This is just an idea what is your thoughts?

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  FeistyFatty

  7 years ago

  Just sounds exactly like a Munch. Check em out on FetLife..... they're well established and all over. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  The idea is to say if you are a couple and love one another, however, you both have desires that you're too afraid to talk to one another about because of being judged Maybe for this site its not that difficult to think about it.. but, for couples that are married there is a lot of couples that cannot let go of the past and be open-minded with each other so i guess you could say its a couple retreat to remove the past give them both tools to understand and grow together with a better understanding of what each other wants sexually to live a fulfilling life..

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Attended my first one last week. Just as described

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  FeistyFatty

  7 years ago

  Sorry I really don't get where you're coming from. I'm married. Happily so for 20 years so I understand how important communicating your what's and needs and desires is. However, if you're saying these couples are too scared to talk to each other for fear of judgement etc; how the heck are they going to attend a "retreat" for professional mentoring? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  madotara69

  7 years ago

  We could get some help, we've come to hallway sex over this issue (walk past each other and ''fuck you!" "no fuck you"')~ Why can't I put a can of coke in with the sheets, in our toploader (it's a beauty) to get the massage oils stains sorted out. Nup, no way, it's all tit's and vinegar and rubbing a silky liquid in small circles in the right spots and not just rub, sometimes just stop and leave it a moment, don't do anything. So much better when we used the toploader for her raxle Mado Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  LOL, your response was legendary loved it.. There are couples who live a life of hell and never fulfil or tell each other what desires they have - Men especially and women too we are all subjected to old-fashioned society based biased views. Of course like above some of you won't understand my post because they just don't live that life and are very content with themselves sexually and love every moment of their experiences.. so I call them the very lucky gifted ones who had enough courage to say it and live by it. What I am referring to is couples, singles, different sexual kinks, lifestyles whatever that do struggle and do live two lives I have been selling lingerie and my best clients are Men who do this.. they don't tell their wives about themselves some say they do and some say definitely NO WAY I had no idea I wasn't nieve but, I did sympathize with these particular men, some even cried.. because they told me and was shocked that i was okay with it... how simple is that.. The journey that I want to create is about understanding yourself growing and learning life skills that will help you develop over years and years.. in some cases until the day you die.. we all need a bit of something mainly because we are wired with instructions of how to live according to old fashion society views, religious beliefs and of course parents and friends and those hurtful crew words of being judged.. So those people need help for their own growth and to live a healthy stronger and eventually empowered life. u know i was one of those chosen people and trust me there are a lot of us out there.. strong healthy nothing worries me attitude im a 68 baby so I understand what working for a living is parents giving their best instruction to our butts with the wooden spoon and also that nonsense of rubbish do tell pork pies about some man that felt you up when you where 4 years old ( using that as an example of that era) Anyway, my ideas in the next two years is to create a powerful knowledgeable caring and with a lot of skills to help you understand where you walked once and give yourself a bit of a break and allow the process to help you forfill your short beautiful life on this earth.. so that is only a bit of my future which i hope will be refined to a fine art of kinky and acceptance with ongoing love, support and understanding that you have the right to feel whatever you want... your life, your voice and your choice is yours.... I hope that makes sense to some..

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  CandiKane

  7 years ago

  Hi 2crazy4u I have to say FatFunFeisty is correct. You have just described the fetish community worldwide perfectly. The points you have made are their ethos and expected code of conduct. Anyone who doesn't uphold these ideas will not be welcome. Their focus on support, nurture and safety is exactly why they refer to themselves as "The Community". The one thing any of them will tell you is that communication is the key and foundation to it all, just as it is among swingers. The very problem I feel your examples are demonstrating. The help is there but some either don't know it, or aren't accessing it. Trying to access these people and discussing everything you describe is exactly the purpose of "The Munch" events. They are an attempt to offer a non-confronting environment where one may meet, enter the community and get good advice and support. As many in the Fetish and Kink scene have studied psychology, law and even medicine as part of their own journeys through kink, the skill, experience and passion are there. Perhaps something could be done to co-ordinate those members with the skills, experience and willingness to help with those that need it, and as you suggest, possibly even on going oversight. Something I would love to see is a co-ordinated effort to help prevent the significant abuse of some of the particularly young kink curious girls that end up getting involved with the wrong people. Attend a Munch and discuss it or go to Fetlife and start making contact. Go to the forums, tell them who you are and what you want to do. On Fetlife you will also find many written articles addressing these issues. Its not the easiest website to navigate as it is very contact based, it is also global so narrowing down to the Australian members, contacts and forums will be a bit of a challenge. Good luck.

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  gazpacho

  7 years ago

  There’s a workshop towards the end of this month with really is along the foundations you’re advocating, OP. They’re in Melbourne and Sydney. One I’ve been thinking about attending is kink 101. I’ve been to lots of kink events and but I’m only now finding a very discrete niche that might suit me.... so I’m pretty curious a put it. What you’re talking about is, at least in part, the Curiously Social Creatures workshop. Candikane is onto it. You’ll find the workshop events listed there for NSW. I hope to see you around! Hugs Gaz

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