RHP

RHP User

M31

Tips on creating a better profile

November 29 2017

Was just wondering if there is any tips for me creating a better profile to get more matches. I find it hard to put into words who I am, and even what I'm looking for. Is it my age? Is there something I can do/say to make myself more appealing whilst still being me? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The fact that you smoke is a big turn off for me, and other women will be the same. Partly it is your young age but that can also work in your favour. The fact that you have listed every type of "seeking" is off putting. It comes across to me like you will fuck anyone and don't care who it is. I'm not into men who want to fuck TV or TS, so I guess there are other women who feel the same. But then there will probably be some women out there who love that. I might be wrong, but a 23 year old who's into BDSM and describes themselves as dominant, seems a little strange. For want of a better word. Lol Inexperienced comes to mind, but that can again, work in your favour. Good luck! Interesting profile pic too 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    7 years ago

    By the time I’d read it second time kiss kiss... As I didn’t notice his use of the word dominant... But ... On that point, anyone who says they’re dominant, and asks this kind of question, to me fails the dominant test anyway.... I could very well see dominant completely different to others, which is fine by me, but dominance is partly confidence and a mix of other qualities....and confidence in ones profile clearly isn’t there.... The photo is somewhat different to most and I’m still trying to figure out OP if you’re enjoying that water over your face or if you’re halfway through trying waterboard yourself...the second pic whilst aiming to show ones exuberantly masculine boday...is missing your head...I realise that it’s not what you were aiming at, but from my conversations with my lady friends would suggest a smile and a feeling of inclusion far outweighs ones chassis.... But there are also others that will see that as being fine.... Your wording is brief, lacking personality...if you’re a fun guy, and have every reason to show it, then show it in your wording...if you’re just a guy with a shopping list on a mission to fuck like buck in the movie “Kill Bill” you’ve nailed it.... Choice is entirely up to you from here.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Never assume older equals more experienced, and why wouldn't he be dominant? Very strange thing to say. More likely your inexperience with young dominant men? Do agree though with only selecting things we're open to or into, not just ticking every box, perhaps you were just making that point. On topic, op you can see by the lack of responses here, no-one can be bothered, in my opinion due to the lack of effort on your part with your profile. You've copied and pasted 'about me' into 'looking for'. Pictures, come on, that's it, and you think that's going to compete on here? Effort = reward, exactly the same with sex. Your profile, it's all just a bit meh yeah can't be bothered. We also can't tell you what to write, but you seem to lack passion, which wouldn't suit me. Write from the heart, I always do. Don't be worried about narrowing the field and hence reducing your hit rate, just be yourself, you can change it as you go, as you evolve. Good luck 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Just checked out your profile.In order to spark interest in you put some more of your personality into your profile.If you want to explore new things then say soBeing a Cougar there is nothing worse than a young guy who crows about his sexual prowess when clearly at 23 I wonder how much experience you would actually have.Have some integrity and honesty in your profileDon't be fake about it.Be nice to the women you approach. I am a smoker. But I am very careful when I meet people that I do not stink of it!!Not an issue for me but may be for some.Make sure when you do meet people you are clean and showered and respectful of them.Good luck hun

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    Advice from the devil himself... Vroom Vroom...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks for the replies guys. Will take everything into account. In regards to certain comments on questioning my experience, I was owned by a dominatrix from the age of 18-20. She taught me a lot about being doninant and respectful towards your sub. Since then I have had a few subs and have expanded and developed my own personality as a dom. I haven't had much experience with online dating or how to word myself online. I am shy when it comes to meeting new people however that doesn't mean I am not a dom. I am an occasional smoker. As in if I'm out with friends I will occasionally smoke. I don't have to smoke if I met someone that was offput by it. I will try and be more specific with my interests and work on a description of myself and what I'm looking for. Thanks again everyone. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hot topics-sub forums- profile clinic, tips and advice. If you care to look.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    My bad at my comment about your age and experience apologies!!It is common place on here for people to talk themselves up.Wish you all the best in finding what you are looking for

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hey guys, Same problem here. Somehow not getting any response on very polite messages..... Any tips? Or just too many guys around here? ;) Peter. - Posted from rhpmobile