RHP

RHP User

F56

Tips to pleasing a man

July 12 2015

So I thought I'd ask the question... What's a guys favourite way of being pleased. I've been out of the scene for quite a few years and have just found a play mate. It's all new and sparkly and oh so nice. I'd like to be able to please him so I thought I'd ask for some tips on techniques and do some brushing up. So guys, what drives you crazy. And ladies, I'd love to hear your tips as well.

Comments

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    9 years ago

    Exactly that Fadgy, just hang'n out all playful and turn that bloody multi tasking off for a bit and let the passion run it's course, so what if you accidentally knee him in the knackers doing a rolley polley over him to get into a better position, which could be for the best chicken leg on the dinner table or some wild kinky sexual act you may wish to explore in the cot. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Kudos to you for caring enough to ask, you're half way there. My tip is give just him a blowjob sometimes, make it clear that you just want to give and that you don't want him to do anything but receive pleasure, it will make him feel special. Hopefully he will want to reciprocate this at another time and if he does let him, just allow him to pleasure you and not worry about anything else. Focusing on either giving or receiving and not having to complicate things by thinking about both can be really sexy sometimes. And also, as a side note, communicate to him how you like to be pleased. I like that and I think most guys appreciate it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I too have been on the scene for a while and can understand where your coming from...from a guys point of view anyway. Its always a daunting feeling being with someone new,not knowing their pleasure zones and personal preferences. Id say just go with the flow,don't think too much about it and let it happen. Things tend to work themselves out in the bedroom... cme.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Everyone is different. I could tell you how to please someone like me but that is not going to help you. You are not about to douche are you! I think the best way to please someone is to find a person where you know instinctively what to do. if it comes naturally it is the best. If you have to try it is not going to work.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Don't assume and ask HIM!!!! Like you ladies we're all different....by working together with the very man involved - or lady whatever - you build an intimate connection

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You might get specific instructions or he might just want you to go with the flow and express yourself. All men are different (as we are too of course). - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    For me the best way to find out what pleasures my partner is by watching and listening to the reaction I get when I do different things. His body won't lie 😛

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I personally think asking people what they like is a bit 'clinical'. Just be willing to explore his and your own limits and the likes and dislikes will naturally unfold and perhaps some pleasant new surprises for both of you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Tell him what you really like , be honest don't play games. The more a guy knows about you and your real pleasures the more he will tell you what he wants and enjoys. Everyone is different and it takes two to tango just have to find the correct dance partner or partners. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    get him a beer

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    9 years ago

    Cold beer, good food, and great sex (all on a plate, ahhh heaven). Then again everyone is different.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    By wanting to show him you're keen to learn more is sexy in itself.. From a males point of view a woman with attitude who gives as much as she likes to take and not afraid to take some control, can't lose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Lots of hugs and kisses and pay lots of attention to him.

  • PL1963

    PL1963

    9 years ago

    You go girl. I tend to agree with Jayme on this one. Cheers P.L.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Fadgy, some guys believe they only have one erogenous zone (cock), and all they will want you to do for them is to pleasure it. For me personally I love to feel a woman's soft hands everywhere. Touching is sensual, kissing is supreme, the rest is human nature......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Thank you everyone!! There's some great advice here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    i especially love dirty talk. It adds another dimension to the pleasure. As well as dressing up dressing sexy.

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    9 years ago

    1. Men love their food right? Ask him what his favourite meal is then cook it. 2. Ask him what his favourite beverage to match his fav meal..buy it... 3. Ask him what he likes to see his woman wearing...wear it.. 4. Ask him what his favourite music with dinner is...play it.. Does he like Candles ? When he has finished his meal, literally crawl under the table and suck or pull him off. Careful he may want to marry afterwards... Ps in morning give him a massage then pull him off again... Careful remember😜😂

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'SensualAries' 1. Men love their food right? Ask him what his favourite meal is then cook it. 2. Ask him what his favourite beverage to match his fav meal..buy it... 3. Ask him what he likes to see his woman wearing...wear it.. 4. Ask him what his favourite music with dinner is...play it.. Does he like Candles ? When he has finished his meal, literally crawl under the table and suck or pull him off. Careful he may want to marry afterwards... Ps in morning give him a massage then pull him off again... Careful remember😜😂 You said it better than me :-)