To the Ladies.... Dick Pic or Not to Dick Pic.... hmmmmm

March 01 2019

Hey girls / ladies, I am still reasonably new here on RHP but in my time have noticed mens / boys profiles, although not many as I have been focused on your profiles... ;) It would seem that there is a wide range of profile options, all the way from just a pic of a cock and little else but let's fuck through to more dignified profiles with a real story and no dick pics. I know there is a huge market of us guys out there and I am guessing at least 10 to 1 odds, but I have sent a large number of chat request to a large variety of women, not that I have not had an opportunity to meet a few wonderful people but more than 90% of messages go unopened let lone unanswered. The only thing that you would go by when scanning the LONG list of msgs you get each day is the single public photo and a heading.... What grabs your attention enough to at least open the message, do you like flesh or a bit of sophistication? The results of this survey may see me remodel.... ;) Have a great day and week end...

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    No dick pics unless asked for and I don’t believe we’ve ever asked for them. Approaches should be tailored to the profile. Yes more time consuming that the cookie cutter copy n paste approach but shows ingenuity and that you have read the profile. I try to give a little about us in a message, tell the profile we are contacting what about their profile that attracted our attention and then ask them something about themselves to attempt to engage a reply.. it doesn’t always work but that’s our approach.. Clear profile pics are best, even if not face.. body chest, side profile... something clear.. No snap chat filters. No group/mates in the pictures pics as it leads to the question who owns the profile and do those others know you’ve used their pic on a site like this? Be wary of background mess - nothing more of a turn off than a messy dirty background - it speaks about who you are without you realising it.

  • BlazingSilverFox

    BlazingSilverFox

    6 years ago

    Thanks so.much for the reply, you really just validate the way that I think and feel my profile is on the right track. It will be good to other replies in time as flesh seems to be the trend that I have seen so far.... IMHO, flesh is no substitute for class and style.... 😀

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    6 years ago

    We do t even reply if a profile has a dick pic as the main pic. Not a fan of receiving them unsolicited with the message afterwards sorry accidentally sent that to you! Yes every man has one Yes it’s part of sex but not the only aspect. Good luck but other threads some women love them! This an adult dating site with sex of course but some social niceties are welcome!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    But I like to see a face pic as the main profile pic. A smiling face is much more attractive than a photo of a glistening penis with some old socks lying on the floor in the background. Some people prefer them though, but not me. Your profile pic is a nice one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Face pics are most important but dick pic in private gallery is a good idea. My wife has a thing for ‘nice looking’ penises, and will consider guys accordingly.

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    6 years ago

    Why not just choose a path to walk and walk it? The minute you begin trying to attract the masses instead of only those who share your genuine thoughts and viewpoints, is the point in time you become a fake....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    ...so whip it and show 'em! If you really want to sort them out with a more refined search criteria, make them cum shots too. Seriously, if they take offense then there's an 86.345% chance they won't fuck you anyway so go for the edgey close right up front. It's always best to ask the girls who are tapping the foot in time to the music if they want to dance! ʗɱ