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To cock shot or not to cock shot
January 10 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
Want to see, some don't, do what you like ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bazingal
9 years ago
I don't see them anyway.But as I am attracted to people on a variety of levels than just the physical I would rather wait to unwrap the present than know what it is before.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do women tell you this? Why not pop them away in your privates gallery? Then you can surprise them. ๐XxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
My understanding is women don't like a cock shoved in their face unless asked. I can understand that ?
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Put them away in a PG rather. And just because this is a sex / swingers site it does not mean all the women will jump into bed at the drop of a hat . Or that it is acceptable to send them lewd messages including not so nice photos of your penis ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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MrPlayful
9 years ago
Body pics in profile, face/s in one pg for those not willing to share to the world straight up, rude bits in the other pg. It's not too hard to show a face pic and let them know that the other pg has some naughty pics in it. If the person you are chatting to wants to see them they will let you know, or you'll get the hint if they share theirs. Personally, if someone had one naughty shot in your public profile I wouldn't be that bothered, but if there was more than one or two I'd probably be moving on. Ideally though, I think it builds suspense and adds to the passion by not seeing beneath the clothes before you meet.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have my puppies out, so I dont mind seeing a bit of sexy flesh. Im not fussed on a closeup dick pic.They usually look like a half cooked sausage,lighting, angle and focus do them no favours. But I am partial to a nekid body shot. Kinda gets things in perspective. Lots of women ( and couples) on here have the vag on display in their public pics. Dont hear you men complaining about that. Lol. But as Bazingal mentioned, most women are guests so cant see them anyway. So you need to cater to them, seeing thats who you are selling the product to.
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
I reckon, if the cock is not shagging the chickens, it needs to be shot (or head cut off) Stick it in the PG's so it doesn't offend my senses.
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
I reckon, if the cock is not shagging the chickens, it needs to be shot (or head cut off) Stick it in the PG's so it doesn't offend my senses.
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
Double barrel shot gun, got two pheasants with one
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RHP User
9 years ago
Can't see them as a guest but mixed feelings if I could see them. I've seen them on other websites and some are just gross. If they're tasteful (tasty mmm) fine but please to the dudes with big belly, hairy, belly hanging over the naval for a cock shot, i'm scrambling for the back arrow, I really don't want to be seeing that ๐some things are best kept under wraps
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Your statement of "we need to see pics of dicks and pussies to make an informed decision"........I wonder what did you mean exactly by that? And on what base did you form this opinion, Dimeshreds? Must you really see what a woman's vagina looks like before you decide to go ahead with chatting and/or meeting her or not? ๐ Thanks for speaking on my behalf by the way, but nah, I don't need to see what a man's penis looks like before I can make an informed decision ๐ A man's profile presentation, relationship status, drinking and smoking habits, efforts put into writing up his profile and his attitude are the key factors that help me decide if the man and I are on the same page or not, not the photos of his penis because, I am attracted to a man's brain rather than his little head! However, as other members have said, it's your profile, do what you like, show what you want, flaunt whatever you desire and are proud of ๐ There's no need to get frustrated with other people's preferences :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't need a cock shot to make an informed decision :/ I prefer to unwrap the surprise in person, besides penises all serve the same purpose and they don't exactly photograph well. Some women like them, some don't , like others said its your profile do what you want on it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is it even possible to take a good cock shot?๐ I have a gallery for face pic and a separate one for the cock shot which I will only open if requested to do so. I don't see the need to have it shown my public gallery, here's me and here's my cock! But each to their own. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Op I do agree with needing to see, i'll never hook up without first seeing dick pictures. Being a guest, by text, but I've made the mistake before (twice) of not asking, meeting them, only to have them then reveal they were practically female, on another occasion, I wasn't attracted to the guy's dick lol turned me completely off. I choose to have pussy pictures up obviously because it's stunning (stunning c#&t haha) but also for guys who wonder what an old pussy looks like ๐ to show them it's still pretty ๐ but to give them the option of doing a runner if they so choose, if they're not attracted to my pussy, i'm fine with that, we come as a package deal though. I'm hooking up for sex when I first meet them, so all cards have to be on the table before then ๐ having to look at ALL guy's dicks though is a different story. I want to see it if i'm interested in the guy, otherwise, nah, it wouldn't change my mind about him no matter how magnificent his dick was ๐ฏ
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RHP User
9 years ago
ok so you wanna see vagina pics...yay for you Those that don't wanna see em...yay for you too.... But.... Why are you so frustrated when those that don't like them are simply showing you who not to choose?? Sure it's a sex site blah blah blah....but it's also a social networking site....which, I kinda feel as though I need to explain these things to...which makes me really sad to be honest. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
you're not the op's mother are you?? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Get a pic of ya cock up. Success rate jumped. That is a measurable fact, opinions are opinions.
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RHP User
9 years ago
You know fine well I like a nice cock...but not in my face when Im reading a first message. Some things are best kept to the imagination...anticipation is a huge turn on. So keep it for the PGs. Or the beach
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RHP User
9 years ago
Okay so you're asking if I'm the op's mother. Can you please explain that comment in a way that isn't offensive, was it meant to be funny?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm fifty fuckin two ๐ฑ shocking and hard to believe I know, that why you keep calling me somebody's mother? Bit insecure there dude ๐
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you grant me access Ill give you an honest opinion?
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RHP User
9 years ago
A lol makes everything good doesn't it dude?
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RHP User
9 years ago
enjoy ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
And make it an interesting pic, I have a pic that I rarely share of a hot dog bun on a plate filled with "me" some cheese, onion, sauce and a dollop of mayo dribbling of the knob. If not for the balls on the plate and the knob poking out looks like a hot dog. But never in public gallery for me.Mister_playful like your main pic artistic and not offensive.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'I choose to have pussy pictures up obviously because it's stunning (stunning c#&t haha) but also for guys who wonder what an old pussy looks like ๐ to show them it's still pretty ๐ but to give them the option of doing a runner if they so choose, if they're not attracted to my pussy, i'm fine with that, we come as a package deal though. Well said. It's good to hear that old pussies are still eatable. I'd been wondering about that for a while...so it's good to have some positive confirmation
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had no dick pics but then over time I gained enough courage to put up a couple and things start to happen for me. So I guess it comes down to target audience and here that's going to range from the more conservative to the all out hardcore. Perhaps it also applies to the type of relationship you are after too, FWBs seem a bit more pic friendly but those after something deeper, to me, appear more conservative. Mine are staying up M
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
The reason most women here (who are of an average age of 35 to 40 yo) don't want to see cocks is that all the younger women that do like to look at cocks, all left here long ago.It's a self fulfilling prophecy. Its this silly censorship here that has caused it, they are trying to sell porn by way of forcing signups to see xxx images and there are too many competitors selling porn for them to compete on that level, why pay for that when it free elsewhere. If they stuck to the core business of dating and forget about blocking images to try and force sign ups to see them then they might survive.All the younger ones that left long ago that want to see the meat and potatoes straight up might come back.Younger women enjoy walking past a mall window of cocks and checking them all out.Just because old birds have seen every type it doesn't mean everyone else has.Likewise younger guys like looking at vagina's And now its almost a retirement village full of old coots like meNo way I would go back to paying here just to see vagina's, I can visit the local vaginatorium on the web elsewhere to look at them.Only one reason and that is if I see someone I like and want to hook up and contact, and if I cant see them in full then I'm not likely to take a punt on what they look like without their pants on, if I'm going to stick my tongue in it I want to see what Im getting into.Im not going to wait till Im on it and say eww no thanks that's nasty, not going there.Id rather look first and say nothing if I don't like it. Anyways it hardly matters if you have your cock or vag out, most cant see it anyway even if you are paid up and want to show it. Now wheres my zimmer frame got to.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Maybe he stirred some paint with it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Never would I think to put it as you say have a pussy picture on my profile. I understand men are proud of their appendage and want to show their wares. Its nice to know whats part of the package but unless you get past the initial messaging and find something that makes you want to put yourself on the line to meet them. Well it doesn't matter whats between your legs.Also I don't think its as cut and dry as you said about just being a sex site. As if that were true than I doubt I would still be here after 3yrs.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
I've been here so long I've forgotten how long, many years. RHP archives shows it all.Just look back and you will see what this place used to be and what it has become as the censoring of images has tightened. Only those who want to see anything but what is blocked stuck around. It started out with nothing blocked.The average age was far lower for many years.The cam rooms back then were amazing and the chat was good n dirty. Is this how it ends.So sad
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RHP User
9 years ago
Theres one on Biaustralia I cant stop looking at. For the wrong reasons. He has dressed it up with sunglasses and it looks like Groucho Marx.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Well that's creative. I stuck a matchbox cover on the tip of mine like a party hat for a while, for giggles and for scaling purposes, being most don't give correct dong sizes it provides some verification. And just on that pointYou will notice that the main profile templates here have penis and breast size listed.On a site that has a listing for cock size as standard on profiles I think its a bit of a joke to say cock shots are not wanted here.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Make sure its worthy. I've seen a few around here that I've thought " why would you show that?" Small flacid acorn looking thing that a squirrel would be proud to take home. Obviously the owner was proud and very attached to it. Guess you could practise acting surprised when you get to unzip it. Get ready for christmas presents from nana.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I love your posts, Ill be thinking of this one all day now! Squirrel indeed.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks kool ๐ vote 1 for the old pussy ๐ I should be in politics ๐ฏ
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RHP User
9 years ago
Longing for the past is fruitless and misery inducing. Live for the now....from one old coot to another, this is one hell of a retirement village! :)
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deal4
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Standing and taking a pic of your cock from above, making it look like it has little feet! Like a wind-up toy. Thats a great idea for a funny pic, I might do that Summer :).
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' You can't really see vaginas without a speculum and a torch... I'd feel a bit like a miner Hi Ho Hi Ho
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your profile is one of the coldest and most honest that I have read here..xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Make sure its worthy. I've seen a few around here that I've thought " why would you show that?" Small flacid acorn looking thing that a squirrel would be proud to take home. Obviously the owner was proud and very attached to it. Guess you could practise acting surprised when you get to unzip it. Get ready for christmas presents from nana. All cocks have value, be proud of what you have and do not worry about how others judge you.
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Please Google "Critique my dick pic" and have a look at the good and bad of cock shots. Attractive ones (pics, not cocks) are few and far between on this site, imo. Critique my dick pic is SENSATIONAL - one of my favourite tumblr pages.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Longing for the past is fruitless and misery inducing. Live for the now....from one old coot to another, this is one hell of a retirement village! :) It is, that's why I'm still here.It aint all bad.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Quoting 'Probity' The reason most women here (who are of an average age of 35 to 40 yo) don't want to see cocks is that all the younger women that do like to look at cocks, all left here long ago.It's a self fulfilling prophecy. I don't want to see pics of cocks because the young women left? And how is that a self-fulfilling prophecy? I was young once, no really I wasAs memory serves me, everyone my age back then liked to see rude bits and Id hazard a guess even more so theses days with the net. If you hide all that away for the purpose of increasing paid memberships to get access to it you are also discouraging the spectrum of those here who want to see that kind of stuff.You would only do that if you thought there was a lot of people here who wanted to see it all and could sell membership by blocking it so they have to pay.Good idea in theory but it cant last. The people who want to see it but then all cant see it unless they pay gradually drop off leaving mostly those who don't want to or like to see it left who would stay here because they don't like those pics anyway, they being people who don't want to see the pics that are blocked anyway and unlikely to pay for access to them. They will pay for access to cams, chat or messaging to hook up but trying to sell them unblocking of pics they don't want to see anyway serves no purpose, that itself doesn't get anyone paying as it may have done back then there was lots of people who wanted to see those pics.And they are younger people. I'd suggest they un block any images that are not sex acts and just leave nudity of any kind open.Just like we can find easily anywhere on the net. I was looking at the archives back to the beginning and there as lot of vagina pics, lots of natural bushDark bush, blonde bush, landing strips, a little minora here and there, a little hood peeking out, various pubis and majora. Nothing nicer than a lady laying on her side with a knee pulled and a nice bush and or labia jutting out from tween her voluptuous buttocks.Oh yeahh.Its a crime to hide it from those of us who truly appreciate the beauty of the female genitalia. Ho hum
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' Your profile is one of the coldest and most honest that I have read here..xxFreya That avoids any confusion Ive experienced in the past in regards to what other assume I am interested in..Like the profile says, its not that I am not romantic, I'm just not here to be romantic with anyone and making that clear,It might seem cold to say it now but it would be hurtful to others to leave it til later to say it.. You don't think I'm the only guy here who has the aims I expressed in my profile just because I said it.
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Oh dear, Mr OP. Hows that attitude working for you?! I use my BRAIN... to determine firstly who to talk to, then how to talk to them... and finally how that talking and interaction may progress things to the physical Going by that process... I should use a photo of my brain, and my words. I'll wager my brain and words work far better than using my penis as a won on a hook to lure anyone. When you get that..... well..... life gets better
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MrPlayful
9 years ago
Thanks for the compliment Andy. Mind you the mods thought it was too rude to show the Guests apparently. Don't know why because it doesn't show anything and as you say, hopefully not offensive. Cheers.
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
"worm on a hook"
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MrPlayful
9 years ago
I have read and understood your comments regarding where this site has come from compared to where it is today. I would love to see your own thread on this topic calling for opinions of the long term members. I think it would be an interesting read and would be seen as a positive interaction.
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inspirit
9 years ago
Not another damn cock shot topic, to be only based on what a handfull of RHP members opinions AGAIN. Do what you like. Who really gives a shit. If you don't like it, bypass it. This is after all, predominantly, a sex site but alas, of late I'm reading its a dating site and people are seeking their soul mate. So NO cock shots lads. ๐ Personally, I like cock shots. However due the fact, I'm a guest now days, I perve on cocks on other sites. Nothing like an imagination whilst in bed alone... ๐ ๐ ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Personally, I like cock shots. However due the fact, I'm a guest now days, I perve on cocks on other sites. Nothing like an imagination whilst in bed alone... ๐ ๐ ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile And that pretty much sums up my point made.The last thing RHP needs is guests going elsewhere to get what they cant get here but can get elsewhere easily.Cant "up sell" anything to people that are not here much anymore. The term "Sex sells" doesn't mean you "sell the sex".It means you use the sex to get them to your business and then sell them something else, like contact features and chat access.Or least least force them verify as a guest to unlock the image blocking. Other issue here is for paid members of which I was one for a fair amount of time. Not to get personal but to make the point, If inspirit here decides to sign up then she has a banned image, once paid only other paid members can see it and not all the others some of which might be the kind of people inspirit wishes to attract but they cant see her sole image.Perhaps she doesn't want to show her face, perhaps she has a nice body and a nice looking vagina that would attract more attention to her profile but it cant be seen by most nor any part of here in shot.So she isn't getting the full value others are for the cost. If you see a pic of a vagina you can see what its attached to.I know if I saw a ladies vagina and parts nearby and it looked nice Id want to meet the lady that owns that vagina because most likely the rest of her will be pretty darn nice too. I'm an old tradies and my head shows it,Who wants to look at a rough head.But neck down upper body and arms is probably still passable as my pics show and no gym work there just on the job. I have always had positive comment from partner about my cock in particular the width and so in my mind that's another feature.So I show what looks ok and don't show what doesn't.We all show our best side.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Personally I think there's nothing wrong with advertising long as it's not your profile pic where all adults here looking for the same thing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Absolutely hate them! We do not need to see cock shots. A member in isolation is very unattractive and says nothing about you. A gorgeous torso or a hint of butt is attractive to most women and will attract my attention alongside a well written profile. Cock shots totally put me off x - Posted from rhpmobile
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