RHP

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Titillation

January 29 2015

I miss it. Nothing seems to be titillating any more. I often find titillation is more arousing than chatting straight up about sex. Nothing is left to the imagination, everything is laid out bare for the seagulls to peck at what they like and don't like. I like a bit of innuendo to get my juices flowing and to keep a bit of mystery as to what is going to happen. Sex is just seeming more like a process these days to me than fun due to the lack of flirting, foreplay and titillation. I really used to love the British 'Carry On' movies, they were great for a bit of titillation. I would probably prefer to watch one of those than porn to get me really horny. Is titillation part of your seduction process or do you just skip the bullshit and get straight into it, do you wish you could have more of it, do you think it is a waste of time? Do you enjoy being titillated by your partner, are you the titiller rather than the titillee.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's all in the eyes. If a person's eyes speak to you, if the chemistry is just right you could be talking about the weather and my pussy would be twinging with titillation. LOL. The hook up culture is all about rooting and nothing about connecting or flirting or seduction. That is why it is boring. To me anyway.

  • Plain

    Plain

    10 years ago

    You read about ityou see ityou try to do something about itbut you forgot about how to.Really engage in the moments that lead up to moments in pleasure. Me thinks you can be bored with it especially if all it involves is hookup lets do it where, and finish and see ya. Hmm not something to look forward to on a regular basis when you break it down to the bare truth. Yeah I maybe a whimsical old man, but I find its what I miss, the whimsy, not the stare of will this bloke last a while etc etc ??

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Thank you for pointing out that arousal is all about what happens between the ears. Sounds like you have become disconnected from the normal mechanisms that incite yours.... desensitised... because of the "quickening" of how people seem compelled to connect with others in here. One day, the right person will capture your attention in that way you miss.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not me. ;p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Oh but you are one of those dangerous men who is a self proclaimed player, but you are so sweet and gentlemanly in person that I am sure women forgive you anything. Am I right?

  • Bazingal

    Bazingal

    10 years ago

    Sometimes it's more fun for me. But I prefer it when I know the person. I wouldn't want to mislead anyone.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    You are right from our perspective Meeka we agree, Tara would love to forgive Funlover, I'd love to thank him Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm just a happily single gent who enjoys the intimate company of ladies with no view of becoming a partnership. After all, it's all about the chase.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You have just described a player... With good intentions? Haha. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Its a dying art. Hardly anyone wants to flirt and tease these days. Its all about sexting and cock pictures with a lot of men these days, even when unsolicited. No one wants romance and affection, just wham bam!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    As for clothing... I find it more titillating when women wear more, not less. Otherwise there is litte left to the imagination. Plus, it would be tittilating not knowing what kinds of layers are hidden underneath, as you gradually get to the point of removing them. I find it extremely tittilating when simulated sex positions are used when kissing clothed, especially cowgirl.

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    Innuendo can always be fun😏😈🔥

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    his opening line... 'I want to cum on those tits' I had another today.... 'I think you should let me fuck you' so between here and the real world (admittedly my real world is still more unreal than the normal real world), it is all the male attention I get.

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    10 years ago

    ....give me titillation over crassness anyday thanks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love seducing women, and pleasuring them, I love more than anything a soaking wet pussy, from the foreplay, I enjoy finding what turns a women. Sometimes it all about sex being raw. In saying that cumming for me is a let down, there's nothing better than taking a women to a place that she hardly ever goes if she's unlucky. Or try to reach multiple orgasm. Or the greatest 15 min orgasm from OMing. Watching and feeling a women orgasm to the point of exhaustigine, without needed to give anything back. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' his opening line... 'I want to cum on those tits' I had another today.... 'I think you should let me fuck you' so between here and the real world (admittedly my real world is still more unreal than the normal real world), it is all the male attention I get. I heard about this scenario years ago before the net ruled our lives...Consider yourself hugged in an intimate but not necessarily sexual way...you know the hug that only men and women can do...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But for me its natural I think, because I enjoy people so much. sensual tension is exquisite and can last for years yes it is a hook up culture. but I love to seduce a person for hours, days months years it keeps the energy flowing in me. Its a twinkle in an eye, a small curve of lip Life can be a long dance or a short one depending on the music , and we all dance to a different beat.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'countrytouch82' As for clothing... I find it more titillating when women wear more, not less. Otherwise there is litte left to the imagination. Plus, it would be tittilating not knowing what kinds of layers are hidden underneath, as you gradually get to the point of removing them. I find it extremely tittilating when simulated sex positions are used when kissing clothed, especially cowgirl. I am over in five minutes, leave your hat on I will leave my cowgirl boots on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' his opening line... 'I want to cum on those tits' I had another today.... 'I think you should let me fuck you' so between here and the real world (admittedly my real world is still more unreal than the normal real world), it is all the male attention I get. We have 5 kids (teens up) and boys don't ask to "go out" or date anymore, they just straight up ask for sex and this is as young as 14!!! Any wonder girls have self esteem issues as that's all they are valued for now, it's disgusting. Even the boys are devaluing themselves as that is all they think they can offer, nothing deeper. The eldest at 20 has never had an actual boyfriend, just hook-ups and it's messing with her head no end. Mr HnH :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I hope we are on the same flight to Brisbane. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Titillation is 10 times better than porn. As a unashamed flirt who loves to play with innuendo the rewards are worth every moment, When she gives off that shy smile on something I just said, I know wer'e on the same wavelength.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' his opening line... 'I want to cum on those tits' I had another today.... 'I think you should let me fuck you' so between here and the real world (admittedly my real world is still more unreal than the normal real world), it is all the male attention I get. its all in the content of where and when you say something. Your at work I would say, I think I should take your advice but may i put your cock in this vice first? Mind you I am that old that any thing said to me like that is a bonus. After all I have to lift up my skirt for them to see my tits to wank on anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Bywongguy'I love seducing women, and pleasuring them, I love more than anything a soaking wet pussy, from the foreplay, I enjoy finding what turns a women. Sometimes it all about sex being raw. In saying that cumming for me is a let down, there's nothing better than taking a women to a place that she hardly ever goes if she's unlucky. Or try to reach multiple orgasm. Or the greatest 15 min orgasm from OMing. Watching and feeling a women orgasm to the point of exhaustigine, without needed to give anything back. - Posted from rhpmobile before you get in between the sheets? (or wherever you may be) Lets forget about sex for a moment, how do you get a girl there? How do you seduce her? Guys apparently love the hunt and us girls enjoy being chased (generally speaking), but there doesn't seem to be much hunting other than the 'wanna fuck?' approach and when girls allow you to chase, we are accused of playing mind games.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I recently had a 3 week cat and mouse build up to a meet. Man he had me so turned on, and the messaging was so hot from both sides.lets just say, Im glad most of my toys are rechargable or I would have gone broke buying new batteries!! And the actual meet was amazeballs.we had a perfect 24 hrs together and i ripped his clothes off immediately, because it had been such a hot seductive, titilating build up and we knew exactly what we both wanted, and what was going to happen.Shame hes not local. But yeah Agree with all the sisters on here,and im sure most of the guys enjoy a nice seduction as well.its a big part of the dance.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ralf dear,you need to change what you are doing...as Dr.Phil and DG say,if you keep on doing the same thing,why do you expect a different result xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Unless you have to work for something the end product has little or no value to you. This isn't just sexually speaking but for all things in life. As much as the naked female form is attractive, walking down a beach doesn't instigate an erection for many men. Whereas the glimpse of a thigh, the hint of sexy lingerie or the subtle signs of an interested female can drive a man wild. Having said that in my experience women are as much to blame as men, when someone tries to chase often they will respond defensively and not have the confidence to engage in the game.