Thoughts on BDSM

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I am sure you would get plenty of people interested in watching. I mean why not? :P xxMeeks

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I have a Mistress, who quite often beats me . WE have a dungeon and she likes to strap me onto the St. Andrews cross, beat me and leave me there for maybe an hour or so. There is quite a lotof pain, and I end up with bruising and marks which may last for some weeks. However Mistress owns me and I am pleased that she will beat me to learn me lessons on behaving and being a good slave for her. So, I think if its for you, then you will know, Love April

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  MissSarahCurious

  14 years ago

  I guess the issue really is how you would feel about what you were doing on cam here if some innocent vanilla voyeur were genuinely affected by what they see you doing? If you're prepared to laugh it off and call them a prude, then by all means proceed. While I and a lot of other people would love to see it, I am uncomfortable with people springing their kinks on random, unconsenting bystanders for the same reason I don't fuck in public parks where I'm likely to be discovered by some lovely old couple out for an afternoon stroll. While some get a giggle/thrill out of shocking someone they don't know, I think it's discourteous. I would hope that you would repeatedly post warnings in the chat that your cam is not showing the same-old-same-old so that people can CHOOSE to watch or avoid if they think it would upset them.xx Sarah

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  All very valid points. We dont engage in anything to extreme. Mainly just bondage, clamps gags and that sort of thing. Im inclined to force and orgasm or many until they cant take any more now and then but nothing too extreme. The girl actually has her own profile on this site too and it came up about posting ssome of the pictures we have taking before. Seems like there is a hell of alot mor interest in the area than we both thought. She might want to put a few up now.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' I guess the issue really is how you would feel about what you were doing on cam here if some innocent vanilla voyeur were genuinely affected by what they see you doing? If you're prepared to laugh it off and call them a prude, then by all means proceed. While I and a lot of other people would love to see it, I am uncomfortable with people springing their kinks on random, unconsenting bystanders for the same reason I don't fuck in public parks where I'm likely to be discovered by some lovely old couple out for an afternoon stroll. While some get a giggle/thrill out of shocking someone they don't know, I think it's discourteous. I would hope that you would repeatedly post warnings in the chat that your cam is not showing the same-old-same-old so that people can CHOOSE to watch or avoid if they think it would upset them.xx Sarah Not everyone understands BDSM. I am a professional bondage Mistress and I am constantly explaining what I do to people who don't understand. If you would really like to bring out your inner exhibitionist why not attend a BDSM play party? Most of the activities that go on at these parties aren't too extreme and you wont be shocking any vanilla observers.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Mistress T i would love to go to a BDSM play partner with my friend but neither of us would have any idea on where to start looking for one. If anyone knows of one I would be very appreciative if you would let us know where. As i am sure others would be.

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  MissSarahCurious

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'blueeyestall' Mistress T i would love to go to a BDSM play partner with my friend but neither of us would have any idea on where to start looking for one. If anyone knows of one I would be very appreciative if you would let us know where. As i am sure others would be. fetlife dot comxx Sarah

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  and for meeting like-minded people ALT dot com is , well not very highly populated but ok

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  MissSarahCurious

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid' and for meeting like-minded people ALT dot com is , well not very highly populated but ok i think in terms of sites where you can search for members that suit your preferences, alt was a real pain in the ass for me, couldn't view profiles or message people. collarme is betterxx Sarah

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  For mad videos with hot people try kink dot com :-) I could watch those for months LOL

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  WTF? Right oh, I am interested to see what happens here, I had a girl once tell me about a party/place she was taken to a few years ago in Sydney, but I wasnt interested in looking into it, and have lost contact with her.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'blueeyestall' Mistress T i would love to go to a BDSM play partner with my friend but neither of us would have any idea on where to start looking for one. If anyone knows of one I would be very appreciative if you would let us know where. As i am sure others would be. fetlife dot com xx SarahI agree with sarah, fetlife dot com. You can search for event (munches, clubs) in your area. Heaps of online groups that you can join. You get wide access areas without being a paid member.

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