F45
To the men of this site
May 22 2022
Comments
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Mrs_Deep_Love
3 years ago
It is the way of the world. Some will never get it. I don't understand why we don't want to see it. You see... we're are certain kind of woman on here. Or so they think. In their mind that makes it ok to be vulgar and distasteful bordering on criminal. That is the mind of some men and it will never change. I can only hope you meet some amazing sexy, enlightened men, like I have on here. Just ignore the rest.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Valid points.
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FeistyFatty
3 years ago
You speak for me 🙏. I'm dead set over it. I don't even respond anymore.... BLOCK.
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KindaOldButNew
3 years ago
Not nice at all. Bullet dodged I think.
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RHP User
3 years ago
OMG yes 🙌 👏 👍 cannot love this enough!
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Rising_Phoenix
3 years ago
It doesn’t matter how much you say it there will always be those who do it, so unfortunately this needs to keep being said. Thank you for being the one to do it this time 😉
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RHP User
3 years ago
Wtf??? Wait that really happens??😳
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RHP User
3 years ago
Also guys, the really extreme close-ups of your junk are totally gross. Just.....no.
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Rising_Phoenix
3 years ago
It’d probably be good for men to browse each other’s profiles more and imagine the women they care about being subjected to such rubbish, they’ll soon see who’s letting their side down and maybe they’d understand why women don’t respond to all messages or end up being a bit brutal sometimes. I’m sure some good men cop shit because of others who’ve come before them (pun intended) and vice versa, if we all respected each other a little more there wouldn’t be so many damaged souls walking the earth.
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MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
Ooooh yes! Absolutely! Those Filthy toilet shots of your cock hanging about, are just down right vile and distasteful. Or close ups of a butt plug in a grotty hairy bum hole. For Christ Sake, Clean that shit up! 🤢🤮 And please for the Love of God, don't invite your "special friend" along to our 1st meet (after you've stated to me you are single with no "special friends"), and discuss the 3some you've both decided on with me, without my fucking knowledge. That crappy behavour is just not on. Be gentlemen, behave like gentlemen and show some respect to your mother who taught you your manners, others and yourself or F-off. Ms Foxy 😇😊🤭
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MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
I must add its not just men with vile pictures...I've seen some pretty nasty pictures of women too. Out of sight out of mind! 🙈🙉🙈 Ms Foxy
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YouTarzanMeJane
3 years ago
Also hate seeing pics of him in her bedroom... While she's out of sight, let's take a pic in this nice room to try and lure other women. So disrespectful. Instant no from me.
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Kokoflamingo
3 years ago
Because a man siitting on the toilet playing with his dick is such an erotic sight 🙄 A guy in his 60s sent me dick picks as an opening message. No manscaping and semi hard, Id have been more excited opening a family sized box of Maltesers. I told him it was not impressive and got that much used reply " youre on a sex site, get over yourself'. There are many attractive, well thought out and classy male profile pics. A greasy sausage wont cut it. Totally agree with all the above comments. Thank you to the men who put a bit more thought into their photos.
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RHP User
3 years ago
You don’t like that????? Strange girl 🤷♂️ Just to be perfectly clear that was sarcasm
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Hung12
3 years ago
Speaking as a man NOT in your rant which your entitled to. I would appreciate a reply from woman or couples who read my messages. I even request a simple yes or no is appreciated, it doesn’t have to be an essay. Anyway…. 😊
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Libertine001
3 years ago
I can't see this changing no matter how much advice you give and it makes it easier for those who actually don't send dick pics. Libertine.
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Dixie5777
3 years ago
Unfortunately most of the men sending those pics probably don’t read the forums and so it will continue.
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Mischeviouslad
3 years ago
EQ (and complete absence of it!) can make a pretty effective screening tool 😄
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SJF48
3 years ago
This!!!!! 💜
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RHP User
3 years ago
Sad that you get that focus. Id love get a message . Ghosttown....
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loveprod
3 years ago
You should offer a service. Take flattering photos for them
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kisslids
3 years ago
Can’t believe this happens, just ruins it for the majority. Can some of you guys read? Most requests from ladies is that you be respectful, so just be a nice guy and be that. It’s not that hard to be nice. Keep smiling
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RHP User
3 years ago
There's 2 little things that really annoy me in the selfie by anyone - men,women,or couple. 1: toilet in the picture. 2: selfie in front if a dirty mirror. Clean the mirror, and leave the dunny out.
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XBonnieClydeX
3 years ago
Totally agree!! Have some class guys. And learn how to stage a photo for gods sake. It's not rocket science! 🙄
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Margo_Lover
3 years ago
As the male half of a couple, I see plenty of the dick pics Margo receives. Now and then I attempt to inform these wayward souls of how such things instantly remove any possibly of Margo EVER having the slightest interest in them. Incredibly, I've had push back that women like dick pics, as a woman once didn't complain about it. There is no hope for some people. - Alex.
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FitAndGeeky48
3 years ago
The problem is these guys generally work on the same principle of that poor lonely Nigerian Prince, struggling to get his money out of the country. It doesn't matter to them if you piss off or get ignored by 99 people, if you also get the 1 who does loves their dick pics.
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RHP User
3 years ago
Also what kills me is I clearly states in my profile I am not wanting single male company... so why message me...it is never going to happen.
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MnauMnau
3 years ago
I hear what you are saying, and it's disrespectful on all levels. I cannot understand the concept of sending nudes to complete stranger in first few messages or until some mutual connection is made. Lots of pics here on rhp are done at the toilet at home or public, with seat up and mess everywhere. And not talking about bedrooms... On other hand, I don't send d..k pics to anyone, and still get blocked for that as I'm wasting their time.
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Player_J
3 years ago
In addition to unasked for said visuals is when they open with a description of unasked for visual of what they want to do to your pussy/clitoris/boobs/mouth and often end with "would you like that?" - hm i'd like to block you? 🚫
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countrytouch82
3 years ago
I don't know, you would think with all the unsolicited dick pics, and the crude or little thought-out messages, and the dodgy toilet photos, that the decent messages and profiles would stick out like a sore thumb? The issue with the well thought out messages, is you still have to match everything the other person is seeking, which is unlikely, so the best positive replies in my experience have been things like: "thank you for the thoughtful message, and you do seem like a great guy, BUT..." [insert relevant difference] However, the bright side is, possibly, for a man, the competition is not necessarily very fierce if you actually make an effort in your messages and profiles (and are lucky enough to match all of someone's requirements). Much of the competition are dicks, and/or pictures of them. It would be really fierce if ALL the men sent decent, respectful, well thought out messages, and were such, then there would be really little hope in getting picked :P (presumably single/solo women would find someone decent and matching rather quickly)
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AWomanWithNeeds
3 years ago
Amen 😂
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RHP User
3 years ago
Blokes really need to learn to show off something other than what they think is there "asset" Make their photos stand out and engaging not have the viewer reeling away from their screen trying to remove the image as fast as possible.
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EasyGoingCple69
3 years ago
Jezuz christ! You had blokes message you that crap? Some real psychos around Dont blame you for blocking them. Its not normal behaviour .
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RHP User
3 years ago
Word.
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CheekyAndFun
3 years ago
Wow... never really look at the forum. And also didnt know this was a problem.
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Misscheeky
3 years ago
Or the mirror isn’t cleaned 😂
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Misscheeky
3 years ago
And with some of the pics guys are engaging in sexual activity with whoever the lady is at the time but I am curious to know if the guys in question asked for consent from the lady in question or didn’t bother to ask 🤷🏻♀️
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RHP User
3 years ago
Totally agree. Men think women like this shit. Wrong. We are all not tarred with the same brush!
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MariaP
3 years ago
@curvesqueen I totally agree! I’m not averse to a dick pic but please wait until I ask for one!! I reckon they think it will impress us, lol. Ummm, the size of your cock doesn’t impress, it’s what you can do with it that counts! And you don’t get that in a pic!!
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RHP User
3 years ago
Reminds me of that one time I was in a jeweller shop a few years back… I was at the counter and popped little John boy on the counter The shop assistant said “ excuse me sir, this is a clock shop not a cock shop” I said “ yeah I know, can u Wack 2 hands on this “ Sorry
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Johnjoneshung32
3 years ago
Keeping in mind, most men get only fans profiles shoved down their faces almost exclusively by women. It is becoming relentless and getting worse by the day, absolutely relentless and bombarding non adult related social media, horrible. Goes both ways.
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BjVanders
3 years ago
I was always brought up that a gentleman never tells. Maybe that's why I'm single because I'm too nice.
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makeitfun99
3 years ago
One does what we can with our site, and then the lady has the power and control. The issue is some men can't stand to not be in control, so they respond by sending these pics because they then are back in control. They have either driven you mad enough to rant or scored with somebody liking that behaviour. At that moment for them it is a win/win. I dont like cock so dont care for those pictures either, but pornographic movies offer the male POV that women don't see but is the highlight of my sexual experience every time. What is it that women like to see that begins to warm their soul?
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DonnaBrett
3 years ago
Agree, Some people have no clue...and the same goes for profiles where the only visible photos are close ups of some gapping vagina that looks like it's gone ten rounds with a donkey or photos of butts covered in pimples and sores. Those photos are not enticing by any stretch of the imagination.
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divame65
3 years ago
🤣🤣🤮 spot on...
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Boundinpleasure
3 years ago
🙄 You have it all wrong….They are saving you time and effort by showing who they are and what they desire without you needing to put in any research…. And just remember that your prince is another woman’s toad so you should probably stop trying to shave the square edges off men till they fit in your perfect round hole.
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nixxi73
3 years ago
I couldn’t agree more. Seeing that type of stuff is such a turn off, especially those close ups of mens goods. It’s terrible
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traceyx
3 years ago
💯 totally agree
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Jay696969
3 years ago
But what about those who doesn’t post or share? Do you reply? 🤔🤣 No most of women doesn’t..!!
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Frenchdevil
3 years ago
Do I tell you what to do with your pictures? If I don’t like what someone else does I address it personally and move on.
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madotara69
3 years ago
CurvesQueen, that was convincing lol. We’ll it’s a start replying to what you wrote, rather than just calling out for a look at them lovely tits, not to mention the fact they, sorry them or both.. please help me get the correct courtesy’s appropriately established in the light of favour, raise or amuse, pique your curiosities, the chance a glance to see your smiling eyes sparkle…, I digress, yeah no it’s also a fact them lovely curves those tits, wow they compliment the hourglass figure waistline, further and we’ll worth a mention how good your arse looks.. reminds me of a song, “When I was a child. I’d think of many things. Super Stars, the Bizarre, Kings and the Pretty Queens” (Dave Gleeson and The Screaming Jets, Helping Hand) Anyhow.. it appears you may be sexually frustrated, tossed a bit of dramatical, call out to the girls, on the ready, weaponised cos your all looking good, you know all them curves all you girls put out will almost certainly guarantee strike rate in the 90 to 99 percent of blokes sending cock shots, messages to your tits, your arses, pussy whispers straight to your pussies because blokes know everything you girls don’t want, clearly the polar opposite to ever getting what you do want ? Ok, fair suck of the sav, girls want people, men want things, girls multi task, multi personalities, smarter for doing more than one thing, men only think about one thing applies to all things simply yet instinctively maintained.. see curves..message to brain tits, arse, get closer till the oestrogen, you girls do this, in stealth, sexually alluring and inviting men to torturous confusional craziness for trying to keep on the straight path narrow, centre on target, short bursts of hunting to kill, to eat, meat, share meat with girls and curves and pretty and subliminally scenting exactly what you want.. meet v’s meat, likes and things, reward button and come fuck me ! ‘Eve said to Adam, “Catch me if you can” It’s been the same old story, Ever since the world began’. ‘Eddy and the Cruisers’ IMHO, cock shots are a technological glitch, don’t think not even God saw the camera happen, but it did. Naturally when seeing your pic CurvesQueen.. I had an overwhelming sense coursing within, heart racing so much pressure it forced a raging great and truly spectacular erection!!! Fortunately I had Tara I could turn to and bare witness to the effect indeed CurvesQueen’s curves inflicted upon me, not pain felt by the thought alone for want to fuck you or your girlfriends akin ! No no no I say, I say because she wants to fuck you all too, but Tara nor all you girls and your curves have the vulnerability of suffering as suffering from aching balls even agonisingly so. why ? It’s our fault you girls make us want to fuck you or at least show our cock !!! hands on or by a picture for some kind of relief or feelings nurtured from you girls who hurt us this way, it’s complicated and not very fair . Sorry 😢 it’s hard to find the words, super hard sometimes CurvesQueen xx 🥹 Mado Mado, Tara xx
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AlwaysSassy
3 years ago
Oh thank you 🙏 hairy chests, belly buttons & dick pics just don’t do it for me, 🤦♀️ and maybe read the ladies bio. Saves me near breaking a nail pressing delete or block all the time….💋
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laugnabay
3 years ago
Are you for real?
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Coastman1
2 years ago
So true, I agree lovely lady
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RHP User
2 years ago
Ladies sorry you have so many dickheads sending you this shit and guys if you take the time to read a profile or these comments learn. Learn how you should treat someone they people are not a piece of meat that your entitled to they are people you want to connect with and you won’t do it like this.
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SthCoastCpl8
2 years ago
We agree, pics of guys who have cum all over themselves is a huge turn off.
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RHP User
2 years ago
I've never been able to make sense of the cuck fantasy, but it's certainly popular it seems. Like with many kink fantasies, I believe, they tend to reflect something deeper in one's psyche.
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miezcandy
2 years ago
Well said!!
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RHP User
2 years ago
I am possibly in the minority here but I do like dick pics - HOWEVER, I like the ones with underpants covering them so that there is something left to the imagination, nice to see the outline of it without having it shoved at you. Totally agree a bathroom selfie with a toilet involved is disgusting. Moreover guys, I love sex - but having a man message me calling me a slut thinking that is sexy talk and that I will have sex with them is 100% the opposite of what will happen. You saying such things to me (and any woman) is offensive and I will block you.
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RHP User
2 years ago
I certainly understand your point and you are 100% entitled to your own view and will no doubt be supported by those that share it. At times though it is not easy being a M on a site like this initiating contact. I'll bet that most F or couples on here receive hundreds of messages. More than you can reply to. So M have the issue of trying to stand out in the crowd and show what they have to just get a response. Consider that there are those F on here that have the opposing view to you. I have experienced that some have found it equally off putting that I did not show my private and X rated pics upfront because it required them to ask for them and they don't have time given the amount of messages they get. You may not like it, but it's hard to please everyone.
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20pips
2 years ago
nooo ,surely that doesnt happen
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just_sayin69
2 years ago
Hi Have to say we agree 100% not sure why guys ( of whom I am one) think they look good in their tradie shirt cigarette in had with a bottle of beer and 2 days growth !!!! Really !!!?? The subtle art of seduction seems to miss them... yes its a swing site and yes the primary goal is to get intimate and to have sexual fun but come on guys .... let the mind do some of the work ... S E D U C T I O N ... its not about dick pics, Cum shots or bragging about how big you are or how long you can last .... our biggest annoyance is we state on our profile no single guys which is our preference .... we still get guys contacting us ... if the cant read or understand basic English ... not our type ... So to summarise ... we agree Curves !!!!
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RHP User
2 years ago
Some woman on here can't wvwn reply without all of those so speak for yourself
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RHP User
2 years ago
Yet woman have their nipples showing in public pics...confusing
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deepestpurple
2 years ago
lol triggered
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Darkexotic
2 years ago
i am confused because whilst you say you don't want to see these types of pics, woman display some of a similar nature, so i am confused, i get it you maybe offended, but don't be a A-Hole about, why not show some manner. Everyone has the right to display what they wish within the guidelines of the site, if you dont wanna see it, I guess turn adult mode off.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Yes u tell em how it is, got love a women who know what she wants 🤪😜
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MrBrightside
2 years ago
Articulate
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MutualIndulgence
2 years ago
I share these pics because: 1. It shows that I'm not all talk 2. I'm more confident demonstrating my ability to pleasure women than I am in my own physical attractiveness 3. The question that prompts the sharing is not "may I see your chest?" it's "got any pics?"
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RHP User
2 years ago
Commonly known as respect shame don’t understand the meaning of it . Also peoples profile shots don’t match their actual appearance when you meet is another annoyance
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RHP User
2 years ago
Thought I'd just add to this that not all women are the same either. 😂🍑
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RHP User
2 years ago
I am going to go out on a limb here......it will break.....LoL......but at the end of the day we are looking for fun with others or without, yes some men have no idea but some woman's profiles I have read have no real idea either, it can cut both ways.......(god I sound like a councillor)....LoL 😂😂, so at the end of the day Man or Woman your looking for sex some people can sell themselves well some can't, it's when you actually start communicating to the other person and hear their story that can change things,, judging a book by it's cover can be a bad thing open the book read the preface and hear what it states you could be comfortable surprised. What I read is very very judgemental, as like I said some woman's profiles are not the best either. Anyway Happy New Year to all let's make the best of 2023 may awesome sex happen to all.
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