M45

This is an excellent site....but not for the reason your thinking of..

January 03 2012

Hi Been on for about three days now, and these are my thoughts.The real value of this site in my mind is, and this is of course only my opinion, the ability to knock down the fear of rejection alot of guys get when approaching women in the real world. As I said, 3 days on, I've had no roots yet - sorry to be crass couldn't help it. But I gathered the guts required to ask a girl out today and she said yes, wooohoo! I reckon if I didn't come here and just start chatting to chicks (and getting knock backs!) the fear of rejection would be just as strong as before. So for any fella that's reading this that cares, that's how I did it. Just let your ego piss off for a bit. Seriously who gives a fuck if she says no. Just let go, wish her well, and move on to the next one. There is a LOT of single women out there.Okay, so sorry if that lots obvious to you anyway.CheersP.s I'd be grateful to hear from dudes going through the same stupid shit I am, or woman who want to offer any opinions.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I know! I did the RPH knock back course three years ago and ever since I invested in the universally accepted RHP Currency "Next", I haven't had a grey day! Hugs Stalky

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RHP User

13 years ago

ha ha! Nice!t - We gotta spread the word man!

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MissSarahCurious

13 years ago

Seriously who gives a fuck if she says no. Just let go, wish her well, and move on to the next one You might be the first ever person who's managed to graduate summa-cum-hardeur from RHP 101 in only 3 days. That's quite impressive.NEXT!!

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RHP User

13 years ago

In the event that you pop by to check responses (in case you didn't know, you do not have to log in to read the forums), I would like to second Sarah's sentiment and personally congratulate you on not being a tool! :)

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'HotStudChilli' Especially in my boxChilli xx lol!

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RHP User

13 years ago

3 days? good 'staying power'..

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RHP User

13 years ago

Great post saaxon and one with a great deal of common sense. A lot of guys don't handle rejection well because of their egos and it gives the rest of us a bad name. Some guys have been on here for years and haven't been able to meet anyone, that's the way it goes. Build a bridge and get over it and try meeting someone else.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Its funny you should say that about rejection. I was talking to a guy of rhp the other day and I said to him that I felt women could get a false ego with RHP. One of the reasons is that I get a lot of nice offers on this site and have met some hot people, who think I am rather delightful. However, like I said to him if I am that hot how come men do not chat me up in real life. A few guys had spoken to me on the beach and two ask me out, but that’s it in three years. But he said well he would never approach me that way as he would worry that I was a married woman, or a woman who would get pissed off if a guy started to chat her up on the beach. Besides that I do not go out to pubs or places to meet men anyway, and my life is just to flat out like many women here. So your right, this site is good in that you can get a typo knock back and its ouch! Then move on to the next woman. The beauty of it all is that you do not work to hard to get to the point of getting to your goal as most women are on the same page with RHP. We are all grown up and know exactly what we want . I think just up your batting average and you should hit a home run or two. Its also a lot easier for a woman to say no thanks on here than it is face to face. I have no problem to say no but I do feel a bit mean sometimes when its face to face and sometimes when its face to face some people think I am saying a maybe when I am clearly saying NO. I wish there was a drop down box when people said they like my profile that I say, thanks and leave it at that. I have to put the flattery will get you anywhere when that is not true :), I do not have a cyber ego (yet) :)

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playfulminx

13 years ago

I think a lot of guys can't take rejection well so good on you for pointing out that it's not the end of the world. However, I do wonder if conversely, some women can't take compliments terribly well, albeit ones that aren't particularly eloquent. Sure, it's not great to get cold messages that basically say 'Nice body, I'd like to f&$k it some day', but for some guys, I guess that's what they figure is an expected and welcome compliment on RHP? Maybe some guys are simply clueless with all the blood rushing away from their brain when they log in?Anyway, I probably wouldn't meet a guy who sends compliments like that but I'll still say 'Thanks'. I rather suspect other ladies may go the 'F*&k Off' route in which case I can understand guys feeling miffed by the rejection, not neccesarily understanding that their message was unappreciated. For the more eloquent guys who pass on lovely compliments but who I unfortunately probably wouldn't meet for various reasons, I have a standard set of messages to say 'Thanks, but no thanks'. I think as long as most guys understand the fact that you can't be everyone's ideal match, then the rejection would be better handled.

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hubbahubba01

13 years ago

Quoting 'Chasing_Chilli' Especially in my boxChilli xx Funny! And sexy! hmmm, they Do go together after all...

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This is an excellent site....but not for the reason your thinking of..

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