Tips for new seinging couple

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Welcome Mick and Amanda (I'm assuming from your handle ), Although I wouldn't strictly classify as an experienced swinger - I can point you in the right direction and where you go from there, is your own unique trip down the rabbit hole. So on the landing page after selecting the Adult Forum Tab from the Main Page, you will see to the right of the screen, 3 green box fields. As you are saying you are very new to this lifestyle, using the very top "Search Forum Tags" Box should be your first point of reference. But what do I search for you ask? You may not be familiar with the acronyms or terminology used in the swinging community. A quick Google search can give you 100's of pages on swinging terms, kink glossaries and up to date classification of sexual gender & orientation. Once you have a vague idea of where you and your partners' sexuality and play styles lies, you can then explore any swinging, kink or fetishes you may have or desire to have. You and your partner - are about to embark on something that excites you and gets your blood pumping and your adrenaline spikes and your heart races to an extent and THATS AWESOME! That feeling of nervous energy can be felt even by the most experienced players... although they will never tell you that! It's f*cking exciting learning about a whole new world that you never knew existed. You think you need a "Sexual Sherpa" to guide you to the top of the mountain, but there is no top to this mountain and you will be your best guide as to how fast you want to climb. You may experience events that push you mentally as well as physically and this brings growth, so something that you thought you were interested in, when you first opened those unsure and hesitant voyeuristic eyes of yours, may end up being what you call 'tame' compared to what you may grow to desire. This ramble has a point I swear, let's continue; The second green box 'FORUM HELP' is where you will find the most info for your forum post. As you can imagine, this is a very common question - so you may not get much of a response as it has been asked many times over the course of the day/week/month/year. Select the 3rd option Hasn't That Topic Been Posted Before? This will take you to a page that gives you some guidance on how to navigate the site and how to successfully get the answers you want from the community. You should now have some (or just enough) knowledge swirling around in your brain to start searching for the answers you seek. Begin using the Top Green Box "Search Forum Tags" along with your arsenal of terms, definitions, styles of swing research and whatever else you have found that tickles you in the right places. A good Basic first search could be; Swinging Rules, Swinging Experience, Swapping. I'm sure you get the idea now. Give yourselves time to absorb the info because there is A LOT of it and when it comes down to it - being respectful of your fellow swingers and polite communication will get you invited into lots of play sessions. I hope that at least gives you a starting point, so you are not wasting time waiting for replies that may be few and far between Now go on you crazy kids - go get your Swing On! Gia and Zane xox

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  Freaky_Fun

  6 years ago

  When you find out the answer, can you let the rest of us know 😂 My friends, partner and l had an awesome night as well. But Saints is a little different, oh ok a lot different lol to other parties and clubs especially in the basement. Friday night was pretty wild so l doubt you would have offended anyone. Or have done anything wrong by being direct. In saying that, manners are free and I'd rather keep mine in check. Obviously at smaller parties its easier to read the body language or even have a conversation to make connections easier. At Saints most of the usual rules we're used to get left at the bag drop. And that's what makes Saints what it is. A night to remember outside the norm. FF ❤ - Posted from rhpmobile

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