality. Mutual benefits should be just that.....mutual.... And for the feminists....equal!! So if understand that you have kids and am prepared to sort out travel arrangements to come to you, then it should be just as important for someone to understand that I can only meet up and play usually on the weekends. Right?? Or wrong?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
If women stand up and express some concerns and verbally express how we feel and what we want... Is that a bad thing or a good thing?? It makes me question as well, why people have not answered you Litonya.. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
We both work full time and have 2 children under 14. There ain't no way in hell anything can happen without weeks of planning and we used to have that on our profile. We still got many many requests with no notice from men women and couples so it's not just the guys that think like that. Gabby - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my previous job, I was time rich. I was master of my day, and could get away with just about anything. If I wanted to meet during work hours, I just had to catch up that night. I have found though and this is just my experience, mind, that men get very focused about sex. I have been so horny in the past that I would have fucked the Leg of a chair... So what do you do? Well, if you have a fwb, or two, you would start a ring around.. Now... I have also got a theory that men in general (please don't crucify me here) are more inclined to have a go, and fuck the consequences. It is easy for us to yell out to the office- I'm just nipping out... Be back later. If he is a known player, most guys will smirk and to a degree ladies may roll their eyes. I have witnessed this behaviour in many places I have worked.. Not specifically people leaving the office to get laid, but guys having more freedom, just because they have the audacity to get up and leave. I cannot remember a single instance when a lady has done the same. I also believe that there is the "clean up issue". Guys can root, get dressed and leave in about twenty mins if necessary and while that applies equally to ladies can as well, men do not have sticky knickers for the rest of the day.. So in answer to your question Litonya, I think that guys can finagle more time off than ladies can.. But if you had specific play times stipulated, trying to entice you outside of those times will only lead to frustration and angst. My two cents.... Judge
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RHP User
11 years ago
it would be too honest to say what I just stated and men would feel we women will have a go at them.This is not my intention at all. And I believe the RHP Folk who know my posts hear that I am not a men basherAs you just said....just stating from our point of few how it is.I shared a house for 2 years with an Afican male, he was used to being looked after. So now he comes to share my home...he had to learn,cleaning his room his bathroom and toilet. he worked and also studied. The hardest was he had to cook on top of all this for himself. One day he came home and said so sadly I am so hungry and now I have to cook.......my answer to this was.....welcome to the women world....we work full-time and have to cook when we come home.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I hear what you are saying. What you are saying is reasonable.. I think this is the main reason I say No a lot of the time....is because of the demands placed on me and doing things I want to do with out being demanded or pressured into doing something I don't want to do or for someone elses pleasure, especially if it is not returned. It should be shared or compromised..me thinks. I believe it has to do with the way society is now...more demanding than ever! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think a lot of men are led by their dicks and at times will do anything to get laid, including whine, beg, plead and pressure. Massive sign of immaturity in my view. If a man does that to me I generally say "if it's that important to get laid right now, you can always visit a prostitute". When they invariably say "I don't pay for hookers" I usually respond in a variety of ways eg And I don't offer random sex for free, or, if you're not willing to pay for sex then stop treating me like a prostitute. I think the downside of adult sites is that people, typically men, treat them like free brothels. Yes some people are happy to have on the spot random hook ups but it's pretty silly to think anyone and everyone will. It shows a lack of class, I believe. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been told that the men's "spas" in the city have a massive lunchtime rush. They go in, get naked and fuck and suck other men without even exchanging words a lot of the time. Half hour later they have quick shower, put their wedding rings and suits back on and go back to the office.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep....I think you might be right!! Now about that threesome :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Please allow me to apologise on behalf of all mankind, for any ill conceived or inconsiderate attempts by any man to impinge upon your work time. Any men that measure your work with a different ruler to their own, or expect you to just drop your work to meet with them, well they should be banished to a bad place, to repent their sins. If men can't just drop their work to meet, or for a quick bonk, then why should they expect that you should?? These men are selfish and self centred, they should be ignored and avoided, as should the women who behave the same way. I mean really? is it right for this to be a gender based rant?? No. It is right to have a rant against inconsiderate, self centred people, gender aside? Sure.
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RHP User
11 years ago
you are right and I apply the same to the men. I am very welcoming as I see the male who comes to my house first as a Guest. And as a Guest I will tread him....what will come after its mutual and only when we both are happy with what sits in front of each other. As some of my male lover can vouch for. My upbringing is to first see each and everyone in this way.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Judge Alone this little bit of info I understand totally. I have witnessed this behavior in many places I have worked.. Not specifically people leaving the office to get laid, but guys having more freedom, just because they have the audacity to get up and leave. I cannot remember a single instance when a lady has done the same Most businesses have male bosses and it is a big difference when a male speaks to a male ....lo,l I see it in my job we have really only one male employee and yes the male boss. How this two relate to each other its so total different then when he speaks to us women. He is a very nice boss and the guy who works with us too, but no one of us can do or get away with what the male can. With sex or needing or wanting sex.....maybe you males have a antenna and beeping system to know what the other male "NEEDS" and understand. I should change my profile again and write my time down.....but still, then I sound like a business and not a fun person. GGGGGGGGGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. L
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RHP User
11 years ago
you said exactly what I wanted to hear.....Mmmmuhhh thanks. Its so easy when you meet and you have time....its so relaxing...like tonight this beautiful man drives from Perth to see me. And how polite he is he rang and said I will be sooo late, there has been a couple of accidents on the road but I will be there., how nice is that. And yes I will cook something we have never mead in Person, still thats the right thing to do in y mind. Should we have sex because it all feels right wonderful should we just have a drink and conversation even that's a plus. I take a long time to invite a man to my home and only when I feel absolute right I will do it. To today I ahve not once been in strife. So my screening is not to bad, yes some are not my type and have to go home or get a hotel because I send them on their way, but I will always treat them with respect and courtesy, because that's how I like to be treated too. L
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RHP User
11 years ago
this would be never something for me....but we know many are in need.
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my circles, I don't know any men that would be available during your work times either, nor would they expect a female playmate to be either. It might just be some bad apples and not all 'men' ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh boy! Haven't I heard all that too..... Drop your dax I'm coming over now! What's your address and your phone number! On reminding them of my limitations I cop attitude .... Arghhhh! That is my rant over But truth be told I have met some awesome people on here and very respectful.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If they contact ten women one will say yes....I asked this question of a man who contacted me,he had no pic and almost nothing on his profile and wanted to come to my house NOW....I asked him if it ever worked and he said yes,but he had to contact a few before he found one xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
You seem to be dating the wrong "Men", as we're all not tarred with the same brush. Ohhhhh, Move on!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sounds like a bit of a one way of a person....selfish... To tell you the truth ,i get offended with some males who treat women as their play toy.If a guy is treating you like that ,he is not a guy worth your time.People should not pressure one another,meeting should be natural and feel comfortable for both parties. Sounds like you have a keeper there bwahahah
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RHP User
11 years ago
dating these men,she clearly states in her OP that she can't due to her busy schedule......and her question was about why is it easier for men to be able to drop everything for a quick bonk during the working day Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Ubthejudge76' In my previous job, I was time rich. I was master of my day, and could get away with just about anything. If I wanted to meet during work hours, I just had to catch up that night. I have found though and this is just my experience, mind, that men get very focused about sex. I have been so horny in the past that I would have fucked the Leg of a chair... So what do you do? Well, if you have a fwb, or two, you would start a ring around.. Now... I have also got a theory that men in general (please don't crucify me here) are more inclined to have a go, and fuck the consequences. It is easy for us to yell out to the office- I'm just nipping out... Be back later. If he is a known player, most guys will smirk and to a degree ladies may roll their eyes. I have witnessed this behaviour in many places I have worked.. Not specifically people leaving the office to get laid, but guys having more freedom, just because they have the audacity to get up and leave. I cannot remember a single instance when a lady has done the same. I also believe that there is the "clean up issue". Guys can root, get dressed and leave in about twenty mins if necessary and while that applies equally to ladies can as well, men do not have sticky knickers for the rest of the day.. So in answer to your question Litonya, I think that guys can finagle more time off than ladies can.. But if you had specific play times stipulated, trying to entice you outside of those times will only lead to frustration and angst. My two cents.... Judge I think a lot of men simply do not care care if being pushy pisses a woman off. They're so keen on getting laid they're just looking for a yes or no. If a woman says no, they're likely already thinking about who else might say yes. Not all men, not all situations. But often enough, in my experience. Equally, I have a hunch that a lot of women crave attention, affection and intimacy so much that they end up saying yes to the pushiness and demands of such a man, even though deep down they sense it's going to be a hollow experience.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't do quickies, unless it's with trusted lovers. With people I don't know well they make me feel cheap. And a lunchtime tryst? Forget about that. It would take me longer to fix my make-up than the actual fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Did i upset you? And know I am not tarring all men with the same brush, should this what you understood, its not what I said.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If a guy just expects you to drop everything to get him off and won't accept when you say you can't, then he does not respect you. Tell him to move on. I would only feel comfortable in another's house when I know they are. Your home is ur sanctuary, especially when you have kids. To those men that can't take a no, grow up! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Therefore I wouldn't drop my work stuff for a meet as you shouldn't either OP. Some men just throw it out to see if its possible because they're horny. He wouldn't do it for you. Now if it was the man of your dreams or someone like Hugh Jackman or Gerard Butler (Monica Belluci or Salma Hayek for me)...oh im making up an excuse and off I go! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
to you men who understood my writing. I know I can be a bit of a mind twister how I write it....English is my second language and I am still learning even after 25 years.So, dickfullalove......I know he wouldn't do it for me.....:) that's why my question on here.... just so the men who think I would....I say just stay right away from me. Still I am silly I need to write it on my Profile, than again.....why????
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think this was the first time I ranted against male......I can't rant against women in this case because I have no experience in that. Not to excuse what I wrote......I just needed to air my concern and this question.I am more then happy with the men I meet on here, and the men who know me in person I am very fond of.I don't meet many....but that's my own desire to do so, because sex for me is a beautiful exchange between two people and not just a bonk....yes I bonk...lol when I know someone and saw him for a couple of times.I am in a way a big romantic.....I just don't want to fuck cold heartlessly anybody who sends me a message, just for the bonk sake.To all you beautiful considered males....I take my head off.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had such a great wonderful night with this man.I am absolute tiered and haven't slept much....he left this morning around 7.30.....I will alk around in bliss the whole time.So my instinct was right......what a great kisser and and and. I will not write more otherwise you think I am a show-off and maybe today I am.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'dickfullalove' Now if it was the man of your dreams or someone like Hugh Jackman or Gerard Butler Did I say never a quickie with a man I don't know? Lemme take that back. And Litonya, go you!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ahh! Wundaboy you say the right stuff!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Yep....I think you might be right!! Now about that threesome :p - Posted from rhpmobile you know that, right? :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
With asking... Demanding ? Pressure ? Simply not on, and I don't understand why someone would allow themselves to be pressured. I'm self employed... Not often, but sometimes, I could make a daytime meet, and if the question isn't asked then there's zero chance of it happening. I'm a constantly amazed at how many shift workers are around... My daytime is a shift workers playtime... But it needs to be a respectful question, not a demand or expectation... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes there are plenty of people with time off during the day and it doesn't mean they are unemployed.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks Rockchic, Some guys just give the rest of us a bad name. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd expect nothing less ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have found that the single ladies we have talked to tend to expect that we should be available when and where they demand but figured rather then blame a specific sex it's more to do with when people are horny and want sex then they want it not when it suits you - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's exactly the reason why gay guys have more fun. Cause there simply DTF and no more strings other than organising a time and place to meet. BTW I'm far from gay, but I can really appreciate why more and more guys are shining away from women. It's a well know fact that guys and women are so different. I'm convinced the answer the question is simple.... Men put "sex" in a priority category of it's own. Ie sex before food or water. Women on the other hand, see sex (and this is a generalised comment) as a really nice thing to have "once I am fed, I am sheltered, I feel warm and fuzzy, all things marked off the too do list" now I'm ready .... Type scenario. Personally I don't like putting the question out there to "let's catch up now" cause it's not accepted. But being really honest.... There is nothing more sexy, more exciting, more mind stimulating than hooking up with someone you don't know all that well. Being able to be thinking dirty on here and then being able to do it in the flesh in a short time = Hot, hot, hot!!!!" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My Job allows me to sneak time during the working week and my wife stops everything else out side of that, its so much easier to be open and honest about it......and i have found a great couple that dont judge my situation and as they work during the day we find compermises. cheers racer
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ooooh nooooo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't speak for other guys out there but for me I'm on here to meet people with no expectations of anything but honesty. To expect someone to drop all of their responsibilities like work, kids etc. to meet is just plain Rude... but to enquire about having some of your time to meet is different. Everyone has different work hours, days off and other commitments. there is a right way to ask, it's called being polite. I just wish there was more of it going around.. Demanding something usually only gets you 1 response.. Bugger Off. Well that's my 2 cents.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd much prefer to have a coffee first, I dont know if I want to have sex with someone till I meet them, I'm assuming the same goes the other way. If women were that easy anyway we would never get any work done :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
... prior to contacting anyone. We are consistently amazed by how many people contact us and ask questions which we have already answered in our profile. If you are free during the day and can organise something with other people who are free during the day then good for you and have a good time. If, however, the person or couple in question has explained their availability in their profile then don't waste your time or theirs (because it really is bloody annoying). Move on and keep searching for someone who is available when you are. Pretty simple, no? We are time poor (both work, young kids etc). Any meets need to be arranged well in advance. This seems to be a very large stumbling block in the search for compatible partners.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely agree with the OP that it can be quite rude to say to someone drop everything because I have needs. But, for someone I like I will drop everything (if I can) because the idea that they want me then and there is so sexy and appealing and I would always try and be free for someone that means something to me. I also hope that they wouldn't just ask because they felt like it but was an extension of a desire to see me, be with me and the question/request was an extension of that. I do understand that there are those who are completely selfish and have no regard of other peoples circumstances or time. As I choose not to associate with those type I certainly don't mind clearing a schedule to meet with a friend who wants me or vice versa. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LaPhotographer' That's exactly the reason why gay guys have more fun. Cause there simply DTF and no more strings other than organising a time and place to meet. BTW I'm far from gay, but I can really appreciate why more and more guys are shining away from women. It's a well know fact that guys and women are so different. I'm convinced the answer the question is simple.... Men put "sex" in a priority category of it's own. Ie sex before food or water. Women on the other hand, see sex (and this is a generalised comment) as a really nice thing to have "once I am fed, I am sheltered, I feel warm and fuzzy, all things marked off the too do list" now I'm ready .... Type scenario. Personally I don't like putting the question out there to "let's catch up now" cause it's not accepted. But being really honest.... There is nothing more sexy, more exciting, more mind stimulating than hooking up with someone you don't know all that well. Being able to be thinking dirty on here and then being able to do it in the flesh in a short time = Hot, hot, hot!!!!" - Posted from rhpmobile Straight up - 'pushiness' from guys is just not on and as a strong, independent, free thinking person/woman on this planet, you have every right to just tell him to bugger off...BUT I agree with this last paragraph. There is a fine line here as if 2 people are both turned up by the thought of just throwing caution to the wind, hooking up and (hopefully) having a great time, well...having that aspect as a random and spontaneous part of your sex like could be a good thing...and let's face it, odds on that it'll be up to the guy to initiate this sort of thing 9 times out of 10 (or do I just mix in the wrong circles ;) )
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RHP User
11 years ago
all for your input so far. I can see in a way I have to change my availability on my profile. yes I know its sexy and arousing to think someone wants you or in this case me....its just not happening from Monday to Friday during working hours. hmmm.......I will definitely write this on my profile. Thank you again most to the men because that's the one gender I am dealing with. And again I am most happy with you all I have ever mead....:) kisses to you all. L
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wrote it on my profile and it sounds now like I take bookings....I don't really like it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank god someone else has stated the same things I've been saying to guys for ages. I was continually made to feel like I was a very unsocial person by the same type of things that guys have been saying to me about meeting up. I'm sick of trying to explain why I don't want to (because I need some sit down time) or can't meet due to work,family,study etc. If they can't be bothered even asking my name before asking to meet, why should I have to explain why I won't meet them at that moment? Guys, seriously, make a date/time with us. Give us some notice so we can plan etc. Please remember that we are not hookers - seriously think about how you approach the lovely ladies on here. A message that only asks - 'Wanna hookup?' is basically along the same lines as the age old question - 'How much?' Anyway, there's my little rant too. lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
The men that think the way you say are not use to dating professional women or mothers like you state. I am a firm believer in this - don't do anything that you don't want to do week in week out. Otherwise you set a precedence to be stepped on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know I can't just drop everything at a seconds notice so I wouldn't expect anyone else to. I reckon those are the sort of people that think the world revolves around them...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Litonya, any guy worth meeting will be respectful enough to understand you have a life and will not just stop everything to jump his bones. I work long days and look after my son every weekend so my play time is severely restricted. If this means that catching up with someone takes considerable planning then that is what it takes. If anyone gets pushy just tell them to F.... Off as I doubt, with their attitude, you'd be missing out on much. - Posted from rhpmobile
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hardnslow
11 years ago
I would say those that want it now are probably married and they have a chance for a quickie and need/want it now!I am happy to arrange a time and place even if it is a week or two away, we both have lives and commitments as much as I love sex I realise that both parties have their own lives and we have to go with the flow
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get sick of men inviting themselves over, expecting me to allow them into my home when I haven't even met them. Are you crazy! Also the ones who think I'd have them over for sex when my son is in bed. Again, usually when I haven't even met them. Umm, no way. There's also plenty of men who seem like they expect a woman to be sitting around by her mobile phone all day, waiting to chat via text message. Most of us either have a job or kids to focus on.
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PartyOrg
11 years ago
As a single male on this site, I have never expected to meet someone right off the bat. I am quite flexible with my times during the week after work hours, as well as on the weekends, so I am happy to work around the availability of the female or the couple. I am sure everyone is understanding of the fact that family, friends,and work always takes priority to swinging or meeting someone especially for the first time. If not I dont think they will have much luck on this site or any other dating site for that matter.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A couple of weeks back I ended up dropping everything, drove to meet a guy, gave him a blow job, got cum all over my dress, luckily he spotted some I missed on my chest, then ended up 20 minutes late for work. I need to be spontaneous because my time fills quickly and I never really know what I am doing, if I couldn't be spontaneous, I would never get any loving. I am certainly understanding when others can't be except when they never seem to want to make time. I don't like wasting my energy on people who want to keep me on a leash (unless I have asked them too, lol)
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Word_Smith' Absolutely agree with the OP that it can be quite rude to say to someone drop everything because I have needs. But, for someone I like I will drop everything (if I can) because the idea that they want me then and there is so sexy and appealing and I would always try and be free for someone that means something to me. I also hope that they wouldn't just ask because they felt like it but was an extension of a desire to see me, be with me and the question/request was an extension of that. I do understand that there are those who are completely selfish and have no regard of other peoples circumstances or time. As I choose not to associate with those type I certainly don't mind clearing a schedule to meet with a friend who wants me or vice versa. - Posted from rhpmobile Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' no men has written back, except one to my private message. I can now assume I am right with my thinking. I was expecting a input to correct me from the males on RHP.So I am right....men believe women can just leave everything for a quick bonk. I have to say I am a little disappointed to be so right...sad even. I'm having trouble keeping up with all these threads...way too busy.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
It's hard enough meeting people let alone being a shift worker. To the men who can sneak off during day time from work and I don't even know you.. I wish I got a dollar for every time a man has said to me (on days when I sleep/rest) they are more than happy to invite themselves right then and there, to jump in my bed for a root or quick shag. Good Golly, I'd be a millionaire by now! If I want you in there I will say.... If I want to see you on my days off I will say. Don't invite yourselves nor expect cause I will in my bed you will get something... It's bloody rude and disrespectful. I'm not going to drop my sleeping pattern for you or anyone. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
What about when the urge to ravish and be ravished, to swoon and swelter in sweat in insane bodily heat generated between horny naked people fucking & frolicking, the impulse, the urgency flowing through your veins and flooding your brain with endorphins and neurotransmitters that your body was never meant to override or overcome making you scream "Fuck me now or lose me forever!!!" (Disclaimer: not a recommended approach for 1st contact, or even 2nd. Try a sonnet instead, and be sure to ask politely for the person of your affection's availability)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you for your input. hopefully people who read the comments and are on the pushy side will reconsider and get a little less pushy.We are all busy people and love sex, and sex is wonderful when it is spontaneous when the times allows it. For me this will be only with someone I have had contact or feel a connection before hand. A connection can only be made when there is a bit of talk, messages or what ever exchange has been made before ....never just like NOW.Beautiful men and women I think you said it all, Thanks L
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RHP User
11 years ago
Scorn not the Sonnet; Critic, you have frowned, Mindless of its just honours; with this key Shakespeare unlocked his heart; the melody Of this small lute gave ease to Petrarch's wound; A thousand times this pipe did Tasso sound; With it Camoens soothed an exile's grief; The Sonnet glittered a gay myrtle leaf Amid the cypress wtih which Dante crowned His visionary brow: a glow-worm lamp, It cheered mild Spenser, called from Faery-land To struggle through dark ways; and when a damp Fell round the path of Milton, in his hand The Thing became a trumpet; whence he blew Soul-animating strains--alas, too few! ('Scuse the paragraphs lacking, poor Wordsworth)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, a poem not acted upon can be tragic; Those wonderful words could have made wondrous magic; But the point of it all is men trying their luck; On Litonia's career by saying "Come now! Let's fuck!"; What's a poor girl to do when there's no respect in the asking?; That's a great expectation upon a girl's multitasking; What's a poor girl to do to keep the hound dogs at bay?; Take a big stick and beat them then say "On your way!".
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for changing the tone of this thread, both genders will contribute more value when neither gender is being subjected to a generalisation. Using 'people' rather than 'man' (or woman) works well, it's less divisive but still allows for some debate or difference of opinion in terms of the subject matter. Shame the OP can't be edited, but it's clear from your subsequent posts that you didn't mean to be having a go at men in general, just the selfish/pushy people.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's the beauty of this format...explain...retract...or dig a deeper hole...just like RL you can't change history
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RHP User
11 years ago
Working in a flexible job allows me to go where I want, when I want, most of the time. This a little disconcerting for some women as they think I'm being non committal when in reality I am trying to be considerate of their working/personal life. How is best to say "Am available whenever you are free"? The few (read very few... you know who you are ;) ) ladies on RHP I have approached either had a very busy work life (weekend/shift workers) or very busy personal life (children)... I'm happy to drop what I'm doing and travel to spend time with them because I am painfully aware of their limited time and appreciative that they would consider sharing what little spare time they have with me. SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes well said. Big alarm bells for me if someone becomes demanding. Also when someone almost tries the guilt trip too. As for me, if someone says a certain time at a certain day..well then thats it. Will try to work around both theirs and my schedules...if we find something that suits..well that's super....if not, no big deal...just find a time where we both can set something up. It's respect, communication, honesty and yeh consideration. It's not hard...I guess.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ShyPrincess74' As much as I love my life, oh what I'd give for that kind of freedom! How is this for irony... got a dinner invite tonight... and I'm actually working tonight (last minute beg from the boss at 3pm and a moment of weakness said yes)!!!! Argh!!!! At least I get to be super slack for the next few days :) The flexibility is AWESOME... off to Europe in 5 weeks(ish) and will be working from there till I can be arsed returning to Australia. SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
for all what it was worth to have written this post.As I said I have changed my availability and stated it clearly on my profile and guess what.....there was not one who has contacted me.....only my old RHP men yes they know me...but the others only look and read....lol So my sex life will now diminish out of sheer only weekend availability....:(
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I just read your profile....and it sound fine to me. If someone can not meet you during your free time and demand other wise....it is their problem NOT YOURS! You have put boundaries in place, some people can't do that and some people just to really like to push those boundaries, as in test the waters. Sad I know but it's true! Kuddos to you ! I have faith and believe that someone will come along (out of the blue), read your profile and go "My kinda women with personal boundaries, I like it". Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey lityona I personally believe that meet ups take time and preparation. So not all men expect you to drop everything when they say. Besides that thinking about a meet up and play date gets me way more horny before that actual meet up. So I really don't understand why some become so pushy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Superfoxxxy walks in door, sunseeker404a removes her shoes, relaxes her on lounge, goes to kitchen to get glass of wine, comes back to lounge to give Superfoxxxy wine, foot and shoulder massage. No pressure there
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