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To strap on or slip in

March 28 2017

Been assigned to purchase pegging instrument by my regular couple for her to use on me (and probably hubby but don't tell him). So the obvious solution would be the strap on arrangements. However wondering if the strapless ones would be suitable for pegging or are they more suited for vag to vag rather than vag to arse. If suitable does it require strong pelvic muscles? She feels she is average in that department but is keen to strengthen so am also presuming the strapless ones would assist in that? Your thoughts appreciated. Presume that the strapless ones would provide good stimulation to the female whilst using? Tried to post in girls ask section but obviously not politically correct for me to do so.......

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LittleGiant

8 years ago

Personally, I've found strapless ones are just gimmicky and as the wearer they are just awkward and not really easy to get a rhythm going with regardless of how good your muscles are! I've been on both the giving and receiving end and it's 'meh' either way. The vibrations aren't all that great either, but then again I'm not really one for internal vibrations. Much better to go with a harness that is comfy in my opinion. If she wants vibrations, you can get one that has a little pouch to slip a lady finger vibe in for external vibrations. Also good because you can then get varying thickness dildos to use in it for different occasions. Miss Little xx

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megz85g

8 years ago

A harness, the strapless ones I feel like I spend the whole time concentrating on holding it in, and therefore holding it with my hands to stay in place - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Go the harness. Can manouver better. Get into those weird positions and not worry about losing it. And if she gets the Harness that is like a jock strap there is open access to her bits. So she can sit on his dick while you sit on hers....

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Haleakala

8 years ago

With the Feeldoe (not sure of the other strapless types) you can wear it with some harnesses so you get the best of both worlds, security of the harness with the shared feeling of the strapless. Plus then you have the option of trying it without the harness. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

For the harness, strapless just don't work for the effort required to peg a guy. Three strikes in a row so I bought the harness.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Agree with above. I don't think the strapless are good for regular pegging but more designed for mutual stimulation. It's awkward to thrust from your vagina, rather than the front of your pelvis, so strapless is not good for the pounding and thrusting of a pegging experience. Check the O-ring size and make sure it is either able to be changed, or is big enough for the dildos you have or will buy. Most dildos have a standard size at the base, but if you want to get a bigger one (or smaller - pfft .), you'll need to check if it fits the O-ring. Most harnesses are designed in a way there is access to her good bits. And she can always wear something like a We-Vibe or similar, or get some action from the other person, during the pegging session. Have fun! And for heaven's sake, please report back

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LittleGiant

8 years ago

If anyone wants to read up on the problems with strapless strap-ons (and listen to a funny 5 min audio of the couple - both women - trying them out) there's a blog site that posted an article 2 days ago on it. It also has some comments from others that have used strapless strap-ons for pegging and what they thought. Google search doesn't seem to link directly to the blog site at all, but if you Google 'Epiphora sex reviews' you'll find her Twitter with links to the site and the blog article will be the first thing you see. The TLDR version? Don't waste your money on strapless strap-ons, get a quality harness with adjustable O-rings and pick your own sized attachment. Miss Little xx

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AnnieWhichway

8 years ago

A strappy it is. Certainly puts the strapless idea to bed. Interchangeable so that hubby can get a big one...... Thanks for the input

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AnnieWhichway

8 years ago

A strap on for your heel of your foot. By kneeling down you can give yourself a reverse cowgirl

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RHP User

8 years ago

Some harnesses have a pocket inside the pelvic bit for a little vibe.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Just wanted to add, the strap on / strapless debate aside, if your friend is interested in strengthening her lady muscles, she can look into a pelvic TENS machine. They are a great tool to help with "working out" those muscles :) They aren't super expensive either :)

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bnkinky69plus1

6 years ago

We've both experienced with anal with mutual respect and it has become one of our favourite things. We have used strap ons, butt plugs, dildos and so on. You have to do what works but it's definitely something you work up to and enjoy the pleasure along the way. Pushing boundaries is certainly a new thing and we are loving it Don't be afraid to try new things..... Lots of lube is the key

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